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  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 1,017
    edited August 2012

    ooooooohhh...Robyn has just given me such a fun idea - but I doubt if I'll remember it for another 10 years when the USA has it's next census - under religion, there is a space for "other" and I cold put Pastafarian.  I hope I'm here to fill it out - and remember.

  • socallisa
    socallisa Member Posts: 10,184
    edited August 2011

    Gee, i couldn't find us...

  • otter
    otter Member Posts: 757
    edited August 2011

    Well, look where you guys turned up!  I might not have found you (us), either, if it hadn't been for the discussion about the musical-forums elsewhere on the Boards.

    Re:  "I'm good with the Spirituality Forum."  Oh, please, NOOOO!  Sorry, but I happen to feel pretty strongly about that.  A mutual-support thread by and for "atheists" should not be moved to a "Spirituality Forum." 

    That's the whole point, isn't it?  I suppose atheists can feel spiritual, or whatever... I guess I do, sometimes.  But, I certainly hope atheism doesn't end up being categorized as a form of spiritual behavior.  Actually, I suspect most of the participants in the threads on conventional religions also would not want to see an "atheists" thread on a spirituality forum.

    I'm okay with being in the "Moving On" or "Moving Beyond" forum.  I guess thedudess started this thread in "Just Diagnosed" because she was wondering what other atheists did when they got worried or scared or were feeling mortal.  OTOH, maybe it isn't appropriate for this thread to be up there with all the medical discussions in "Just Diagnosed."

    Honestly, this has all been too confusing; and I'm too tired to worry about it tonight.  Hugs to everybody, especially those who need them!

    otter

  • luv_gardening
    luv_gardening Member Posts: 362
    edited August 2011

    Otter, I too prefer the "Moving Beyond" forum as I fear being in the forum with religions might make us a target for proselytisers. (thank you spell check). 

    Robyn, oh dear, it was 18 months ago so I can't remember, but if you look on the chemo thread starting one or two months before you started, they should be discussing how they are recovering.  I hope you are soon past the chemo as rads are a cinch in comparison.

    In regard to the Australian census, I found heaps of web sites urging atheists to tick "no religion" so as to get a better idea of the numbers.  So many people tick the box according to their cultural religion but then when the government makes decisions they base it on incorrect numbers.

    Sheila aka Joy, 4pm Thursday  

  • luv_gardening
    luv_gardening Member Posts: 362
    edited August 2011

    Robyn, if you or anyone else here wants some good material for debating creationism or the bible, the new NonStampCollector animation in two parts is hilarious and contains biblical references although you sound like an expert already. The maker spent a year putting this together so he used the best arguments in it.

    The first part does hammer the same point home so if at some stage you skip to part two it builds up to a good finish. I have to watch again as I missed a lot from laughing.

    Warning 1)  Contains some bad language. 

    Warning 2)  Could be harmful to those who take the bible literally.  The animation is a literal interpretation of how they probably planned the implementation of the ark animal rescue. Please no one complain you're offended as I've given fair warning.

    They are called Noah's Ark (part 1) and (part 2) by NonStampCollector but I won't put the link as they're easy to search for and I don't want to break any rules. 

  • Robyn_S
    Robyn_S Member Posts: 25
    edited August 2011

    Joy- I do like to debate absurdity - but at the moment my chemobrain has given me a bad case of verbal dyslexia so I think the JWs may have a shot at making more sense than me this week! Much better at writing than speaking...aaah BC the gift that just keeps on giving!

    I know of NonStampCollector so will look that one up on youtube! - Would you (or anyone else here!) be going to the Global Atheist Conference 2012 in Melbourne? I went to the last one in 2010 -wonderful atmosphere, and am sooo excited looking ahead to the speakers they have organised for the next one! (Richard Dawkins has been a secret crush for me since I read 'the selfish gene' as an biology undergrad...sigh! I find his polite intelligence very alluring!) lol Robyn

  • AussieSheila
    AussieSheila Member Posts: 439
    edited August 2011

    I think I'll tick 'Proselytisers!'  Sounds good to me Wink  Now all I need is a good plinth on which to practice!

    Sheila.

  • luv_gardening
    luv_gardening Member Posts: 362
    edited August 2011

    Robyn, I definitely won't be going, but my eldest son went to one last year in Melbourne with Richard Dawkins in it.  I don't know if it was the same conference.  He's working in Brissie and seems to fly somewhere regularly. 

    ETA Mr NonStampCollector was one of the speakers at the conference. 

  • Enjoyful
    Enjoyful Member Posts: 278
    edited August 2011

    Sheila, I love the word "plinth" though I've never heard it used in conversation.  Kudos!!

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 1,017
    edited August 2012

    Otter, you are RIGHT, abalones on their way - this is the BEST FORUM for us.  I think of our conversations as "spiritual" but the company in that one would have made us tooooo tempting a target ;)   This feels right.

    Gotta go find Mr NonStamp Collector.  When I lived in England, years ago, I knew Douglas Harding - did anyone ever read his On Having No Head.  Rambling discussions in the garden, pots & pots of tea, folks sitting around - I miss those days.

  • Maria_Malta
    Maria_Malta Member Posts: 667
    edited August 2011

    Hi all, Have only logged in very fleetingly in the last few days, and seem to have missed a lot of goings on...Like Otter and others I don't feel this thread should go under 'Spirituality', (however appealing we might find certain aspects of Buddhism, Sunflowers) which would put us under an umbrella which I don't think fits, regardless of the fact that many of us do not reject spirituality as such..But I think the one thing that does hold us together is the fact that we do NOT believe that there is something out there in the firmament which can affect the progress or otherwise of bc, or anything else for that matter.  One of the 'Moving On' headings is probably more appropriate, but how do we make that happen?

    Robyn, I've come across you reading about your fasting on the 'Fasting through chemo' thread, which I found very interesting.  I'm waiting to have my last chemo fix on 12th August (No 4 of Taxotere, after FECx4), so we are roughly at the same stage..yes, my tiredness has increased with every one, and this time, after a fortnight from my last cycle, my taste buds still haven't come back to normal and I know I'm a lot more tired...only one left...can't wait. 

    JoyLiesWithin, thanks for directing us to NonStampCollector, great fun, especially the last bit, as you said... Speaking about comics from that part of the world, I'd like to recommend a couple of Kiwi comedians called Flight of the Conchords...look them up on Yuu Tube if you don't already know them...one of my favourite sketches is their BUSINESS TIME.  Had me in fits!

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 1,017
    edited August 2012

    NonStampCollector is fabulous - haven't watched all of it yet, bookmarked to get to later.  THANK YOU JLW - really so good.

    Maria, I agree with you, Otter, this is a much better place for this thread.  I was WRONG to suggest Spirituality - just that the warmth here, feels Spiritual to me too....but YOU ARE RIGHT.  Will visit there for the Buddhist thread.

  • TooManyCocktails
    TooManyCocktails Member Posts: 49
    edited August 2011
    Where are we??? (just joking) Foot in mouth
  • luv_gardening
    luv_gardening Member Posts: 362
    edited August 2011

    Sunflowers, I've seen the "Having No Head" videos made by an associate and I read something a long time ago by Douglas Harding.  How exciting to have met him, and to have found this little spot on the forum where we have things in common.  I'm feeling at home here lately.

    Gone midnight and time for bed.

    Good night all. 

  • Maria_Malta
    Maria_Malta Member Posts: 667
    edited August 2011

    You've obviously had too many cocktails to answer such metaphysical questions!!!!

  • luv_gardening
    luv_gardening Member Posts: 362
    edited August 2011

    LOL

  • Bren-2007
    Bren-2007 Member Posts: 842
    edited August 2011

    TMC .. you're cracking me up!

    Bren

  • chumfry
    chumfry Member Posts: 169
    edited August 2011

    I've always thought we might fit best in the Support and Community Connections category, but not sure if we post enough to have an entire sub-topic. Also might make us more visible to the folks who want to convince us that we're wrong. (Ugh.) I'm fine with being in Moving Beyond. I never noticed a difference because I've got this thread in my Favorites. <grin>

    --CindyMN

  • Maya2
    Maya2 Member Posts: 244
    edited August 2011

    Otter:  Well, excuse me. I don't really care where we are, I was trying to be helpful to the moderators. And yes, I do feel "spiritual" any time I'm with nature or animals.

  • TooManyCocktails
    TooManyCocktails Member Posts: 49
    edited August 2011

    Oops!  Where's your sense of humor?  My goodness, I'm agnostic.  So, that really means I don't know what the hell is going on.  I was raised a christian.  I still like some gospel music and I don't like organized religion.

    I wasn't trying to make fun of you.  I don't think you caught the drift of the joke.  Sorry.

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 1,017
    edited August 2012

    TMC

    I think we may have to use the work "snark" more oftenWink Could be an international misunderstanding too...don't think any it matters really where we are, I too find this a very spiritual thread = speaking of that, where's Flannel????

  • 3monstmama
    3monstmama Member Posts: 123
    edited August 2011

    I concur with C-Sunflowers on the use of the word "snark" or something else that conveys that someone is not bent out of shape or whatever. . . .it is so very hard in internet communications to convey emotion and feelings so that people don't misunderstand.

    I think theres room for discussion on the spiritual issue.  I think Maya2 makes a good point---  What name do I put on the feeling I get in an alpine meadow at the top of a mountain surrounded by wildflowers?  For some the name for that feeling is spiritual.  Does that mean spiritual = religious?

  • Maya2
    Maya2 Member Posts: 244
    edited August 2011

    TooManyCocktails: My issue isn't with you, but with Otter. She quoted me, without attribution, and didn't get the entire quote which was:

    "I'm good with the Spirituality Forum or Moving On...where you've got us now. I didn't even realise we'd been moved until I read the posts."

    Am I not allowed to ever feel good, whatever I might call it? Can I not be spiritual without being religious? So it seems I can't even be an athetist the right way either, just like I couldn't have BC the right way. With sadness, I'm really moving on.

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 1,017
    edited August 2012

    OH, Maya, Otter couldn't have meant any words to wound.  I think 3Monstmama has it right - it's HARD on an internet communication.  I am SURE, SURE, really convinved down to my toes, Otter did not mean anything that  would upset anyone.

    Please, heal with Loving Light being sent to surround you, and know that whatever you are doing is what is RIGHT for you, and that's where it all does start.  No need to ever have a reason for feeling good, and can't imagine any 'right' way to have this @%!$@#@# Disease.  Please keep your beautiful dragonfly with it's friends here in a thread by no name, or whatever anyone wants to call it. I feel lit as a HEALING place, and love reading your posts.  Please don't "move" too far...

  • K-Lo
    K-Lo Member Posts: 826
    edited August 2011

    It is confusing to broadly use terms such as spiritual because it means something supernatural to MOST people, IMO. (We Unitarians use these words and everyone is supposed to realize that it can mean whatever they take it to mean. But then what are words if they lose meaning?) So, I think everyone should be able to speak for themselves using any term, in here, but not make "spiritual" our category. Whatta ya think? Love the open minded, non-threatening dialogue, y'all.

  • chumfry
    chumfry Member Posts: 169
    edited August 2011

    Maya, I hope you don't leave, but I understand what Otter was trying to say. For those of us who truly don't believe in anything "spiritual," this thread is an oasis from our everyday lives where it seems like religious overtones are everywhere. (I live in the US.)

    I enjoy reading about the non-religious ways people find their own personal spirituality and certainly don't have a problem when the discussion here goes in that direction. But I really would have felt creeped out if we'd stayed in the Spirituality category. :D

    I know we've talked before about how religion seems to be such a big part of the American identity, as compared to Europeans. As a middle-aged white lady from the Midwest, I'm presumed to be Christian and it truly shocks people when I "confess" that I'm an atheist.

    Personally, I feel like a despised minority at times. And that can lead to knee-jerk over-reactions, which I hope I'm not exhibiting right now in this post. :D

    --CindyMN

  • ananda8
    ananda8 Member Posts: 1,418
    edited August 2011

    Spirituality is an awkward word on an atheist thread because the word is closely linked to a concept or belief in a spirit/soul.  The feeling that many describe as spirituality is, in my opinion, the feeling that comes when one leaves ones everyday focus and notices the rest of the universe.  The feeling that some call spirituality is really awareness.

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 1,017
    edited August 2012

    Notself - thank you - what you've written resonates for me, and I feel most aware when I'm n nature, I've never associated the word "spirituality" with religion - but I can see how some might.  I really do feel the word awareness describes the experiences - hightened awareness.  thanks.

  • Bren-2007
    Bren-2007 Member Posts: 842
    edited August 2011

    Notself and Cindy .. thanks for your notes.  I like to think of that feeling as the ultimate feeling of peace with myself and my surroundings .. a oneness if you will.  Or maybe it's just a feeling of being complete.  I guess that can be called a spiritual experience.

    Maya .. please don't leave.  I really believe we're all saying the same thing .. just describing it with different words.

    hugs,

    Bren

    EDITED:  I wish the mods had put us back in the "Just Diagnosed" forum.  JMO.

  • 3monstmama
    3monstmama Member Posts: 123
    edited August 2011

    notself, perfectly said as always, what would we do without you?  THANK YOU!!! 

    K-lo  I read your comment about words and meaning and immediately thought of the scene in Alice in Wonderland where Humpty Dumpty tries to convince Alice that words mean what he says they mean as opposed to a standardized meaning.