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  • Alibeths
    Alibeths Member Posts: 167
    edited June 2013

    I'm tn as well and start chemo in one week!!!! Act.

  • fiercer
    fiercer Member Posts: 15
    edited June 2013

    Lauren- I've not had my surgery yet, had 4 rounds of CT. My MRI with contrast showed no biological activity to the tumor. My clip was placed after chemo as my original drs didn't leave one. The surgeon said there is a possibility that some cancer remains, but its gasping for breath and dying. As long as the margins are clear, and no large blood sucking mass remains, we must be good!!!!!! Right????



    Lisa



  • mags20487
    mags20487 Member Posts: 1,092
    edited June 2013

    Surgery then chemo then rads...sorry cannot help with advice except to say if you are not comfortable with the docs approach then definitely get a second and even third opinion. Check out tnbcfoundation.org too for tn specific advice and info



    Maggie

  • fiercer
    fiercer Member Posts: 15
    edited June 2013

    Ladies- I am having the worst hot flashes you can imagine. I saw my onc today and FORGOT to ask what to do......





    Can anyone share some success stories on controlling or stopping them?

  • CLYDAY
    CLYDAY Member Posts: 40
    edited June 2013

    Lauren...I had neoadjuvent chemo 4xdose dense/ac every two weeks followed by 12 taxol. Fortunately I am an ultrasound tech and was able to watch my tumor shrink to nothing. My path report showed clear margins after Bmx...but did show very early stages of DCIS. Did they say if the residual tumor was IDC?

  • sweetpickle
    sweetpickle Member Posts: 185
    edited June 2013

    ldawson-  I kept several ice packs in my fridge and slept with them either on top of my head or I put them in my pillow case and laid on them.  Hot flashes are the worst!  Hope it passes soon for you.

  • sweetpickle
    sweetpickle Member Posts: 185
    edited June 2013

    Lauren-  Even with PCR as a triple negative you will still have a risk of recurrance just by the aggressive nature of the cancer.  I just got my path report back after neoadjut. and I did get a complete pathological response.  No sign of cancer in original tumor site, lymph nodes or skin.  While I am thrilled with this news, my surgeon was quick to point out that I have to stay vigilant the rest of my life just because I'm triple neg.  So now I will be checked every three months for two years and then we move to every six months.  Hopefully I'm done with cancer but there are no gaurantees.  I plan to live like I'm cured until someone tells me different.  Try not to get to caught up in worrying about the future, it will drive you crazy.

  • Lovelyface
    Lovelyface Member Posts: 563
    edited June 2013

    Sorry Lauren, I can't help because I had surgery before chemo.  That is a tough one.  Good Luck!

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,188
    edited June 2013

    Lauren like everyone it seems, I had surgery before chemo and rads.  Never thought to ask if I had a pathological response though after chemo.

  • GoWithTheFlow
    GoWithTheFlow Member Posts: 22
    edited June 2013

    Lauren, that sounds like a great response to chemo.  I had a PCR, and I can tell you my surgeon was very surprised when he got the pathology report after surgery.  We knew it had shrunk to where it couldn't be found on ultrasound, but he still expected something there.

  • jenjenl
    jenjenl Member Posts: 409
    edited June 2013

    sweetpickle - " So now I will be checked every three months for two years and then we move to every six months."

    What does checked look like for you? 

  • Alibeths
    Alibeths Member Posts: 167
    edited June 2013

    Jen-- I saw you got your ovaries out. Is it horrible!!!

  • Alibeths
    Alibeths Member Posts: 167
    edited June 2013

    Also, did everyone get steroids with the ac portion of chemo??

  • schatzi14
    schatzi14 Member Posts: 906
    edited June 2013

    I had a lumpectomy first and then AC and 12 weekly taxols. Yes there were steroids with AC. Actually they helped with the pain I have from herniated discs in my neck. A plus for chemo other than the intended use.

  • GoWithTheFlow
    GoWithTheFlow Member Posts: 22
    edited June 2013

    Alibeths, I have no idea what was in my iv, but I was given oral stereoids to take for several days after chemo.

  • Lauren15
    Lauren15 Member Posts: 52
    edited June 2013

    Thanks everyone for your responses.  They were very helpful, and I'm calming down.  Based on the path report (which I have not yet gone over with my MO), it was too small to test, but they do refer to it as IDC.  With a BXM, I'm hoping they are all gone now and none of those killer cells got in my blood stream.  I do not have an ongoing testing plan yet.   I hear the 3 year marker is important.  What is everyone doing for monitoring (blood tests, mammos, scans, etc.).  I have implants - I wonder how they would see anything, but I hear it usually pops back up in lungs, brain, etc.  - SCARY.

  • Alibeths
    Alibeths Member Posts: 167
    edited June 2013

    Hi Lauren! I see your from WESTON!  That is whereI will be having my treatment!!!

  • sweetpickle
    sweetpickle Member Posts: 185
    edited June 2013

    Jen- He didn't say that I would get a CT scan but I will definately be seen in the office for palpatation checks.  I don't think I want to be scanned that often even if it was an option.

    Alibeths- Yes, I got steriods with AC and then also with Taxotere because I had a bad reaction to the Taxol and Taxotere but was able to manage the Taxotere with the steriods.

  • jenjenl
    jenjenl Member Posts: 409
    edited June 2013

    Alibeths

    I actually had a full hysterectomy but that's not a profile option you can pick.  It was a super easy laproscopic surgery and within a week I was good to go. Ironically I have had LESS hotflashes since the surgery than I had when doing chemo. 

  • navymom
    navymom Member Posts: 842
    edited June 2013

    Hi Ladies,

    This morning I had the great honor of greeting my son after a 6 month deployment overseas.  He is safely back in the USA.  I would like to thank all of you for your support while I waited for his return.  He is very tired, a bit thin and it is wonderful to see his beautiful face.

  • JAN69
    JAN69 Member Posts: 731
    edited June 2013

    Navy Mom - Hugs all-around.  Hugs for his service.  His sweet face, indeed!  I'm sure you are breathing easier now.    PS. Painted Turtle camp was partially burned in that Powerline fire and they've had to cancel camps all summer.  So sorry for all the kids.   Jan

  • Alibeths
    Alibeths Member Posts: 167
    edited June 2013

    YAY NAVY MOM!!!!

    Thanks for the info Jen!

  • CLYDAY
    CLYDAY Member Posts: 40
    edited June 2013

    Lauren are you doing RADS? I fell in a grey area when it came to that but in doing so my risk of reoccurence dropped from 15% to 5%. Microscopic cancer cells are not detectable and RADS is supposed to kill it. All is well so far...will finish 10/33 tomorrow. Best wishes!

  • Alibeths
    Alibeths Member Posts: 167
    edited June 2013

    Lauren, Did you do RADS before mastectomy??  I was told before that if nodes are clear, no RADS.. Is it a better to be safe then sorry thing?

  • sweetpickle
    sweetpickle Member Posts: 185
    edited June 2013

    Navymom- big congrats to you!

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,188
    edited June 2013

    NavyMom everything is alright in your world again.  I wish I could see his beautiful face too.  I hope if he ever has to go away again he comes to NZ.  xx 

  • OBXK
    OBXK Member Posts: 689
    edited June 2013

    Navymom - how wonderful you must be feeling!!

    I am so happy you can clap eyes on your boy and enjoy his company. My 18 year old son is planning to join the Marines - I am a wreck! He's been accepted to college, but doesn't want to go right now. He graduates from HS, next Saturday.

  • GoWithTheFlow
    GoWithTheFlow Member Posts: 22
    edited June 2013

    Congrats Navymom!

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,188
    edited June 2013

    NavyMom and OBX I know you miss your son Navy and you will miss yours as well Karen but they have both chosen excellent, distinguished  careers and their own paths in life,  just the way it should be .  They could both be bumming it all day long, smoking pot, never holding down a good job, drinking alcohol or getting in trouble with the law or trouble in other ways.  But both of them have chosen to use the greatest gift you as parents could give them, independence  to stand on their own two feet with pride.  I know you are proud of them but both of them will also be proud of the parents that have allowed them to do in life what they know in their hearts they want to do and to live their lives the way they want to. It won't be forever even though it may seem like that but one day they will stand proudly beside the parents who have brought them up to do their own things. You both have my heartfelt admiration in bringing up your son's so well adjusted, steadfast, honest and true.  Luv you both. Annie   

  • OBXK
    OBXK Member Posts: 689
    edited June 2013

    Annie - does this mean I have to cancel the bars for his Windows? :)