Bonfire of the Goddesses
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Jo, IDK how myself but I know where to find the info: on the last page of the thread called 'between the devil and the deep blue sea' in the chemotherapy forum.
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Taking off the $233 bill, called attorney and they said it meant the bill was pd from our tax return. Well it did not ssaaaaaaayyyyyy that, but ok good news. Got DS pd back. Onward.
DD is still good, she is still reliving this accident, she said she wants to know what she is missing from it, I am throwing in the car, it needs to go now.
Today I got mad at computer for shutting down and losing my post. I threw a potato at wall. Seemed like a good idea. Yes, I need anger management lately, or something to kick box. The potato did not hit the wall. It bounced off the washer, hit a picture and glass exploded all over laundry room. That will teach me. Couldn't hit that picture again if I tried. At least I got the floor swept. My Danny Boy is not too sure about me today. Had to give him hugs, I usually am not explosive, a few x a yr is all.
Into the fire, my temper.
Granny - you got more deals going on that I do, I just have to figure out how to pump them out of me. But I have not been through near as much as you in this life, unless I stop and think, no cannot do that, the waves of all the sheete come in....
I need a good sunset.
That my dears is what it looks like here at the vacation house where I am recovering. Only I just now found this pic on Claude Schneifer's Image Blog. Gorgeous work, beauty like you would not believe - click pic for more...
LOVEEssa
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Granny asked me to post a picture or two from my recent cruise so here goes.
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JOJO--i saw the pics on fb....you look stunning.
yeah i got a lot of crap goin on but today i took the last antibiotic.yay....now ill wait till they want to do the stool test.yuk!!!!!!double yuk!!!!but i gotta do what i gotta do....then another colonoscopy and finally the surgery.....boy im not lookin forward to that one.supposed to be a long surgery plus long recovery but the light at the end of the tunnel(if i make it) is i will be able to eat practically everything....only have to worrry about the GERD....
Im sure this cannot be worst then bc....I WILL SURVIVE.
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Granny - Of course you will survive this. You are one tough cookie and with the support from all the sistas it will make it so much easier.
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I'm screaming----------------and screaming-----------and screamimg----------and I don't know why
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The trutht is ---i want someting ----that i haven't had- --------------that's it
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Granny dukes IS a tough cookie and there is no doubt that she will make it through. I'll have to see her when she comes to see her GD and yell at her for making such a statement. So, into the fire with her comment...if I make it.
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SAS - Scream all you want. Particularly if it makes you fell better.
Veggy - Fear not Granny. Just give her a big hug and all will be forgiven. LOL! Seriously, she just needs a big hug and she will be alright.
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SAS, what do you want???? Let's see if we can find it, buy it, steal it....
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Oh Veggy!!!!when I see you dont tell anyone in my family that comment i made.you burned it right???????ok so ill make it....My DD & GD will freek out if they hear that.....
I know now you can blackmail me......HOW MUCH DO YOU WANT????
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This fire's gonna feel good today as the storms move into the northeast....
Am back to bed with my computer on this gray day...yesterday perfect - sunny dry breezy....walked on the beach, lunch by the water with DH and DS, and a round of par 3 golf....golf?? I was amazed that I can play after surgery....I take nothing for granted and savored each moment...Two days off from work - Happy Rosh Hashana - a school/college holiday in the northeast.
Today....a gray day and DS is sleeping in the guest room....shortly I will say goodbye to him for awhile as he is moving from NY to Chicago after 2 years of unemployment. He has a job...YAY...but I know now I will not be able to see him when I want. When I prayed for a job for him, I forgot to ask God to keep him nearby.
I know this is not a real problem because it is a time of hope. I am not supposed to have a favorite kid out of my 6; however, I do. Since BC my relationships seem fragile and precious. My heart is spilling over with tears and I don't want to let go. But I will...BC has toughened me some.
I have been keeping up with the posts here --
Dr. SAS, been fascinated with your medical contributions - especially the uptake testing. Makes so much sense. I am always telling my docs what works on me and what doesn't. Now maybe I know why.
Ridergrl, hang in there and try not to fear the drugs...you can always reconsider and adjust.
Essa, I send hugs and am in awe of your strength, even though we don't choose to be strong...your health comes first and you are making the best possible choices. I find work is good therapy for me....improves my focus. Just remember...potatoes are for baking....:-)
Jo, so nice to see you on the other side of BC....you look wonderful and happy.
Granny, one day at a time....that's all you need to handle. You are amazing.
(((HUGS (Badger,Veggy,Linda, & all)...)))
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Joan...there's an expression..."You're only as happy as your least happy child." I was sitting at the ocean on Saturday and met a dear friend and spent hours catching up with her. Each of her three kids, while healthy, are not doing well professionally. What you mention seems to echo the sentiment of many parents that I speak to. With the economy as poor as it is for so long, sadly, so many young people have had their professional dreams dashed, interrupted or extinguished. Another friend that I spoke with recently was beside herself when she realized that her younger son might move far away, not unlike her older son or yours!
My two sons live far, far away. And with the DH's health always questionable, it is very difficult for me to plan visits to see them. However, I feel deeply connected to both of them. More connected than some of my friends whose children live close by. And then of course, I have a daughter who lives close by. We enjoy each other's company as well....
The bottom line for me is that all three of my children are happy with their lives and that brings me great comfort and happiness. Short of hugging them, I can't imagine being any happier with MY life because they are all happy with their lives!
So today, into the fire goes the uncertainty of the economy that has extinguished the hopes and dreams and desires of so many of our younger generation. Could better days rise out of the flames and spread a better economy on the horizon for them and all of us as well?
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Inviting all to join me for a bit this evening by the gentle warming fire of friendship. So much crap we are tossing onto the big bonfire, now I just want to savor a few moments of peace and love with all of you. Am hoping SAS is OK - and hope to see Joan, VR, Granny, Essa, Jo, Badger, Veggy, ridergirl, chabba, and everyone else - am providing the s'mores!
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Mmmmmm! Had a dream the other night. We were making S'mores using peppermint patties, peanut butter cups and coconut patties. We also had an assortment of Graham crackers. Cinnamon, etc! OMG! In the dream they were delish!!!!!
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Im here....not gonna throw anything in cause if i do there will be an explosion.
just gonna relax and try to stay calm.
Im gonna focus on the good.
Not even gonna think of this upcoming surgery on this sick gut!!!!
deep breathing.....
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Linda - I would be more than happy to join you at the friendly fire. BTW! I have s'mores ice cream and I will bring that along. It is sooooo good.
I am happy to report that I have not one thing to throw into the fire. Joan said it nicely when she said I was on the back side of BC. After 2 rough years, I do feel like I am not at the end of the tunnel and the light is amazing. No complaints at all these days. My breast recon went much better than I expected and should finish up with my PS next week when he takes the final pictures. Saw my PCP today for my 3 month "routine maintenance" check. Had labs drawn last week and today was just to results and more med refills. As a side note, I have been going to my PCP on that schedule long before BC. That is just the way he is. After the final pictures with my PS, I am appt free until I see my MO on Dec 10th. What a great feeling that is.
Hugs and Kisses to all my sistas. I love everyone of you and want you to know you all mean the world to me.
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Scuttlers, those s'mores sound fantastic!!!! Yummmm!
Jo, so glad to hear you are doing well now - you have really earned your rest from lots of appointments, etc.
Granny, I am sitting beside you, breathing with you - I know this is a really tough time for you. You have had lots to throw on, and I'm sure there is more, but at some point, you have to take a little break and just breathe for a bit so you don't get consumed by it all. Even though I know you are tough as nails, it is still not easy, and I am sending you a special virtual hug tonight.
Has anyone seen SAS anywhere? She was last seen screaming.... hoping she is OK.0 -
Thanks Linda....im tryin real hard to keep it at an even flow.Meditating,doin the deep breathing...even rubbed some rose water on my arms.it is supposed to calm you down....so now i dont wanna do anything but Zen!!
enjoy ladies...im eating non saled pretzels....yuk!!!!!!!
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hey goddesses, I am absolutely in for s'mores by the bonfire.
Nothing to throw in tonight but wondering where our dear sassy is.
Lots of love and ((hugs)) to all.
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Sheila....???!!!! I'm worried for you....
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Granny, lavendar is another wonderful herb for calming things down. I use lavendar tea, lavendar skin lotion, have lavendar plant growing in my porch, have a light lavendar linen spray for pillows/sheets - word of caution from my favorite aromatherapist though: men don't like it - it is a potent inhibitor of sex drive for them according to her....
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Linda---I used to do the lavender..a friend bought it for me way back when.....I forgot all about it...Thanks for the reminder....i know that works too.Who care if men dont like it...im wearin an invisable shirt that says KEEP AWAY!!!
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lavender is listed as one the substances to avoid if ER+
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Why is lavendar not for Er+? I have done several searches in the literature and cannot find any good evidence for avoiding it, but would be interested if you have something I can't find. Thanks.
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I would also be interested in knowing why lavendar should be avoided for ER+.
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Breast cancer-related effects of eating lavender
Lavender essential oil has been shown to have a high antioxidant content and a component of lavender, perillyl alcohol, has been studied in cancer prevention. However, lavender essential oil (in the concentrations found in commercial hair care and body cream products) was reported to cause breast enlargement in otherwise healthy and normal boys in one well known 2007 New England Journal of Medicine article. While there have not been any follow up studies that confirmed the estrogenic effects of lavender-containing skin products, applying lavender creams or oils to the skin appears unwise.
Additional comments
Use of lavender products can trigger allergic contact dermatitis and allergic reactions to lavender are not uncommon. For example, lavender flower satchels placed inside pillowcases have been found to cause facial rashes in some individuals. Lavender baby products probably should be avoided.
Note that while we are continually searching for new evidence specifically concerning this herb, there is not much interest in it among breast cancer researchers, so few studies are available.
Tags:endocrineDisruptors, lavender, perillylAlcoholSelected breast cancer studies
Comparative study of rosmarinic acid content in some plants of Labiatae familyAnti-inflammatory, anti-oxidant, and apoptotic activities of four plant species used in folk medicine in the Mediterranean basinSedative and Hypnotic Activities of the Methanolic and Aqueous Extracts of Lavandula officinalis from MoroccoAntibacterial and immunostimulatory effect of essential oilsLavenderPhysiological effects and mechanisms of action of endocrine disrupting chemicals that alter estrogen signalingActivities of Ten Essential Oils towards Propionibacterium acnes and PC-3, A-549 and MCF-7 Cancer CellsA study of lavender and tea tree oils on postmenopausal FSH levels and hot flash severityPrepubertal Gynecomastia Linked to Lavender and Tea Tree OilsA randomized controlled trial of aromatherapy massage in a hospice settingAssessment of estrogenic activity in some common essential oil constituentsFailure to demonstrate chemoprevention by the monoterpene perillyl alcohol during early rat hepatocarcinogenesis: a cautionary noteEstrogenic action of commonly used fragrant agent citral induces prostatic hyperplasia
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This is where I read it in an article on foods to avoid in Breast cancer. Although I love the scent I figured I would avoid it. You can probably google and get additional info.
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I believe.....gonna stick with the coconut oil...for the hair,to eat,and for the face and body.....A nice big bottle for around 20 bucks....and i love it....i love lavender too but ill stick with what i know works
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BTW---im leavin tomorrow for the weekend....be back mon or tues.
have a great weekend everyone.
goona see my GGrands.The baby is being baptized.
PA is really cold now...gonna love it.my kinds weather.
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