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  • bobogirl
    bobogirl Member Posts: 2,083
    edited July 2013

    GrammaB: excellent update!  Congrats on your recliner!  Sounds like you are completely well-equipped.  I've got to say: my surgeries -- though I haven't had the BMX -- were the easiest things I've gone through (with comparison to other things, like biopsies, for example).  Also I hate MRIs.  I feel like you're going to be in very good shape after you clear the anaesthetic from your system.  Your grandchildren all sound so fab!

    Of course you can have knitted knocks!  Purple it is!  I will look for soft purple yarn. PLEASE NOTE:  You should probably get the 'real' foobs from the foob store.  These are not going to be as good as the real ones.  They will, however, be lighter (unless I put a rock in yours... you never know!  :)  Oh, forgot to tell you guys: the knitted knockers pattern allows for these enormous nips!  It is hilarious!  Better wear a substantial bra, sisters, or people are going to think you are extremely cold all the time...

    Ariom, your pizzas sound great.  Did you do no cheese?  Or vegan cheese?  Roger that regarding the T and S.  I'm sorry Bec is leaving: I bet you want her to stay forever!  You never know regarding children... I used to say that too... in fact I let DLLP know on our first date that I was not going to have children!

    OMG, I do not know how I'm doing it.  Meetings at the college in the morning, teaching in the afternoon, with both kids.  This weekend: DS birthday, plus must finish all packing, plus have a script due to my boss on Monday!  XXXX

  • ldesim
    ldesim Member Posts: 1,193
    edited July 2013

    I have had the most hellacious week.. we have been w/out AC at work for 3 days.. finally it was fixed today, but not in time to cool the place off... at least Monday should be ok.  On top of this, the copy machine has been down the last two days and I have been having absolute tizzy fits over this.. I mean the worst language has been coming out of my mouth while the sweat was pouring down my face.. I am sure I looked like a crazed woman.  But wait.. there is more.. today.. my printer decides to not print.. probably because it said F this to printing out 133 page packages that were supposed to be handled by the copier.  The office thermostat registered at 98 for a good portion of today and I had to hoof it up and down a flight of stairs a gazillion times to use the copier on the floor above me.

    It was disgustingly hot out today, we even broke down and put up an AC unit in the living room.  Normally we only use an AC in the bedroom during the summer.

    I skimmed a bit over the posts (I am now 4 pages behind).. and was so excited to see Bec had posted.. does anybody else feel like they've just met somebody famous????  I am not even joking about that either hahaha.

    I'm glad you are having so much fun Moira.

    Bobogirl, your June/July sounds my August/September with a birthday every time I turn around!

    Grammab!  Good job on the shopping, but don't go too crazy! Something tells me you are going to be up to your normal schedule in a jiffy and won't use half the crap you are buying.

    Tunafish wraps on the coffeetable and Joe repleneshed the ice cream stock.  We are going to kick our feet up in our AC and watch movies tonight.. I'm pretty sure it'll be an early night for me.. I am utterly exhausted from being stressed out!

    XXXX

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027
    edited July 2013

    Morning Wren!

    Aren't those prices extraordinary?

    It depends on which tanks you are looking at. I have bought all types, the soft wicking fabric are just an over a bra type garment.

    The tanks, or tops with the removable pads are wearable with a prosthesis, or soft foob. I also like the sportsbras, they have the removable pads and come in patterns that can go under things and still be seen, without looking like a bra. I find them very comfortable too.

    I will be wearing these a lot as our weather gets better, they feel really secure, and with the pants or capris and a jacket, it's a really comfy, cheap outfit.

    I know this style of dressing isn't for everyone, but it suits my lifestyle, and these prices are an absolute bonus. 

    Have fun! M x

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027
    edited July 2013

    Just have to nick out, but will be back to answer, and read everything. The countdown has started for Bec to go home......sniff!

    M x

  • Zillsnot4me
    Zillsnot4me Member Posts: 2,122
    edited July 2013

    Poor Idesim. In Germany they don't work above 80? Or something like that. I bet you will have an early night. My DH crashed last night and fell asleep before the boy. This heat and humidity are killers. I can't stand it. I would have been cussing too.



    Ariom. Your last night or is it already Sat? Bec leaving on Sat or Sun? Sorry I didnt keep it straight Hope you all have a blast. What kind if necklines do the tanks have? I took a peek but they looked low to me. You are welcome to adopt mine and probably Bobo's too. Can never have too many to love. But don't give up hope. I was 45 when we got Keira. I believe in miracles and want one more. To live long enough to see my grandchildren. Not more children. Maybe a dog:)



    Bobo. I can't imagine the excitement level times two with the party and the packing. I bet you uncover all kinds of treasures. What's the DS into? Legos?



    Where's Granwe? Hope she's feeling better and taking it easy.



    I need to take my own advice. Got so upset with the onc nurse that I had a terrible headache and had to throw up. Stomach still iffy. Got the scope moved to Tuesday thanks to my PCP. Otherwise it would have been August. They want me to do chemo no matter what. F! Them. It's my body and they technically are working for me. I need to be strong both pysically and mentally. This stomach thing is wearing me out.



    Stay cool. It's the weekend.

  • grammaB
    grammaB Member Posts: 1,118
    edited July 2013

    Went out today to do a little more shopping.  I am having a he11 of a time finding the stupid grabber thingy.  I checked Wal Mart, K Mart, and Target and a couple thrift shops. Who knew that would be the thing I can't find??  Also couldn't find any satin pj bottoms, I guess they are winter clothes? I have a pair that are too big guess I'll drag them out of the donation bag.

    Thanks bobo!!  I'll definitely go to the foob store too.  I'll get as much as my insurance will pay for, and more if I want it!  Never done this before (obviously), so I don't know what will be covered.  I don't want to pay for anything I don't have to!  How does it work?  Since I'm going BMX do I get to pick what cup size I want for the foobs?  Can I have 2 sets of sizes? Like a set of B and a set of D??  Thinking way past the surgery I know, but it does keep me occupied! ;)

    I've done really well with the surgeries I have had in the past.  I had cervical fusion and a hysterectomy and recovered quickly.  Of course I was younger then, but I have always healed fast.  Now I am sort of regretting the surgeon left a portion of my left ovary in so I wouldn't have to go on hormones then.  If I come back positive for BRACA the MO said they'll have to go in and find it.  If my ins doesn't cover the test, I guess I have one tiny thing to worry about for the future. :(

    Idesim, sorry you had such a miserable time with the heat at work.  But guess what? It's Friday!! :)  I'm with you, the heat turns me into a wet rag and I don't even have any of the other stressors you have!!

    Ariom, I was drooling over some of those tops at Marika, but I just don't know what size to order. I love tanks and usually just wear them instead of a bra.  I'll have to go look some more.

    Zills glad to hear you got that appointment!  Get it figured out and fixed as soon as possible!

    Oddly, I'm making a pot of chili for dinner.  I was craving it, and it will give me 5 meals in the freezer for later.

  • Zillsnot4me
    Zillsnot4me Member Posts: 2,122
    edited July 2013

    Do you have a Cracker Barrel or is that a southern thing? I saw the grabber in the toy section at Walmart. Not sure how sturdy it is.



    Try men's satin boxers. You may not need them if you are in a recliner.

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027
    edited July 2013

    Just got in and Bec set this up for me  to post the "FoobMoire". I'll be back later! M x

    And Bec calls this the "Nail Polish Army"

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027
    edited July 2013

    Whoa there GrammaB!

    You are doing just what NDGirl and I did! LOL You crack me up every time I read of your preparation! I love it, Bec said I was displaying OCD tendancies. I thought I was just being well prepared:)

    ND Girl and I couldn't wait to try everything! we were both desperate to aquire the "Contact", and Amoena prosthesis that attaches to your skin, but you aren't allowed to wear it attached till 6 months after surgery. It can be worn with a backing on the sticky surface just like a regular prosthesis till you can wear it attached.

    I went to the foob shop for a fitting one week after my Mx. The ladies asked me if I was going to have a Mx, when I said I already had it, they shooed me away and said I couldn't be fitted for 6 weeks:)

    They really have to wait till all the swelling has subsided and you've got good attachment onto the chest wall. In saying that, you will have the choice of Flat and Fabulous, or whatever size you fancy! I don't have that luxury, with a "D" on the other side.

    There is a certain amount of weird sensation at first too, so having anything touch your skin can be uncomfortable. I had a burning feeling like severe sunburn...and "The Claw" when I was tired. I think from memory, everyone here has had "The Claw". Mine is a fading memory now. The last few nights that I have been up late would have been the perfect situation to call it up again, but nada, it seems to be gone.

    If you have a store for disability aids near you, you'll pick up a grabber there.

    There are lots of different camis etc that will work for you. Kmart and Target make a good cotton cami with a shelf in it that can be worn flat against your chest. I wore a lot of those during our Summer with a softee pinned inside. You'll be amazed at the things you'll find that just "work".

    I think someone was asking about the sarongs I wore in the Summer. I have lots of long sarongs, and some large silk scarves. You just tie above the bust and twist the two ends and tie around the back of your neck. I pinned a small softee inside the sarong to keep the fabric from brushing my skin. I was so easy, and gave me heaps of options. I did the same with smaller scarves and wore them over capri pants......M x

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027
    edited July 2013

    Zills, thank you for the offer of your children to love too! I am a believer in Miracles too, so you may be right, I may get the opportunity to be a Grandma, yet!

    I am sorry you are having such a shitty time with your stomach.

    Bec leaves tomorrow at lunchtime, so just today and tonight to enjoy her company. Tomorrow will be a rush for the bus. I have had to get her a suitcase to take back.

    We went to the Farmers Market this morning and brought home lots of fabulous local products. The people that sell there are so lovely.They remember you and give you little treats! 

    There are lots of different tops on that site that are high enough at the neck, or at least there were when I started to shop. There isn't anywhere near the selection now that was there when I started. There are some that are really quite firm and fitted, others were looser, and not really what we are looking for......M x

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027
    edited July 2013

    ldesim..F that no aircon!

    I am so sorry you've had to put up with that, and all the other broken machines. That is so wrong.

    Thank you for the lovely words about Bec! She was really blown away by the attention from all of you.

    I took her to the opp shop this morning and she got a great reception from my friends who volunteer there. She finds this place to be a stark contrast to the inner city area where she lives.

    I hope you had a lovely meal, great movies, and a cool evening!

    We watched a movie last night called The Sapphires. It is an Aussie movie that I hadn't seen before, but really enjoyed.

    Bec is cooking dinner tonight, Bulgogi, a Korean dish. That will be interesting. We had Home made Pizza last night. I used soy cheese on mine, if I buy a pizza at a cafe, I don' have any cheese. Our Pizzas are quite different to the ones I have eaten in the US, and infinitely better than the ones I had in Italy! You would have tried our Pizza, ldesim?

    Stay cool...M x

  • wren44
    wren44 Member Posts: 7,932
    edited July 2013

    Don't give up on grandchildren. DS said he never wanted to have children. He wanted me to OK a vasectomy in college (it was my insurance) and I refused. He became a father at 40 and now has 2 boys. He's a great father.

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027
    edited July 2013

    Boobo, you make me exhaused just hearing what you are up to. Now theres a Birthday in the mix too!

    Hmmm, I am wondering if there is hope for me yet as a Grandma, so you didn't want kids either? I was always kids mad, and was the first in my group to have one. It was years before the others had any, but they all had practice sessions with Bec. Fortunately she was a good kid and didn't put any of them off. They were all career women and waited till they were well intoi their 30's. I was 24, and couldn't wait.

    My friend Jan who was here last week told her favourite Bec story last week when we were together. Jan and her husband who was a heart throb tv presenter of a rock show, and disc jockey, wanted to babysit Bec, so her father and I could have a night out with my parents. They realised after we'd gone, they didn't know how to fold a diaper (real terry cloth) they said Bec crouched down and folded the square into a kite, stood up and dropped herself down into the centre of it. She couldn't have been much more than one, because she was out of diapers really young. They still tell the story! They went on to have two of their own.

    es Bobo, Vegan cheese, Tofutti. I love some of their products. They used to do a great icecream which was vanilla in Belgian Chocolate...yumm..the chocolate we had last night was gone in no time!

    Take care, and try not to overdo it....M x

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027
    edited July 2013

    Thanks Wren, I really thought that door has closed, but perhaps not!  M x

  • grammaB
    grammaB Member Posts: 1,118
    edited July 2013

    Ariom, your FoobMoire is awesome!!  As is the Nail Polish Army!!  I haven't polished my nails in so long.  I sell crystals and minerals part time online and try to keep my nails natural, to be neutral, so as not to distract from the crystal.  I used to love to do my nails!!

    I think I probably am a bit OCD, I have to have everything organized and laid out, maybe it is just because I am a Gemini?

    Did I mention the scarves I found at WalMart? I love scarves!  These are a large loop of very light lacy fabric maybe 8" wide, lots of colors, loop twice and they fall right over the boob area. That and a tank, when I'm healed, I'm good for the rest of Summer and part of Fall! I have a couple sarongs from Hawaii, I'll have to dig them out from storage

    I am so glad I found you all!!  I feel like we are all sisters from another mother!!  

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027
    edited July 2013

    I am so glad we found each other too grammaB! I am an only child, not that I ever wanted siblings, I was happy as an only, but this is just, too good!

    I can't believe how much we all have in common. Here's another one!

    I love and collect, crystals and minerals too, they have taken a bit of a back seat since I really got into collecting shells for this house. I have a nice little collection of them in a glass display area in the family room.

    My real favourite collection, is glass beads. I collect beautiful old glass necklaces.

    I am not a craft lover, but I make suncatchers from lead crystal balls or recycled chandaliers with antique glass beads. I used to sell them when I worked at the airport to girls from the other Airlines, now I just make them for friends who want them for themselves or for gifts. 

    You have aced the scarf thing too! That sounds fantastic. I love scarves, but I have to be careful because as hard as I try to be cool with floaty things, they always end up in my food! LOL

    I have to admit that my nails are a mess right now. I have always looked after my hands but since the move, not so much. I know it sounds crazy to have all that polish, and have lousy nails. It is on my list!

    You've not long had a birthday too Ms Gemini! Happy Belated Birthday!

    Got to pick up Bec, she's doing dinner....chat later M x

  • bobogirl
    bobogirl Member Posts: 2,083
    edited July 2013

    O.M.G.  Pictures of the foobmoire and the nailpolish moire?  And a real letter from Bec, with a picture of  Bec?  I am bursting.

    GrammaB, my insurance covered four bras and one... pretend one-half breast insert.  I got two front-closure bras (to wear around the house; you could put a cold pack in the pocket, my incision site is still achy sometimes) and two 'fancier' bras, all Amoena.  I paid $7 each for the casual ones, 12 each for the fancy.. they only pay so much.

    Ariom, so sad about Bec leaving.  I hope it will not be too bad.  I hope we have given you a lot of hope about having grandchildren!  We were a reluctant bunch, some of us -- or for some of us it didn't happen right away.  Yes, you already know you can adopt my two!  You're going to have grandchildren coming out your ears if you don't watch out..

    Idesim, I am so sorry to hear about the no A/C story.  I would not have been able to tolerate that.  I would have had about 1,000 hot flashes.  And here it is the end of the month, too, your busiest time.  Why could you not have worked from home and sent docs to Kinko's to print?  F those bosses.

    Z, I am glad the scope is Tuesday.  Sorry you feel 'out of control' regarding the chemo decision.  How is the stomach today?  I am crossing my fingers that they put their finger on the a/r problem and then they know exactly what to do about it.

    So let's see... Z's scope and Ariom's appointments on this Tuesday, Z's chemo on Thursday.  Getting some beer ready...

    Packing and today's DS birthday.  We've made it a fun day for him.. yes, Z, he does legos, but right now he likes these little animal figurines he found at Michael's (craft store).  I never bought any of them -- they play with them while I am at the store -- but I snuck over and bought a bunch for him!  He was gobsmacked!

    Tonight: The princess has decreed DS's birthday celebration: japanese takeout, eaten in the Mommies' bed, while watching a movie (Grease), and then we will eat cake in the bed! And then we will most likely change the sheets...

  • ldesim
    ldesim Member Posts: 1,193
    edited July 2013

    Bec, I love you!!! Thank you for the Foobmoire photos lol!!!  I enjoyed the stories of her running after Moira.. and I especially loved the story about her arranging the diaper and then placing herself on it... I'm surprised she didn't fasten it all up as well hahah.    

    I'm as caught up as I suppose I am ever going to be.. I mainly wanted to get GrammaB's history.. my gosh you were just diagnosed and I'm loving your attitude towards it all.. I do not believe you are going to have any difficulties at all.  I think your children are going to have the same problem Bec has.. trying to keep up after you lol.  

    Moira, regarding the backsplash.. when you did initially mention it, I did take it to mean it was acual seaglass.. I'm glad I didn't have a chance to look for it online or I would have wasted time lol.

    Ndgirl, hope you have the sleeping under control.. you were doing pretty good there for a bit!  I love lemon scented products.. just makes me feel good.

    Wren.. I need to pick your brain about my stray cat... we've been feeding him for a couple of years.. he came with the house it seems...  and last two springs we've given him over the counter dewormer.. he seems awfully thin to me...... granted my two indoor cats are too fat.. but he still seems a bit too thin in the summer... what can I do for him besides feed him?  He never seems to drink water even though I always have a bowl out there.  I add more water to his wet food just to make sure he gets some fluid.  He is feral and will not let us get any closer than like a 100 feet.  He's so sweet and we are totally enamored with him, he talks to us while we feed him and if we're out in the yard he'll hang out a bit. Joe built him a house that has an open front and plexiglass roof and sides... we put straw in it and he used it all winter and spring. When the straw became matted we fluffed it up and added a bit more which was a big mistake as he wouldn't go near it for several days after that.. instead he laid in the grass next to it.

    Posting before I lose this. 

  • ldesim
    ldesim Member Posts: 1,193
    edited July 2013

    Now I'm trying to catch up on the Granwe situation... I am up to the cardiologist and ear canal... I'm concerned.

    I saw Bobogirl refer to Vodka room fresher.. but can't find where it originated from.. sound interesting!

    Happy Birthday DS... I think the princess planned a terrific celebration for him.. but what about the ice cream???  When is the actual move date... August 1st?

    GrammaB, can we check out your website?  I don't know very much about crystals and such but I am interested in learning.

    Zills, how are you feeling? Remember to tell DH not to swing the purse around so much as I know Bobogirl will be bringing her beer again and it always seems to land on me.  Are you still on for chemo on Thursday?  Luckily Moira's appt is actually before Zills so we can easily swing both of them... Moira... what will we be travelling in on Tuesday?  Lots of appts for all of us this week.. I get my Herceptin on Wednesday.. but that's just a short visit and honestly at this point it seems like visiting old friends.  I am assuming we have some appts with Granwe this week as well.

    My sweet little stray is here.. I need to go feed him dinner.. and then I suppose I should start on dinner for us.. not sure what is on the coffee table tonight.. it's still hot out, but today was the last day of the heatwave, we are supposed to have Tstorms shortly.

  • grammaB
    grammaB Member Posts: 1,118
    edited July 2013

    Just got in from mowing part of the front lawn.  It really is too hot to be doing that, but it needed to be done....

    Ariom, cute story about Bec!  My DD, Jen made me several sun catchers to hang in the kitchen.  She really enjoyed making them.  No time now with 2.5 yr old running around!!  So sad your time is almost over with Bec.

    Yep, June 3 was the day.  Then on July 3, I had my biopsy! :( 

    bobogirl, I'll have to check w/my ins to see what they will cover.  I have my pre-op appointment on the 25th and I'll get an rx for a cami.  The shop is near the hospital so I will check it out then.  Did you have to have rx's for your bras?

    I have about a bazillion questions for the surgeon on Thursday!! I want to find out exactly what I will get to come home in.  I also want to see if she can send in the rx for the pain pills to my mail away pharmacy so I will have them when I get home and not have to stop along the way coming home. I don't know if they can do that with that kind of drug, but worth a try.

    Have a great birthday celebration for DS!  I love that word gobsmacked!!

    Idesim, that is just the way I am. I take a day or two to feel sorry for myself and then get to work to fix whatever it is.  When I got my diabetes dx about a year and a half ago, I did the same thing.  I read books, researched online, changed my way of eating to low carb/high fat, found a great diabetes forum and whipped the d's a$$! I had complete control in 5 months and maintain now at the low end of normal. So along comes bc dx, same thing, gonna whip its a$$ too!!  

  • grammaB
    grammaB Member Posts: 1,118
    edited July 2013

    Idesim, it took me forever to finish my post, I keep getting distracted.  When I posted it I saw your second post.  

    I actually sell on ebay. I had a website for a while, but it was too much work and I just didn't get the sales there.  ebay supported me completely for 8 years until I went on Social Security last year, now it is just part time.  And good thing too with all that has been happening to me medically.  I used to have 250+ items listed but am down to 40 something right now.  I'll build it back up some after I get back on my feet from this current bump in my road.  I do need some additional $$ besides the SS to be comfortable.

    It looks like I can't post a link, the little box is grayed out, so just type in: crystalline-rainbows.com and it should take you to my store.

    I'm not as woo woo as you might think from what you see, I want to appeal to both collector and healer, but I am a Reiki Master.

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027
    edited July 2013

    Hi to everyone!

    Heavy heart today, Becca's going home. I am letting her sleep in a little, but not too much because the ticket is for 12.55pm.

    I am so glad you've all seen the FoobMoire, when I looked at it , even I was surprised, every one of those boxes holds an Amoena prosthessis, and one drawer is full of softees! LOL

    I hadn't intended the nailpolish to be exposed, but Bec just thinks it is so OTT she couldn't help it. Bobo, your fave "Butter" color bottom row right!

    ldesim, I am sorry I confused you about the seaglass! The Vodka room spray is just a spray bottle full of 50% water 50% Vodka and about 40 drops of favourite Essential oils, use it to mist your rooms or mist over your bed before sleep.

    Bobo, I just love the idea of the Birthday in the Mommies' bed, but had to laugh about the change of sheets after it. I love the Princess, she is so thoughtful!

    I am with ldesim,there must be icecream too!

    I am taking my big black suede, smooshy Raoul purse to my appointment, because we are going shopping too.

    I always get dressed up for the Surgeon, I like to show him that being half boobless hasn't affected me badly. He certainly didn't try to change my mind about recon, but did say that most women do, go that way. There are usually frightened ladies in his waiting room. I always chat to them, or the receptionist about what a great surgeon he is, and how well I am doing this far out. I would have liked someone to do that for me when I was the scared one in the waiting room.

    There is plenty of room in there for all of you, just watch Bobo and the beer, it is a favourite bag!

    Did I mention that I have a special rack for bags? Don't get me started on bags:) I have broken the shoe habit, slightly, it used to be a bad one, but the bags are very special to me! LOL and I think you call them pocketbook, we call them wallets, there are lots of them too! I like them to match the bag. I do share, though, my girlfriends can borrow anytime!

    I don't know if I mentioned finding the local lady who takes care of dogs in her home, rather than using kennels. Dexter is a strange one, as you know. He isn't good at being alone, so if we are going to be gone for an extended time we drop him off, rather than leave him at home shouting at everyone that goes past. I don't want any of the neighbours disturbed.  It used to be at the kennels, on the road to the Hospital, but this time  we are trying out this lady.....we shall see.

    I hope everyone else is ok, I will do a proper catch up later today.... M x

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027
    edited July 2013

    GrammaB, a Reiki Master too, I love that! I used to go to a Reiki Healer for my Rheumatoid!

    I had a lot of success on Ebay too. Years ago, I decided I wanted to decorate the bedroom of our new house, then, with Chinese antiques. They were really expensive, and after building the house, there was no budget for that kind of furniture.

    I decided to try Ebay, firstly with stuff of mine, and then I started to go to garage sales and pick up bargains, mostly handbags, to list. I set myself a rule of $10.00 each item outlay, Before long, I was selling up a storm, and sending stuff to the US and Canada. It was really amazing. The first major outlay was a set of 6' high handcarved doors that we had put into a large steel frame as a bedhead for our big bed. Colin needs a handle to be able to turn in bed so we had that incorporated intot his frame. Then I found an altar table from Macau, side cupboards from China, and other end table from some obscure area in China, all with their provenance. They all came with us to this house, which is a totally different style, but they have fitted in beautifully. I still love every one of them, and their history.

    I just cracked up at your statement that you aren't that woo woo! I just love that!

    I will be going to your website too!

    Take care M x 

  • ldesim
    ldesim Member Posts: 1,193
    edited July 2013

    GrammaB, you should try the Etsy shops too.  My friends SIL does very well there with paintings.


    Sad day for Moira.. Becs is going home, that went by so quickly, didn't it. I can't tell you how much I enjoyed her post and of course, the Foobmoire photos!!! I too would be interested in photos of your backsplash.

    Speaking of Etsy.. Bobogirl.. look at these!!!  $25.00!!  Is this the same pattern?

    http://www.etsy.com/listing/99082236/hand-knit-prosthetic-breast?ref=sr_gallery_12&ga_search_query=mastectomy&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_ship_to=US&ga_search_type=all

  • wren44
    wren44 Member Posts: 7,932
    edited July 2013

    Idesim, I think you're doing all you can for your stray kitty. Obviously you can't get him to a vet. He might be losing weight because he's older, they tend to do that as they age. He might also be having the beginning of kidney problems, which would make him lose some weight. Or it could just be that he doesn't like hot weather and doesn't feel hungry. I think it's so cool that you're willing to feed and house him even tho he keeps his distance. I made some catnip tea for my boy with kidney problems and he loved it. Otherwise, putting water in his food is a good idea. I'm doing that with my foster cat.

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027
    edited July 2013

    Just about to take Bec into town for lunch before she leaves.

    I have sent the pics of the splashback. It loooks much better "live" the photos don't show the pearlescent finish under the glass, and they have come up darker than the real color.

    I just had a look at Etsy too, Bobo could have a new business at $25.00 a boob...WOW!

    Bec says thanks, and glad you enjoyed her input!

    catch you later....M x

  • ldesim
    ldesim Member Posts: 1,193
    edited July 2013

    Oh dear.. Moira.. stay away from Etsy!  It's like putting down a bottle of vodka in front of an alcoholic.. what was I thinking? lol  I don't think I've been on that site since I was dx.. which is apparent as there at 76 items in my shopping cart.. i forgot how addicting this site can be.. must pull myself away.

    I must also keep my distance from pinterest.. I could lose myself for hours at that place.

    Wren, thank you for the input.  Catnip tea?  Catnip is good for the kidneys? I didn't know that... I guess my stray kitty is going to have high tea as part of his daily regimen lol.

    I just looked it up... I didn't know catnip was ingested by humans and that it contained so many good things.  I might be stealing some from the kittys.. lol.. j/k.  

    Ndgirl, you night want to look into it.. it's a sedative for humans.

  • ldesim
    ldesim Member Posts: 1,193
    edited July 2013

    OMG... love love love!! I am going to have to fly you over lol.  I love the photo with your reflection in it!  I have to reread your description now and compare it to the photos... thank you for sending them.

  • wren44
    wren44 Member Posts: 7,932
    edited July 2013

    Idesim, I don't know if the catnip is good for kidneys, but the water sure is. And he was far more interested in it when I added the catnip. I'll have to see what it does for humans.

  • Zillsnot4me
    Zillsnot4me Member Posts: 2,122
    edited July 2013

    Yes etsy and pin interest can be addictive. So can amazon and toys r us. I do more toy shopping than anything else. I looked at GrammaB's site. 100 % positive. Very impressive. Never heard if witches fingers but that's what they look like!



    My cat too looks rough. I think it's the heat and she won't come inside during the day. She also only eats regular dry purina cat chow. Won't touch anything else. Weird cat but suits our lifestyle.



    D@mn nurse messed up my scripts late Friday. Tried calling the oncall doctor but foreign and they didn't get it straightened out. The pharmacist loaned me three purple pills for my stomach until Monday when I can get it fixed. Arghh!



    Very tired today. Baby up again at 1 am. Finally rained this am so we slept late. Boy stayed at my sisters last night after a picnic and water slides. Was a nice treat for all. She never gets one on one with us.



    Know Ariom is experiencing a letdown but gearing up for her big trip into town on Tuesday. Maybe she'll find the wedding outfits for Bobo's kids after her appt. Are you going some place swanky for lunch? What do they call grandmothers in Oz?



    DS loves to watch movies and eat in our bed. My DH hates crumbs. It's always on my side so

    not sure what he's complaining about. Mine right now love a donkey and horse figurines. They were all gifts. He would love a dragon. Thanks for reminding me about them. Good luck with the packing and your homework.



    Good luck Granwe with your hamster wheel of appts, therapy, etc. I'll be joining you this week. Scope on Tuesday, JS Wed, and dr/chemo on Thursday if everything checks out right.



    Wish everyone has a quiet Sunday and get some relaxation in before the rat race of tomorrow. Hopefully Idesim's a/c was fixed.