Bonfire of the Goddesses

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  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited December 2014

    So sorry lucy

    Joan the grandchildren is what it is about ..hope dh is better...

  • gmafoley
    gmafoley Member Posts: 5,978
    edited December 2014

    Lucy - I'm so sorry to hear about your furbaby. Lost my Tigger 2 weeks before my surgery.. She was 15 years old - It helps me to remember they had a great life and will be waiting for us at the Rainbow Bridge! {{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}

  • PoppyK
    PoppyK Member Posts: 1,275
    edited December 2014

    So sorry about your furbaby, Lucy.

    My DH took two of our furbabies to the vet on Friday. They told us it is getting time to put Buddy to sleep. I told them that if he isn't in pain and since he is still alert and active, I don't mind hand feeding him and we won't do it. Also found out Gigi has some sort of growth in her one of her mammaries. Great. It's time like these that I promise to never get another pet.

  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited December 2014

    My nu kitten is tigger

  • joan811
    joan811 Member Posts: 1,981
    edited December 2014

    Lucy, so sorry to hear about your Maltese...always loved those little pups.  It must be hard...
    Your other pup will be lost for awhile.

    Sandy, that's right...when Dh complains that I want to travel all over to see kids who don't come to see us, I tell him it's all about the grandkids.

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646
    edited December 2014

    Joan......guess what.....after the gkids get older and they don't come see you when they all drive.......it hurts even more....and for those you finally begin to are less...sounds awfl I know, but sometims youjust get tired of i.............and mine who are 10 minutes from me.............nothing...........not all but a few

  • Lucy55
    Lucy55 Member Posts: 2,703
    edited December 2014

    G'day Thank you all for your kind words about my beautiful old doggie.. We have been reminiscing.. laughing about all the crazy things she's done over the years.

    Poppy.. It's awful when you get news like that from the vet.. But I agree with you.. If Buddy is alert, and not in pain, it's not time yet.. You will know yourself when it's time..:-(

  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited December 2014

    Lucy so sorry bout ur puppy

    Ducky  u r so right, my grandchildren don't drive, but dont call, say thank u, they watch whst their parents do, how they treat me. Like my dil is all about her family so my gd was the same way, me nothing. She never calls, texts, nothing, she is 16. My gd who is 19 is different,  she talks to me on fb, doesn't have a phone, me either. 

    Hell my kids dont either. Mostly  my son, 

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited December 2014

    well

    I have 3 out of 10 I can count on

    Phone calls,visits the works...just 3


  • joan811
    joan811 Member Posts: 1,981
    edited December 2014


    Ducky, I already practice caring less...I could be offended a dozen times a week if I let myself...
    I have a job to keep me busy even though there are no meaningful relationships there...and even though DH and I have had a roller coaster of a ride for 4 decades, I do have someone in my life who is here for me. 
    I am very sensitive but I stopped crying a few years ago due to meds.  I guess that's good. 
    I learned to change my expectations and it works.

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646
    edited December 2014

    Joan.....your a wise woman.......aways good advice comes from you....maybe that will be my 2015 motto "change my expectatons"........what do you say ladies..........."our new motto at the fire"image

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited December 2014

    hey everyone

    The party is today and tomorrow

    Had a funeral to go to

    Just got in

    Bbl

  • Tomboy
    Tomboy Member Posts: 2,700
    edited December 2014

    ...can't go, trying to PREVENT a funeral

  • Lucy55
    Lucy55 Member Posts: 2,703
    edited December 2014

    Tomboy.. You O.K.?? X


  • gmafoley
    gmafoley Member Posts: 5,978
    edited December 2014

    [[[[[[[[[[Hugs ]]]]]]]]]]] Tomboy.

  • SlowDeepBreaths
    SlowDeepBreaths Member Posts: 6,702
    edited December 2014

    Hang in there my dear Kathe!!

    Good evening Goddesses,

    Once again I am way behind.

    Tonight I'm throwing my extra fat and flab into the fire.

    I wish it were that easy to get rid of!!

  • Tomboy
    Tomboy Member Posts: 2,700
    edited December 2014

    ....thanks Gma and lucy for caring. It is just some family issues that are getting me down... It's just harder somehow, even when they live further away.. too far to take their shoulders and shake em! Or to take them by the hand and walk with them. just trouble.. I talked it over with a good friend and at least i think i can sleep tonight. I hope you are ok Fire, You are sure getting to know a lot of dead people! I am sorry

  • crog234
    crog234 Member Posts: 324
    edited December 2014

    Ducky I like that motto. Now I just need to memorize it and live by it. My feelings get hurt way to easily..

  • gmafoley
    gmafoley Member Posts: 5,978
    edited December 2014

    Ladies, I have to travel up 3.5 hours for a post op visit - they will be removing 30 stitches in my nipple today... We will go have lunch with my kids and grandkids after appt. Then spend the night at my daughter's home. Will be traveling home tomorrow. Kinda feeling like I'm coming down with something today.. hope not. Had enough with the flu and surgery.....

    Have a great New Years Eve Ladies!!!!

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  • crog234
    crog234 Member Posts: 324
    edited December 2014

    Have a safe trip GMA. Hope you are not coming down with anything. Happy New Year to you..

  • joan811
    joan811 Member Posts: 1,981
    edited December 2014

    Gma, beautiful picture for the New Year.

    What a day you have planned. I hope you get a good post op report. Enjoy your visit and pleasd stay well!

    Tombou, sending hugs.

    FK, hugs to you too.

    Ducky, easier said than done! I hope you are having a good trip.

    Hope I make the party!

  • joan811
    joan811 Member Posts: 1,981
    edited December 2014

    Happy New Year Australia & New Zealand!


  • SlowDeepBreaths
    SlowDeepBreaths Member Posts: 6,702
    edited December 2014

    Safe travels GMA!!

    I went to bed in Southern California and woke up in some strange land.

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  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited December 2014

    oh tomboy

    I'm sorry...

    The party is all day on both threads

    Just drop by anytime

    See im here

    Burning the same crap I burn all the time

    The DIL from hell

    Bbl

  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited December 2014

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  • SlowDeepBreaths
    SlowDeepBreaths Member Posts: 6,702
    edited December 2014

    I love that blondie!!

    I couldn't have said that better myself.

    Group hug!!!

  • badger
    badger Member Posts: 24,938
    edited December 2014

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  • Lucy55
    Lucy55 Member Posts: 2,703
    edited December 2014

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  • SlowDeepBreaths
    SlowDeepBreaths Member Posts: 6,702
    edited December 2014

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  • Tomboy
    Tomboy Member Posts: 2,700
    edited December 2014

    Where do you guys get those things! man! i can feel thoth hugs from here! Blondie, that was beatiful, and i feel the same way....

    SQUUUUEEEEEEEEEEZZZZZ!!!!!