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  • jpmomof3
    jpmomof3 Member Posts: 198
    edited September 2012

    crazyride,  I am starting to get there.  Maybe not quite as far along as you but it is getting wavy and the little clear tips are sticking up and there are stray hairs that are longer.  I agree with you though my hair actually looked better 2 weeks ago.  I too don't know when to get it trimmed.  I cant quite bear to trim it yet.  My hairstylist saw me a couple weeks agon when I took my kids in (first time shes seen me since 2011) and said that maybe in 6 weeks or so.  I have heard that it helps it a lot to get the messy ends taken off... I am 10 weeks PFC now.  My avatar is from 9 weeks.  It does seem to take forever.

  • Sandlake
    Sandlake Member Posts: 108
    edited September 2012
    crazyride~ I am feeling the same way!!  I'm might have to remove all the mirrors in my house to get past this awful stage.  I am 21 weeks PFC and have trimmed my sides 3 times so the top would catch up.
  • Mardibra
    Mardibra Member Posts: 194
    edited September 2012

    I had to get a little trim. The wisps above my ears were making me look like the Gerber baby! Someone stopped me the other day to tell me I had cute hair (LOL). She then asked me where I had it cut. Told her I had it cut at Dana Farber. She was horrified! It was sort of mean but I couldn't help myself...I just blurted it out without thinking. Oh well.

  • crazyride43
    crazyride43 Member Posts: 42
    edited September 2012

    Hmmm...it sounds like a trim is in my future.  Thanks for all the great advice!  Mardibra, I am also a Dana Farber girl so I might just borrow that line if anyone asks about my hair :-)

  • shore1
    shore1 Member Posts: 591
    edited September 2012

    Mardibra - ha ha "gerber baby" is a good one ;)



    You will all think im crazy but im 31 weeks pfc today & this was the first day I ditched the wig. Even tho I hate my short curly mess and miss my old hair every day, I can't take the wig anymore. It doesn't look post-chemo anymore, just like a short style I would never actually wear, and I still don't feel like myself but I think the hair is only one reason for that - I think its this whole experience. Anyone else feel like that? I keep waiting for things to go "back" but know deep down that they wont.

  • Mardibra
    Mardibra Member Posts: 194
    edited September 2012

    I'm 24 weeks PFC and I'm not ready to ditch the wig yet. Not until it looks like a style I would actually get on purpose. I'm thinking October?



    Crazyride - feel free to borrow!

  • shore1
    shore1 Member Posts: 591
    edited September 2012

    Mardibra, at 31 weeks mine looks like a style, just not one I would ever choose. Adding a headband or tiny barette on side bangs (I have enough bangs to get them to the side & into a clip) makes it look more like I did this on purpose I think.



    I saw Elizabeth Vargas on GMA this morning and her hair is so nice but I still don't have enough to get it on a round brush to smooth it out like that. For now, curly looks better because its uneven & im not cutting anything.

  • Mardibra
    Mardibra Member Posts: 194
    edited September 2012

    Bangs? I'm seriously jealous. My hair is pretty thick and I've got some chemo curl going on too. So my hair tends to grow out not down. I've been using gel to tame it but I think I need to find another brand that holds better. After a few hours it looks like s$&@.

  • onvacation
    onvacation Member Posts: 521
    edited September 2012

    I am 8 weeks PFC and so jealous of you guys that have so much hair!  It is growing, but I'm hoping that when I finish up my rads this Friday it will start to take off.  Perhaps it is time I take some more pics because it is probably growing faster than I think!

  • shore1
    shore1 Member Posts: 591
    edited September 2012

    Onvacation, taking pics does help you see progress.



    Mardibra, I have the dreaded curl too and it's a process. I use all the john freda frizz ease steps/products, flat iron, and then use curling iron to make it wavy curls instead of the frizzy tight curls I would get otherwise. Im also using Chi protector so heat doesn't damage it, but at least it does look healthy.

  • tina_jason
    tina_jason Member Posts: 18
    edited September 2012

    crazyride- I have felt that way already, that my hair looked better a little shorter.  Today was a good hair day for me but I feel like I am spending more time on my hair then I did when it was shoulder length.  I did get a lot of compliments today but I know that I will go through some more crazy stages before its to the length I want it.  I haven't decided if i will keep it shorter or let it grow back to the length it was.  I did have my neck shaved already and will probably do that again soon.  What I noticed is how bad it looks when I wake up.  I have some major bedhead going on!

  • rockym
    rockym Member Posts: 386
    edited September 2012

    I foresee a lot of bad hair days with the good hair days thrown in.  It's like growing out bangs when you were younger or trying to grow out a bad haircut.  I use product to style my hair back off my face and I always put my hair behind my ears.  If I don't, it looks like someone gave me a reserve bowl cut.

    I miss my long hair.  I'm not sure when I will get my first hair cut, but I wonder if I will end up picking a different hair style for my final choice as this grows out.

  • liefie
    liefie Member Posts: 761
    edited September 2012

    Tina and Crazyride,

    I'm approaching the same stage. My DH told me this afternoon that I have to start combing my hair - LOL! It's been so easy - shower, just dry my head with the towel, and I'm done. Now I have to start worrying again about cutting, styling, etc. But one thing is sure - no more coloring. I'm done with that. So far no chemo curl either, I'm waiting with bated breath. Oh the joys . . .

  • 007_Kara
    007_Kara Member Posts: 13
    edited September 2012

    Got my second hair cut last week. Went with the Anne Hathaway pixie cut. I posted 8 styles and had my friends choose. 

    I finished my last chemo treatment on Feb 24th .... March - little fuzzies, April - I had bunny fuzz, May - I had most of my hair.

    Definitely thicker, curly and darker. I called it Labrodoodle - my sister called it Karadoodle.  

     

  • LuvRVing
    LuvRVing Member Posts: 2,409
    edited September 2012

    I thought you would all appreciate this picture - Kellie Pickler with her friend who has been diagnosed with BC.  That's quite a show of support coming from a performer. They both look adorable!

  • Sandlake
    Sandlake Member Posts: 108
    edited September 2012

    LuvRVing~ Thank you for posting this picture!!  "Be Bold, Feel Beautiful": from the Oldham Project.

  • lago
    lago Member Posts: 11,653
    edited September 2012

    I had mine trimmed at 13 weeks. Actually I have my stylist buzz the back and sides every 3-4 weeks. I'm over 1.5 years PFC. Love having short hair. Takes me 5 minutes rather than 25-30 to dry/style.

  • dechi
    dechi Member Posts: 110
    edited September 2012

    I just trimmed mine for the first time on Friday.  Had to get rid of the whispy stuff.  Do it.  Now I look like I actually have a style!  So glad I did it (even though it was hard to get into that chair!)

  • fhny2012
    fhny2012 Member Posts: 6
    edited September 2012

    Hi ladies,

    This topic is great!  Helps me feel like I am normal to be obsessing about my hair growth Smile

    I have gone through 4 round of A/C, and am now done with 2 taxol (with 2 more to go).  I am actually starting to see some growth, but it is white peach fuzz more than anything else.  There are, perhaps, a couple of darker hairs trying to poke through.  I am so excited to have hair, I want to do anything I can to help it along! 

    Are there any products (scalp treatments, vitamins, etc) that you have found very helpful?  I will wait until I'm done with the remaining two taxol to start taking any supplements (as per my onc's orders).  So excited to go topless as soon as possible!

    Faith 

  • jpmomof3
    jpmomof3 Member Posts: 198
    edited September 2012

    you will get there faith, I was where you were about 12 weeks ago!

  • EmmaC
    EmmaC Member Posts: 125
    edited September 2012

    I am counting down til my first real hair style since before chemo! 20 days to go!



    I hate that I care this much about my hair. grrrr



  • lisa2012
    lisa2012 Member Posts: 288
    edited September 2012

    I am 10 weeks PFC. I have slightly more hair than Kelly Pickler- not much but it is dark all over. I can't imagine what it will look like someday.

  • onvacation
    onvacation Member Posts: 521
    edited September 2012

    I am watching Obama speak and he has more hair than me!  SIGH

  • kjiberty
    kjiberty Member Posts: 687
    edited September 2012

    Got mine trimmed and colored today (9 weeks).  I love it!

  • Myleftboob
    Myleftboob Member Posts: 983
    edited September 2012

    Did anyone see Rhiannaks hair cut on the MTV Awards tonight. Totally short pixie. I think we are all right on trend ladies!

  • 2miraclesmom
    2miraclesmom Member Posts: 38
    edited September 2012

    I had my first trim today. I really should have had it a few months ago. My hair started growing back around my 2nd taxol treatment in Feb. of this year. It was really weird. I lost my eyebrows and eyelashes, but my hair started growing. lol The sides and back are growing really fast, but the top is slow. Now if the top grew as fast as the rest then I would not have needed a trim. oh well. At least I have hair! lol

  • schatzi14
    schatzi14 Member Posts: 906
    edited September 2012

    30 weeks PFC and still have hardly any bangs! It is also still very fine and kittenish feeling!

  • Ossa
    Ossa Member Posts: 685
    edited September 2012

    Yay for everyone who had their first trim, feels good but scarry hey, for you "looking" for hair... I used to obsess, look in a magnifying mirror several times a day, rub my head to feel the little hairs.. now finally I have a headful woohoo.. Growing like crazy since I finished Herceptin

  • fhny2012
    fhny2012 Member Posts: 6
    edited September 2012
    I love all these stories about new hair growth!  I will keep rubbing my peach fuzz and thinking positive thoughts Smile  And yes, we are right on trend - Rihanna, Anne Hathaway, Charlize Theron.  Short hair is definitely having a fashion moment right now!
  • auntienance
    auntienance Member Posts: 3,926
    edited September 2012

    Really?? My eyelashes are thinning AGAIN. Enough already!