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  • val61
    val61 Member Posts: 969
    edited August 2010

    Sheila - I've been out of town for nearly a week.....so sorry to hear about Greg's passing.  May the loving heart of Christ bring peace and comfort to you at this very difficult time.

    I just returned home after saying goodbye to my "baby" as he starts his college adventure VERY far away from home.  I know many of you have gone through this - as have I with my oder son - but it's still hard, isn't it?  I'm thankful that he's at a CATHOLIC college, though, so hopefully will be surrounded by kids with strong faith and good morals!  

  • 57Coleen
    57Coleen Member Posts: 27
    edited August 2010

    Dear Friends, Praying for you all this evening and also thank you for your prayers.  My 16 year old neice has been found safe. Amen 

    Paula & Theresa, May God give you healing and protection as we make this journey together. 

    Love you all from afar.  Coleen 

  • Grete
    Grete Member Posts: 3
    edited August 2010

    Hello ladies,

    Praying for you. Sr. Mary, my choir director, told me about St. Agatha being the patron saint for BC patients. I wasn't familiar with this saint. I saw someone else on this thread has referred to her. Saints Peregrine, Jude and Agatha, pray for us.

    I'm leaving tomorrow for New Orleans for bilateral MX and reconstruction scheduled for Wednedsay; trying to fight off a cold from all the stress of the past few weeks. I'm trying to remain in His peace, but nights are hard. I'm leaving my 10-year-old son, and that will be hard on both of us. My husband is staying behind with him, and my dear sister will be my caretaker in Lousianna. Your prayers for my family are so appreciated.

  • torigirl
    torigirl Member Posts: 748
    edited August 2010

    Sistas, my sistas,

    Today is day 8 of the 9 day novena I've been saying to St. Jude for all of us.  I hope in a small way, you have all been touched by God this week...

    Tori

  • val61
    val61 Member Posts: 969
    edited August 2010

    Grete - God bless you and your surgeons!  We'll pray for you and your family!

  • Estepp
    Estepp Member Posts: 2,966
    edited August 2010

    I am back from the first of three trips in a row!

    I have thought of all my girls on BCO... and I pray for all of us.. even on vacation.  I see we have a few new members here... Welcome. I am sorry that you have had to even come to BCO, but you did.. so... I am happy you found a place on here to worship our God and talk to other sisters on here.

    Blessings to you all.

    I have a special intention I ask for prayers for. Thank you ladies!

  • squidwitch42
    squidwitch42 Member Posts: 1,467
    edited August 2010

    Coleen,

    Such wonderful news...I know there is more ahead for your niece, so my prayers are for her healing.

    Grete,

    May your surgery be uneventful and smooth.  May God guide and direct your Doctor's and Nurses.  Wonderful your Sister is taking care of you...please let us know how you are.

    Traci

  • apple
    apple Member Posts: 1,466
    edited August 2010

    I haven't been here lately much.. too much to do. 

    I always pray for my Catholic sisters. 

    I have so many troubling things to pray for.  a 15 year old daughter of a friend of mine who is being stupid and trampy, a husband of a friend of mine who had a heart attack at age 47 and is in intensive care, a dear friend who was diagnosed with Advanced lung cancer.. it has metasticized everywhere.. kind of a shock to herself and dear husband... my own family who is sorely challenged by the mountain of work in front of us.

    i am grateful for my faith and ask for extra support from God.. for myself and all of you.

  • mmm5
    mmm5 Member Posts: 797
    edited August 2010

    Dear Catholic Sisters-

    I offer up today for all of your special intentions, Jeannine for your health and peace, Laura for your special intention, Apple for your special friends and your family may they find health and comfort and God's light and that your own family find the good and wonder in all of your challenges and ease through them with much support, Grete for your safe travels and successful surgery, for the intentions of our new friends Colleen, Paula and Theresa and the intentions of our circle of Catholic ladies (squid, Nancy, Sheila, Angel, Pat, Pure,Val,NoniJones, Jacqueline etc) May all of your prayers be heard today by name and answered, in Jesus's name I pray.

    Have no anxiety at all, but in everything by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, make your requests known to God, then the peace of God, that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. 

    Phillippians 4:6-7

    Ladies please do not be shy about coming here and asking for your prayer requests I promise to pray for each and every one of your requests and many on here are great about being consistent with prayer. 

     Today I also pray for my friend Cathy Staats, Connie, and Patty all whose families are being dramatically affected by cancer.

    AMEN 

  • Tarry1
    Tarry1 Member Posts: 56
    edited August 2010

    I've been popping in a few times, but not like I used to .  I would like to request that you pray for me and my family.  After having being diafnosed with breast cancer and going through that trauma, my cat KItty died and I am having a hard time with that now. I'm trying to find strength but it is kind of hard. Please say a prayer for me to find strength.  Thank you.

  • jan508
    jan508 Member Posts: 724
    edited August 2010

    It looks like its been a tough week for everyone.  I will keep praying for all of you.

    I have my 2nd oncologist appointment tomorrow and I'm going to ask for a scan of my pelvis. Been in alot of pain lately.

    I have my dmx scheduled for 9/20 with TE so I don't even know the extent of my BC yet. I do know it's hormone positive and HER +1 (negative). I do know the MRI shows no involvement with axillary nodes or chest wall. I do know MRI says it is 2.3CM. So, there ya have it in a nutshell.

    I am so very anxious to get moving with this so I know if I need chemo or not. That I think will depend on Oncoltype test and # of nodes found during surgery.

    Please pray my hip and pelvic pain is only a pinched nerve from my lower back .

    Thanks

    Jan

  • mmm5
    mmm5 Member Posts: 797
    edited August 2010

    Tarry and Jan I added you to my list and just returned from mass, will continue on with this all week and starting a new novena today.

    God bless both of you! 

  • DiamondGirl
    DiamondGirl Member Posts: 695
    edited August 2010

    Good day sisters,

    Thank you for your warm welcome Smile and your prayers.

    When it rains, it pours.  And I'd like to share my portion of trials...and ask for your prayers.

    2 days before my surgery, our English Mastiff was probably bitten by a brown recluse spider and was very very sick. It could have triggered cancer and she had lost 40+ pounds.  It's been 4.5 weeks and she's got a lot of facial tumors. I prayed to Jesus that He will take her toxins away and heal her. We are still unsure and will not be able to afford chemo for the dog.  She's about 7 years old.  Her name is Sequoia.  Please say a prayer for Sequoia to get back to her normal health. (thank you!)

    My girl friend who called me in mid May this year about her BC (found out at late Stage 4 and Met), has passed away on Aug 10th. Her call literally saved my life because I found my lump 2 weeks after that and I went to my doctor right away.  My previous cyst was removed in 2003 but it had been there for about 15 years (I was naive and stupid then not to see a doctor right away) and if not for my friend, I would have procrastinated.  My late friend's name was Edna.

    My Mom who'll turn 88 yrs old this coming October, had a stroke in Aug 2007 and was also diagnosed with Alzheimer and a declining kidney. Her creatine level has been rising and due to her age, it would not be a good idea to do dialysis (she told her specialist that she refuse treatment). My problem is when I start my RAD in September (no date yet), that I may not be able to visit with my mom and her health condition is declining.  It's sooo hard to even think about it. I'm very close to my mom but because of her health, she was not told about my condition (only my siblings knew about it).  How I wished my mom could console my fears (when I most needed).  Just her voice to tell me it's OK but I can't burden her.

    Although my BC is Stage 1 and just found out Onco score was 15, I still have unexplained low grade fever (hovering around 99 - 100.2 degrees) for 3 weeks now.

    So, thank you so much for listening, for your prayers and the comradery and sisterhood bonding here.  I find solace to know that there's always someone listening, reading and sharing what I'm going through and I can confide my feelings.  My family (siblings) are scattered between Toronto and Hong Kong. I live with my DH and 2 teenage children.

    I thank you ALL for listening and I share your worries and your pains too! ~ Apple, Tarry1, be strong. 

    Love,

    Paula

  • 57Coleen
    57Coleen Member Posts: 27
    edited August 2010

    Hello Dear Friends in Christ,  I see there are many new postings with problems and concerns.  Be with us Lord when we are in trouble, be with us Lord we pray. 

    Paula,  I too am close to my mother who is 92 but she lives 7 hours away.  She feels that the only reason she is still alive is to pray for me. Her mind is good, but her body is failing her and there is much I could do for her if I was close. I am  sorry that you can't confide in her, but God will bless you for honoring your mother. 

    I have my 3rd A/C chemo treatment tomorrow. One more A/C and then 4 Taxol.  6 weeks of rads after that.  All things are possible with you Lord.  We trust in Your care and protection.  Coleen  

  • squidwitch42
    squidwitch42 Member Posts: 1,467
    edited August 2010

    Tarry,

    I am so sorry to hear of your loss.  Our dear animals are precious to us. My mother said something to me once that I will never forget.  She said if you have any question if God exists, just look at your pet (our dog Lady) at the time.  She pointed out the purity of their love and their unquestioning devotion. You have been blessed with Kitty and she with you.  I really do believe we will see our dear pets again, as God is wise in how he teaches us love.  I wish I could take away your pain, but since I cannot, I will honor it.  May you find strength in your special memories of Kitty.

    Blessings to you and your family at this difficult time,

    traci

  • Estepp
    Estepp Member Posts: 2,966
    edited August 2010

    Ah sisters...

    as I read, I prayed for each petition. I know our Father hears our prayers.

    MICHELLE.. I LOVE how you post the scripture on ANXIETY! So many of us cancer patients suffer this even if we never had before. Great Post!

    Ladies, I pray you have a good week... STAY STRONG in your chemos and radiation.. and surgeries.... stay strong after these things have been completed. You are a fighter and you are .......Worth so MUCH!

  • Estepp
    Estepp Member Posts: 2,966
    edited August 2010

    My son is FINALLY going to be seen tomorrow by an Endocrinologist. Please pray that this is our LAST stop and this doctor CAN fix him. Thank you !

  • DiamondGirl
    DiamondGirl Member Posts: 695
    edited August 2010

    Good afternoon everyone,

    I had typed up my thread last night but wasn't allowed to post any more (I had exceeded 5 posts already).

    Coleen, thank you for your encouraging words and good luck with your chemo today.  I pray that everything will go smoothly.

    Estepp, will pray that your son is assigned this good doctor and he will determine the cause and treat him.

    Finally, I am sorry to let you all know that our English Mastiff Sequoia had passed away at 10:50am PST this morning.  I haven't cried yet.  My husband and daughter did not do so well.  Our son has started Gr. 8 today and he's still in school.  I don't know how to break it to him and I don't want to see his reaction.  What a big blow, it has been a bad summer for all of us.

    Love,

    Paula

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited August 2010

    I NEVER POSTED HERE BUT I WANTED TO SHARE SOMETHING WITH YOU.I AM A CHRISTIAN AND I PRAY FOR EACH AND EVERY ONE OF MY SISTAS EVERY DAY.

    TODAY IS WORLD CANCER DAY.CAN WE ALL PRAY TOGETHER

    I PRAY FOR A CURE FOR CANCER.AMEN.

  • Medigal
    Medigal Member Posts: 183
    edited August 2010

    I can't believe my favorite photo of St. Peregrine made it to our forum!! When I was first diagnosed I was sitting in the Onc's office waiting for my first Chemo and this dear sweet lady must have seen the fear in my face.  She gave me that same photo of St. Peregrine with the prayer on it and told me if I wanted to be cured, to say the prayer.  I used to be a Catholic so I was used to these saints and their prayers but this one had an instant effect on me.  I prayed it that day and have been praying to St. Peregrine ever since.  I keep that card at the foot of my huge statue of our beloved Jesus which is on my nightstand by my bed.  I am so happy to see St.Peregrine has been introduced to this forum.  I join our Grannydukes in praying for a cure for cancer for ALL of us! 

  • activern
    activern Member Posts: 111
    edited August 2010

    I have been away from this thread for quite some time but not separated from prayer and my Faith.  I have found that my strength comes from praying and devotion.  While bored to tears at times from being at home, I decided to do something more in the community via the parish church.  I have since joined the Eucharistic Ministry and will now give Communion to the sick mostly in the nearby hospital.  I have also joined a couple of other groups that will allow me to give some of my time to parishioners in need.  I cried when I joined - this feels soooo good.  My pity parties have now taken second place.

  • squidwitch42
    squidwitch42 Member Posts: 1,467
    edited August 2010

    Paula,

    So sorry to hear of the loss of your family member. 

    Traci

  • lovemyfamilysomuch
    lovemyfamilysomuch Member Posts: 762
    edited August 2010

    Praying for all my bc sisters, old and new--xo

  • Estepp
    Estepp Member Posts: 2,966
    edited August 2010

    Paula.. ah man, I am sorry. You sound like me... let everyone else fall apart first... You sweet thing... cry when you can, I understand! ((((((((((HUG)))))))))))

    GRANNYDUKES...... THANK YOU ! I hope all us Christians pray together daily... to our same and only Father through Christ. I THANK you for bringing this to us sister!

    Father,

    All your children in Christ, bring before you our prayer for all cancer patient's today. We ask that, in Your mercy, you grant us peace. Amen.

    Medigal.. WELCOME and AWESOME story sister ! Our Father works in ways that are truly miracles... most of them hit us in the face........down the road! THANK you for sharing your very, very cool story. When I first got DX... I googled the Saint of Cancer. I found a friend that day. A best friend. A Godly man that has gone before me. To have this soul praying for us... " up there" , oh so powerful and WHAT a blessing. We are TRULY blessed!

    VILMA... WAHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, great way to turn boredom into something AMAZING! Thank you! You rock!  ( lol )... but really, you do! :)

  • Estepp
    Estepp Member Posts: 2,966
    edited August 2010

    Just something I noticed:

    Through the years here on BCO, I have seen other Christian threads go through hard times. Others coming to their thread making trouble... not being too nice. Actually mean at times. It was terrible.

    This has not happened one time here. Anyone and everyone are welcome.. and everyone has been nothing but kind and thoughtful.

    I feel blessed. We all should !

    PAX

  • mmm5
    mmm5 Member Posts: 797
    edited August 2010

    So nice to hear from so many new gals! Welcome and Peace be with you!

    I finish my evening tonight offering prayers for all of your intentions on this thread, May God answer your prayers expeditiously and fully! Laura I pray that your son was given some further direction today. I pray for further healing for Sheila and family. I pray for Apple and peace and comfort, light and love during a trying time. I pray for Jeannine to experience a healing and light and love, and support in her journey. I pray for all of the new members to this thread that you may feel welcome and heard.

    Lord Jesus Christ, Redeemer of the World, You have shouldered the burden of our weakness and borne our sufferings in Your own passion and death. Hear this prayer for our dear ones, whom You have redeemed. Strengthen their hope of salvation, and sustain them in their difficulties, for you live and reign for ever and ever. Amen

    I offer these prayers up for all of you tonight and a healing of your anxieties, Laura you are right Anxiety is such an issue for all of us and I just hole it right up there for healing.

    AMEN 

  • squidwitch42
    squidwitch42 Member Posts: 1,467
    edited August 2010

    Pax,

    My parents attended a Presbyterian church...so that is my "background" so to speak.  I feel like Spirituality comes in so many forms and I feel a sense of comfort here.  I don't understand some of the terms like novena (but I could look them up too :)

    I think some of my greatest God blessings have come through my patients ( I worked in a hospital for 10 years.) Then I look at a mountain and I see God there too...My mom taught me how to look at flowers and see God's work.  I miss my mother everyday, and I want to see her again.  I wonder if it's hard for her to see me struggle, or if she understands the why's behind human suffering now that her soul has moved on.  I guess what I am trying to say, is this should be a place of peace and support, and we can all bring our gifts to each other.  I receive gifts everyday by shouldering together with my BC Sisters and Brothers, and I know my spiritual side has been wanting.  And it still wants and seeks greater knowledge of God and spirit. 

    It's nice to pray for help, because I tend to try and be too strong (and fail :) so I have to learn trust.  It's also nice to see and hear the depth of someone's faith.  I don't have that at the ready, but I am working on it. I see it here.

    and I'll end with Namaste for our Sister Sheila,

    Blessings....Traci

  • Estepp
    Estepp Member Posts: 2,966
    edited August 2010

    Sheila, let us know how you are doing when you can. xoxoxo

    Ladies, have a blessed Tuesday!

  • onward
    onward Member Posts: 229
    edited August 2010

    Hi There, I am new here. Cradle Catholic. Had my double mastectomy last month and will begin chemo in two weeks than rads. I am very blessed with many prayerful friends, both Catholic and Christian and feel that the only reason I am so very calm is the many prayers that are being offered for me. Anyone here attend a Cursillo? It's a retreat. Just wondering.

    Since I cant sleep tonight, I will be praying for all. Sweet Dreams.

  • squidwitch42
    squidwitch42 Member Posts: 1,467
    edited August 2010

    Welcome Onward! I know the sleeplessness, and hope you were able to rest last night.  You are in my prayers and I know these ladies and myself with be praying for you every step of the way. The unknown is the harder part of this journey, but your faith will be your light in the dark.

    traci