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I look for other flat chested women. A rant.

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  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027

    Oh crap, Chloesmom, so sorry that happened to you, but good thing you were in the Hospital! Take it easy!

  • feelingfeline
    feelingfeline Member Posts: 5,145

    Chloesmom so sorry to hear of that trauma.

    BTW top tip for having drain removed:

    Deep breath in, then long exhale when it comes out. Really makes it easier.

    If your medic does not suggest this to you make sure to ask them to do it on the exhale.

    XXX

  • eym266
    eym266 Member Posts: 2

    I am very flat chested, and I am so not use to this.  I am currently awaiting for my prosthesis.  

  • feelingfeline
    feelingfeline Member Posts: 5,145

    eym hope you get some lovely ones and a really nice fitter. They certainly can enhace some outfits Smile. Best wishes to you.

  • ndgirl
    ndgirl Member Posts: 950

    Chloesmom, glad to hear you are through surgery, sorry about the bump in road, but sounds like you got it under control in a hurry. Good luck, you will do fine, these boards are a wealth of information! Take care, sending some gentle hugs to you.

  • Nel
    Nel Member Posts: 597


    Chloesmom, sorry for the speed bump and let's hope for no more.

    Mags - I am in my recliner this AM, laptop, pup by my side, coffee and Andrea Bocelli (sp) holiday album.  Great way to spend the AM.

  • feelingfeline
    feelingfeline Member Posts: 5,145

    Oh Nel that sounds nice Smile

  • daisylover
    daisylover Member Posts: 173

    Chloesmom, glad to see you posting, sorry about the drain, hoping that it all drains efficiently now!

    I do need to thank BC for my recliner. I have to go shopping today, then dinner out, and exercise... but I plan to join the group relaxing in the recliner tomorrow (after picking a tree).

    Nel, thanks for the music tip - beautiful...

  • glennie19
    glennie19 Member Posts: 4,833

    Chloesmom:  good thing you spent the night at the hospital!  Glad that was taken care of promptly.  Now a smooth road towards healing.

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    OncoWarrior Member Posts: 3,326
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  • magdalene51
    magdalene51 Member Posts: 2,062


    Wow! I missed a bunch! Chloesmom, good to know you're in a place they're taking care of you.

    What music? I have a very eclectic collection of music, from 60's folk music to jazz to classical and opera. I have a special weakness for Chopin, it's my go-to music if I am stressed. Nocturnes could play all the time in my ideal world. But here's what I've been listening to lately:

    Piano Concerto No. 2, opus 21



  • daisylover
    daisylover Member Posts: 173

    I had one drain that was slow... Chloesmom, have they told/shown you how to strip the drain pinching a small alcohol wipe around the tube? It made it much more efficient for me. I do not like the "milking" image! (I actually tried to disassociate the drains from my breasts/lack thereof - I do not deal well with blood etc... clearly, I am getting better about that out of necessity).

    Mags, is your collection CD, IPOD, or do you listen on computer? I don't listen to much right now, but I am trying to change that. I made note of your selections.Thanks! Nel was listening to Andrea Bocelli (sp) holiday album - I googled. I need music for decorating :)

  • Chloesmom
    Chloesmom Member Posts: 626

    Had a clotting hematoma near my sternum it spread all the way to under arm

  • Chloesmom
    Chloesmom Member Posts: 626

    Hope to go home tonite if it continues to run well. No pain with Tylenol. So happy mentally about this !

    The BC used super glue. No bandages the incisions are so neat. So glad he listened to my wishes

  • glennie19
    glennie19 Member Posts: 4,833


    hi Chloesmom,,,, hope the hematoma resolves quickly and you get to go home.  and YAY for the surgeon listening to you !!!

  • OncoWarrior
    OncoWarrior Member Posts: 3,326
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  • wren44
    wren44 Member Posts: 7,931

    Yeah, they used the glue for my re-excision because the tape made me break out. It was still there when they did the mx. It's not bad looking tho. Wonder if you could draw on it with a sharpie.

  • magdalene51
    magdalene51 Member Posts: 2,062

    Lol re: the glue. Nearly seven months later I am still picking bits of glue from incision.

    Daisy, I have nearly 2000 songs on my iPad, somewhat less on my iPhone and lots more on the computer. I also have an iPod that I use when I want to play it loud, as I have a couple of speaker sets that take an iPod. When the iPhone & iPad went to lightning connectors, it messed us up as we had so many of the others. I mostly listen on my iPhone, but for some reason I don't have my Christmas music on it. I think because my old iPhone didn't have enough room, and I forgot to update it.

    For Christmas music I have an equally eclectic collection. Lots of Mannheim Steamroller, a bunch of 40's secular stuff, lots of choir collections for carols. Von Trapp Children have a lovely album. Then I have a playlist I called Old Christmas and it's a collection of really old carols, plainsong, Latin, Old German and French, a very interesting mix. The whole Messiah by Handel. And for the Celtic lover in me, a Chieftains album called Bells of Dublin. One of my favorite Celtic group is Eden's Bridge, and they have A Celtic Christmas, which is lovely.

    Hope everyone is resting well tonight.

  • Chloesmom
    Chloesmom Member Posts: 626

    Came home last night and am resting in the recliner. The side that had the hematoma is flat now but black and blue from the 2nd surgery. Go back on the 22nd to get drains out ah hopefully get pathology report. It looks so good I'm not depressed,but feel liberated!

  • glennie19
    glennie19 Member Posts: 4,833


    Glad you are home!! Rest and heal.  Hope you have good movies to watch.

  • magdalene51
    magdalene51 Member Posts: 2,062

    Flat, fabulous & bald ugly Christmas sweater Wednesday to you all!

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  • Chloesmom
    Chloesmom Member Posts: 626

    you look radiant!

  • feelingfeline
    feelingfeline Member Posts: 5,145

    Good on you Magdelene. Happy Christmas to you and yours.

  • daisylover
    daisylover Member Posts: 173

    Love the pic Mags. I like the sweater... Is there more ugliness that I can not see? I am liking a lot of ugly Christmas sweaters this year. Nostalgia maybe? My mom had a few...

  • magdalene51
    magdalene51 Member Posts: 2,062

    Here's a pic of me last night, still flat and fab, but no longer bald. The young lady is one of DH's team members, it was thei Christmas party (he is the manager). Her name is Hollie, and every year we have a picture together. She is young enough to be my daughter, but we have one of those special connections. She was saying how much she loved the short hair, and when mine comes back I should wear it like that.i told her DH loves me bald, too, he says I have a perfect head. She said, "I want to see!" So I showed her the pic above, and she agreed.

    image

    The sweater has Santa in his sleigh ready to take off on the other side, and a big star on the back.

    DH wore his Christmas tie. Ain't he cute?

    image

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027

    Love your photos Magdalene, and have to say "What a man, what a man, what a mighty good man!"

  • daisylover
    daisylover Member Posts: 173

    A very handsome couple! Love both the bald and short hair looks.

  • wren44
    wren44 Member Posts: 7,931

    Very attractive, hair or not. Looks like you were having fun at the party. Love the tie.

  • glennie19
    glennie19 Member Posts: 4,833


    You look great!  I like the sweater!  Very Christmasy.  And DH is cute with that tie!

  • feelingfeline
    feelingfeline Member Posts: 5,145

    Very cute. (Both of you) XXX