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  • June2268
    June2268 Posts: 926
    edited November 2011

    Paula stay strong as you are an incredibly strong woman and I will say it for you......THIS SUCKS!!!  but do know we are all here for you and giving you extra prayers....love ya!  I say meet all us girls for drinks tonight and this drunken night is for you my friend and I will try to lay off the other Paula and not whack her too much but not sure if I can refrain myself......my fingers are crossed!

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Posts: 7,545
    edited November 2011

    Since this is Friday  and someone has to get this party started - the first round of drinks is on me.

                       

    Thought you ladies were going to get off easy?  WHACK WHACKKKKKKK!!!!! 

  • Kay_G
    Kay_G Posts: 1,914
    edited November 2011

    Ohhhhh, those look good!

  • schipmom
    schipmom Posts: 100
    edited November 2011

    Paula:  Praying for B9 results for your biopsy.  Sending hugs and good thoughts your way.  Take care and hang in there.

  • achpurple
    achpurple Posts: 245
    edited November 2011

    Paula:  The waiting is definitely the worst part!  Just take one day at a time, you'll get there. We are all here for you whenever you need us.

  • misszed
    misszed Posts: 18
    edited November 2011

    Oh what a welcome site jo....l've been away from the boards.  It has been sooo hectic l just can't get online that often. I had stage 2 of my breast recon so lm now recovering at home.

    Tamox has made my periods so heavy and the break outs continue on and off eish. 

    Happy Friday to all.

  • chabba
    chabba Posts: 3,600
    edited November 2011

    Appitizers anyone?

      

  • tinkertude
    tinkertude Posts: 1,998
    edited November 2011

    Paula will be praying for benign results!!!! in the meantime sending you lots of prayers , love and hugs!!!!!!!!!

  • odie16
    odie16 Posts: 1,415
    edited November 2011

    Paula - I am so sorry you are going to have to have the lung biopsy but please do vent as needed. We are here for you and praying the results are benign. Hugs.......

  • juliet62
    juliet62 Posts: 3,246
    edited November 2011

    paula ((((((hugs))))))))

  • Paula66
    Paula66 Posts: 1,572
    edited November 2011

    June   see you!!  You cant hide from me, hee hee!

    WWWWWWWWWWWWWWHACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • tinkertude
    tinkertude Posts: 1,998
    edited November 2011

    lmao! thats great Paula!!! oh yeah by the way ladies...................................whaaaaaaccccckkkaaaaaa dooooodle to you all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    whew that felt good hehehehe

  • Paula66
    Paula66 Posts: 1,572
    edited November 2011

    I figured we should get our alcohol googles on now, lol!!

  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Posts: 4,503
    edited November 2011

    Paula that eyeball got my attention.  Whack, whack!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • tinkertude
    tinkertude Posts: 1,998
    edited November 2011

    oh man thats 2 presents all rolled into one... i likey!!!!

  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Posts: 4,503
    edited November 2011

    Having Thanksgiving tomorrow here at my house.  We have a large family so there will be about 45 people here.  Mom called me today and was depressed and crying thinking that tomorrow my Dad won't be here.  She said even if he was not feeling good he would go for a little while and have a good time because he loved being with his family.  It will be good to be with family tomorrow but sad at the same time that this is the first Thanksgiving without my Dad.  June I'm thinking of you too because this will be your first as well. ((((HUGS)))))

  • tinkertude
    tinkertude Posts: 1,998
    edited November 2011

    Sherry... ((((( hugs ))) to you sweetie! and yes Junie too xoxoxo

  • Paula66
    Paula66 Posts: 1,572
    edited November 2011

    Oh Sherry game on!

    WWWWHAAAACK  WWWHAAAAAAAAACK!!!!!!!!

  • peg119
    peg119 Posts: 190
    edited November 2011

    Paula - I am sorry to hear about the need for a biopsy.  I am glad the rest of the scans were normal and will be praying for a B9 result from biopsy.  Hang in there.

  • sunangel27
    sunangel27 Posts: 234
    edited November 2011

    Thank you ALL SO MUCH!!!!!!  I have been on here and off here and in and out so much in the last year and have met some of the best friends in the world!! I HATE that we have all had to meet like this.......but I wouldn't trade meeting y'all for anything. I have such love and care for each and every one of you!!!

     NOW..........sowwy I missed the whackin' going on tonight, but had to sleep to work tonight!!

    so a little late WHACKKKKKKKKKKKK .............good mornin'!!! heheheee

  • sunangel27
    sunangel27 Posts: 234
    edited November 2011
    Sherry and June both........my heart goes out to you!! I know it will be rough without your dad's here for the first time at the holidays.......just remember they live in each and everyone of y'all together!

    HUGS!!!!!!!!
  • June2268
    June2268 Posts: 926
    edited November 2011

    Sherry/Paula thank you!!!  Yes this Holiday is going to stink, but I am going to try my hardest to put on a happy face for all around.  Sherry as you know cause you are dealing with it as well, my Mom is going to make it that much harder for all of us. It saddens me everytime she brings my Dad up cause she breaks down.  They finally have her seeing someone in the Nursing Home  and I hope it will start helping.  Anyways, girlfriends who have both parents or just one please hug them tight and enjoy each and every moment with them.  And Sherry try to enjoy even though you ar going to be straight out busy.  We will all be thinking of you.

    Love to you all!!

  • pjayray
    pjayray Posts: 1
    edited November 2011

    Hello Tamoxifen friends,

    I am new to this post but not Tamoxifen.  I have taken it for almost 2 1/2 years and am on a "vacation" as recommended by Onc NP. Was having some shortness of breath, chest tightness and leg pain which now we all think was anxiety.   I have never felt better since my mastectomy which was Feb. '09.  I'm thinking I don't want to go back on it.  Anyone here stay the full 5 years?

    My biggest fear was getting a clot and I was taking baby aspirins eveyday, but I don't think my body liked that too much.

    Diagnosis 1/09, IDC Stage 1, Grade 2, 7mm, 0/3nodes , ER+/PR+, HER2-, mastectomy, no chemo, no rad

  • odie16
    odie16 Posts: 1,415
    edited November 2011

    Good morning my Tammy friends. Sorry I missed the pillow fight yesterday but didn't want to risk the new squishies yet.

    June/SherryC - Wanted to send an extra big hug to you ladies as my husband and I have each lost parents in the past few years leaving empty spaces at the table but not in our hearts. The first of each holiday without is the hardest but bearable. May the memories & antics of years past help you thru this one. (and vino if need be ...lol)... (((Hugs))))

    As June so eloquettely said, if you still have one or both your parents please take a moment to enjoy with them as they are precious and not guaranteed.

    Hope everyone has a wonderful weekend and wish safe travels for those going to visit family for the holiday.

  • Ruth2011
    Ruth2011 Posts: 6
    edited November 2011

    Hello SAB, I did exactly the same thing. I stopped rads on Sept 1 and started Tamoxifen Oct 1. After almost 2 months on it I am very fatigued which is starting to cause depression most days. I stopped 4 days ago and am waiting to see how long until I get back to normal. It's been better some days and worse others. Has anyone done this. It's so hard to decide what to do. Some people have terrible side effects from T.

  • Ruth2011
    Ruth2011 Posts: 6
    edited November 2011

    Hello SAB, I did exactly the same thing. I stopped rads on Sept 1 and started Tamoxifen Oct 1. After almost 2 months on it I am very fatigued which is starting to cause depression most days. I stopped 4 days ago and am waiting to see how long until I get back to normal. It's been better some days and worse others. Has anyone done this. It's so hard to decide what to do. Some people have terrible side effects from T.

  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Posts: 4,503
    edited November 2011

    pjayray and ruth-- Welcome.  I have not had the issues you are talking about.  Have had lots of SE in the beginning but my body has finally adjusted except for the hotflashes.  Really hate them but they seem to come and go.

    Ladies we had our huge family Thanksgiving.  Not everyone made it as some were sick or had to work but most everyone made it.  We had fun but all missed Dad terribly.  Mom had brought her dressing to me this morning and she just starting crying because she misses him so much.  It breaks my heart.  All I could do was hug her and tell her I love her.  DH he is so sweet he gave her a big hug too.  She made it through the day.  Now I just have to keep her busy on Thanksgiving day.  Thanks for all your cyberhugs.

  • mpeaches
    mpeaches Posts: 121
    edited November 2011

    Sherry - I'm glad it went well.  I'm so sorry for your mom, I'm so glad you and your husband are there for her.  Is there a support group or anything for someone in her position?  Friends? 

    Sad Purrs,

    Jenn

  • sgreenarch
    sgreenarch Posts: 253
    edited November 2011

    Hi, All,

    Have been off for a bit. More wiped out by the ooph than I expected. I think having 3 major surgeries in three years is a bit much and maybe my body is protesting. I did do the unthinkable and practically check out for a week. Relaxed, slept late, took naps, let work and kids fend for themselves, and everyone seems to have survived. Good news. I am awaiting the hot flashes, though the crying jags have arrived. I am hoping this is just a temporary hormone realignment. I could stand the hot flashes (were wicked on the lupron shots for the last six months) but not sure about the tears.

    To Paula, of course there in your pockets with you. 

    SherryC and June, I was thinking about you and Thanksgiving. I'm sure it will be hard for your Moms and all of you.

    Peg, I was happy to hear about your brother. Not sure I mentioned this before or not, and hope you won't think this is too weird, but having lost a breast (which I know is vastly different than a foot) I have a different level of empathy with anyone who has lost an external body part. For sure we have different adjustments to make, but we've both lost something that we had for a long time that was a part of us. I wish him continued success. Happy to hear. 

    To the new ladies on tamoxifen, I wish you luck. We're all here with you. Sometimes venting helps more than anything. I have found that taking omega 3 tablets helps with the joint pain, which is so REAL! Also yoga and swimming. Actually that helps with some of the depression, too.

     Impossible to catch up with everyone, so sorry, but sending good thoughts. Love the pictures. No whacking for me yet (ouch!)

    Love you, Shari 

  • sunangel27
    sunangel27 Posts: 234
    edited November 2011

    Sherry,   On Thanksgiving day give your mom a huge hug for me!!!!! I know how that is.....My stepdaddy passed in '98 and it still gets to my mom on holidays.....I don't live close to her, but for a few years did get to go visit around the holidays'  now days only get there every few years and usually not around holidays! :(

    Welcome to the new ones!!  It's a great place here....get to know the ladies and enjoy each and every one of them! :)

    I have so many SE's from the tammy, it is unreal...not to mention still the severe nerve pain from either the surgery or rads....plus I also have fibromyalgia which doesn't help any of it all!! :(
    But, days go by when they are good and I only have a bit of pain, and a few hot flashes, other days I want to scream!!    As I am sure we all do!  Take care and come here as often as you can.

    To everyone else on our little tammy-train, have a good day and will talk soon!
    This week is gonna be crazy!!! I am going to be cutting up bunchies of veges on Sunday(later today), then Monday cooking Red Beans and Rice and Chicken gumbo. Work Tues, and Wed, go to dr. for consult on the biopsy, then around 4 my son and his wife and baby girl come from Okla City for the babie's first birthday!! And we eat the food!!!! :) (My kids are half cajun and crave my cajun cookin'....don't get to do it often enough they say!!)        Then Thanksgiving day, thank goodness my dil is doing most of that cooking!!  I am sure I will be worn out from all the other plus working f-t on top of it all.

    IF I don't get on here before then...........EVERYONE HAVE A HAPPY THANKSGIVING and be blessed!!!!!

     "the other" Paula