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Hi ladies and Mike (who never fails to make me chuckle). It has certainly not been a walk in the park this time around but I do feel better now the septicaemia has gone. If I was truthful I prayed for death a couple of times while that was going on but as Mike would say, they wouldn't take me (assuming that I go UP lol). The chemo is also a killer but I am learning to deal with it. Got another session this Thursday ugh. I dread each and every one. Hopefully it will shrink the cancer more by the time I have my next scan. Your beautiful cards and words brought myself and Mandy to tears each time we received one. She couldn't believe all the love and support you sent to me.
I am so out of touch with what you are all going through I'm ashamed of myself because a lot of you are all ill as well and I have to remember I'm not the only one.
Meadow I hope your infection has cleared now and you are ok again.
BAK great to hear from you. You have been gone a long time.
Simple. I live in Lake Taupo which is in the centre of the North Island. I'm so glad you loved my little country. We are lucky that our air is so pure and our sky's such a beautiful blue at least I hope it was whilst you were here. Lake Taupo is the largest freshwater lake in Australasia and is roughly the size of Singapore. We can see all the bays around the size and all the mountains way down in the middle. It is truly beautiful when the snows come and make them sparkle. we have lots of space for children to grow and to learn so much sport to try and keep them on the straight and narrow.
Linda you always make me cry! love you so much.
So many lovely posts that I will lose mine if I go back to read them all but I hope you know that I am thinking of each and every one of you and wishing you are all well and living life to the full. All who are not doing so well I pray that all will be ok for you. As have you all, my family have been awesome and I have not been left alone for five minutes. Every meal has been cooked for me whether I felt like eating or not, and most of the time not, but the delight on their faces when I managed some told me there was so much love for me from them. All of my housework has been kept up to date and clean nighties were brought every day when I was in hospital and even now. They slept in chairs to be by my side at night. I could see the concern when they came and I looked at their faces and I was so sorry I put that there but now I am a bit better I am getting smiles.
Thank you for al of your support ladies and Mike. I will try to post more frequently now. In the meantime keep well, keep smiling and if going through treatment or are unwell think of me there is some light at the end of the tunnel.
Love you all. Annie xxxxx
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Annie, words fail me. You are such a lovely, incredible person! I wish I could meet you!
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Hi! Thank you all so much for the prayers and well wishes! I really appreciate it. Everyone is so kind and thoughtful!
Annie so glad to hear you are doing much better! Praying for you. Praying chemo shrinks the cancer! You are an inspiration to me! Keep fighting!
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Annie! How wonderful to hear from you and know that you are getting through those miserable treatments and getting stronger! Keep that up!! Your words are always such a welcome sight for us!! Hugs to you and your family!!
Div, - add me to the list wishing you good news!!
Hoping all here are feeling ok and staying safe and warm!
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DiV, I hope you've gotten a good report from the scan. I think of you everyday even if I don't post.
Annie, you and your family are an inspiration.
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Thanks for the encouraging comments, ladies. I hate the idea of not having a yard for the dogs and a garage to keep my certified pre-dented & pre-dinged minivan safe. I've already lost my career, life savings and comfortable retirement to Fibromyalgia so the idea of losing my home, shabby and outdated as it is, is daunting. Hopefully, my fears are overblown and I'll regain my endurance.
DIV, my heart goes out to you facing this difficult surgery. I hope all goes as smoothly as possible.
Lyn
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Annie...it was such a surprise and pleasure to read your post. You have an incredible family because YOU ARE one incredible woman. Wish I had met you at a lovely pub in the country instead of this site. You are in my thoughts and prayers every day. I'm waiting for the day, five years from now when we are ALL here posting about this difficult time. Please stay strong and get better and better. ❤️❤️ Sending a big hug to Mandy
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DIV...you will be in my prayers until you let us know that everything is behind you and you're on your way to recovery. ❤️
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So good to hear from you Annie. Div and VLH know i'm in your pocket and sending prayers your way.
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Hi everyone! Good news! Scan shows tumor still contained. Surgery is March 20th. Thank you all for the prayers and well wishes! I'm so glad I found this site. Everyone has just been amazing.
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So good to hear from you, Annie. You have been missed on this board!
Special hugs to you, DiV. Your strength is amazing.
I guess I consider myself one of the "Oldies" around here. Coming up on 8 years now.
I check in daily and keep everyone of you in my thoughts. Just not posting like I used to. This board was a lifeline for me during treatment and for the years that followed. Not sure what I would have done without all of the great people that come here.
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That is great news, DIV!
Thanks, Valstim52. :-)
Lyn
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DiV, great news for you! You are in my prayers for a successful surgery and recovery.
Anne
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YYEEESSS!!!
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Hi Div
So glad that you can proceed with your surgery. I'm in your pocket. =((((DiV))))
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That's such wonderful news, DiV. ✨🙏🏻✨
NavyMom - Way to go - 8 years - that's Fantasic! Lookingback, what advice could you share with us?
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My advise? Whew, that is a huge question.
Surround yourself with good people and stay away from the ones that are toxic to your health and happiness.
It's Ok to be nervous at times. But don't let it get away from you. And always ask for what you need. If you are not sleeping well, tell your Onc, Get some meds to help you. Whether its nausea, constipation or anxiety, there is something that you can try that just might help make your life better.
Cry when you need to but try to find joy in a least one thing each day. You are stronger than you think.
Gosh I could go on and on...
I think that we could all write a book about our BC adventure....
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I could write a book, but what I did write was blog posts along the way. I've saved them on my computer. But what was more important were the positive and encouraging comments from friends and family. Helped me get through the process.
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Thanks for the update, DIV. I'm glad you got positive news. I've marked March 20th on my calendar to send you especially powerful thoughts that day. I think of you every day.
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NavyMom thanks so much for the advice. Sometimes I really need to focus on what is good. Also to give myself a break.
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Well Ms Cocker. It's absolutely WONDERFUL to hear from you! So glad to hear you're feeling better. Yes, you're going to be with us a long, long time because God doesn't want you yet and the devil's afraid you'll take over. So you're stuck. Also glad you have what seems to be an amazing support system in place as you fight this nasty battle. Comforting for the rest of us who can't be physically there to help. Take care of yourself and let the doctor's do what doctor's do and let's get this nonsense in the rear view mirror!
Much love,
Mike and Kathy
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Annie, the joy you are feeling better shines on and through us all. You made my heart happy with your warm post. Hoping and praying you get stronger and stronger. Sending you my biggest hugs.
SA8 and another, thank you for the well wishes. My wound from the infection had been a real problem, it goes on and on. It is still open. I see the infectious disease specialist tomorrow, hoping he thinks things looks better.
Navy, so glad you posted such bright words of encouragement. Thank you.
Simple, I thought of you in Annie's home country as you shared those beautiful pics on another site! So lovely!
Every one, have a beautiful weekend.
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Dear Ladies,
This is one incredible group of women here! And Yes! Agree that we could all write books about our bc journey. For sure, it has made each of us stronger, more compassionate and loving. Sending love and well wishes to all of you.
Dear Annie, not a surprise that your family is so wonderful - they got their attributes from you and your feller! It makes us all so, so happy to hear that you are getting through this harsh, harsh treatment. You are cherished for a reason dear lady. DiV, what a strong spirit you are too. I admire your attitude and courage more than words can say. Special prayers for you two very special ladies.
Love, Paula
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DiV, thankful you can move forward with your surgery. We are definitely in your pocket on March 20.
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I want to thank all of you for the prayers, well wishes and support. All of you have been great! As surgery day approaches I'm getting more nervous, anxious and scared. I'm going to kick cancers ass and go down in the medical books! I will post as soon as I'm able after surgery.
Meadow I'm praying your infection gets cleared up soon so you can finish your reconstruction and put this all behind you.
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(((DiV))) We'll be thinking of you and praying for you.
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I would be scared and anxious, too, DiV. I look forward to updates on that arse kicking!
Lyn
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DIV...YOU GO GIRL. Will be praying for you.‼️
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I'be been off this thread for a few days, and there's so much to catch up with: it's really great to read so much good news and good advice! I so agree about finding and noticing the joy in each day, something I'm trying harder to do. Special thoughts for DiV, Annie and Meadow you are so inspiring. Even when I don't read or post, I think of you all everyday and send loving kindness to youall. X
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DiV you're in my thoughts and prayers for your upcoming surgery! You're an inspiration for sure and I know you'll do well! Just hang in there and try and relax and enjoy the weekend. I know that's easier said than done but we are all with you. Don't forget!! (((((HUGS))))
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