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Hi Patty. Sending hugs and prayers.
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Patty you will make a good decision.
Don't let DH's statement under your skin. He has already shown you that you cannot trust his words. You have no reason to believe these words of his now, just the opposite.
My Mum's Mum died of cancer when my Mum was young. My Mum is the best Mother I could ever imagine, not scarred for life.
I have the same feeling as zills and you, the day I get to heaven I hope for a big reunion with many loved people and pets. There is a big welcome home party waiting for all of us.
Much love.
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Good morning Patty~ Ok sweetheart it’s been a few days since we’ve seen your beautiful self check in. The miles do not matter, you’re in our hearts and minds everyday. We love you. Two words; hugging you: much love ❤️ ~M~
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Hi Patty, right here rooting for you each day. Sending love and hugs! MJH
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Patty - thinking of you.
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hey Patty! Just checking on you! Hope you are having special time with your boys! ❤️
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Patty~ Hi sweety~ I am here for my nightly visit where I hold your hand and sit with you. I won't bother you and say too much. I want you to rest and enjoy your family time. But I'm here. I want you to dream, off running on the beach with your sons, launching them into the air and catching them.... or making those huge sand castles that are like a mansion. I wish I could bring you a conk shell 🐚 so you could hear the ocean everyday you wanted.
It's been two days now since I've seen you. I will just sit and wait for you. No matter how long! Two words: miss you:😞❣️ ~M~
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Thinking of you and your sweet family, Patty! I hope you are feeling well today and enjoying your time filled with reminiscing with loved ones.
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Patty~ I am really going to bed now. Really! Did I mention I'm a procrastinator? Well I am. I just was doing a puzzle earlier.... do you enjoy puzzles? I wish I could bring one, we could sit on a nice porch in the mountains hearing nature and watch a stunning moving stream nearby. Your boys caught a fish for dinner! Donthey fish ?Perhaps? Sounds like someplace I'd like to be! Make sure nurse rachet keeps it quiet for you! Two words:: Sweet Dreams:: Much love~M~
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Here's a rainbow just for you, Patty!
I hope you are getting some quality time with your family right now, and in no pain.
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good morning.
So sry I haven't checked back in after my biopsy results and discharge from hospital.
I got home yesterday and I have some good news I think. Will share it later when I wake up again.
Hugsc
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Good night/Good morning Patty!!
You’re just going to bed and I’m awake far too early.
I’m so much looking forward to your good news!!
Lots of love 💕 love 💗 love 💗,
Madelyn
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Patty. Waiting to hear your good news!
Bab
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Patty,
So glad you are home and looking forward to hearing your good news. Get rested!
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Good Morning Patty~ Released to Home, that's really great! Exactly where you want to be. I am thrilled for you. Now you can sleep in your own surroundings and try to let go of the noises at the hospital. WhichAre yucky! I am very excited to hear. Wait::::: two words coming your way darling ::Good news:: Love you M~
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So happy to see your post, Patty. I will also be checking back, as I often do, anxious to learn your good news!
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Ok so mo is still young anew very shy. He looks at floor and dance around around the subject for what seemed like forever. He finally said they didn’t get any biopsy bone marrow and fluid. But did get bone shavings. Just takes longer for an answer he says. Since the carboplatin seemed to be working since liver and bilirubin counts are exactly where they should be with no cancer. Th h We could try tamoxifen with 10% change it mite work. But no other tax. So options were go home with hospice Monday or go to cancer center every day or every other day at best to get blood and platelets the body has tried to repair itself. So now the fluid is fibroctic which means there will be no room for bone marrow to make or carry blood to organs. I would just get tired and lay down and never wake up. He really thinks I will die from loss of blood before cancer kills me. It sounds like the best way to go.
I say NO more treatments. NO more test. Just enjoy the time I have and they can increase pain meds to keep me out of pain. Had 3 people in the room when mo came in but they were all waiting for me to break down and cry and I just didn’t. I really felt like this is what’s gonna happen
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Patty, It sounds like you are at peace with the news,and your mind is at ease. That is the most important thing. You know that God has this, Patty. I am glad that you are at home, and I hope you are able to spend time with your wonderful boys. I am lifting you up in prayer, sweet Patty, and my prayers for you and your family will continue.
Hugs and prayers from, Lynne
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Patty. I’m so glad you’re at peace and have a plan that works for your needs. Enjoy your time with your sisters and especially your boys. Make as many memories as you can with them. Someone told me that they made a picture book for their children with stories too. I thought that was a great idea. Remember we’re all there with you!
Bab
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Hugs
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Patty,
So glad you are at home and feeling at peace with your choices. Lifting you up with love and light and prayers that you feel His Love and His Grace always.
Warmest Blessings Breast Cancer Sister,
Kimber
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Patty, thank you for the update. We all care about you and sit at the edge of our seats waiting to hear how you are doing and what happened. The thought of no more chemo or treatment ever is something to celebrate! Must feel liberating. You are a strong person. I am amazed. Hug and kiss those boys. And know that the kids who “lash out” are usually the ones who are hurting and care the most. They just get mixed up in how to express their love, concern, fear and frustration with the circumstances.
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Patty, I am back. I want to tell you just a little bit of what you mean to me and many others here as well as how much you have done for us. I joined this lively band of mbc'ers almost three years ago. During the time I have been here, you have shared some of your fears, your hopes, your celebrations, your disappointments, and your experiences in life. We have gotten to know you and your sons through your shared stories and your wonderful sense of humor. You have given many of us your support, your encouragement, your hugs, and your prayers. When you took breaks from the boards, we missed you. Each time you returned, we smiled and were happy to see you again. Even during your most difficult challenges, you took the time to reach out to comfort or support others in need. You made a difference. As Babs said, we are here for you.
Hugs and prayers, Lynne
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thanks Lynne.thwnks all
So as I said dr sent me home ion hospice since there are no other tx options . . Said guesstimate survival rate for cancer to spread to other organs and die would be measured in months but he is more worried about my body not beign able to produce spinal fluid blood or platelets said guesstimated life span for that is measured in weeks not months. The only way for the bone more is to treat cancer and hopefully it will heal itself.
My BFF just happened to ask AGAIN if they have looked at her 2 testing. It’s prob been 2 month ago I asked him to check it because I have read oh here her status can change. Mo said they could change but highly unlikely. Last we checked noeuts they were n. when nurse called and said s it has changed from her2 neg turned pisitive. If insurance agrees i can start monday. def gAME CHANger they say.
Woohoo
Hootie hoo hugs
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WoW, Patty!!! Kudos to your BFF. Game changer is an understatement!!! WooHoo!!!!!
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GAME CHANGER INDEED! I add my WOOHOO to yours
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Patty~My Sweet. I can not imagine how you composed that posting, I am fighting back rivers of tears of myself. Well.. now they are running down my cheeks. Oh Patty, you are beautiful and kind. Sweet and so caring. I am speechless, and heartbroken💔, I understand how exhausted you must be. I know someday I will be walking this same path. You're filled with love for your sweet boys, and your words and teachings they have been gifted with from you, will always be in their minds and hearts. They are half you. You made them! I feel very selfish saying this.... but I want more time with you. I want you to live. I have grown to so adore you. But I completely know this isn't about me. loving you the way I have come to, I will be the wind beneath your wings when you fly away from here, peacefully circling your children as you guide them forever. The beautiful angel you already are.
We love you Patty... more than words on a screen, or grass in a field. The way I feel about you my friend, has become so very real. Oceans are deep and vast, and friendship over reaches the miles.....I'm holding on to you tightly my friend to keep you safe from harm. When you decide it's time to go, there's two words for you I think you should always know beautiful:::: peaceful angel::: I love you so! My love always 💔 ~M~
Edited after readingPatty's new posting!!***********see that???? seeeeee thattttt seeeee thattttt, there are more treatmentssss!!!!! Yes!!!! Seee that? That is effing great muther effing news! You said you had “good news" another two words!!!! 🤗😃❣️❣️❣️ To your Bfffffffff.. way to gooooooo! So happy Patty. Opens up more options for treatments!
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so wait...her2 is now positive and you get to try a new treatment!?!? Wow!!!! Talk about a Hail Mary! ❤️❤️❤️❤️👍
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