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  • junieb
    junieb Posts: 945

    Queenie - Before reading your post I had read the sign that Wenchie posted, but did not catch the bloopers. Oh my, how in the world did no one realize what is there? But it is hilarious.

    Loverly - Yes, I was told to restrict my sodium intake. That can sure be a challenge. Called doctor today and he increased the Lasix and added Potassium as well.

    Wenchie - How are you feeling? At least your sense of humor is still intact.

    Seems rather quiet here today. Hope everyone is doing ok.

    Goodnight & sleep well.

  • lookforward
    lookforward Posts: 372

    Junie I feel for you, water retention is not fun. Shep I came across this and thought of you.

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  • shepkitty
    shepkitty Posts: 878

    Lookie ~ He's perfect!

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  • feelingfeline
    feelingfeline Posts: 5,143

    Very moving testimony Chevy.

    My MIL was not that difficult, but she had a lot of fears and was a go go go person, so she was the original "would wear a body out" person.

    When she became ill and could no longer go go go and had to face bigger issues than any of her imaginings she became the sweetest, most gracious person imaginable. I always thought that she clearly had all that in her all along but she was living in a way that was too fast for it to show, once she slowed down it was plainly manifested. She was at her lovliest (in the years I knew her) during that time. I suppose the good thing is that she had so much in the way of reserves of goodness there.

  • Chevyboy
    Chevyboy Posts: 10,258

    Feline...You "know"....! When I look way back on knowing her since I was a baby, and up until I was maybe 55, she WAS always "busy"... She got Dad & his Sister when Grandpa moved to Denver with those 2, after his first wife just up and left them... Dad was 6 and my Aunt was 5.

    Grandma was only 20 and became their Mother! So she would take care of them, asking neighbors for old scraps, to make those kids clothes... They had to behave, or feel the razor strap, or get their hands burned on the wood stove. My Brother and I would only get baths with a wooden brush... at the same time! Hah!

    Dad remembered helping Grandpa build that house! Living in the cement basement, while the house was built on top of that... He was 11. That house is still standing! So you had to be tough in those days. She came from Germany when she was little, with "little Grandpa"... I think years ago, and Loverly could tell you this also... Families were very strict, and raised their kids in ways we would never think of doing now-a-days...

    But we learned a lot, right? Tolerance, acceptance and compassion......

  • m0mmyof3
    m0mmyof3 Posts: 10,061

    Love waking up to these funnies. Almost spit coffee everywhere, that would be a terrible waste


  • Chevyboy
    Chevyboy Posts: 10,258

    Have any of you gals heard of "Osha"... taken for breathing problems...etc.????

    http://www.webmd.com/vitamins-supplements/ingredientmono-959-OSHA.aspx?activeIngredientId=959&activeIngredientName=OSHA


  • WenchLori
    WenchLori Posts: 1,027

    Jazzyjunebug~ I'm feeling pretty good but my energy has a long ways to go to catch up. For every task I do I need a day of rest to recover. By the time I'm back on my feet I'll start chemo and be knocked back down. I'll adjust and go on living and open the door and kick this BC to the curb! My sense of humor keeps me strong! lol

    Lookie~ I'm so happy you were able to find a perfect match for Shep... But he was a shock to my brain on this hot muggy Sunday morning! Now I need to get dressed and go to church to wash that man and his thong from my mind! LOL

    I really enjoy all the stories about how different family members lived back in the day. :-)

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  • shepkitty
    shepkitty Posts: 878

    Lookie & Wenchie ~ I may have spoken too soon... this man is purrrfect 😺

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  • lookforward
    lookforward Posts: 372

    no he's not, but the cat is lol


  • lookforward
    lookforward Posts: 372

    Wench surgery takes a lot out of you, just take it easy. I know it's hard going from a healthy busy person, but you will get there

  • susan3
    susan3 Posts: 2,631

    I haven't figured out yet, how to get back your energy when you have done to much. Hard to recoup after surgery, or on chemo or other meds. I totally burned myself out lately, slept 11 hours last night and still can't get moving. I am afraid to do those 5 hour energy things...but maybe that's what I need. Elena is coming over for a sleepover tonight...yeahhhhhhh. With kids of course. Good thing, cause I don't think I could be getting up in the night with her. But of course you know we all would, but it would be taxing. Than Monday I am going to lake Geneva for an overnighter with a friend. It's exhausting having fun.....lol.

    Well wishes to all and many hugs for all. Stay cool....it's crazy hot here. Maybe that's why I am pooped too. The heat takes a lot out if you

  • feelingfeline
    feelingfeline Posts: 5,143

    Lookforward you took the words right outta my mouth

  • shepkitty
    shepkitty Posts: 878

    Geez Ya'll....... that fella likes cats! That is super sexy 😸

    Energy? What's that? Still dragging from infusion Friday. Sunday is supposed to be a day of rest anyways!

    Susan - Hope you get some lotsa sweet snuggle time with Elena 💗


  • Enerva
    Enerva Posts: 2,985

    HI ladies , just stopping by to wish you all a great week. Sorry I am never around.

    Is just very hard to keep up with all in here lol this was the tread that saved me when I had insomnia and I ll always come back to say I miss you all. Hope all doing well I see there are new members.

    ChevY are u still here ?

    Sass I have been going crazy with work and school and off course doing my hobbies lol now I am drawing and thus weekend started painting with oil and acrilic lol

    Ya same old me always busy busy is the only way I keep myself out of the devil thought of bc coming back

    Is unreal is 3 years since my bmx

    Anyway love you all.

    Oh sass I also moved to the city and had such a journe with the move all as usual not easy. Seems after bc nothing comes easy to us all is a fight but I am still going and going so hope everyone here is doing OK.

    Love you all

  • phgraham
    phgraham Posts: 909

    Hi ladies, just dropping in to see what condition your condition is in. In June we were about to surgically remove half of my sternum and a malignant node in my abdomen. That changed when they decided to "watch" a spot on my clavicle. So now, if I'm lucky, I'll get the surgery. hahahahahahah! That still cracks me up. Anyway, it looks like no trials are available for me and chemos haven't worked so surgery is my best option unless the clavicle is involved. Then they will have to make a new plan. Anyway, I'm feeling pretty good and danged happy about it.

    Love you guys. Sorry that I'm too lazy to log in most days.

    Shep - how did that guy get my kitty??

    Phyllo-stina

  • Chevyboy
    Chevyboy Posts: 10,258

    So Phylliontheporchwiththepaintballgun! WTH are you talking about??? WHAT sternum? You mean in you? And so what is wrong with your clavicle? Is that even a word? I think you are making all this stuff up....

    Is the sterniminum connected to your cliviosis? You can't be serious!

    And you going on trial? For that kid you shot off his bicycle with your paint-ball gun? I KNEW they would catch up with you! Man, I take my eyes off you for one second and you go all nuts!

    So you are serious about what you said? No, I don't want to read that.... Can't we just go on like you are all fine and still as cute as you ever were? I'll make you a chocolate coke.... you bring the hors-doovers, and we'll meet on your porch..... even with your ankle monitor....

    You didn't break your ANKLE, did you?

  • jazzygirl
    jazzygirl Posts: 12,049

    Hi ladies- popping in for a quick hi. Been up north to my favorite hot springs.

    You know I cannot un-see the picture of those men in their thongs, ladies!

  • Smaarty
    Smaarty Posts: 2,615

    made it back hometo 100 outside but so much better then the Midwest.

    Here's Evie at her dad's birthday and goodby party.

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    Seven months old next week. They are off Saturday morning for Colorado!

  • lookforward
    lookforward Posts: 372

    Love the baby pictures.

  • junieb
    junieb Posts: 945

    Thank goodness Lookie everything is fine! Have you decided what type of reconstruction you'll have? Implant, TRAM Flap?

    Smaarty - It's hard to believe it's been seven mos. since Evie was born. Still cute as a bug.

    A 100 degrees seems awful. Is it humid there in Sacramento too? It was in the high 80's and very humid here today. The heat made me nauseous. The sun has gone down and it is much cooler here now. I've opened the windows and left the fans going.

    JazzyGirl - Glad to hear you are enjoying the hotsprings. Are you feeling good and relaxed?

    Sas - Where are you? I miss reading your posts. Been buying a glass lately? Or are you totally engrossed in the political stuff?

    Hey Loverly - How is it going with you?

    Wenchie - How often and for how long will you have to go for chemo treatments? Are the drains out? Are your mowers missing you?

    Hey Shep - How is that foot of yours and has there been any progress towards getting that ramp built? Are Marti & Pris doing ok with the summer heat?

    I saw a cute story on yahoo today. It was about a beautiful charcoal gray pitbull puppy that was born without back paws. His name is Justin, and is being fostered for now. The video showed him being taken to the vet in a stroller to be fitted for his first pair of booties that will allow him to walk better on his own. So precious.

    Susan - What kind of puppy did you get from your Mother/Brother? Looking forward to pics when you get a chance.

    I got to speak with my Sister for 2.5 hours last night. It was great. She told me that she had done a memorial album when my Father died, so she is going to make a copy for me, plus add copies of the newspaper articles about the accomplishments he made during his time as a city councilman in his home town. I've only ever seen one picture of him and that was of him and my Mother on their wedding day. Apparently he was 6' 3" tall. Apparently 4 of the 5 siblings were tall, but one of his sisters' was only 5' 3". My sister is 5' 10". Interesting to learn these little details about my family.

    Good night to you all!


  • feelingfeline
    feelingfeline Posts: 5,143

    Phyllis best wishes with keeping out of the theatre. Heart

  • Loveroflife
    Loveroflife Posts: 4,243

    How am I, JunieB? Still trying hard to clear the images off my mind. Traumatized not once, but twice. Can't believe Forward is in it too! ShepK has strange taste in men.

    How is the edema? Still SOB?

    Ms. Chevy, oh yeah the corporal punishments when we were children...I think I took the most beating because I was the eldest. Had to set an example for my younger siblings.

    I am really drowsy and sore. Not a good combo. Signing off.

  • jazzygirl
    jazzygirl Posts: 12,049

    Loverly- getting there. I have the entire week off from work, and lots of thing to do, but glad to have a break from work. It has been a rough summer on this contract.

    I start my six month follow up process this week and heading in for mammo and ultrasound this am, and finish up on Friday with BS and MO visits. Will keep you posted on anything from that, and fingers crossed all is well.

  • WenchLori
    WenchLori Posts: 1,027

    Good morning,

    Jazzyjunebug, I'm doing great, thank you for asking. I was one of the very lucky ones and had my drains removed 8 days post-op. I never really had more than 60ccs total from day one. The nurses at the hospital said they'd be surprised if I made it to my PS's cutoff at day 10, and they were right! I did have more leaking on my left side after the drain was removed but it soon dried up also. My chemo is for about 7 or 8 months. I start with AC every 21 days X 4 cycles then on to Taxol (?) once a week for 12 weeks.

    Smaarty, what a cutie Evie is. I just want to kiss her cheeks! The pillows you sent me have been a life saver! With this hot weather and our AC being out they've come in handy keeping my arms out to the side so I don't get all yucky there. I just sit them on my hip and rest my elbow on them and it keeps any skin on skin contact down to a minimum. Thank you again!

    Until next time... Tata

  • phgraham
    phgraham Posts: 909

    chevygirl, yes, I am all fine and cute as ever! Chocolate cokes are never wrong though. Whoops, gotta go, I'm entertaining a rock band tonight and gotta rest up. Plus, I have to clean my paintball gun. Those Pokemon kids are fun to shoot at! Oh, yeah, my ankle is fine. The monitor doesn't care what I do at home. Hahahaha

  • phgraham
    phgraham Posts: 909

    p.s. Smaartly, that is such a cute baby!

  • lookforward
    lookforward Posts: 372

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  • Loveroflife
    Loveroflife Posts: 4,243

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    Sensi and Ms. S, I hope you ladies stay cool.

    Forward, that poor dog probably just had a walk in our neighborhood.

    It is so hot here that even the birds are quiet. I am glad I did my cleaning this morning. You are right ,Susan. The heat can wear you out. I don't feel like doing anything, but sitting here sipping cherry/ginger/tumeric tonic mixed with ice cool sparkling mineral water listening to Michael Dulin playing Satie's Gymnopédie on Pandora. Even Mitzy agrees with me doing nothing:image

    Jazzy, I love that you make time to pamper and enjoy yourself with friends. I would love to meet you one of these days. Hey, maybe you could join us on the Baltic Cruise in June of 2017, Lord's willing. Actually, I would love to meet all the ladies here. Nice to have time off to deflate from work. Sorry you had a rough summer with your contract. Is it the people or the work itself? After Obamacare became active in our county, more than 90% of our medically indigent patients have some sort of coverage which I am very happy for them. I really hope that these patients get the care they need. On the down side, twenty of my co-workers lost their jobs. It was hard for everyone, not just us who didn't get the pink slip. We were like family. Most of us get along. Now that is not easy to find if you have that many people under the same roof working side by side for 8 hours. We were blessed. There are only six of us left.We have been trying to get the contract with Medi-Cal (which might help us stay afloat) for nearly two years It is terribly slow how government works? I told my DH, if county shuts us down, I want to retire. I told him also that I cantake better care of him if I stay home full time.

    Lori, best wishes on your treatment. May you have minimal side effects and maximal cancer's butt kicking.

    Ms. Graham, oh my dear!!!! Those poor kids walking around with their eyes glueing to their phones playing Pokemon have no ideas what hit them in the head. I could see you hiding behind the bushes waiting for your next target. Hahah

  • Loveroflife
    Loveroflife Posts: 4,243

    Ms. S, we are still on this Friday, yeah? Sensi, I hope you can join us. We can't be Siskel and Ebert by ourselves. We will have Thai for lunch. I have MO appt in the morning, so will be free after 10:00. Btw, I love those cheeks of Evie. So sad for you they are moving.