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  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 942
    edited April 2014

    BUMP!!!!

  • 2nd_time_around
    2nd_time_around Member Posts: 14,084
    edited April 2014

    ♥   bump   ♥      Smile

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 15,894
    edited April 2014

    I agree with ya'll re bumping. Solteria started bumping my JUST DIAGNOSED -GET PREPARED thread, it's getting much more traffic

    I forgot I asked about a comparable RADS thread back some pages LOL, chemo/anesthesia/pain med brain. 

    I didn't have RADS, so not qualified to consider doing a thread.  If someone can think of someone to do a RADS thread, I truly think it would help. They could use the outline here to make it dovetail easier. AND where it applies just copy and paste.  Rock would likely not mind some plagiarism  :). and could be credited in the beginning sentence of the thread.

    I have a number of threads I bump, I make sure I watch them a bit closer the next day or so, b/c there's generally someone that it "catches". Same thing with those threads, there's a "bumper buddy".

    I definitely don't bump if I can't watch i.e like having surgery, or days away. I don't think anyone here would take offense. I call them my "housekeeping threads". I consider them a place of work versus a social thread.  

    Keep the swing in your bumping LOL sassy.

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 942
    edited April 2014

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  • Nico1012
    Nico1012 Member Posts: 1,152
    edited May 2014

    Bumping ~ because it's important !

  • 2nd_time_around
    2nd_time_around Member Posts: 14,084
    edited May 2014

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  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 942
    edited May 2014

    BUMP!!!!

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 942
    edited May 2014

    BUMP

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 942
    edited May 2014

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  • Nico1012
    Nico1012 Member Posts: 1,152
    edited May 2014

    Bumping in honor of Soteria205 . . . . because she ROCKS ! !

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 942
    edited May 2014

    Right Back At Ya Nico!

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 15,894
    edited May 2014

    Hi, popping in. I was posting with another member. I thought sharing the below information may be helpful to you Winking.

    The link www.needymeds.org is to a web site started by a Social Worker and a doc. It is a tricky site to use. The first page leads to a several hundred resource pages. But I think this first page, does not project the wealth that lies beneath. Be patient when following the links within the site. There are sections that are disease and drug specific. The specific page then links to lists of organizations that provide monetary or other types of assistance.

    Register first and do the request for assistances form. Reason: the request for assistance form is filed. If you apply to 1 or 20 organizations/companies, the forms don't need to be repeatedly filled out.  The system is designed to pull information from the original form. There may be a few particulars that need to be added to a companies/organizations form.

    All the pharmaceutical companies have patient assistance programs. All the drug manufactures are listed there

    The other way to reach drug manufactures is 1. call the manufactuer patient assistance number(goolge keywords: drug name and manufacturer, then to webpage>>>patient assistance. Very time consuming.

    There is so much more on www.needymeds.org. It took a bit of time to wander through the whole site. I've shared a telephone walk through with many friends and relatives. I even called healthcare facilities to tell them about this link.

    For completeness, there are many ways to get financial assistance for whatever you need. There are organizations that will do things for you i.e volunteers that buy groceries, drive, install handrails, build wheelchair ramps.

    How to find the info besides from the link above?  FIND the SOCIAL WORKER(SW).  It's there job to know these things :)  Talk to all of the following 1. cancer center SW,  2.hospital SW, 3. Insurance companies SW, 4. County SW. 5. church outreach leader.

    I requested from my insurance carrier, a consult with a SW. That one appointment with the insurance carrier Social Worker, led to grants totaling $10,550. The meeting with the cancer centers SW, led to coverage of neulasta  for $4000.00.


  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 942
    edited May 2014

    Bump

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 942
    edited May 2014

    Bumping in the Weekend

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 15,894
    edited May 2014

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  • homemom
    homemom Member Posts: 842
    edited May 2014

    Glad I found this list -  I start chemo next week Scared

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 942
    edited May 2014

    HomeMom I'm glad you found it too. There's  invaluable info on here.

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 942
    edited May 2014

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  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 942
    edited May 2014

    Bump it up to the top!

  • 2nd_time_around
    2nd_time_around Member Posts: 14,084
    edited May 2014

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  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 942
    edited May 2014

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    edited May 2014

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  • homemom
    homemom Member Posts: 842
    edited May 2014

    I have my chemo class appt tomorrow at 330: are there certain questions I should ask? I have a small list, but I would take suggestions!

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 942
    edited May 2014

    NerdyHomeMom are you getting or do you have a port? I finished chemo a year ago this month and I still have mine. I just go every 6 weeks or so to get it flushed. I've never had one moments problems with it.

    I didn't go to chemo class. The nurses, pharmacist, & researcher, worked with me individually, so between what they taught me, and what I learned on BCO I felt like I had it covered.

    I will tell you a couple easy, inexpensive ways to protect your mouth from sores or Thrush.

    1) mix 1 TBS salt with 1 TBS of baking soda in a quart or so of water. Keep it in the bathroom and every time you use the potty, take a swig, swish around in your mouth for 10-30 seconds then spit it out. I never had mouth sores or even tenderness.

    2) every day eat a yogurt, or just take an acidophilus. It will protect your mouth from Thrush.

    3) for the first few days after chemo, always close the toilet lid before flushing, and FLUSH TWICE!!! That will protect you and your family from chemicals being spewed into the air from flushing.

    4) Hydrate....water, lemonade, Gatorade, decaf tea. Whatever tastes good to you, but caffein doesn't count.

    5) Rest when you can. Chemo saps your energy, so when friends or family ask what they can do, tell them, even if it's just driving you for chemo, or fixing a meal for your family. Most people want to feel like they can help in some way. They just aren't sure what to do. TELL THEM!

    6) try not to worry too much about hair loss. IT COMES BACK RATHER QUICKLY! My hair was long & straight before chemo. I had it cut in a pixie the night before starting chemo. The night before my second chemo (3 weeks later) I had my son buzz it off. You don't need to shave it. I bought pretty scarves & learned how to tie turbans on the Internet. Even some cool tee shirt wraps. I loved how quickly I could get ready for church. I still shampooed my bald head, then towel dried it, but I put the pony tail Doo Dads, brushes, & hot rollers away. My hair came back in curly! It will probably go straight again eventually, but for now I'm enjoying the curls.Loopy 

    7) there many great meds for nausea. So if you have nausea, and what they give you isn't working, call your doc. There's always someone on call, and they don't want you sick. I had 4 Adria/Cytoxan (every 3 weeks). Then 12 weekly Taxol. I NEVER had nausea. I still have the entire bottle of pills they gave me for it. Never even opened it.

    8) HYDRATE HYDRATE HYDRATE

    9) don't be surprised if you have to take a lot of breaks. I would get out of the shower & sit on the toilet to dry off. I'd sit there for maybe 5 minutes before I had the energy to get dressed. When going to church or the store, my husband would drop me at the door & pick me up again.

    10) Wash hands frequently & remind others around you to do the same. 

    HYDRATE!!!

    Put your fighting boots on & slay this dragon!!!!

  • 2nd_time_around
    2nd_time_around Member Posts: 14,084
    edited May 2014

    well said, Soteria! In regards to #6, my hair is still just as curly 17 years later. It's a permanent permanent.

    I would eat lightly the day before and a couple days after chemo, no spicy, heavy or greasy foods. Someone told me to eat broccoli and red potatoes the day before, I did, it worked for me so I continued. Silly superstition maybe. 

    For a metallic taste, cinnamon hard candy and/or gum

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 942
    edited May 2014

    2nd_Time I never did get the metallic or fuzzy tongue taste. I'd heard of it and dreaded it, but I was fortunate. I could taste much from day 5- day 9. I actually found the one thing I could still taste was Taco Bell. I enjoyed their Strawberry Fruitista too. I've always been a decaf iced tea drinker, but didn't drink it at all thru chemo. I still drank my coffee, but barely tasted it. I also gave up (for a time) my one Diet Coke a day.

    That's a good idea about the cinnamon candy.

    Paula

  • homemom
    homemom Member Posts: 842
    edited May 2014

    Thanks Soteira, those are some very helpful hints that I will use! I had my class yesterday and it was interesting that they said they have not seen anyone lose nails. They have seen them turn dark but not lift and fall off. The only thing they said I would definitely have is hair loss. Everything else could or could not happen. They did tell me I should have someone come with me on Friday since they will be giving me benedryl (not sure why). I get sleepy with that stuff.

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 942
    edited May 2014

    Bump

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    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 942
    edited May 2014

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  • Nico1012
    Nico1012 Member Posts: 1,152
    edited June 2014

    BUMP for the newbies !