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  • jbokland
    jbokland Member Posts: 275
    edited December 2014

    MidLife- I decided to go bald and "bling" my head. It was such a hit and a confidence builder, not to mention all the wonderful conversations with total strangers about Cancer. I created my own designs and started Sassyhead.com. Here is a few shots, but check out my website! I will send anyone a free one, just PM me with your choice from my website and your address! image

  • Gretta
    Gretta Member Posts: 34
    edited December 2014


    Hi Girls,

    everyone's hair looks like it's growing back beautifully, love all the pics.  I've got some queries, I'm only a month post taxol & have my hair coming back on the nap of my neck but what's on top is mega sparse & long.  My scalp feels really shiney can't feel any prickly bits coming thro as new growth.  Really scared it may never grow back properly.  I've noticed most of you look like you had it grow at the same rate all over your head.  Mine looks like male pattern baldness.  Would love to hear if anyone else has had this happen.

    Thanks girls x

  • blueflowers
    blueflowers Member Posts: 25
    edited December 2014

    Hello to all,

    I have triple negative, stage 1,0/3 bc.Just saw my oncologist -starting chemo on dec 17 - Taxotere and Cytoxan. Really nervous regarding all the side effects, but now the reality of loosing my hair has sunk in.

    When will the hair start to grow after the first chemo ? Hopefully my chemo schedule will not have any glitches and my last chemo date is Feb 18,2015. And Feb 17th is my 20th marriage anniversary !!

    My oncologist said my hair will start growing two weeks after my first chemo - is that right ??

    Take care, and thanks for the support and advice.

  • MarieNJ
    MarieNJ Member Posts: 183
    edited December 2014

    I was on taxol and herceptin for 12 weekly treatments. My hair started to really thin out about the 4th treatment. I had bald spots and wispy long ends. Before treatment, I had it cut in a very short pixie since I knew what was ahead of me. My oncol told me, by the 8-9 treatment, I will probably need to wear a wig if it bothers me. I sure did. My last treatment for taxol was Aug. 25th. So I am over 3 months post taxol. I started to notice my hair filling in the bald spots around a month post taxol-very slowly. After 2 months post taxol, I went to the hairdresser and had the wispy ends cut off. It looks much better. I use an organic shampoo which I bought at Wholefoods and noticed my hair is much softer. I used to dye my hair but decided to go natural - salt and pepper. Not dyeing it and the new shampoo is probably what makes my hair feel much better.

    I'm not ready to go topless yet, but hoping to by Christmas. My husband measured it last weekend - it's 1 1/8" long. Oh well. I do have to tell you, the wig looks very much like the hair I used to have. It is going to be a shock for people to see me with this very short salt and pepper hair once the wig is off for good. Another - oh well.

    I love the pictures that were posted You all look great! You all seem to be ahead of me. So I am looking forward to looking as good as you!

    Hang in there - It does grow back!!!

    Marie


  • lago
    lago Member Posts: 11,653
    edited December 2014

    blueflowers Everyone is different and it really can depend on the type of chemo your on. My hair tends to grow quickly. I think mine even started before chemo ended. Even though your hair might start growing in 2 weeks PFC that doesn't mean you'll see all that much… but then again some people do. I went with out a wig 13 weeks PFC. you can see my photo transition here. Starts from right to left with dates at the bottom.

  • Bow1965
    Bow1965 Member Posts: 107
    edited December 2014

    Thanks for the pictures all of you beautiful women, I love seeing the progress, styles and smiles!

    Almost 4 months today and I have about maybe an inch - last night I formed it into a mohawk, it was lovely. Definitely growing and thickening more on top than the sides and it has a mind of it's own, sticking up all over with a bit of a "duck's ass" in the front. That's a popular style for pre-teen boys haha. I still wear my long bobbed wig for work, it's real hair and the same as my prior style so a lot of folks have no idea. It was given to me by the American Cancer Society - I don't know if I would have spent $1k on a wig last spring when I started and feel very blessed to have this one available to me. Thank you people who donate to make this possible!

    Interesting note on hair growth for me - I was massaging coconut oil onto my head every night and got busy & quit for a couple of weeks - defiantly noticed a difference in growth. It might just be cyclic or the massaging or timing or whatever, but for all the bad rap coconut oil gets as the new wonder cure-all I thought I would give it some love :)


  • jbokland
    jbokland Member Posts: 275
    edited December 2014

    image6 months PFC. Waiting to see the MO for my check up. tEexcnage with Lat Flap tomorrow.

  • puffin2014
    puffin2014 Member Posts: 979
    edited December 2014

    blueflowers: I'm a little confused. You said you're starting taxotere and cytoxan on Dec. 17. That's what I was on too. Your hair will not start GROWING 2 weeks after your first chemo, that's when it'll be falling out.My last chemo was Sep 18, and I'm still not going out in public without either my wig or my scarves, although I did take my scarf off at our last yoga class because all the other ladies are cancer survivors too. I would expect you'll be wearing your wig for your 20th anniversary. Scroll back a few days to see a photo of how much hair I have at 2 months.

  • noonrider
    noonrider Member Posts: 203
    edited December 2014

    Jbokland you look AWESOME!!!!!

    Here's my hair progress. I'm 4 1/2 months PFC now. Anxious to see where I'll be at the 6 month mark! I think if you click on it you can see it bigger.


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  • noonrider
    noonrider Member Posts: 203
    edited December 2014

    blueflowers: I was on the same chemo treatment. I shaved my hair off in a pre-chemo party the weekend before I started treatment. My hair started falling out 14 days ON THE NOSE from my first chemo treatment. The first thing to fall out was my nose hair (very strange to be sneezing out hairs!) followed a couple days later by my pubic hair. By my second treatment at 21 days everything was gone on my head.

    Around day 14 of my second treatment I noticed tiny chicken pin feathers. These will only fall out again so about day 14 of every treatment I shaved my head with a razor. If I left the stubble it would catch on fabrics and stuff (like my pillow) and it drove me crazy. It was more comfortable for me to be smooth than have sandpaper on my head. I wasn't one for wigs or hats. I just went bald all the time but that was easy in the summertime. Even now with a little bit of hair I want a hat on when outside because I freeze so easily.

    You can see my picture above that shows my progression after my last treatment. I did shave it again on day 14 after my last treatment just to get rid of the last bits of odd hairs that had started growing it. Now, 4 1/2 months out, it is all nice and even.

  • Gretta
    Gretta Member Posts: 34
    edited December 2014


    Thanks so much for posting the pics girls.  You all look fabulous, hope mine starts the transition soon.  Did anyone have it grow in patchy.  My scalp is still really shiney, not much growing on top at all.

  • iamnancy
    iamnancy Member Posts: 641
    edited December 2014

    jbokland - wow...look at all your hair=awesome!

  • puffin2014
    puffin2014 Member Posts: 979
    edited December 2014

    Gretta: mine is patchy too, the front on top is pretty sparse and short

  • Gretta
    Gretta Member Posts: 34
    edited December 2014


    Thanks Puffin,  I finished 4th November so maybe I'm expecting too much too soon.  Thanks for letting me know, it's really appreciated xx

  • Gretta
    Gretta Member Posts: 34
    edited December 2014

    Have another question, how long PFC before lashes & eyebrows start to grow post taxol?

  • Dixie1
    Dixie1 Member Posts: 39
    edited December 2014

    Gretta all of my lashes and eyebrows fell out AFTER I finished chemo. Good news is that it only took a few weeks for them to come back.

  • Gretta
    Gretta Member Posts: 34
    edited December 2014


    Thanks Dixie,  I'm a month post chemo & I've actually had more drop out.  Now there's nothing left at all.   I did have 6 months of chemo all up.

  • lisaj514
    lisaj514 Member Posts: 289
    edited December 2014

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    Short and gray...I do t know. Trying to embrace it but sometimes I feel like an old lady. I get lots of compliments though. Below is how I wore it before BC, (6 wks before dx) last sept 2013image

  • anothernycgirl
    anothernycgirl Member Posts: 821
    edited December 2014

    Lisa, - You look great and are encouraging! There's hope for my hair ! Winking

  • noonrider
    noonrider Member Posts: 203
    edited December 2014

    Mine is salt and pepper. I can't imagine coloring it and having to be a slave to my hair to keep my roots covered. My salt and pepper is kind of growing on me now.

    Lisa, I love your current style! You've been trimmed well so your sides are catching up with the top a bit. It looks like it was styled now, vs just us growing out your bald head. I truly do like it!

    My hair has a tiny bit of wave to it when I first come out of the shower, but once its dry it is back to stick straight. The top drives me crazy because it is just..so…weird!

  • Gretta
    Gretta Member Posts: 34
    edited December 2014

    Hey Lisa, thanks so much for posting your pics, you look great by the way.  I'm feeling like you did....Will I ever have hair again.  Encouraging with time yours grew back, hope mine does too.

    Thanks once again, makes me feel a bit better & that I have a life worth looking forward to.

  • Janetanned
    Janetanned Member Posts: 118
    edited December 2014


    Lisa - I really like the grey 'you'.  Your face doesn't look aged and hair style is really cute. I think you are one of those women who can really rock grey hair!  It still looks thick and healthy (not old).  Although, the brown 'you' is nice too. Smile

  • iamnancy
    iamnancy Member Posts: 641
    edited December 2014

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    Lisa - I think you look so good with the short hair.. and as it grows maybe it will change color more.. or you could dye it.. my hair came in so black I was surprised.. but after a year I colored it -had it highlighted.. everyone liked the black color but I feel more like myself with the highlights and lighter color.. you look good either way but the brown hair makes your eyes stand out more..

    my pictures are 1 yr apart -12/2013 -12/2014... I always wore my hair short

  • DeeC
    DeeC Member Posts: 67
    edited December 2014

    Here I am at Thanksgiving, 21 weeks post Taxol. I have had two trims to keep it tidy. I had white hair before. The top is very wavy. I wonder what it will do as it gets longer.

    On the wig question, I bought a wig and used it when I left the house. I did not think I looked good with my wispy hair. When my hair grew to cover my scalp, no pink showing, I stopped wearing it. I felt self-conscious at first. Now I am enjoying my 'new' hair.

    This to shall pass...and it did!


    Dee

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  • jbokland
    jbokland Member Posts: 275
    edited December 2014

    Dee, you and I have the same hair!!


  • BlueFox
    BlueFox Member Posts: 26
    edited December 2014

    In case anyone finds it useful, I got my husband to take photos of my hair regrowth and hair colouring experiments over serveral months. These can be seen here: http://iameclectica.blogspot.co.uk/p/chemo-hair-re...

    I had a few chemo curls in the first 6 months or so, but now it seems back to normal. The only hair I'm still missing is forearm air and armpit hair, not much to complain about...




  • MomMom
    MomMom Member Posts: 334
    edited December 2014


    I think all you ladies look so lovely!  When my hair is long enough to really color it, I will do so.  Miss my old hair, but happy to have any!

  • puffin2014
    puffin2014 Member Posts: 979
    edited December 2014

    Here's my weekly update photos, last chemo was Sep 18. Not at all my usual color, miss my old color, don't plan to dye it - too much to keep it up every month.

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  • Gretta
    Gretta Member Posts: 34
    edited December 2014

    Thank you so much for posting all your pics Girls, you all look fabulous.  Your pics are giving me hope that mine will return too.

  • puffin2014
    puffin2014 Member Posts: 979
    edited December 2014

    I had a dream last night that I was BRUSHING my hair, now isn't that funny! I don't even need a comb yet.