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Okay! The Columbia it is.... So you are sending Spookie, and you are not coming? Or did I read that wrong? She has her own wheels! Damn, that dog is GOOD! You know I always wanted to get a stroller for Lacee, especially as she got older, but ...... oh well.... She looks most DAHling!
Yes little Cammi...! But you can come too, if you want to! With Joey, and KatieKat! That would be sooooo much fun! Sheri can bring Penny if she wants too! She is a little dog, that she got a few months ago... Some sort of mix, but little!
Shorts in November! Hah! I don't wear them in JULY! I have the ones I wear on the pole, but they are put away for the Winter. It is 52 degrees out right now... !
Geez Lilpaws! You are stiffer than a board! Is there anything you can do for that, like I mean to become more flexible.... like I am?
I just tried to do that.... and yes I could, but maybe I can't do some things YOU can, so focus on what you can do, and take pictures, and make us all jealous.
You would only need to do that if someone ties your wrists together, and is hanging you from a mast-head or something. So no, you don't need to worry about that one.
This was in my In box... and I throught it was interesting... My Dad was in WW2...
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gm ladies.
Have had my lil sis and her family in visiting so no time to post. They go home Monday. I have, of course , been reading all of y'all's comments everyday because I know by mon I might be 50 paged behind. Lol besides I love to hear what y'all are up to.
Hootie hoo
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Hi ladies, hope you're all well
Sass here is what wheeptmom said regarding my pm to her.
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You go girl!!! What great photos! Especially the last one! I am so happy for you!
I think that this answers so many questions for me about PMPS. I have always felt that it has something to do with the dissection of the pocket and the placement of the implants in the pockets. I wish you would tell your PS about the before and after sensory changes...and ask him if there was anything he found during surgery that could explain your prior discomfort.
Now you can get on with your happy life!!!
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Enerva whats PMPS? Deborah's sucj(h0 a sweetheartr(sweetheart)
. Typing sideways doesn't work that well
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Permanent mastectomy pain síndrome. There is a tread here on it and lots of great info.
Yes I love wheeptmom
we are amazed by change I am experiencing after my revision surgery.LADIES are you ready to see my new baby!!!!!
Here she is
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Whoa that a nice one. Just for beautiful boobs Enerva. I'm so glad u'r up for it all. Good for you.
Paw I can't do that either so like Chevy said we'd better not get kidnapped by pirates or the like or we're in trouble. BTW I could do it before all this and I exercise stretches for over 2 years and I still can't do it. So u see Chevy that's why I don't pole dance. My one arm just can't get anywhere and after surgery I did what I was told to do in a timely manner--Uhg that did chit I guess--So I kind of stopped with that arm it only goes so far and what do I need to stretch it for, I put my food in front of me--not where I can't reach it--like I should.
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Cammi, whatever you just said, okay. What did you just say? I can't do the splits anymore..... except when I have to..... but I don't worry about it. Our arms, and their mobility are not actually too very importantly, at this moment.
So don't worry about getting hand-cuffed, say to the top of the bed..... just go with it. It might loosen you up a bit.
Enerva! You little Tart you! How exCITing! I LOVE it! Just put on one of those cute little crochet tops, and go sashaying down the road! We will all be jealous!
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ha ha ha I can't ride yet I went to see her, and it was love at first sight lol got the guy to ride it and drop it off and she is sitting in my underground waiting for me to be ready. I am so excited I can hardly wait, if I am lucky I should be able to ride before the season ends. That will mean full gear cuz old winter will be sending his friend cold wind my way. Maybe next season I will wear of of my tops lol
I am so happy I got her. It's an old bike but price was good and I will take good care of her.
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Okay.... you go ride your bike, and I will get another used car..... Ha! Ya wanna race? Yes, that bike is most DAHling~ !
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lol here is she at my underground
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Brave woman!!!!!
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Okay little smarty pants! I am so happy you are doing well enough to even THINK about riding that little Gem!
Just don't get on it, until you can pick it up, in case it falls over.... My Husbands fell against him and our fence one time, and it was sooooooo heavy, I didn't think he could get it off of him! He finally sold it... But it was a HUGE Kawasaki something or other!
I love the color! Don't go out at night.... And don't go on highways..... just do little trips like to Walmart.... Burger King..... things like that.
You know, one time last month, we went up to Black-hawk to gamble.... and we saw all these flashing lights ahead of us....
At an intersection, some AH rear-ended this Harley, and as the guy went down, his GUN in his shoulder holster shot him! So he was having a BAD day! I mean it isn't enough to get rear-ended, and dump his bike, but he shot himself! DAMN!
That guy took off, but they later tracked him down in his stolen car.... the Casino's had all kinds of camera's going, so they were all over him! I don't know what happened to either one of them..... The Biker had traveled from NJ to Colorado, and was carrying a gun, for self protection, which I think he SHOULD have.... but what a freaky thing to happen.
I'm just a worry-wart.... but only tell me, when you get on that thing, and get home safely..... Ha!
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Chevy I promise I will let you know when I ride, plus I never ride alone ibbelong to group off riders called Rolling Thunder motorcycle club up north in Barrie Ontario and it's a big group of bikers so they look after each other lol I also took many courses in order to get my full license so defensif driving, I know it's very dangerous but I don't go speeding I don't do crazy 😜 stuff I am extra careful .I also know that it's not always enough cuz been on a bike means been at way higher risk but I also know I enjoy it and I now more than ever want to enjoy what Ever life has to offer cuz i can't be bother with What if lol
I will be extra careful
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My 2 cents. I had a MC license for years. I also drove a school bus for years. Think about that. Those suckers are BIG and ugly. People would hit them, mine too, and say they didn't see it. So if the dummies CANT see a school bus, what chance do you have on a bike? Gave up my MC license.
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Enerva that's u, u are so beautiful u'll really be HOT on that bike. I had a friend in a MC club until she was almost 60 and they all traveled so much and she enjoyed it for alot of years. I think they sold their bikes when they retired hahaha--but that one looks brand new and it's not? I love the color especially. Yea I think u'r winter comes at any time where u live so it might have to wait, but u can visit it a lot until u'r ready. U know what u'r doing on the bike otherwise u wouldn't have bout it, Oh I just remembered when I worked at Titles and Reg. at the state I was playing cashier one day and there was a huge line for stickers and in this line was a huge man--tsll and big---with all these tattoos and really looked scary well when it came time to come up , he came to my window to renew hi MC sticker and he paid by check--I looked at the check and it was with Barbies on it--I looked at him and started LOLing and he said --I know my wife wanted these and won't let me get any other ones--he was adorable. And he started LOLing too. It just goes to show u how u look st people cuz the month of March all the MC stickers were due and they'd all come in and they were all so sweet and fun and never complained about the wait or anything. So God speed little one and enjoy u'r "bike" MUAH
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Thanks Cami, lol yes I did take two courses and I am way more confident now. Sobresitos she looks hot and she is a 2000 how about that so is a Suzuki sv650 year 2000 she had 5 previous owners and 34,840 km lol you see she is not young lol I am now 41 so I am not young either but I will treasure her
When I finished chemo I sold my 2011 Honda Cbr250 cuz the pain, I thought I was never going to be able to ride again. But now this new surgery has been great I was telling wheeptmom how the burning went away and I only have pain in the incisions area which should go away so I thought about it and started looking. Saw this bike and just loved her looks, when and saw review on YouTube and then emailed the guy to go have a look at her and sit on it to check if it could be right size for me. When I saw her in person I fall for her lol here is my old bike before bc.
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Hello to all, I have enjoyed all the banter & friendships this thread has produced.....
Sas, thanks for the PM, nice to have you check in with me. DH is much improved, only has 3 more days of IV antibiotics. Swelling is down, he is feeling so much better.
Spookie, Chevster & Sas, if I had some magical sky miles, to fly for free, I would be on the plane to meet you all in Celebration...( is that the name of the place? ). It would be a blast to hang with you for the afternoon. Sadly, no free tickets... We will need photos.
Chevster, a airy skirt, you know hippie style, would be perfect. Tie dyed t-shirt, fancy flip flops. Maybe some hair extensions in pink.... You could rock that look...your poor daughter would need a Valium, maybe DH also....hehehe....
Envera, I looked up info on your motorcycle club. Sounds like a very worthy, honorable group. Your new bike is awesome.....you look fabulous on it. Stay safe, please....
Hootie Hoo Patty Pepper....I hope your not too worn out from company. House guests stress me out. I wish I could relax & enjoy having overnight guests, trying to get better about it.
Paw, chit girl, frozen shoulder joints? You are a mess! I had minor frozen shoulder joint after my shoulder surgery. Physical therapy took care of it, but if I put my arms through total range of motion, they both hurt immediately. Hell to get old. I hope the new Dr. can help with the iron problem.
Cami, seems like you are on a holiday from family all nighters. I had layovers in O'Hare on both flights, thought of you....
So, I was actually able to read a book ( yes, the whole damn thing ) on my trip. This was a big deal, because I have not been able to focus since dx, long enough to stick with a book. Also, having no house stuff & cooking lends to more down time. In DC I did not go out after dark. NYC we ate dinner at 11:00 at night...I read the Glass Castle. Has anyone else read it?
So, everyone, will most, are in bed....BUT today is.......a special day....
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Awwww thanks Hole. Wish you could too. It's gonna be fur!!!!! If Chevy doesn't melt into a puddle with those pants on!!!!
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hole, every day is ice cream day! Haven't had any yet.
Enerva, your bike is sweet. Just be careful, there's lots of idiots on the road. I checked the pmps thread. I don't think that's what I have/hurt. It doesn't seem that bad. Did your pain start right after the bmx? Mine has only been the last couple months. I'm pretty sure part of it is the weight lost. I started wearing a bra about a month ago. It's help in the upper poles where I could feel the stretching, but now it's hurts in the armpits if I wear the bra more than 5 hours or so. The 3rd PS said he thinks it's the way the implants are attached. I didn't think implants attached to anything, just sat in the pocket. Sass, do you know? I haven't watched a surgery but I will if it helps my understanding of what's going on. I see the 2nd PS on the 16 to see what she will do and not do, then I have to decide to stay or change ins.
Hope everyone is having a good weekend.
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Hole, I did pick up a book from the library today. My book club is reading The Magician's Assistant this month. It's a little late about the coffee ice cream tho. I would have celebrated if I'd known earlier.
Smaarty, Did someone fit you with that bra? You do need to make sure it's not up in your armpit, especially if nodes were removed. I just bought my second Genii bra.
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smarty well after my mx I had pain but it went away. Then after my exchange it just became brutal specially cuz there was burning and pain that did not go away so whippetmom thought maybe I had PMPS and I was sent to check that tread I was convinced I had it, now after this ps took those dame implants out and work on the pockets again to fit new rounds implants all my problems went away I am dealing with pain but only on the incisions which most likely should improve soon. It's better every day less, I am now taking only Tylenol imagine after 8 months of perkoset I now take regular Tylenol and it's been 10 days since my surgery
So that's why whippetmom and I are intrigued thinking there must have been something done way wrong by previous ps and this one was able to correct it. I will interrogate him this Tuesday when I see him
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wren, I went to Norhstrom and was fitted. I don't wear that one, it's not comfortable at all. Seemed ok at the store.
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Checking u all have been busy,
Enerva, so excited 4 u, love the old one also
Xoxox to all of u sorry no individual responses, plz forgive me
Happy sunday
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lol 2nd and Blondy I guess here we are again lol 3:05 am and I am still awake so turning phone off now
Good night
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Well good morning girls! Cammi!!! I was at Starbucks yesterday, walking around the mall, and... wait..... I was walking around the mall, and happened to stop at Starbucks, and look what I SAW! Hah! Stopped in my tracks and thought of you! To me it says Katie-Kat... so just thought you would feel honored that a coffee blend was named after your cat!....(See, before, it sounded like Starbucks was "walking around the mall" and I had to stop in my tracks, and correct that bad grammar.)
222222222222! That was so funny! Hah!
Enerva, it is gals like you that give the REST of us here, "HOPE" that they don't have to go through life, with pain, and feeling so bad, and with implants that just don't look right! I'm so glad you researched it all, and came up with a "team" and the incentive to go through with yet another surgery to correct the damage done the first time! So I wish I could give you a hug.... Yes, you ROCK little Enerva!!!! clap-clap!!!!!
Smarty, we are with you kid.... You are doing all you can to find out what is wrong! There will be an answer.... and I just know it. Just keep on keepin on, until you are able to live without pain, and get things done right! Maybe the new Doc will come up with an answer? Just sit down and think about it.... Then take all your notes and questions with you, and see what this one says... Get that insurance figured out...
GOD, I have to go tomorrow to the tax people, and get that slight $7000 IRS bill figured out! I know it is wrong, but it makes my stomach drop everytime I think about it!
Okay now Spookie, you are going to scare little Enerva, if I haven't already! See, as we get ancient, I mean older, we tend to frown on those carryings on, that we used to do, so Spookie is just being a little worriesome with her .... um ...... words. SHE don't get on no damn bike, so she will, of course of course, frown when young cute things want to do that very thing SHE used to do! I think she was pretty wild if you ask me..... but that's another story....
See Spookie? Enerva DID have long blonde hair blowing in the wind.... like that SONG! Neil Young! So she is sowing her wild oats.... not on the pole, but on her bike. We have to encourage her, and say "You GO girl! Ride with the wind!"
And WTH? People don't wear pants there? You probably don't even HAVE any! I have some Capri's.... maybe I'll look THEM up...
But HIO, I CAN'T wear no damn skirt! I SEE them, and think they are cute, but they get so tangled up on that pole.... you see? Besides I am only 4 feet tall, and I just hate hemming those things! And when I stand over those air grates on the sidewalk, that skirt keeps blowing up, and I can't bring myself to move ON!
So morning Wren, and Blondie! Cammi! That story was funny.... Oh it's just hard to believe you busted out laughing.... Ha! Are you kidding? We are laughing from the time we get up, until someone hits us over the head to shut up!
And I'm wearin' my PANTS, Dangit!
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZRvdv158KvI
For you, little Enerva!
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OH Good Morning Owlettes, Another Beautiful Day. It will likely rain all day on and off. Poor Shats will spend most of the day in the closet... Donnie is trying to take pics with his new phone of the pool enclosure. I'm changing my mind already. Have NO idea what it will end up being LOL The trelises are practical. Once up, no fuss . The curtains will need fussing all the time. Plus, the curtains are WHiTE OH SO WHITE. The enclosure is 22 y/o white. Bronze/brown enclosures are most common in Florida. I was entranced with the one white enclosure, I saw when we had ours built. No one told me how much work it was to keep the white ones clean. Cleaning twice a year.
The trelises would be cut into an arch. It's doable with Donnie. He can do anything. The one wall is just very nice already.
If we had a blow I would have to take curtains down. That means a ladder. Ladder means climbing. Not sure that's a smart thing at my age. There's a part of my mind, my angel, started off very mild, but is rapidly getting more insistant on being practical. This morning my angel is starting to yell at me, "Are you F***king crazy". So we will see. A new design is gelling.
I can do split screen now with the windows 8. Two windows open at the same time side by side. Yay.
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And one for all the rest of us.... I would just love to wake DH up, and tell him "Let's dance" and put this song on....
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Enerva, You Rock! Following your dream YAY! Keep us updated on the foobs. Very, very intriguing on the change in symptoms. So happy that it got better versus now being a problem.
Smarrty (and Enerva). My pain never went away until this spring--five years. The first year was a nightmare. Retrospectively, not sure how I survived it. Second year was better b/c I was on daily pain meds. Heavy duty. The Iron Bra pain lasted about four years, but each year was less. Went off the daily pain meds after the third(?) year. The armpit pain (drain pocket location) didn't go away until this summer. Have no idea why all the problems. The doc put on the implant card that he used 850cc. But who knows. I'm bigger than I ought to be, but not as big as you all.
The armpit pain. I referred above to the drain pocket location. When they put the drains in they make a pocket. To do that, they separate the tissue in the axilla and the upper arm. This area b/c of all the lymph nodes, lymph vessels, blood vessels, and nerves, can be really unhappy with all of the tissue disruption. It's like trying to build a highway in the middle of a city. In that analogy think of all the buildings that are moved and roads disrupted. Debris that has to be cleaned up. The city is disrupted for a very long time. I've not made that analogy before, but it's a very good one.
Smarrty, with your redo, I think I would find out what happened to Enerva's surgeries. Even try to get her doc to talk to your doc. Enerva's description is absolutely unusual. If I were in a "do or redo" situation, I would definitely want whatever she got.
Smarty, if I were a writer, I would consider that Enerva's experience was so unusual that it was worth trying to get something published.
RE; question of attachment --don't know, but whippettmom would
Hows the swimming going? I'm between 30-40 laps(900 to 1400 ft). Feeling very good. Doing a world of good. Going to tell the PCP she can take the pain meds off the med list. Haven't used them much for awhile. Had them left there as my safety net. Big move to have then removed.
BTW every pound you lost, it found it's way to me. But i think it's stopped LOL
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