Not quite a horder - decluttering

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  • OncoWarrior
    OncoWarrior Member Posts: 3,326
    edited May 2015

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  • wren44
    wren44 Member Posts: 7,967
    edited March 2014

    I've got a lot of things ready to go out, but our garbage can is so small it's going to take forever. We would take a load to the dump, but it's closed for renovation. The other one is miles away across town in an unfamiliar and confusing neighborhood (whine). We have a number of rugs with the backing wearing off. They would be great for cat use except the backing stops up the washer and drain.

  • FierceBluebird
    FierceBluebird Member Posts: 463
    edited March 2014

    I'm sorry to laugh but the idea of a dump being closed for renovation cracked me up!

  • OncoWarrior
    OncoWarrior Member Posts: 3,326
    edited May 2015

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  • Sierra
    Sierra Member Posts: 180
    edited March 2014


    Hi Teka:

    I havent posted here inages

    long time survivor, but loved ur March welcome

    and kitty kat.. Im having to downsize in a small apt I also have a kitty kat

    and need to be stricter about it so will read some of your tips here

    Sierra :)

     

     

  • Sierra
    Sierra Member Posts: 180
    edited March 2014


    tksTeka  Ive stayed off for a bit

    but am in contact with ladies from way back you know

    so nice to touch base, and boy does time fly?  Yes ill come and read and try to contribute

    in future  :)

    Sierra ;)

    it isv. hard to let things go  ie i have a china cabinet dont use l/2 the stuff ini  t

    but yet wont let it go.. wish the dust would go thought OL

  • mandy1313
    mandy1313 Member Posts: 978
    edited March 2014

    Sierra, it is hard to let the stuff go. Sometimes you might be able to give things to someone that you know and feel good about that.  Or sometimes you can give them to a charity.  I have started to give away alot of my porcelain pieces as extra gifts...so if you don't use the stuff, perhaps you can give them to people who would love them.  

    I am also moving and have simply inherited too much stuff. It is not "junk"; in fact some of it may even be valuable.  But I just have too much.  Right now I am trying to give it away, piece by piece.  If I was better organized, I might try to sell it on ebay.  

    Hugs to all.

  • Sierra
    Sierra Member Posts: 180
    edited March 2014

    Hi Mandy: tks for your tips. Ive given some to the church, the community centres

    and friends, nice pieces but they just sit , bit by bit I shall do this

    best to you on your endeavours

    the more we have

    the more we have to take care of

    my motto :) Sierra

  • OncoWarrior
    OncoWarrior Member Posts: 3,326
    edited May 2015
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  • mandy1313
    mandy1313 Member Posts: 978
    edited March 2014

    For me this is brave--I took a computer printer that still works and just put it in front of my house.  It is a sunny day and I hope that someone picks it up.  My local thrift shop does not accept computer printers, computers, etc.    So if no one takes, it, I will have to brave throwing it out.  My mother was very thrifty which is part of my problem in throwing things out--goes against my upbringing.  But yay--one less thing in my house. 

  • curveball
    curveball Member Posts: 1,583
    edited March 2014

    @Mandy 1313, did you put a sign on the printer that says it works and it's free for the taking? People might be nervous about taking it unless it is clear you want to give it away.

  • OncoWarrior
    OncoWarrior Member Posts: 3,326
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  • mandy1313
    mandy1313 Member Posts: 978
    edited March 2014

    On my block things disappear quickly if the weather is good. Yes, I put a sign that it works and it is free.  I live right down town and on "trash day" people come by looking.

  • Sierra
    Sierra Member Posts: 180
    edited March 2014

    Hi Oncowarrior:  great name :)

    yes, anything with a price tag on it right

    o/t  they say you should never give animals away free

    though i guess it depends in my bldg it is gone in 2 minutes LOL

    im working on decluttering this week

    now to get rid of some of the silver it is not real

    but it is very pretty i cant use.. too heavey for my hands

    Sierra :)

  • patoo
    patoo Member Posts: 5,243
    edited March 2014

    Hi all, I haven't been here in ages but plan on moving later this year so need to start letting go of stuff before I list the place for sale.

    I have sold some small items on eBay over the years.  I only list stuff easy to pack and ship and things that may not have 30 million other sellers listing the same item.  I don't price them high either since it's sell for at least a small sum or give away for nothing.  So now, anything I get around to listing, if it doesn't sell I heard of a lady who does semi-annual garage sale where all proceeds go to a charity so I will set aside for her.

    I also get rid of things by posting for free on www.freecycle.org.  That has worked well for some larger household items (microwave cart, shelves) where I just have to leave it out for whoever says they will pick up.

    So I need to start coming here at least weekly to be accountable and get this done. 

  • OncoWarrior
    OncoWarrior Member Posts: 3,326
    edited March 2014

    Teka, NerdyThumbsUp

    moo

  • Gingerbrew
    Gingerbrew Member Posts: 1,997
    edited March 2014

    SingingPerfect timing Teka! 

  • Smilemaker
    Smilemaker Member Posts: 20
    edited March 2014

    Teka, Too funny. Think that could be me. 

  • BUNKIE10
    BUNKIE10 Member Posts: 670
    edited March 2014

    Teka - I wish I had some hair on my legs....cute.

    Well it is time to start to declutter again. My house is about 60% free at this point. My mild OCD keeps things organized BUT I still have too much stuff. That basement is still full of extra kitchen stuff and things I need to go through. Too many plastic bins. I still have 1 big box that was my moms with little cups and saucers and stuff. Probably not worth much but need to have it looked at before I donate. I have to face facts. I am 61 not 41. If I do not use most of my stuff now....when? My Dr in Beverly Hills used to say "You spend the first 60 years years buying all this stuff and spend the next 20 getting rid of it all". If I am going to get down to a 1,000 - 1200 sq ft place I have got to get busy. I am at 1600 right now and that is not big really but too many hiding spaces. Espacially that basement. Before I can sell I have to have someone go up in my attic crawl space and see what is up there. Hopefully nothing living...like birds and bats.

  • mandy1313
    mandy1313 Member Posts: 978
    edited March 2014

    Hi Bunkie!

    One thing I am in the process of doing is using the "good" stuff every day.  So we eat with sterling silver cutlery instead of the every day stuff.  And as soon as I can change around my dish closets, the good dishes will be the every day ones.  One day I started to wonder, why am I saving this stuff---and I polished the silver and moved it into the kitchen.  So it might be a way to use some things like your mother's cups and to enjoy them.

    Hugs to all.

    Mandy

  • mandy1313
    mandy1313 Member Posts: 978
    edited March 2014

    Spent a couple of hours today going through stuff--have four trash bags of stuff that is actually trash; one box of stuff for charity; and gave a magazine rack to the friend who helped me...so making a small dent in my never-ending stuff. :-)

  • OncoWarrior
    OncoWarrior Member Posts: 3,326
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  • mandy1313
    mandy1313 Member Posts: 978
    edited March 2014

    Onco Warrier, glad you liked the  idea.  It is nice using the pretty things we have.  And why save them forever and a day.  Enjoy!!!! :-)

  • OncoWarrior
    OncoWarrior Member Posts: 3,326
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  • blessings2011
    blessings2011 Member Posts: 1,801
    edited March 2014

    Last year, I started getting nervous about the amount of charitable deductions we took on our taxes, so as we packed up stuff to take to the hospice thrift store or Goodwill, I took pictures of EVERYTHING... just in case we were ever audited.

    I didn't think too much about that until this morning, when DH and I attempted to start our taxes. I realized I hadn't filed any of the scribbled lists I'd made of things we donated, nor could I find them anywhere. ARGHHH! 

    So I went through all my pics for 2013 and printed up all the ones of donated stuff.

    OMG!!!!! I am stunned - and proud of myself - at how much we got rid of!!!

    Not looking forward to inputting everything in individually (Turbo Tax) but I know it will help financially as well as mentally!!!

  • mandy1313
    mandy1313 Member Posts: 978
    edited March 2014

    Great idea to take photos. You can't be challenged in an audit that way--much better than just having a list.

  • BUNKIE10
    BUNKIE10 Member Posts: 670
    edited March 2014

    Mandy - I have some good flatwear too and my everyday is getting ratty. I think I will pull out the good stuff this weekend.

  • OncoWarrior
    OncoWarrior Member Posts: 3,326
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  • wren44
    wren44 Member Posts: 7,967
    edited March 2014

    Onco, You have to kitten proof just like you baby proof. I came home one night to find bits of white stuff all over the kitchen. They had torn off the flannel backing for the plastic tablecloth. And they're famous for jumping on piles that slide.

  • wren44
    wren44 Member Posts: 7,967
    edited March 2014

    Teka, One of our foster cats kept jumping in the tub after we showered. He kept it up until we discovered he wanted the water turned on for a drink. We never could teach him to turn it off when he was done.