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  • CassieCat
    CassieCat Member Posts: 863
    edited February 2015

    Chloesmom, I think only time will tell. I had some hair that never fell out (not very much) and did continue to grow a bit. But I think it's one of those things that just varies from person to person. As for sleeping, my mom made me a few hats out of t-shirt material, and they were fairly comfortable. I don't know if that's the kind of knit hat you're currently trying, or if you meant knit like with yarn.

  • Chloesmom
    Chloesmom Member Posts: 626
    edited February 2015

    CassieCat My hat is knit out of baby yarn so very soft. I will. Loot for old Tnahits as I love to sew. That would be much better!

  • 208sandy
    208sandy Member Posts: 582
    edited February 2015

    Soft cotton (t-shirt) sleep caps are what I wore, also I believe (someone help here) satin pillow cases (available at beauty supply stores and department stores) work well - my head was cold when sleeping so I used the caps. That stubble will probably fall out shortly - mine did but I had my hair buzzed not shaved so it wasn't so much stubble.

  • minustwo
    minustwo Member Posts: 13,360
    edited February 2015

    ChloesMom - I didn't shave my head either because I was warned about stubble - instead just had it buzzed down to 1/2". I eventually lost all the rest & I expect you will too. My salvation at this stage was to use lint rollers several times a day. I 'rolled' my head over the bathtub to eliminate some of the mess. The tape was really good at gathering up all loose hair. I also used lint rollers to clean my sleep cap & scarves of the molting little hairs. Like 208Sandy - I always had a cap on because my head was cold.

  • Chloesmom
    Chloesmom Member Posts: 626
    edited February 2015

    Just have stubble patches ashad already buzzed it like GI Jane. The little pieces were everywhere. Mostly the stubble is on the top behind my forehead so actually it's not so bad. Acts like Velco to keep my scarf in place. Got a wig tonight and had my hairdresser trim it. Actually it looks better than my own hair did as I just pulled mine back in a hairband and never fussed with it. The wig is pretty but a pain as it was so hot I will only wear it when I have too and stick with scarves and those soft TLC catalog hats with brims. For now I look like Captain Picard or Charlie Brown.

  • Beachbum1023
    Beachbum1023 Member Posts: 364
    edited February 2015

    Hi Chloesmom, I am sure you look great with the new wig! It was so funny when I had to shave my hair down. I was always told I looked like my Mom, and then I shaved my head and I looked just like my Dad, or Uncle Fester. Ugh, good thing I love my wig :)

  • homemom
    homemom Member Posts: 842
    edited February 2015

    When did those of you who have long enough hair, actually dye it? I have a semi perm hair color under my bathroom sink just waiting for my MO to give me the green light. My hair is about an inch or more long but she still wants me to wait.

  • kpmacmill
    kpmacmill Member Posts: 69
    edited February 2015

    HomeMom - My hairdresser used semi-perm. color on my hair at 9 weeks PFC - no issues. I didn't ask my MO about it. I'm not sure what the concern is. My hairdresser has treated many women post-chemo and has had no problems coloring hair with semi-permanent color. I will say that my hair came out a shade lighter than how it used to come out before chemo, so be aware of that.

  • homemom
    homemom Member Posts: 842
    edited February 2015

    Wow 9 weeks, I don't think I had enough hair to dye at that point!

    She said it needs to grow more coarse so it doesn't fall out again. I talked to one of my friends about it and given my history before bc of my hair thinning, she thought I should wait too. I just look more gray then dark and I feel old even though my face doesn't look it.

  • CassieCat
    CassieCat Member Posts: 863
    edited February 2015

    The t-shirt knit hats were the most comfortable for me at night. They helped me stay warm, too. I used to have very long and thick hair, and I never knew how insulating it was until it was gone. I'm at almost 10 weeks since my last chemo now and have good coverage, but it's still very, very short. No sign of curls yet, and the color seems the same as before.

  • lisaj514
    lisaj514 Member Posts: 289
    edited February 2015

    everyone notice all the short hair on the beautiful women on the oscars last night?! . Faith Hill, of course annie Lennox, scarlet johansson. It's the new "in" look. Short hair is in

  • Tobycc
    Tobycc Member Posts: 578
    edited February 2015

    Cassie, mine is like that....but add a Dalmatian. Coming in shocking white but dark in back. I am going to have my stylist cut my wig shorter in a few weeks. I have not shared at work....so am in a predicament

  • CassieCat
    CassieCat Member Posts: 863
    edited February 2015

    I didn't watch the Oscars, but my RO made the same comment today! We're trendsetters, ha ha. ;)

  • Nomatterwhat
    Nomatterwhat Member Posts: 210
    edited February 2015

    TobyCC, do you have a black streak across the bottom of your hair?  The rest of my hair is snow white.  

  • Tobycc
    Tobycc Member Posts: 578
    edited February 2015

    the top is white....darker in back. Emailed you

  • Beachbum1023
    Beachbum1023 Member Posts: 364
    edited February 2015

    My last chemo was 11/25 Taxol. My hair is now 1" long/short! Mostly black with white. It was brown before. But its hair.

  • anothernycgirl
    anothernycgirl Member Posts: 821
    edited February 2015

    I am dark in back, - grey on top and sides, - not as long as the ladies on the Oscars.

    Showed my wigless head to my brother today for the first time, - he said I look like Mia Farrow . Smile

  • Tobycc
    Tobycc Member Posts: 578
    edited February 2015

    love that anotherny!

    Anyone have luck with the FAST from Amazon?

  • lisaj514
    lisaj514 Member Posts: 289
    edited February 2015

    yes yes, Mia farrow! I had a dark streak down the middle when it first started coming in. Called it my racing stripe. Here's then, july- 3 mo pfc and dec 2014(7 1/2 pfc).Came in straight then went curly but I always had curly hair so that's my natural hair. Now gray, colored it before. Kind of messy in second pic but love my curls and color most times.

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  • Tobycc
    Tobycc Member Posts: 578
    edited February 2015

    LOVE it

  • puffin2014
    puffin2014 Member Posts: 979
    edited February 2015

    Yes, I HAVE been noticing all the short haircuts, both at the Oscars and also just people I run into.

  • Miscraw
    Miscraw Member Posts: 16
    edited February 2015

    I am dreaming of a cute pixie for a summer trip to Vegas. My top is coming in great, but the sides are sooooo fine & barely any new growth. I never lost all of my hair, just FYI. However, the sides are what I lost first. Could that be why they haven't come in yet? I'm 12 weeks post chemo.

  • anothernycgirl
    anothernycgirl Member Posts: 821
    edited February 2015

    Great curls, Lisa! I bet my hair will be curly again, too, but it is a novelty to have straight for now! I hope my curls will be as pretty as yours!

  • MomMom
    MomMom Member Posts: 334
    edited February 2015


    Lisa, I just love your curls! 

    I recently googled my SE of watery eyes from Taxol (just found what I hope will be a successful treatment - my 5th ophthalmologist in 6 months - 6 x the charm!), and came upon info re hair loss.  It freshly confirmed what others have mentioned about the baby fine and super soft texture of post chemo hair.  It is indeed very much like a baby's hair, but there are assurances that, for most women, the original texture will return at approximately the one year mark. 

    While I want my original hair back, I'm learning to make the most of my new punky look & have been told it's very cute.  Yes!!  Noticed Faith Hill's hair at the Oscars - and all the others sporting the really short look.  It could very well be the new "in" look!   Funny, when we were in Naples, FL recently, I noticed SO many women who looked very chic but had hair that looked like mine, ie, post chemo hair.  Just wondering if that is the case because there's an older population in FL or what??"

  • Tobycc
    Tobycc Member Posts: 578
    edited February 2015

    MOMMOM I WORK in Naples!!!!!

  • anothernycgirl
    anothernycgirl Member Posts: 821
    edited February 2015

    MomMom - I, too, have been going to the eye dr for my teary eyes since taxol.... what did you find that works?? I am on second type of drops (very $$ Sad) that i am now weaning away from, but sometimes still have tears!

  • allydp
    allydp Member Posts: 361
    edited February 2015

    Lisa - yes! I'm loving the fact that pixies are so in style right now. I absolutely love your curls! Great pic!

    I always seem to take these pics in my PJ's lol, but here I am at 7 months PFC. I officially have bangs! In a few more weeks I think I'll be able to start pinning them up or swept over. I can't wait to have more style options! I had only been cleaning up my nape, but I finally had to get a trim just above it, as It was getting too scraggly back there. She wanted to trim the sides, but I told her no way. It's long enough to push behind my ears and that's fine with me. I still miss my blond, but I'm holding out color for as long as possible.

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  • iamnancy
    iamnancy Member Posts: 641
    edited February 2015

    Allydp - you look beautiful!

    Lisa - I am jealous of those curls...

    I loved how my hair grew back - thick, wavey and easy to care for.. but by about 1 yr I was back to my original hair - thin/straight

  • Miscraw
    Miscraw Member Posts: 16
    edited February 2015

    Allydp, I LOVE LOVE LOVE your hair!! I am praying that mine will look that awesome at 7 months!! My top is thick & filling in great. I just wish my sides would grow more.

    Anyone have an idea why the sides aren't really showing new growth, but the top of my head is full and thick as can be? I have hair on the sides, but it's mainly what I didn't lose in the first place.

  • MomMom
    MomMom Member Posts: 334
    edited February 2015


    Ally,  You look adorable.  I cannot believe how long your bangs are!!!

    NYCGirl - I'm going to PM you detailed info on my watery eye issue.  I am, at last, so hopeful & joyful that there is a solution!!

    Paula