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  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited October 2022

    Peace of mind just can't be bought. Trust me: Even if your conscience doesn't stop you from playing dirty to get what you want, once you get it, it will keep you from enjoying it.

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    Patti LaBelle

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited October 2022

    And today's general quotation:
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    Whoever you are, there is some younger person who thinks you are perfect. There is some work that will never be done if you don't do it. There is someone who would miss you if you are gone. There is a good reason for becoming better than you are. There is a place that you alone can fill. -unattributed

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited October 2022

    Opposition is a natural part of life. Just as we develop our physical muscles through overcoming opposition--such as lifting weights--we develop our character muscles by overcoming challenges and adversity.



    Stephen R Covey

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited October 2022

    A rich mind and noble spirit will cast over the humblest home a radiance of beauty which the upholsterer and decorator can never approach. Who would not prefer to be a millionaire of character, of contentment, rather than possess nothing but the vulgar coins of a Scrooge? Whoever uplifts civilization is rich though he or she die penniless; and future generations will remember them fondly. -Orison Swett Marden

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited October 2022

    Never let mistakes and wrong directions—which every human falls into—discourage you. There is precious instruction to be learned by finding that we are wrong. We must try faithfully to be right, and we will surely grow daily more and more right. Our very learning to walk was an incessant falling and rising again; falling and catching ourselves before we hit the ground until finally we walked with ease. -Thomas Carlyle

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited October 2022

    To be glad of life, because it gives you the chance to love and to work and to play and to look up to the stars; to be satisfied with your possessions, but not contented with yourself until you have made the best of them; to despise nothing in the world except falsehood and meanness, and to fear nothing except cowardice; to be governed by your admirations rather than by your disgusts; to covet nothing that is your neighbors' except their kindness of heart and gentleness of manners.

    Henry van Dyke

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited October 2022

    Only the wise person draws from life, and from every stage of it, its true savour, because only he or she feels the beauty, the dignity, and the value of life. The flowers of youth may fade, but the summer, the autumn, and even the winter of human existence, have their majestic grandeur, which the wise person recognizes and glorifies. -Amiel

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited October 2022

    We're all assigned a piece of garden, a corner of the universe that is ours to transform. Our corner of the universe is our own life--our relationships, our homes, our work, our current circumstances-- exactly as they are. Every situation we find ourselves in is an opportunity, perfectly planned by the Holy Spirit, to teach love instead of fear.

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    Marianne Williamson

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited October 2022

    The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.

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    Friedrich Nietzsche

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    There are as many nights as days, and the one is just as long as the other in the year's course. Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word "happy" would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness. It is far better to take things as they come along with patience and equanimity. -Carl Jung

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    Compassion is the ultimate and most meaningful embodiment of emotional maturity. It is through compassion that a person achieves the highest peak and deepest reach in his or her search for self-fulfillment. -Arthur Jersild

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    Instead of allowing yourself to be so unhappy, just let your love grow as God wants it to grow; seek goodness in others, love more persons more; love them more personally, more unselfishly, without thought of return. The return, never fear, will take care of itself. -Henry Drummond

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    Make it a rule of life never to regret and never to look back. Regret is an appalling waste of energy; you can't build on it; it's only good for wallowing in.

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    Katherine Mansfield

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    Measure wealth not by the things which you have, but by
    the things you have for which you would not take money.

    anonymous

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    If we could but recognize our common humanity, that we do belong together, that our destinies are bound up in one another's, that we can be free only together, that we can be human only together, then a glorious world would come into being where all of us lived harmoniously together as members of one family, the human family. -Desmond Tutu

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    The most extraordinary thing about the oyster is this. Irritation gets into his shell. He does not like them. But when he cannot get rid of them, he uses the irritation to do the loveliest thing an oyster ever has the chance to do. If there are irritations in our lives today, there is only one prescription: make a pearl. It may have to be a pearl of patience but make a pearl.

    Harry Emerson Fosdick

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    To be glad of life, because it gives you the chance to love and to work and to play and to look up to the stars; to be satisfied with your possessions, but not contented with yourself until you have made the best of them; to despise nothing in the world except falsehood and meanness, and to fear nothing except cowardice; to be governed by your admirations rather than by your disgusts; to covet nothing that is your neighbors' except their kindness of heart and gentleness of manners.

    Henry van Dyke

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    No habit has any real hold on you
    other than the hold you have on it.

    Gardner Hunting

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    Every event of life is a miracle, as is life itself: Life is designed to provide your soul with the perfect tools, the perfect circumstances, the perfect conditions with which to realize and experience, announce and declare, fulfill and become Who You Really Are. Therefore, judge not, and neither condemn. Love your enemies, pray for your persecutors, and embrace every moment and circumstance of life as a treasure; a perfect gift from a perfect Creator. -Neale Donald Walsch

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    The greatest achievement was at first and for a time a dream. The oak
    sleeps in the acorn; the bird waits in the egg; and in the highest vision of
    the soul, a waking angel stirs. Dreams are the seedlings of reality.

    James Allen

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    Because true belonging only happens when we present our authentic,
    imperfect selves to the world, our sense of belonging can never
    be greater than our level of self-acceptance.

    Brené Brown

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    Today I bent the truth to be kind, and I have no regret, for I am far surer of what is kind than I am of what is true. -Robert Brault

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    I used to think it was great to disregard happiness, to press on to a high goal, careless, disdainful of it. But now I see that there is nothing so great as to be capable of happiness, to pluck it out of each moment, and, whatever happens, to find that one can ride as gay and buoyant on the angry, menacing, tumultuous waves of life as on those that glide and glitter under a clear sky; that it is not defeat and wretchedness which come out of the storms of adversity, but strength and calmness. - Anne Gilchrist

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    Coming to appreciate your worth can, in some cases, dramatically improve your circumstances by changing the choices you make and the actions you take. And as you begin to treat yourself with more respect, other people begin to do the same, since we subconsciously "train" others how to treat us through messages we send through body language, tone of voice, and other subtle cues and behaviors. Discovering your innate worth and living from that place allows you to make more constructive choices--to choose the higher roads of life.

    Dan Millman

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    Our workaday lives are filled with opportunities to bless
    others. The power of a single glance or an encouraging
    smile must never be underestimated.

    G. Richard Rieger

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    It is something to be able to paint a particular picture, or to carve a statue, and so make a few objects beautiful; but it is far more glorious to carve and paint the very atmosphere and medium through which we look. To affect the quality of the day--that is the highest of arts.

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    Henry David Thoreau

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    If it can be verified, we don't need faith. . . . Faith is for that which lies on the other side of reason. Faith is what makes life bearable, with all its tragedies and ambiguities and sudden, startling joys.

    Madeleine L'Engle

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    You are now at a crossroads. This is your opportunity to make the most
    important decision you will ever make. Forget your past. Who are you
    now? Who have you decided you really are now? Don't think about who
    you have been. Who are you now? Who have you decided to become?
    Make this decision consciously. Make it carefully. Make it powerfully.

    Anthony Robbins

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    We need to find the courage to say NO to the things and people that are not serving us if we want to rediscover ourselves and live our lives with authenticity.

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  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,749
    edited November 2022

    This life is yours. Take the power to choose what you want to do and do it well. Take the power to love what you want in life and love it honestly. Take the power to walk in the forest and be a part of nature. Take the power to control your own life. No one else can do this for you. Nothing is too good for you—you deserve the best. Take the power to make your life healthy, exciting, and worthwhile. The time is now. Take the power to create a successful, happy life. -Susan Polis Schutz