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Lovemyboysandlabs
Lovemyboysandlabs Member Posts: 6

Hello, I was dx in February with Her2+ BC. I went through the chemo, the mastectomy and now in the midst of radiation. I will finish that in December and will be on the Herceptin through March. 

I, like so many BC survivors, have a constant fear of metastisis. I can't shake it. I think what I need is to read stories of those with my type of BC that have survived for years with no recurrence. Please share your stories with those of us that are still in treatment or just finishing that are scared.

Thanks!

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  • Bad_At_Usernames
    Bad_At_Usernames Member Posts: 241
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    I'm with you. I usually feel pretty positive about the Her2 thing (since there have been so many advancements in such a short period of time) but lately I've been terrified. I'd love to hear some long term survivor stories!

  • Lovemyboysandlabs
    Lovemyboysandlabs Member Posts: 6
    edited November 2014
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    I will take any survivor stories for sure, but especially would love to hear from HER2 gals.

  • rebzamy
    rebzamy Member Posts: 49
    edited November 2014
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    Hi ladies

    Diagnosed June 2007 HER2+++   Now 7 years down the line.  Large lump, widespread DCIS as well, lymph node involvement .... still here!

  • Lovemyboysandlabs
    Lovemyboysandlabs Member Posts: 6
    edited November 2014
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    Thanks RebzAmy! So awesome to hear!!!

  • Trisha-Anne
    Trisha-Anne Member Posts: 1,661
    edited November 2014
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    I'm four years out and doing well!

    You are still undergoing tx and your fears are understandable. In time you'll find you think less and less about it coming back. It does take time though and everyone's different. I felt more comfortable and relaxed at around two years out.

  • lkc
    lkc Member Posts: 180
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    here's my post from May 2014

    I am writing this with enormous gratitude that I have reached this 9 Year BC anniversary. I've recently returned from my 6 mos check up, and finally had the nerve to ask my sweet Onc if he thought I would make it back then. He smiled and told me if anyone would, he thought it would be me. You see back then it was a recent development that an additional classification of C was added to the Stage 3 cases.There was only Stage III A. and B then. This meant for me that had I been diagnosed a few years earlier I would of been classified a stage 4 and would not have been a candidate for surgery, or the treatment I received.( My onc was part of the team at MD Anderson that pushed for this additional classification to provide an option of CURE for cases like myself) Anyway, to throw another ratchet in, I was also HER2 positive and when he told me that he looked really disturbed. I was actually happy since I knew I would probably get the newly approved Herceptin and just maybe it would work for me. He told me he had seen HER2 cases(BEFORE Herceptin) to be the worst BC prognosis and did not have any long term data for a case like mine. However, my dear Onc, held out his hand to me and said 'We're going for the Cure for you" I remember telling him then to throw everything he could at me. You see, I had just lost my Mom to Met BC and he was also her Onc. and we all had walked the long road of metastatic dx together.

    That was 9 years ago and I am well. Living Large! I don't let a day pass without thanking God for my health and blessings I have in this life. I am blessed to share my life with a wonderful man who stood by me, while some members of my family ran for the hills. I have 2 beautiful girls and healthy happy grandchildren and a new baby boy coming in August! I am blessed to have my faith , and have truly long time dear friends. Upon my return home I went back to my career in research, but it would be Breast Cancer Research this time. How cool is that to be able to do that?! So many new treatments and lots of good outcomes.

    Anyway. I am posting this to say hi to my old timer sisters on this board and also to let the newer sisters, know my story. There are lots of us out there.

    I wish all a gentle road on a journey no one wants to go on.  

  • rozem
    rozem Member Posts: 749
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    lkc - awesome story!  thanks for posting!!!!

    im 3 years out myself :)

  • girlstrong
    girlstrong Member Posts: 299
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    lkc...your letter brought tears to my eyes. To know what you and your family went through and ultimately archived is nothing short of amazing. Praise God is right! Thank you for sharing.....

  • Sassa
    Sassa Member Posts: 98
    edited November 2014
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    In two weeks it will be 8 years since I was diagnosed.  I had bilateral mastectomies, AC chemo , a year of herceptin, and delayed reconstruction with implants.

    I am in excellent health and physical condition.

    Hang in there.

  • moderators
    moderators Posts: 8,176
    edited November 2014
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    Hi All, 

    Could we make a collection of these, and add them to the section on Acknowledging our Members?

    http://www.breastcancer.org/community/acknowledgin...

    Please send us a Private message if that is okay, and a photo of you, or something that represents you. Also, where you live (country, state). 

    Thank you!!! 

  • Lovemyboysandlabs
    Lovemyboysandlabs Member Posts: 6
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    Thank you all so much for posting, it truly helps someone like me who is still in treatment for Her2. I know treatment has come a long way, and I had a complete response to chemo so odds are hopefully in my favor, but the fear still comes when I hear about how bad Her2 used to be. I want this fear to stop!

    My sincere gratitude for you ladies sharing and CONGRATS to you survivors! 

  • moderators
    moderators Posts: 8,176
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    thanks lkc for your permission to acknowledge your heart-warming story! Please, anyone PM us if you too are interested. 

    Warmly, 

    The Mods

  • JeninMichigan
    JeninMichigan Member Posts: 51
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    I was diagnosed in 2008 with Stage IV b/c right from the start with mets to my liver, bones and chest nodes.  I did 6 cycles of Taxotere, Carboplatin and Herceptin.    I had a lumpectomy and radiation too.   Halfway through my chemo I had another pet scan which showed all mets have been resolved and I was NED.   I have remained NED since June 2008 and have been on Herceptin every three weeks all this time.   Herceptin has been my miracle drug and made all the difference in my life.   I am a single mom and my two daughters were 12 and 8 when I was diagnosed.  My oldest daughter is in her second year of college now and I am teaching my youngest how to drive.  What a gift!!  I feel fortunate to be HER2 with all the new drugs in development and great drugs on the market.  There is every reason to be optimistic!

    Jennifer

  • Lovemyboysandlabs
    Lovemyboysandlabs Member Posts: 6
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    Wow Jennifer thanks for sharing this! I am so happy you had such a great response! These stories do give me hope, so I can't thank you all enough for sharing. 

  • Youngwithbc
    Youngwithbc Member Posts: 45
    edited November 2014
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    Thanks for sharing Jen, and congrats.

  • Bad_At_Usernames
    Bad_At_Usernames Member Posts: 241
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    Linda and Jen, I'm literally crying reading your stories. Thank you for giving me some hope in a very dark hour. Especially happy to hear from you, Linda as I may well have started out with as many nodes as you had (did neo so I'll never know for sure - not that I want to!)

    And I'd be so excited to see a her2 acknowledging our members section!

  • DianaS
    DianaS Member Posts: 3
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    Thank you for your post Linda K. Was very encouraging to me. I was recently diagnosed 10/23/2014. It has been a whirlwind ever since. I'm really not even sure exactly what my true diagnosis is, other than I am Triple Positive. I am just now wrapping my head around this diagnosis and getting into the researching stage. I am just learning what all is involved. I have had a Chest and Abdominal CAT Scan and test that takes pictures of the heat muscle at work and a MRI of the chest/breast today. I go Monday to have a Portcath put in and start Chemo on Tuesday. It is all a little daunting as I'm sure you already know.

    I appreciate you sharing your survival story with us. It definitely helps to learn from those that have gone before. Thank you for your willingness to share your story.


  • DianaS
    DianaS Member Posts: 3
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    Wow! What a story Jen. Thank you for sharing. Definitely a different perspective to have on the HER2. The Onc made it sound like not such a good thing. I now see it in a different light because of your story. I wish you all the best and what a wonderful gift for you and your daughters, that you have survived!!!

    Thank you again for sharing!! It gives those of just coming into this arena much hope for the future.

  • R27dlsg4
    R27dlsg4 Member Posts: 2
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    I would think that all of us who have had bc fear a recurrence..  I know that I still do after 10 years of being clear and healthy.  I have an upcoming yearly apt in early Dec and always hold my breath.  I had chemo, radiation and a year of Herceptin.  Thankful especially for the Herceptin.  Hope you continue to do well.  Many of us do!!!  I was also Her//2 pos.

  • moderators
    moderators Posts: 8,176
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    Dear R27dlsg4, Welcome to our community and thank you for posting your story. It is so helpful to hear from long term survivors. Good luck with your appointment in December. Keep posting. The Mods

  • dmeyer
    dmeyer Member Posts: 1
    edited November 2014
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    Jeninmichigan

    Thank you so much for posting your story, that definitely gives me hope.  I was originally diagnosed in April 2014 at stage 3a, however recently  mets in my spine.  I'm er-, PR+ HER2+ 

  • Lilyn
    Lilyn Member Posts: 156
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    Hi diagnosed with bilateral breast cancer 6 years ago, one of the three tumours was HER2+. Did the double mastectomy, radiation and chemotherapy and Herceptin. I understand how afraid you feel at the beginning, it is all consuming and the fear is so real about recurrence. All I can say that is the fear will fade as time goes on. Time goes on, life goes on. We just had our eldest daughters wedding this past September and it was just such a day of joy and happiness. When I was diagnosed six years ago I could not see that far in the future but now I will keep looking forward and forward and forward. I will never let the fear of cancer rob me of my joy of life. I will march forward and breath in every wonderful spectacular day and thank god for every new season and every new adventure in my life. You take care and we are here for any questions or support needed at anytime. Hugs to you. Lois

  • LisaH
    LisaH Member Posts: 16
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    Hi ladies! Just checking in to say hi and let you guys know that there is always hope.

    This year marks the beginning of my 13th year! I was diagnosed at age 32 with triple positive IDC.

    I didn't have herceptin either, just surgery and chemo then tamoxifen. Herceptin had not been approved for stage 1's at the time.

    Stay strong ladies! Keep fighting!

  • Lovemyboysandlabs
    Lovemyboysandlabs Member Posts: 6
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    Thank you all so much for sharing your stories. The other thing I struggle with right now is living a healthy lifestyle. There is so much information out there and it is overwhelming. What to eat, what to avoid, makeup that causes cancer, vitamins you should take, etc. Can you all share what you are doing? I have increased my veggie and fruit intake and have started exercising more, but am not ready to go raw vegan. I want to live, but want to live. I enjoy food too much!

  • Anaid
    Anaid Member Posts: 1
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    Hi.... I'm HER2 positive, 6 years after the first DX with triple positive....mastectomy and on tamoxifen 5 years. Was told that my prognosis was good, but recently I have a recurrence involving lymph nodes with PR/ER negative but HER2 positive. path results said it is adenocarcinoma and it's metastatic. Recent Tumour marker and CTC tests are fine, for now, and I'm suggested to go for adjuvant chemo and Herceptin. I have opted to have the Herceptin only, not the chemo. I'm also doing juicing, eat vegan diet, lots of supplements and to boost the immune system I also take LDN (low dose neltrexone), Salvestrol. Life is upside down at the moment, the second time really freaks me out.

  • Slainte
    Slainte Member Posts: 55
    edited November 2014
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    Hi!


    I was diagnosed in Aug 2010 her2+ Er/pr neg Stage 2 one positive lymph node. Still going strong ! Just over 4 years cancer free!!


    Christine


  • marejo
    marejo Member Posts: 655
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    Hi...I remember being at the beginning of my journey and how afraid of was of recurrence.  Was diagnosed stage 2B.    I had a large tumor.....lymph node involvement....went through mastectomy, chemo, radiation and I am now 9 years out.  Praising God.  Living life to the fullest and try to never take a day for granted.

  • mama2sedi
    mama2sedi Member Posts: 1
    edited May 2015
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    thank you all for sharing your positive stories . I'm still on herceptin till January of next year ang your stories have really inspired me

  • lkc
    lkc Member Posts: 180
    edited June 2015
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    just over ten years now from a stage IIIC her2 Pos BC; LIVIN LARGE ND GRATEFUL EVERYDAY!!!!!

  • Jill900
    Jill900 Member Posts: 7
    edited June 2015
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    I am 4 years out today!