Illinois ladies facing bc

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  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited August 2021

    Sometimes the darkest challenges, the most difficult lessons, hold the greatest gems of light. -Barbara Marciniak, Family of Light

    There are no great people in this world, only great challenges which ordinary people rise to meet. -William Frederick Halsy, Jr.

    Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you; they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -Bernice Johnson Reagon

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited August 2021

    Learn to get in touch with silence within yourself and know that everything in this life has purpose. There are no mistakes, no coincidences, all events are blessings given to use to learn from.


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    Elisabeth Kuebler-Ross

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited August 2021

    Forgiveness enables you to bury your grudge in the icy earth and put the past behind you. You flush resentment away by being the first to forgive. Forgiveness fashions your future. It is a brave and brash thing to do. The gutsiest decision you can make. As you forgive others, winter will soon make way for springtime as fresh joy pushes up through the soil of your heart. Barbara Johnson

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited August 2021

    I have become my own version of an optimist. If I can't make it through one door, I'll go through another door--or I'll make a door. Something terrific will come no matter how dark the present.
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    Rabindranath Tagore

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited August 2021

    Humanity's attempts to override nature have separated us from our source and destroyed what can save us. A camera can point to the glory of a pristine forest, but cannot create it. No smartphone is smart enough to spin a planet into orbit. God speaks to us daily, but we rarely take the time to listen. Nature is my church. When I walk in nature I know the Tao. No building, altar, or ritual is necessary. Human beings have created magnificent, awe-inspiring cathedrals, but none can surpass the wonder of a starry night. Alan Cohen

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited August 2021

    Listening is the oldest and perhaps the most powerful tool of healing. It is often through the quality of our listening and not the wisdom of our words that we are able to effect the most profound changes in the people around us. When we listen, we offer with our attention an opportunity for wholeness. Our listening creates sanctuary for the homeless parts within the other person. That which has been denied, unloved, devalued by themselves and others. That which is hidden.

    In this culture the soul and the heart too often go homeless.

    Listening creates a holy silence. When you listen generously to people, they can hear the truth in themselves, often for the first time. And in the silence of listening, you can know yourself in everyone. Eventually you may be able to hear, in everyone and beyond everyone, the unseen singing softly to itself and to you. -RachelNaomi Remen

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited August 2021

    The journey between what you once were

    and who you are now becoming

    is where the dance of Life really takes place.

    - Barbara De Angelis

  • Redheaded1
    Redheaded1 Member Posts: 1,455
    edited August 2021

    Hey, Illinois Ladies..popped in because a jr. high chum I am still in contact with is having a biopsy today. She's scared but very tough on the exterior. Her biopsy is at 1:30 this afternoon at Decatur Memorial. Please say a prayer/send a good thought for her.

  • chisandy
    chisandy Member Posts: 11,408
    edited August 2021

    Prayers on the way, Red! How are you doing? How'd the weather treat you yesterday? My basement took on enough water to float the litter boxes (sump pump worked to prevent the actual flood but the city sewer backed up through the rear floor drain--beneath the dryer pedestal--again). A seniors' bldg. less than a mile away had a tree uprooted and slammed vertically against the exterior walls. City can't do anything till the condo board meets to give permission to come on to the property. My husband's medical office down in the SW suburbs lost power. More storms expected tonight & tomorrow. Oh boy

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
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  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited August 2021

    Sometimes we're tested not to show our weaknesses but to discover our strengths.

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  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited August 2021

    If you will call your troubles experiences, and remember that every experience develops some latent force within you, you will grow vigorous and happy, however adverse your circumstances may seem to be. -John Heywood

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited August 2021

    When we live moment to moment, we place ourselves at the center of life, where infinite wisdom abides, rather than on the periphery, where things are forever changing and we are susceptible to the vagaries of the world. It is in our awareness each moment of our oneness with God that our inner peace and greatest strength lie. -Susan L.Taylor

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited August 2021

    Simply give others a bit of yourself; a thoughtful act, a helpful idea, a word of appreciation, a lift over a rough spot, a sense of understanding, a timely suggestion. You take something out of your mind, garnished in kindness out of your heart, and put it into the other person's mind and heart.
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    Charles H. Burr

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited August 2021

    Every act has its effect. To do nothing is an act that stems from feelings of hopelessness and despair. Please remember, no matter how dark the future looks, you can make a difference. When you live the true life you were sent here to live, the difference you make will enhance life rather than destroy it. Do not spend time worrying how big a difference you make. Anything that enhances a life makes a difference; helping one individual recover from a broken heart; easing one person's pain; helping one ugly duckling discover his or her beauty. Keep working as long as you live, and live as long as you can, and when you finish your marathon they will hang a medal around your neck that says, "You Make a Difference."
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    Bernie Siegel

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited August 2021

    It's easy to see and notice what we like in other people. Sometimes, it's not as easy to see the attributes and beauty in ourselves. It's good to see the beauty in others. But sometimes, take a moment and get excited when you notice what's beautiful in yourself, too.
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    Melody Beattie

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited September 2021

    Never allow anyone to rain on your parade and thus cast a pall of gloom and defeat on the entire day. Remember that no talent, no self-denial, no brains, no character, are required to set up in the fault-finding business. Nothing external can have any power over you unless you permit it. Your time is too precious to be sacrificed in wasted days combating the menial forces of hate, jealously, and envy. -Og Mandino

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited September 2021

    Perhaps losing integrity with yourself is the greatest stress of all, far more hurtful to us than competition, time pressure, or lack of respect. Our vitality is rooted in our integrity. When we do not live in one piece, our life force becomes divided. Becoming separated from our authentic values may weaken us.
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    Rachel Naomi Remen

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited September 2021

    The single most empowering thing we can do for ourselves is to transform fear. While fear contains tremendous power, it doesn't propel us forward and upward, but, rather, drags us down and chains us to the past. Freeing ourselves from fear is a loving intention because, as fear subsides, we are better able to access the soft, sweet power of our hearts, which naturally leads to loving ourselves and others more freely and completely. -Sue Patton Thoele

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited September 2021

    I am motivated simply by my awareness of the impact today's
    actions have on tomorrow's circumstances.

    Chase Streetman

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited September 2021

    To live content with small means; to seek elegance rather than luxury; and refinement rather than fashion; to be worthy, not respectable; and wealthy, not rich; to study hard, think quietly, talk gently, act frankly; to listen to stars and birds, to babes and sages, with open heart; to bear all cheerfully, do all bravely, await occasion, hurry never; in a word, to let the spiritual, unbidden, and unconscious to grow up through the common. This is to be my symphony. -William Henry Channing

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited September 2021

    We have no choice of what color we're born or who our parents are or whether we're rich or poor. What we do have is some choice over what we make of our lives once we're here.
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    Mildred Taylor


  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited September 2021

    We restore the holiness of the world through our loving-kindness and compassion. Everyone participates. It is a collective task. Every act of loving-kindness, no matter how great or small, repairs the world. All those ever born have shared this collective work since the beginning of time.
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    Rachel Naomi Remen

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited September 2021

    People only begin to grow when they cease to whine and revile, and commence to search for the hidden justice which regulates their lives. And as they adapt their minds to that regulating factor, they cease to accuse others as the cause of their condition, and build themselves up in strong and noble thoughts. They cease to kick against circumstances, but begin to use them as aids to their more rapid progress, and as a means of discovering the hidden powers and possibilities within themselves. -James Allen

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited September 2021

    Oh, the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person; having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but to pour them all out, chaff and grain together, knowing that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and then, with the breath of kindness, blow the rest away. -George Eliot

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
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  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited September 2021

    If I were asked to give what I consider the most useful bit of advice for all humanity it would be this: Expect trouble as an inevitable part of life and when it comes, hold your head high, look it squarely in the eye and say, "I will be bigger than you. You cannot defeat me."
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    Ann Landers

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited September 2021

    If I were to wish for anything, I should not wish for wealth and power, but for the passionate sense of the potential, for the eye which, ever young and ardent, sees the possible. . . what wine is so sparkling, so fragrant, so intoxicating, as possibility! -Søren Kierkegaard

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited September 2021

    "If I only had three words of advice, they would be, Tell the Truth. If I got three more words, I'd add, All the Time."

    -- Randy Pausch

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited September 2021

    We're all assigned a piece of garden, a corner of the universe that is ours to transform. Our corner of the universe is our own life--our relationships, our homes, our work, our current circumstances--exactly as they are. Every situation we find ourselves in is an opportunity, perfectly planned by the Holy Spirit, to teach love instead of fear. -Marianne Williamson