patty
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Thinking of you Patty! Hope you meet NED very soon! Kids do give us the greatest joys and sorrows...glad you had tender time with ds1
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Tough day for sure HUGS.
Today will be a better day knowing that the burden of "that" conversation is over with.
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So sorry, Patty. Tough but necessary conversions. You should be proud that you have that kind of communication with them. Ds2 is just in coping mode. Don’t take it personally. His questions have nothing to do with his love for you.
You did good mama work!
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Patty, you are in my thoughts. Sending wishes for comfort and peace and healing. The conversations with your boys must have felt so necessary, yet bittersweet. I hope I handle those moments with the same level of grace that you have shown. Much love, MJH
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What a hard convo but so necessary. I agree it was a coping skill and possibly a younger stage but still hurtful. I'm so sorry.
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I am a good friend posting for patty.
She asked me to read some post and even wanted to play the games. So I asked her and entered her answers.
Sunday was a very hard day emotionally for her as she had to tell her boys the seriousness of this new situation. It was very hard on her boys also. For those who don’t know , her boys are her life.
Last night she took a turn for the worse. I am hoping it’s the stress of Sunday. Last night she was very confused. While I was sleeping on couch by her she got up and out on tennis shoes and was halfway down the hall with her iv still in also before nurses caught up with her. She was shaking and terrified because she didn’t know where she was. She wouldn’t let nursing staff touch her. Very scared and she would jerk away and curl up in a ball. Hard to watch. She kept asking but why she was here. Kept saying she didn’t do any anything wrong. Her usual back pain making her think she was injured in a car crash yesterday.
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Thank you for posting on behalf of Patty. How terrible for you to witness such a situation but at least there was help right away. Please tell her we are hoping and praying this is another temporary set-back.
Amy
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today brought even more confusion for her.
She has slept the entire day and night other then being awake for a couple minutes with fear. Her oncologist came by but couldn't get her fully awake. He even tried what he called a sternum rub. He said usually will awaken someone but no response at all. She has had several urine accidents and just slept through. She has not eaten or drink anything today. Oncologist has her on iv fluids to help prevent dehydration. Oncologist said he was very concerned. He asked her if things turn worse would she want on a breathng machine or other life's extending services. She couldn't answer but I reminded him she has A dnr on file. Her oxygen level continue around75-80 % blood pressure hovering 70/50 . Her oncologists ordered lab to check ammonia level he said.that happens If liver is failing and also ordered a mri a brain
please no calls to her or her exhubby for now. I will update for her as we know more.
I know that she loved all the people here and she considers so many of them to b good friends. I know she received emotional support from many of you guys thank you
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Thank you for keeping us updated. We are all sending our thoughts and prayers her way.
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Thank you for the updates. It is heart breaking to hear but very much appreciated you take the time to share with us. Praying for Patty and her family right now.
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Thank you, friend of Patty's, for being with her and letting us know what is happening. She's been a wonderful friend to all of us here.
Sending much love to her, and her family
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Thank you SO much for the updates. I'm at a loss for words. Hugs & prayers.
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Thank you so much for being there for Patti and keeping us updated. I'm an RN with lots of Hospice experience. I was wondering if they have been called in? They are a wonderful organization that can help Patti and her family and friends through this very difficult time. Hoping and praying she is comfortable...
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Thank you for the updates. I can imagine how hard this is for you to watch. Please stay with her.
Tears and prayers for Patty.
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My heart sunk when I saw someone posting for her. Thank you good friend of Patti's for posting those difficult updates on Patti. As others have stated this must be torture for you to watch. Thank you for being there for her and us. Sending you both love and support.
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Praying for Patty this morning.
Thank you so much for posting updates - Patty is very special to our BCO community.
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I am sending prayers.
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wishing you, Patty and her family find some peace. How scary to be so confused and for you to witness. You are very special for keeping us in the loop. Thank you.
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Prayers for Patty and her family. I thank you, her dear friend for realizing how loved Patty is here and for keeping us updated. She has had a hard fight. My heart breaks for her sons.0
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Prayers for Patty, family and friends
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Holding you all in the light. Dear dear Patty.0
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Little Peppermint.... Love you sweet thing.... Just remember all the fun we always had together! I'm holding you in my heart and my prayers.... Come on girl.... we have a lot of time left together.... xoxooxxoxo
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Patty’s Friend, that was difficult to read. I am sorry you are in the frontline witnessing our sweet Patty’s suffering. You are very kind for taking the time to update us. My heart is aching for he boys.
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Dear Patty's Friend,
Thank you for the updates. As difficult as they are to read, we worry about Patty when she disappears.
Patty, here's how I'd play Amazing Grace for you if I were there.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aPR92QHJIPY
Sending light and love and so many prayers.
Mominator / Madelyn
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Prayers for Patti and family.
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Praying for peace for Patti. Please God no more terrors. Thank you Patti's friend. She is blessed to have you there.
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Patty heart breaking, bless you and Dear family. I'll miss your HootieHoo. And will always and have always said it with you in mind. If this is your time , go with the angels to God, If not we will celebrate you coming home to us again. It's not over till the cow kicks the bucket. Love you.
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If Patty does leave us soon, I worry for her son that was angry with her on Sunday...and wanted his TV. Etc
Those of us older know that children can lash out in different ways that are so hurtful, but they don’t mean it. I would hate for him to remember his parting words being hateful.
I’m praying for Patty to turn this around as she has other times.
Thank you to dear friend...we all need one like you
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Prayers for Patty and her family and friends. Hard to read the updates.......I so hate MBC.
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The Lord is my shepherd;
I have everything I need.
He lets me rest in green meadows;
he leads me beside peaceful streams.He renews my strength.
He guides me along right paths,
bringing honor to his name.Even when I walk
through the dark valley of death,
I will not be afraid,
for you are close beside me.Your rod and your staff protect and comfort me.
You prepare a feast for me
in the presence of my enemies.You welcome me as a guest,
anointing my head with oil.
My cup overflows with blessings.Surely your goodness and unfailing love
will pursue me all the days of my life,
and I will live in the house of the Lord forever. Amen- The Bible, Psalm 23 -
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