Bonfire of the Goddesses

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  • gmafoley
    gmafoley Member Posts: 5,978
    edited October 2014

    Thought I would give you an update on my appt. - Calling for prayers - Hoping this isn't going to be long and drawn out. 

    This is what happened on my first consult with PS:

    Nurse
    took me to the room and asked a few history questions. Went over what
    the doctor would do.

    Doctor
    came in and verified that we were talking about a breast reduction.
    Had me explain what I was thinking and told me what he needed to do
    to get an insurance acceptance. 
Explained insurance and how they
    play games so they don't have to pay for it. But said, if you keep
    trying, you might get them to budge.
 He asked me what size I wanted
    to be. I told him: Small enough to lessen movement – B/C.

    He measured my breasts and looked at my lumpectomy scars. Said my
    breasts were good after radiation and should not have too much issue
    with the scarring. He said that my expectations made me a good
    candidate for the procedure because he could take what was necessary.
    He thought it would be about 500-600 gms?. He also showed me how
    small my breast could be and suggested that he could make
    me a nipple on the right side. To think about it.

    He
    asked me if I had any questions. He had answered everything I had on
    my list. Told me it would take him about a week to put the
    authorization for insurance together. Then the insurance would
    probably take at least another week. He said don't be surprised if
    they deny it. I had a 50/50 chance they would. If they did, he would
    appeal with more info. He also said he would do a phone consult if I
    had any questions. That way I wouldn't have to drive 3.5 hours for an
    appt.

    Easy
    as pie. Don't know why I was so stressed. PS was very nice - I don't know why I research these docs beforehand on the web.  The only things that you see are the complaints - thing is, he wasn't anything like they described.  He was very knowledgeable and honest about what was expected.  He also said, "I would tell you if you were wasting our time.  You have a valid complaint and I can fix this, its just getting insurance to agree with us."

  • m0mmyof3
    m0mmyof3 Member Posts: 9,760
    edited October 2014

    Praying all goes well for you Gma

  • SlowDeepBreaths
    SlowDeepBreaths Member Posts: 6,702
    edited October 2014

    All that sounds very promising GMA. I really hope this all works out for you!! 

    Keeping everything crossed and saying tons of prayers for you!!

    Jo, my girl is loads of fun!! You would all love her.

    I went for my diagnostic US yesterday and got turned away. I drove an hour each way and burned 1/4 tank of gas, only to be told they don't do diagnostic US's. They didn't know this before they booked the appointment? Or....they couldn't have figured that out before I left my house?? I got the call as I was entering the parking lot. My MO is on vacation and my BS was off.  I didn't want to go to the stinkin' appointment to begin with, and it was all I could do to get out the door. Needless to say, I was irritated. An irritated me is NEVER a good thing.

    Hope you're all having a better day than I had yesterday.

    Love to all!!

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited October 2014

    just burn it all

    Then 

    Go to the stfu thread and tell them where to go

    U will feel a lot betta

    Prayin for u GmaF

  • Tomboy
    Tomboy Member Posts: 2,700
    edited October 2014

    slow, they suck!!! thats a huge FU!!! I hate that. it's probably a good thing i didn't go with you, i would have yelled at them till they called the cops. seriously.

    yestrday i got a phone call from my tx place of torture, and they said they added two appointments. one, for a followup appt with my old BS that i fired... and when i told the girl she was no longer my doc, her voice got icy like, i was the one too stupid to know who my bs was, and then when i asked her why i was having a follow up THREE DAYS BEFORE my mammogram? aren't they usually done AFTER!!? she goes, oh, well, i will have to ask her!?! oh thanks for reminding that bitch of me, just what i wanted.

    Gma, i hope and pray you get what you need.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited October 2014

    I used to say

    HAVE I TOLD U LATELY HOW MUCH I HATE BC?

    NOW I ADDED HOW MUCH I HATE DRS..

    Bottom line...they both suk

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646
    edited October 2014

    I hate BC, but I can honestly say I have the best Dr.'s known to man........I have been very fortunate tha everyone I have is fabulous......My BS is an absolute saint...........my  MO was so good my BS said "they should insure her brain she is so smart.........my RO, was fantastic.......now want to ask me about my Letrozole.....................That shit is the only part of this BC that has killed me.............I was dong super till I started that shit..........it aged me, slowed me down, and literally destroyed my life...........next appt with my MO I am telling her I"m stopping it...............I want my life back......

    By the way my Spine Surgeon is amazing, my Primary care Dr. is wonderful, never denies me anything, an my female Derm is woderful.....................oh and forgot about my Cardiologist........he's great too, and best friends with my BS........doesn't get better then this...................now to get rid of the "Devil Pill, and I will be great.................hugs everyone.

  • geewhiz
    geewhiz Member Posts: 671
    edited October 2014

    OMG, I love it FK...the STFU thread. That is a hoot!! Some of these ladies NEVER stop...I mean you can say WHITE and they will  say it's BLACK...even though it's white as snow. ARGUE ARGUE ARGUE. That's what I am now calling them...the STFU thread. BAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

    And your DD is gorgeous Slow!

    Throwing my PS on the fore today...he wants me to do Brava again before he will finish nipple recon. Geewhiz!!!!!

  • SlowDeepBreaths
    SlowDeepBreaths Member Posts: 6,702
    edited October 2014

    Kathe, I still can't believe that BS's office had the nerve to call you after all you've been through with them.

    Ducky, I will be so glad when you get rid of that devil pill and you start to feel better.

    geewhiz, Thank you! I'm not sure what Brava is but it doesn't sound good. Into the fire!!

  • m0mmyof3
    m0mmyof3 Member Posts: 9,760
    edited October 2014

    I hate it when doctors don't listen to you. Except for my primary doc, my docs are great, probably because they are mostly females! I don't hate my primary doc, just his staff

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited October 2014

    I don't like any drs....especially in PA....In my neck of the woods the only good dr.is a natural Dr.

    We have a few sistas

    Let's meet at the bonefire

    I don't no about u but it hot now in PA

    From the hi 30s to the med 60s

    And I have the oven on

    Someone please thro an ice cube at me

  • geewhiz
    geewhiz Member Posts: 671
    edited October 2014

    I will meet you at the fire, and drag my ice bucket with me FK. It's cool here in Atlanta, quite a gullywasher today though.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited October 2014

    what's a gully washer ?????

    I'm on my way

    Anyone else??

    Wait I gotta show u my new broom

    Be right back

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited October 2014

    here comes 2 pics.

    I have them both

    Which one?

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited October 2014

    image

    this one

    Or

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited October 2014

    image

    this one?

    Both mororized

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited October 2014

    I just love the auto correct NOT

  • SlowDeepBreaths
    SlowDeepBreaths Member Posts: 6,702
    edited October 2014

    I'm thinking California could use a gully washer.

    I like both of your brooms Kracker but I think the first one goes better with your CFM shoes.

  • geewhiz
    geewhiz Member Posts: 671
    edited October 2014

    agreed - 1st broom suits your style FK!

    Gully washer is southern for LOTS of rain!!!!!

  • PoppyK
    PoppyK Member Posts: 1,275
    edited October 2014

    GmaFoley,

    I had a reduction/lift at the same time as my lumpectomy. My PS is very helpful, patient and understanding. He asked me what I wanted and told me what he could do to make that happen. He delivered what he promised as far as recovery time and scars. My breasts are still a bit larger than I would find ideal, but I have not lost sensation and they look fantastic. The recovery time was long... about 8-10 weeks. But I had a huge hematoma and lots of swelling. My insurance covered it. Usually insurance will cover it if 500ml of tissue is removed. I wish you the best in getting this surgery that can improve how you feel!

    I have a great team of doctors, but in the past I have dealt with some jerks!

    Poppy

  • m0mmyof3
    m0mmyof3 Member Posts: 9,760
    edited October 2014

    Love the brooms!

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited October 2014

    it's electric

  • m0mmyof3
    m0mmyof3 Member Posts: 9,760
    edited October 2014

    lol

    Is it a Hoover?

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited October 2014

    no

    It's an electric HARLEY

  • m0mmyof3
    m0mmyof3 Member Posts: 9,760
    edited October 2014

    woooo hooo!

  • SlowDeepBreaths
    SlowDeepBreaths Member Posts: 6,702
    edited October 2014

    In your pocket today Kracker!

  • gmafoley
    gmafoley Member Posts: 5,978
    edited October 2014

    image

    Hugs FK - be there with you!

  • m0mmyof3
    m0mmyof3 Member Posts: 9,760
    edited October 2014

    so cute!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • PoppyK
    PoppyK Member Posts: 1,275
    edited October 2014

    I'm with you, too, FireKracker! Chemo brain, bald head and all! Don't know what I may say or do next, especially since I'm on chemo drugs, so it should make for an entertaining day!

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited October 2014

    tx for the pocket party

    They found nuthin

    All that poop and all he said was hi fiber...and of course the meds.

    I will never do it again

    Pooped for 24 hrs.all over the place...disgusting...and now I have to shampoo my rug...

    Not to mention I went throu 2 rolls of toilet paper and a box of wipes...pampers for sensitive skin..

    Needless to say I'm pissed

    Oh and keep takin the meds...ha