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Patty,
I am lifting you and your sons up in prayer. Your sons are filled with your love and strength, and you will always be with them. Enjoy your visits with your sisters. Get the packing done, if you can, but spend time talking and laughing and reliving good memories. That is more important. Your sons are probably trying to keep up those happy faces to make things easier for you. I know you want to see their real emotions, but I think what you are seeing is the real "them." They want to do whatever they can for the Mom the love so much. Right now, to them, it means letting you know they will be okay even though they are feeling so much pain and will miss you deeply. Just keep hugging them and telling them you love them. That's the best thing for them.
I am sorry you are experiencing so much pain and facing such uncertain times. Sometimes music can help us during difficult times. One of my favorite songs when I need comfort and strength is How Great Thou Art. I listen to it or sing it or just let in run through my mind and feel the reassurance I want. Maybe you have a song like that, too. You know that God has you in His arms. He will not let the fears overwhelm you.
Have a peaceful day and experience all the little moments ofjoys it brings.
Hugs and prayers from, Lynne
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Patty, lifting you up in prayer as well as your sons. Praying for peace and lots of love. Praying for the time you need to get things settled the way you want. Praying for a lot less pain. You are such a strong woman and you always think of others before yourself. Take some time for you while your sisters are there’s and just enjoy their visit.
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You are always in my heart, Patty. You have been through so much and rallied so many times, teaching your boys lessons in independence and perseverance. So glad your sisters are comIng. Continuing to pray for you
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Dearest Patty,
This is a prayer that I pray every day (and b4 I go to sleep), incorporating it into my other prayers as I pray it for ALL of us.
"Dear Lord,
Please shield us from unnecessary worry and anxiety. We are always in Your hands, after all. Please replace our fear and doubt with hope and trust, and replace our despair with a stronger faith and peaceful acceptance of Your perfect will and timing for us. We ask these things in the name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ."
Your boys WILL face some challenges after you transition, but they will do fine. You have given them a FIRM foundation.
I lost my mom to Stage IV soft tissue sarcoma cancer when I was in high school, but I had lots of "surrogate" moms in the neighbor hood to help me get thru it.
Always keeping you in prayer,
Lita
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i agree with vargadoll. If you think it'd help your dss, I'd be happy to send him a card, gift, gift card. Let us know. You can give the address to 1 person and we can pm for it.
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Patty - Holding you in my thoughts. Hoping for no pain.
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We are all sending you love and peace Patty. You have left your mark on the world with your wonderful sons. You’ve done a great job. It’s ok to let go whenever you feel it’s time.0
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Dear Patty - If you are accepting prayers, I would be honored to send them. I work near St Patrick's Cathedral in New York, and if you don't mind, I think it would be nice to light a candle for you and your DSS's when I visit. You bring light, hope and love - even to a stranger. An honor to have a little bit of that light of yours shining in our busy city. Wishing you only love,
Love,
Belle xxoo
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Candles at an old Spanish Mission, prayers for you.
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thanks all. Love shining thru. 🌔🌎
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And candles being lit for you here in Florida, too.
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Patty, You have been such a kind thoughtful loving friend here to all of us! Your strength of spirit and faith are so inspiring! I am praying that God will hold you in the palm of his hands and escort you into his kingdom when the time is right.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers everyday,
Claudia
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Patty-holding you in the light. wishing you serenity and no pain.
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Patty sending prayers for you to have peace, for your sons and your dear sisters. God be with you all. Mair
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Hi Patty. I am hoping your sister or bestie will keep us posted when you need your rest and just don't feel like talking to us.
You are and continue to be so honest about your emotions and life in general. I "met" you when you were thinking about a divorce and posting your decisions.Then not only did you divorce, you up and moved to an apartment, all this while not feeling well.
You put those boys first..it comes through strong in your words. You are an amazing woman and mom.
Hootie hoo to you!
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Patty, I always love seeing you on the game boards!
I think of you daily (and in the middle of the night when sometimes I might catch one of your witty word answers).
Sending Love and Gentle ((Hugs))
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patty you and your DSS are in my prayers. I know you want the boys to show their true feelings but they are trying to take care of you just like you took care of them. If you are anything like the rest of us with children you never showed when you were hurting or just didn't feel good (you protected them) and that's what they are doing for you.
rest peacefully and I hope they are able to make the pain less.
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sending love and peace to our sweet Patty.
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yes please hurry miracle. I am ready.
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Good Morning Patty- lifting you up today. Sending peace and comfort from NC. If I were closer I would take you for that convertible ride this morning.
Hugs!
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Patty, may peace and comfort find you and hold you. You taught your boys well showing them love, courage and grace. They will carry those lessons with them throughout their lives. You done good! Holding you in my prayers. Love and gentle hugs
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God's Grace is with you, Patty. You will be riding in that convertible shouting hootie hoo to us all.
Keeping you surrounded in prayer and gentle hugs.
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Hey Patty, I hope you are feeling better today and being with your sister raises your spirits♥️ In my prayers!
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Oh dear Patty, sending you so much love and strength.
You have been a wonderful mother to your two dear sons. They have a firm foundation, and they will remember you with love always.
I will be lighting candles for you as well.
These are my favorite hymns when I need strength:
How Great Thou Art and Lord of All Hopefulness https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9-D_aT8CXycIf you need more music, here's the choir festival: https://www.oceangrove.org/worship-events
Lots of love, Madelyn
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I love you Patty. Two words. Bonded forever. ~M~
Miracle hurry up
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Thinking of you as always. Praying for your miracle.0
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in my meditation class last night, the loving kindness was shared with us. May you live with love and ease.
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Dear Patty,
You and your family are in my heart and prayers. I am sad with you, and I pray that the Lord extend your life for the sake of your sons. I have prayed throughout the day for you, and it brings me to tears. Please write them love letters every day that you have the strength. Know that God loves you, Patty, and He will take care of your sons. I wish I could be there to help you. You are so funny, witty, and playful. I've enjoyed your company on the game boards. Thank you for sharing your faith with us. It will live on in your children. Please tell them to never let it go, know matter what plans God has for us. His ways are higher ways, and He will make things come together for good. God bless you, all the days of your life for all eternity.
Loves and hugs,
Janet 😚🤗💕🙏
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thinking of you tonight, hugs ((((((((((((((()))))))))))))) xoxoxo
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