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Between the Devil ( the red one) and the deep blue sea

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  • chabba
    chabba Member Posts: 3,600

    Devastating news even though expected.  I wish her peace and will be thinking of her joyous Reunion with our Lord and her loved ones who have gone before her. Praying for peace and comfort for all of her friends and family left behind.

  • QCA
    QCA Member Posts: 1,150

    Marybe, you were our sunshine.  Thank you for giving us your friendship and your precious love.

    We will always remember you, our dear angel.

    Kathy

  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 15,711

    I loved those pictures---still in shock

    MAR --I think we have all done the same thing and she's gone --this is so sad and I never met Marybe in person and yet it's so so sad. I enjoyed her up personality and her posts and just her.

  • lanagraves
    lanagraves Member Posts: 40

    Such a sad day. Marybe was one of the first people who contacted me when I was so devastated just after I was dx'd. I was so praying she would find her miracle. Heartbreaking news.

  • chele
    chele Member Posts: 132

    I was soooo praying for a miracle.  I'll miss you Marybe.  Peace be with you.

  • itsjustme10
    itsjustme10 Member Posts: 64

    I'm sorry.  May she rest in peace, and may her family and friends be comforted by wonderful memories.

  • Moiralf
    Moiralf Member Posts: 119

    Heartbroken but not defeated by this news. She was just such an inspiration. 

    So very kind and caring, never negative, always looking forward.

    She will be so dearly missed.

    Blessings and prayers to her family at this time.

    Moira 

  • heartnsoul76
    heartnsoul76 Member Posts: 1,204

    This is heartbreaking news.... I was so hoping for a miracle.... 

    I will miss her smiling face and wonderful posts on these boards, but I know she has gone on to a better place, that she is in no pain and that she is surrounded by her loved ones that have passed before her.  Rest in peace, our dear angel Marybe.

    Barb, thank you so much for being there and putting our hearts at ease by expressing our words to Marybe when we couldn't.  This is so hard, bless you for being such a good friend to Marybe, and to all of us.

  • Marybe



    Rest forever in his loving arms. What a truly wonderful person! You were so kind to me when I first joined. I have not been on these boards for months and for some reason felt like connecting with folks today. I am sorry that I lost the opportunity to say goodbye. I so wanted you to win that contest.



    Tim my deepest sympathy



    Barbara thanks so much for being with Marybe at the end. I am sure you were the comfort she needed



    Liz



















  • usafmom
    usafmom Member Posts: 100

    I have no words...rest precious sister! Comfort now to her family and Barbara!

  • Angelfalls
    Angelfalls Member Posts: 83

    I just always thought that Marybe would be the one to beat the odds and she did for so long. I'm so, so sorry it had to end this way. Wishing comfort and strength to all who knew and loved her. Rest in peace, Marybe.



    Cancer really is a b**ch.

  • cmbear
    cmbear Member Posts: 674

    Another bright star is added to the heavens to watch over us. Wish nothing but peace to Tim and the rest of Marybe's family.

  • Naniam
    Naniam Member Posts: 586

    Just got home from my chemo and saw the news; I started my day saying good morning to Marye and Barbara and I was off to chemo.   Marybe didn't let chemo slow her down one bit.  She welcomed me, answered lots of questions and was a special lady.  This news is never easy when it is expected but less so when things happen so fast. 

    Love, Peace and strength to Marybe's family and friends.  Barbara glad you got to be with Marybe; know this is a very hard day for you

    I will miss her smile, her humor, her strength and encouragment.  We'll see you again Marybe. 

  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 47,693

    With deep sorrow....

  • lilylady
    lilylady Member Posts: 478

     The outpouring of love for Marybe says it all. There just wasn't anyone else like her. Her wisdom and wit gave so many of us a boost when we needed it most. I always checked her thread first thing when I logged on...

     So many good sisters waiting to welcome her home.

  • HLB
    HLB Member Posts: 740

    Goodbye Marybe. Rest In Peace. :'(

  • ibcmets
    ibcmets Member Posts: 312

    What a great loss to so many people.  Sending blessings and comfort to her family.  Thank you Barb for being there.  Would love to shower Marybe with flowers from bco friends at her service.  We may be able to get a local florist to create a beautiful basket of her favorite flowers from bco.  We did this for Reesie, we were able to call into the florist and add a flower from people around the world.

    God Bless you Marybe. 

    Terri

  • marie5890
    marie5890 Member Posts: 111

    :'(

  • barsco1963
    barsco1963 Member Posts: 879

    Rest in peace sweet Marybe. Thank you for all that you gave us here at bco. We will never forget your strength, determination and kindness (and cookies!). You will remain forever in our hearts.

  • marlegal
    marlegal Member Posts: 1,482

    Terri, wonderful idea about the flowers ... I'm sure Barbara will post the funeral details once known, and then we can try to locate a local florist. Calling the funeral home always is the first place I start, since obviously they get deliveries all the time. The picture of the bouquet we sent to Reesie is something that brings me great peace. We've done for several other sisters over the years, and the flower shop workers are always blown away. I'll watch for more details and help locate a florist if that seems appropriate at the time.

  • tlangston07
    tlangston07 Member Posts: 81

    I have heard when someone passes on that their light burns out but Marybe's light will continue to shine on all who knew her. She was such a blessing to so many and touched all of our lives in one way or another. May we find comfort in her strength and determination. After I read the post of her passing I was on my way home and noticed a flock of geese in formation all flying together and I had to smile thinking of her. Prayers to her family and friends as they continue their journey.Thanks to everyone for the updates and pictures.

    Fly with the Angels, Marybe!

    Terry

  • LuvRVing
    LuvRVing Member Posts: 2,409

    I am so sad... 

    Donations to BCO would seem to be a fitting tribute, although I love the flower idea mentioned by Terri.

  • omaz
    omaz Member Posts: 4,218

    Marybe shared so much and was always so honest, I feel that I learned a lot from her.  I am sad at her passing.

  • didel
    didel Member Posts: 733

    My heart goes out to all those that knew her and loved her and my deepest condolences to those that were especially close and her family.

    I have read every post in the last few days and am so amazed at all the love and support she received from so many. You all are very special and I am sure she felt your love.

    Hugs to all

    Diane

  • leggo
    leggo Member Posts: 379

    Barbara, I am so sorry for the loss of your dear friend. How lucky she was to have someone like you in her life.

    My deepest sympathy to all who loved her.

  • profbee
    profbee Member Posts: 305

    Thank you, Marybe, for being at the other end of this little box during some of my toughest times.  I really hope you know what a star you are!  Warm thoughts to Mary's friends and family.  

  • LoriKnous
    LoriKnous Member Posts: 23

    Cry So sorry to hear this news. May you all hold dear her thoughts, words and your precious times together.

  • kira1234
    kira1234 Member Posts: 754

    My heart breaks. My prayers are being lifted up for the family.

  • nancyd
    nancyd Member Posts: 557

    As the years go by, and we lose more and more sisters, it always hurts no matter who it is. But Marybe reached out to SO MANY sisters; answering the frantic, worried questions of women from lower stages (along with chrissyb, "Thank-you").



    We will remember you to our dying day.

  • moderators
    moderators Posts: 8,637

    We will miss you, Marybe. Our warmest sympathies to her family. 

    ((((((to all of you who loved her))))))))