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  • Unknown
    edited March 2009

    My hair has been trying to grow back with this new chemo and it's grown to the point that I had my first "clean up" done on it last night!  You know the straggles around the ears and back of neck.   Actually just a good overall clean up and it looks pretty good!  Not much up there but enough that it looks like a very very very short to the head hair cut.  And the eyebrows are coming back in which tickles me the most! 

    I may turn around and loose it again if I change chemo again but I'm going to enjoy it while I can. 

  • crazy4carrots
    crazy4carrots Member Posts: 624
    edited March 2009

    Bangs!  They sure are in short supply!  I wonder why my hair is almost two inches long on the sides and back, and only about one inch on top!  Sounds like I'm not the only one!

    Calgrl:  I hennaed my hair post-chemo when it was still whitish, and it didn't take.  You might want to wait another couple of weeks -- just a suggestion.

    Spring: be sure to take pics of you as a strawberry blonde!

  • Springtime
    Springtime Member Posts: 3,372
    edited March 2009

    Where or where have my bangs gone?

    If I only had some bangs (vs brains)

    How much are those bangs in the window....

    LOL.

  • LMDuncan
    LMDuncan Member Posts: 61
    edited March 2009

    I just came back from getting my hair colored here is a before and after pics

    and here is an after color pic.....I did pick a darker brown but oh well next time....at least it is not grey

    and yet still no bangs Cry

    Lori

  • revkat
    revkat Member Posts: 122
    edited March 2009

    when I had my first cut the stylist noticed that it was twice as long in the back as in the front. If this holds true for others it would explain the lack of bangs. I'm 8 months out of chemo and I have a head full of hair, but only a few little curls to pull down on my (rather high) forhead. Sigh. Some day.

  • crazy4carrots
    crazy4carrots Member Posts: 624
    edited March 2009

    Lori, it looks great!

    The Brits call bangs a "fringe" -- a bit more descriptive, no??!!

    So -- bangs or fringe -- I want some too!

  • LMDuncan
    LMDuncan Member Posts: 61
    edited March 2009

    Thanks lindasa

    I was having a hard time with the grey, at 42 I don't quite feel old enough for grey.  And all I kept getting was you look like you mom( whom I dearly love) she is 68,a young 68, but still 68.  I am not ready to be my mother yet. 

    I think fringe is a much better decription.

    LoriTongue out

  • caligrlof68
    caligrlof68 Member Posts: 41
    edited March 2009

    Lindasa.... but I don't wanna wait!! I want color NOW!! (jumping up and down)

  • crazy4carrots
    crazy4carrots Member Posts: 624
    edited March 2009

    Hey, if I had to, so do you!!!Kiss

    Seriously, maybe your hair is different (ha, not likely!) so go ahead and try it.  But you have to promise to report back to us......Laughing

  • caligrlof68
    caligrlof68 Member Posts: 41
    edited March 2009

    ok.. i promise. I will color it tonight and post tomorrow (or later tonight if the results are surprising!)

  • Jane_M
    Jane_M Member Posts: 932
    edited March 2009
    Lori - can you tell me (us) again, how far post chemo you are?  Your hair looks great! Money mouth
  • LMDuncan
    LMDuncan Member Posts: 61
    edited March 2009

    Sure can do....

    My last Chemo was Sept 30th followed by radiation (I'm not sure if that slows it or not).  Radiation done Dec 15th.  So Chemo was aprox 5 months ago, and I just measured it 2 cm on top and 2 1/2 cm in the back.  It is at the length where when it is wet it curls up but dry straightens out and stand every which way( I guess depending on how the individual strand feels).

    LoriSmile

  • unique
    unique Member Posts: 209
    edited March 2009

    Lori ~ My hair is right behind you, a little over an inch and getting a bit of personality. Also no bangs! A little fringe. My take on this is bangs are really longer hair than whatever the rest of your hair is. So it will take a while for bangs. My forehead is about 3" tall at least with a bit of a dent in front where I crawled into the coffee table corner as a baby. So I usually have bangs. Otherwise I look pretty good. I colored mine as soon as it was a quarter inch because it was very grey. My son hated it. I am still deer in the headlights, I hadn't really noticed. I mean, it was HAIR!!! The color went on very nicely but it did seem to wear off faster than usual. I got a new color then and that is very nice, a little darker than I did before all this mess. There's a pic a couple pages back. That is washing out a bit also, interesting. It's a temporary color that is supposed to wash out in about 14 shampoos, but I've used it for years and never redone it before three months. Maybe I have more grey hair than before so I just notice it more.

  • mumito
    mumito Member Posts: 2,007
    edited March 2009

    My hair looks just like yours Lori. You l;adies have inspired me to buy some colour and get to work on feeling younger.I definetly have alot more grey in my regrowth than before chemo. I think we have earned a few more grey hairs ladies after what we have been through.

  • artsee
    artsee Member Posts: 701
    edited March 2009
    Otter..I know that's NOT you in the picture. You Don't have RED hair!Tongue out
  • Springtime
    Springtime Member Posts: 3,372
    edited March 2009

    Lori

    You look FAB with the color!!! It looks a totally younger you, though you were cute as a button before. Now you won't be able to get the "Senior discounts" LOL.

    Did you get permanent color? I love it.  Your hair looks like a purposful "style". I am right behind you too, about a month behind. Mine still looks too short to be a style, but getting there. I am going to WILL MY HAIR to look as good as yours in the next month or so!!! (My last chemo Nov 10th)

    Thanks for the pics!!!

    Spring...

  • sunshine787990
    sunshine787990 Member Posts: 101
    edited March 2009

    Hey I'm almost 8 month out of chemo and a month ago I lightened it and put in some hightlights!  Everything went GREAT.  Made me feel 100% better... Went yesterday and had a trim ( I have about 2 inches when I stretch it I have big time poodle head)  and she used a "lift" color on it??  I love it....but I'm with all of you girls I would love me some BANGS!

  • otter
    otter Member Posts: 757
    edited March 2009

    Re:  "Otter... whaddya mean... if you're on an estrogen blocker, it will grow back slower and/or thinner?  I've just started chemo... expecting to lose my hair this week..."

    Sorry--I wasn't specific enough.  What I meant to say was, some women on aromatase inhibitors (Arimidex, Femara, and maybe Aromasin too (?)) find that their hair is thinner and grows more slowly than usual.  I hate to say it, but that's the case for mine. I've been on Arimidex for 8-1/2 months, and my hair is noticeably thinner than it used to be.  I asked my onco whether aromatase inhibitors could cause hair thinning, and she said yes, but it hadn't been studied in clinical trials because it was too hard to quantify.  I am reminded of my elderly female relatives...

    So, <sigh>, some of us can expect our hair to grow back after chemo, but maybe not as thick as before, if we're now on an AI.  I don't know what tamoxifen might do, because it doesn't decrease estrogen levels like AI's do.  All it does is block estrogen receptors.

    Don't get me wrong--at this point, curly-curly but thin hair is better than no hair.  And, I do have bangs.  Lots of 'em.  The top/front of my head is where my hair is growing fastest.  But, the bangs are curly.

    Hi, Artsee.  My hair used to be almost that red (as in the Little Orphan Annie pic), when I was almost that age. 

    otter 

  • caligrlof68
    caligrlof68 Member Posts: 41
    edited March 2009

    ok...bad plan!  i picked up my usual hair color...light golden brown. Before i opened the bottle I took a glance up on top and realized that i have a combo of white/translucent hair and BLACK hair. whaaaaaa??? I think I will go back and get a darker color and actually give it a go today. THEN I will post a pic of my newly colored fuzz. 

    Stacy 

  • LMDuncan
    LMDuncan Member Posts: 61
    edited March 2009

    caligrl68 You Go Girl!!!!!

    are you 68 because you were born in 68?  If so you are 1 year younger than me.

    Springtime

    Coloring my hair made me feel a whole lot better.  And yes it is permanent, I had it done at the hair dresser.

    LoriSmile

  • caligrlof68
    caligrlof68 Member Posts: 41
    edited March 2009

    hey Lori...

    Yes sirree... cali girl... cuz i was born in california (lived there until 2004) and of68 cuz I was born in 1968. I really should change it to Nebr girl.. LOL..but I think NOT!! Doesn't it seem like we are far too young for breast cancer?

    Stacy 

  • Springtime
    Springtime Member Posts: 3,372
    edited March 2009

    Cali, What Lori said, YOU GO GIRL!!!

    Lori, it looks really lovely! I even pointed another Hair forum over here to look at your before and after!!!

    Otter, I heard that about AI's too. :(  I am taking Biotin - it is supposed to thicken the hair shafts? I don't know if it will work or what. I think I'll be starting on teh AI's next month. 

    I want my bangs/"fringe" back!!! Fringe lovers unite!!!

    Spring.

  • artsee
    artsee Member Posts: 701
    edited March 2009
    Born in 68 ? Oh my gosh..I graduated High School in 68. Thanks for making me feel really OLD.Yell
  • LMDuncan
    LMDuncan Member Posts: 61
    edited March 2009

    oops sorry Embarassed If it means anything you certainly do not look it. By looking at your avitar I would not have thought you were any older than I am. 

    LoriSmile

  • Springtime
    Springtime Member Posts: 3,372
    edited March 2009
    Today I am going out to lunch with girlfriends with a ballcap and NO WIG!!!! I've already warned them. 

    <<GULP!!!>>>
  • Karenp62
    Karenp62 Member Posts: 68
    edited March 2009

    Hi Ladies,

    I am 4 months out from my last chemo tx and have an appointment this afternoon for color.My hair is about an inch long. It's not too soon is it??? Has anyone highlighted (bleach) their "new" hair yet. Before chemo my hair was blonde/gray. My new hair is dark "something" with LOTS of gray. I think coloring may give me more confidence with the short short hair style.

  • Springtime
    Springtime Member Posts: 3,372
    edited March 2009

    Karen, I am an inch and also 4 months. DO LET US KNOW how it comes out!!!! I am just using semi-permanent hennas, but my first one washed out really quick. Going to try a darker one next...

    Report Back! Please!

    Spring.

  • Karenp62
    Karenp62 Member Posts: 68
    edited March 2009

    Spring,

    I've been going out on weekends with a ballcap for a couple of weeks now. I had no problem with it. You'll do fine.

  • caligrlof68
    caligrlof68 Member Posts: 41
    edited March 2009

    Ok ladies....I managed to color my 1/2 inch of new growth. It actually took the color and looks pretty darn good if i don't say so myself. I cannot find my darn camera!!! It may be in the trunk of my car...chemo brain...can't remember s#@t...where oh where did I leave it?? Will post a pic when I find it! Oh, and I go out with a ball cap on too...when the temp is above freezing...and i really don't care what others think anymore. Of course I also go out with only one boob...imagine that....only one boob. How many of you thought you'd ever walk the planet with only one boob? I think I took them for granted before the cancer.

    Stacy 

  • Springtime
    Springtime Member Posts: 3,372
    edited March 2009

    Stacy, you crack me up! Ball cap and one boob. LOL. Find the camera and post! I am all about the hair color now. It's a fun phase!!!

    Spring...