Bone Mets Thread
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Congratulations Babs. I know he didn't wait for you but what a joy to arrive to see.
Swess, I know I am likely biased but I would say no, you are not unreasonable to be looking for a change. I am also working full time but find I am constantly trying to figure out how best to manage work and this illness.
When I was first diagnosed as Stage IV I went on STD but quickly decided to go back to work. I hated sitting at home with nothing to think about but my cancer. I was irritated by the need for a gradual return to work. But, a few months later, it became clear to me that I am not as tough as I thought I was. To be fair, I had issues in the summer with a lung infection and felt great for a few weeks after that was resolved but now, on Xeloda, I am dragging my butt. I hit the wall at about 3:00 and struggle to make it through the rest of the day. Now, only a few months after fighting to get back to full time I am looking to cut back.
Unfortunately, it seems to be the nature of this beast. We just don’t know what will be thrown at us or how we will respond. And ultimately, we need to cut ourselves some slack! Look around you and I bet you will see employees taking time off for minor ailments and insignificant concerns. You’re dealing with a lot and, I suspect are more dedicated than many. You need to put yourself first. Nobody will pin a medal on you if you work yourself into the ground
Hugs. Pat.
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Babs - that is a good looking newborn. C-section is definitely the best way out of a small space. Enjoy a wonderful xmas in Paris!
>Z<
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Absolutely wonderful news, Babs! I'm sorry he couldn't wait for you, but my heart is so happy knowing you have such a beautiful, healthy grandson, and that your DD is doing well. Congratulations to all! I'll be watching for updates. So happy for you!
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Congratulations Babs! He's absolutely precious!
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Babs, that photo made my day.
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Oh Babs! He is just so beautiful. I am sorry that you were not there the moment he was born, but I am sure that doesn't matter at all now. Apparently, hewanted to be there to greet you when you arrived. Congratulations to you and your family. My heart is filled with joy for you! Blessings to your precious grandson.
Hugs and prayers, Lynne
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Babs, congratulations! What a beautiful baby! I know he will bring much joy to your life
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Congratulations, Babs. How wonderful for your family. Beautiful boy
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So happy for the safe arrival al of your grandson, Babs. So very happy for your family
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What wonderful news Babs!!! Your have a beautiful grandson. Congratulations to all! Wishing you a wonderful few weeks in Paris. I am SO happy for you and your family!
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Babs he is beautiful! Enjoy this very special holiday season.
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Babs- absolutely darling! Congratulations!
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Congratulations Babs. God bless you all. What a wonderful picture. So beautiful. So happy you can cuddle this little guy. Enjoy enjoy enjoy. Thank you for sharing your joy with us.
Maire
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Oh Babs he's beautiful. I love seeing your pictures. You also help me feel I may have a life to live while stage 4.
Swess think of it this way. You would hate it if the quality of your work suffered because of cancer fatigue. Working 20 hours a week would allow you do the best job you can.
I can't remember the screen name. But someone on the board mentioned arthritis. Thanks for the reminder to look at that angle. I know my knees have significant arthritis. It's all connected.
Ok now I have something else to worry about. One lymph node in the back of my neck popped up. Anyone have something like that happen
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Wonderful news, Bab! Congratulations to you all; he's just precious. Enjoy your time in Paris. -Barbara
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Babs, he's absolutely precious! Congratulations to you and your family. You'll be a wonderful grandma. Enjoy the holidays with your beautiful family.
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oh my Babs I'm sitting here crying looking at that precious little life. Do you remember a few months back you were afraid you wouldn't be there for him. Well here you are my dear and we are all with you loving this moment that I may never experience for myself. Give him a kiss from Wendy and a big hug to your daughter. 😊.
Leapfrog I totally missed a lot of post need to get back at some reading. I hope you are well😊.
Patty I hope you are well😍.
Wendy
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Babs, that's a good looking young man right there. Congrats!
L
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Congratulations! What a beautiful little boy! Hope DD is feeling good. Thrilled you are in Paris to meet him
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Thank you all. He is just so precious to me. I now have hope that I’ll be a part of his life for awhile. Wendy you’re so right. I never thought I would be here but I am and non of us should give up hope There’s so many treatments in the pipeline for us.
Bab
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Oh gosh, that picture is worth thousands of words Babs! I’m incredibly happy for you! Grandchildren fill up our lives
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Oh Babs, the look on your face says it all.....
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Oh Babs...what a beautiful picture of the two of you! God's richest blessings.
We all have every reason to hope.
Mary
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Babs~I don't post here too much anymore, but I have to say that your grandson and that pic of you melted my heart. I hope against hope, I can experience the joy you are holding in your precious arms. I am so happy for your beautiful grandson to be in your arms. Love is the strongest bond in the world. Sincere good wishes and hugs to your entire family and of course send my best to proud mother and father ~M~
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Oh Babs, I too remember when you were worried about being here! The look on your face says it all...what a cutie! I love my grandsons! I'm so happy you are sharing your joy with us!
Hugs and prayers,
Claudia
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OH, congratulations Babs! My two little grand babies keep me going, and this little fellow will give you so much inspiration to live live live. He really is a beautiful newborn!
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Fabulous Babs, Perfect timing, he's there and waiting when you show up, won't miss a moment of Grandmere while you are in Paris!
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Babs, so happy for you and your precious family. Grand babies are the best! He is an extremely beautiful newborn! My heart swells with love, just looking at the picture of you holding him! God is good
Love Chelle
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Babs thanks for sharing this with us. He is an angel so tiny😊. So much lov
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Babs,he’s beautiful.!
Mazel Tov to you and your family.
Stefanie
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