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  • wahine
    wahine Member Posts: 7,590
    edited February 2011

    Hey Beans, I am here.....PAU HANA time!!! What'cha dwinking? This is funny.....we all ended up having a bad few days, with crying and lotsa tears. WELL, wonder if we are starting to post alike too? I swear, when I was reading your post NM,about the dust bunnies I thought I was reading a post by Beans! It wasn't until I read Beans' response to your post that I realized my error. You two are sounding similar now! And with Dorothy getting her degree in Beanglish, I will definately have to check the avatars!!

    Cheers! Kampai! Salut! Okole Maluna! TITZ and BOTTOMS UP!

    Kathy

  • wahine
    wahine Member Posts: 7,590
    edited February 2011
          Do I hear a PARTAY starting up??????????????                  
             Even our furbabies are getting the party started!                                                  
        "Handle every stressful situation like a dog. If you can't eat it or hump it, piss on it and walk away." And remember...."Beauty is in the eye of the Beer Holder"!
    • Beanius
      Beanius Member Posts: 1,494
      edited February 2011

      Hi wahine - It is party time, yippee, hope those dust bunnies show up they sure are cute. In their honor I'm fixing Dirty Martinis

      These are called dirty because of the olive brine which adds a more olive flavoring than the straight Martini with olives soaking in it.

      Ingredients:
      2 1/2 oz gin
      1/2 oz dry vermouth
      olive brine to taste
      olive for garnish

      Preparation:
      1.Pour the gin and dry vermouth into a mixing glass.
      2.Slowly add the olive brine.
      3.Stir.
      4.Strain into a chilled cocktail glass.
      5.Garnish with the olive.

      martiti

       party

      party

      Cheers!!!

    • Kymn
      Kymn Member Posts: 887
      edited February 2011

      Oh my you girls have been busy havent you. I guess I missed a lot of posts when I was writing mine I had to go back 2 pages to catch up lol. Dorothy I am glad you and hubby worked things out,congrats mrs nice on being done must be a great feeling, I cant even imagine that right now as I havent even started. Am I the only one heading into treatment? Had a shower and stood in front of the mirrow and cried. My boobie looks awful, i am really hoping it will fill in with fluid or something. After the first lumpectomy it didnt look too bad, just the scare but now definetly a big indent God I hate this. Dont know if I will be joining you ladies for a drink tonight as i may have had one too many last night lol guess i was in denile drowning my thoughts.Is it true that you loose your desire for sex??? Oh god I hope not DH and I have a great sex life and I would hate to loose that too. shit it just keeps getting worse and worse. Ok I am depressing myself now and prolly all of you so going to go for now until i am in a better mood and can add to the lounge not cry in everones drinks.

    • Beanius
      Beanius Member Posts: 1,494
      edited February 2011

      Oh Kymn, I'm so sorry about a second surgery. My lumpectomies have filled in some and the scars diminish over time. I know how upsetting it is and I'm just so sorry you're having to deal with this. I think during chemo my sex drive was less, partly due to worry. I'm just a month and a half past treatment and I definitely feel my old self coming back. I had been curious and have done some reading and getting advice but I've always had a great sex life too and this is not something you have to worry about long term IMHO. You will get through all of this and be just fine.

    • nativemainer
      nativemainer Member Posts: 7,919
      edited February 2011

      Kymm, cwying in the dwinkies is allowed here!  Seriously, I know it's hard to see your breast in it's current mutilated shape.  You have every right to cry and grieve.  Perhaps it will give you some comfort to know that a Plastic Surgeon can correct the indent.  You can get a referral to a PS now, if you aren't already overloaded with info and can stand another appointment.  The PS will probably tell you to wait for 3 months or so after radiation is done to get the best result, but knowing it can be improved may help you deal now.  What we go through to treat this disease is miserable, disfiguring, and horrifying.  It's no wonder we get angry, upset, frustrated, and cry a lot. 

    • claire_in_seattle
      claire_in_seattle Member Posts: 2,793
      edited February 2011

      Glorious skiing today, but did I ever notice that I hadn't been for 7 weeks!!!  Was tired, and struggled a bit with the altitude at the beginning.  Anyway, did the full 18k/12 or so miles and feel much better for it.  Especially after a hot bath.  Using up some of the nearly empty old stuff.  Did rose and lemon verbena.

      I will need some serious muscle relaxant tonight.

      One great piece of news I will share is that our ability to produce fat extends to our ability to fill in a lot of lumpectomy tissue.  So tend to be much less noticeable as we go out in time.

      Think will pour myself a glass of Riesling in a few.  I have pork chops in the freezer so that, wine and leftover are most of a dinner.  Just a couple of serious veggies.....

      Glad things are finally looking up in the HTL.  Think a lot of this is the brighter....and much longer....days. - Claire

    • claire_in_seattle
      claire_in_seattle Member Posts: 2,793
      edited February 2011

      Chocolate Bread and Butter Pudding

      This is Delia Smith's recipe from her Winter Collection.  I have adapted a bit as she wrote it for the UK audience.

      Soften a stick of butter.  Buy a good quality white bread.  You also need a shallow baking dish.  It's hard to give exact measurements as I have a medium sized oval Evesham one.  I used 9-10 slices of large-slice buttered bread.  (I used Buttermilk Bread, but good White is fine.)

      If you have never made one of these before, think French Toast.  Much the same sort of dish, but baked and not fried.  A cheese strata is the savory version.

      Start by buttering the inside of the baking dish and turning the oven on to 350F.

      Then, remove crusts of the bread and slather each with butter.  Cut in half and arrange on the baking dish, overlapping.  This will form a nice uniform layer covering the entire baking dish.  If not enough slices, add enough to cover.

      Now make the chocolate custard you will pour over. 

      A 3.5 oz chocolate bar with at least 70% cocoa solids (as Lindt Excellence, not the place to be cheap)

      Place in a pyrex bowl with about 12 oz whole milk.  Melt this mixture in the microwave so that the chocolate softens.  Mix everything together until looks like chocolate milk.

      Beat 3 eggs softly in another bowl, and add in about 1/2 cup sugar

      Mix together and add in enough rum or brandy for you to taste.  Add more sugar at this point if not sweet enough.  It should be rich, and not too sweet.

      Gingerly pour this over the buttered bread.  You will need to raise each slice to make sure it all soaks in nicely.  (Delia would have us doing this earlier in the day, but one of the virtues of my method is that this dessert is FAST.)

      When all of this is nicely squished together, put in the oven and bake for half an hour, or until puffed, set, and a bit crusty on top.

      Serve with 36% cream or double cream if you are lucky enough to have it available.  I think vanilla ice cream might be good too.

      There are a number of versions of this pud.  The classic one is made with demerara/turbinado and rum soaked raisins.  You would want more eggs and less milk for that one.

      If this doesn't cut it as an aphrodisiac, nothing is lost as you won't care.  Beyond yummy. - Claire

    • AStorm
      AStorm Member Posts: 1,393
      edited February 2011

      Dorthy - I like your symbols! Mine are (♥)(♥) too now, even though they are very cold. They used to be 2 different sizes {.)(O) and the PS said I should just remember that I don't have cancer anymore so I fired him and got a WOMAN PS who understood. All my life I was a 32C and now I am a very full 34D... I guess it's like when you cut your bangs crooked and you keep cutting until you get it right only they just gave me bigger implants to get rid of all the dents.

        

      NM - Yes, I am the basket queen. I think baskets are easier to look through and they look warmer than a file cabinet. There are baskets of magazines and paperwork all over my house! I give away a lot of baskets too... every time someone needs a meal or muffins or something I deliver it in a basket. Some of my friends do the same so in my pantry I have about 30 baskets hanging all over the walls.

      Kymn - After my lumpectomy I was thinking that post-rads I would want a lift on the other side, which PS told me would fix any asymmetry and would be covered by insurance. After all was said and done though, I ended up with two foobs. Give it some time - like Claire says - but you are unhappy, get a consult with a plastic surgeon just so you know what your options are.

      Made gnocchi for the family and now I'm heading out for a play date at friend's house with WD. Keep the bonfire going, I'm sure I have stuff here somewhere... it is so good to purge!

    • dara_diverse
      dara_diverse Member Posts: 5,004
      edited February 2011

      I nearly fell in the fire, thanks for saving me, Pants, What a great party. I just awoke from a very long hibernation, six hours, oh my that was the longest time not drinking all week, I am glad that you girls saw the flames coming toward my sleeping bag.

      Love the basket idea, we recently got a filing cabinet, set up the files and they are still empty while piles of paper are stashed here and there. I am the queen of paper piles. I got a nice shredder for my birthday and have a pile of stuff to shread. I also got a letter opener, I always told DH I did not like opening all the mail outta fear of paper cuts - so he gets me a letter opener.

      And no one can speak Beanglish as well as Beans, if she would give a course herself, we could all talk it. It takes a special mood to talk Beanglistics, know what I mean? 

      Another set of fab pics by many of you, thank you,, especially love the pic of kathy, sitting in the chair as the rest of us watch Pants personally dance for her, he is one hotty! I get worked up looking at him. I love the way he looks me in the eyes when he cares for me and even when he dances for us.

      I am going to get the tenders to bring me a dirty martini and two large pieces of the desert that Claire made for us. That recipe sounds hard for a gal like me, I am more of a betty crocker in a box kinda chic.

      Kymn, glad to hear from you again.I feel your pain and anguish over the mutilation of your beautiful girls. But the others are right, plastic surgeons can perform miracles.  I hope to see you at the lounge in the morning, sleep well.

    • Stanzie
      Stanzie Member Posts: 1,611
      edited February 2011

      Claire - I have always turned up my nose at bread pudding but yours sounds wonderful- will have to try that! I wouldn't like the one with raisins though.

      Beanie - love your beautiful profile picture. Astorm - your's too! Will have to look for a new one for me soon but when??

      Worked 1/2 the day at my elderly couple's house for the dinner party/85th birthday celebration - exhausting. Both are in wheelchairs so it so impossible for them to reach a lot of things or do or carry things. Then home to clean guest house and set my kids with instructions for doing some cleaning in the house. My son with DS tried really hard and didn't even need reminders - it didn't last long but I was so proud of him, my other son - really went to it and did great. My daughter??? Well not so good. She cleaned her room and bathroom but anything around the house ---- nothing. So disappointed. I just asked her to sweep the floors and no go. She used a dust mop and basically spread the dust everywhere... I carefully explained everything and showed her but? Now her room looks perfect. when I told her I was disappointed she spent most of the time watching TV instead she just walks away and later asks my son why I mas mad at her. We aren't getting along very well.... sigh. The couple who will stay in the guest house I have only met once but they are really nice - the wife has cancer - not sure if hers started with BC or not but apparently it has spread everywhere and she has been doing trials everywhere. So anyway, I wanted the guest house to be really nice and clean and comfortable for them. I also left them coffee, juice, pasteries and some snacks. They will only be here for a short bit in the afternoon then on to the party/birthday which is also a Tiara Party as for her 85th birthday she will be "crowned The Dutchess of Sagamore" - the street name with some pretty jewelry and yes eveyone is to wear tiara's.Should be fun. Anyway, then they leave Monday morning. 

      I've been doing better going to my trainer and really working and gaining back some strenght and gaining weight! Huh? I thought I would lose weight - not going so good.... Will need to figure this out. Personally I think it is being depressed and not sleeping.... 

      I know so much to respond to but just too tired will do better tomorrow..... good night - I hope!

    • nativemainer
      nativemainer Member Posts: 7,919
      edited February 2011
      Claire-Glad you got some skiing in! I've got my father's snowshoes, and am waiting for another snow storm to try them out. Do you snow shoe? Any tips for a beginner? The pudding recipe sounds soo good, thanks for sharing. I've already put items on my shopping list, starting with good quality chocolate.


      AStorm-I don't have enough baskets to hang on the walls, but now I have something to shoot for! I use baskets for gifts a lot, too. A couple bottles of my wine, some cheese, and some homemade breads are quick, easy and fun, also easy to personalize.

      Dorthy-It's hard to get a workable filing system set up, but once you've got it started it will work for you. I do have 1 filing cabinet with 2 drawers, that I use for a few things. I use less than one whole drawer. BUT, I have baskets of stuff all over and I can still find everything I want relatively easily and quickly. Try color coding, or hanging a tag on the handle that identifies the contents.

      Stanzie-wow, that's a lot of work! So kind of you to help the couple. It seems funny to me (who has no children) that the girl is less helpful around the house than the boys. You are so thoughtful to leave coffee and munchies for the couple in the guest house, I bet they will really appreciate the care you show. A tiara party sounds like a lot of fun! Like you, I've been noticing a gain in strength and stamina as I exercise more, but no change in the scales. I have noticed a change in the way my clothes fit, so maybe we are both toning up flabby muscles and will start losing weight when all the muscles get back into shape? We can hope, right?

      I see the Sunday Buffet is almost ready, and the coffee smell is driving me to distraction, gotta get me some. And we need a DOTD.  We need something organizish, I think.  How aboutThe Organizer?

      1/2 oz Mandarine Napoleon
      1/2 oz Drambuie
      1 tsp Parfait Amour
      1 oz Scotch Whisky
      1/4 oz Lemon Juice
      1 tsp Almond Syrup
      2 oz Pineapple Juice
      1 oz Guava Nectar 

       

    • Stanzie
      Stanzie Member Posts: 1,611
      edited February 2011

      Oh NM - I hope so too and will have to share that cartoon with my trainer she will LOVE that!!!! Thanks! Read that getting at least 8 hours sleep helps you lose weight - hmmm I would go for that if I could but I'll be happy to keep trying to sleep more. Last night 4 hours - same as the night before.....sigh.

    • claire_in_seattle
      claire_in_seattle Member Posts: 2,793
      edited February 2011

      NM....my biggest snowshoeing tip would be to go out today and try them out.  By this, I mean get a chance to work on the balance aspect, so you are comfortable maneuvering on them.

      I have not snowshoed for years and years.  Did it a lot when I was young, and can't remember when I didn't know how.  I certainly did by the time I was five and ran around with sap buckets for my father.  I have not used the new equipment, but not unlike hiking with poles.

      As with x-country skiing, you need to underdress a bit as you get very warm.  My jacket was dripping wet inside last night.

      So go out and find a short but scenic snowmobile trail, and have a go at them.  Then plan something longer for when you can devote the time.

      I have overbooked today, so not sure how everyone (plus skis) is going to fit.  Suspect my friend Jim may need to take his car too.  But should be the most glorious of days.

      Off to church in a bit, and meeting the others there.  Sore, but not unduly so, this AM.  Suspect different by the end of the day though.

      I slept like a log and a half last night.  Usually, I wake up sometime during the night.  Not last night.....I was gone, and couldn't wait to get in my bed.

    • goldie0827
      goldie0827 Member Posts: 6,835
      edited February 2011

      Good gosh, it is almost impossible to keep up with you ladies! Even when I am home!

      BeanZ....look at you! You are RADIENT (no pun intended). Sorry you are missing DH and having down moments. I know what you mean about that cold, gray, gloomy weather, being from MI! Can you imagine what kind of pile we would have if we ALL threw in our left over BC BS????

      Dorothy, I love to hear you talk about your cave! I think we need to have a slumber party there! Funny how you took your fur baby to bed with you, just to piss him off. But glad you got everything aired out.

      There is Mojo thread out there! "I want my mojo back".

      OH MY, what hilarious pictures. Why would anyone have their picture taken with a tampon in their nose! But good advise NM. I haven't had Aunt Flo for over 10 years.

      Astorm, you sure hit that one on the head! Me hungry... Need beast... Kill beast... Eat beast. This approach doesn't really work with bc. I just try to appreciate DH's outlook, which is basically, "cancer? Did that... what's next? How bout sex?" I too was wondering about the dented, not same size boobies that Beans was referring to! LOL

      NM, love your dust bunnies! My MIL calls them Moozies, and my DH is very organized. Not so much with baskets, but still very organized. I try to be!

      Hey Kymn, hope you have a better day today. Glad you could pop in for a bit. Lack of mojo comes from being put on hormone blockers if you are an ER+ PR+ girl.

      Kathy, there has been several times when I have had to go back and look at avatars, and names (since some you change your avatars) to see who is posting. I got you a tropical bar stool, but I had it made out a more comfortable material, and that one should arrive soon!

      Astorm, you got it....LMAO! {.)(O)  Different sizes and dented, too funny.

      Stanzie, I think all moms go through that kind of stage with their children, especially daughters. Hang in there. As for the weight, you know muscle weighs more than fat, so maybe that's it?

      Well off to another full day of cleaning. Unfortunately I am not one to stop and take a break. I know I should, and my back felt it yesterday, but there is SO much to do! So I will see all of you loverly ladies in the morning!

      {.)(O)   Lori

    • wahine
      wahine Member Posts: 7,590
      edited February 2011

      NM, Your gift baskets sound so nice.....lucky recipients!!! Thanks for the funnies, and also our DOTD! Wish my DH was organized, like Lori's DH, but he is soooooo messy that I just feel overwhlemed all the time. Just can't keep up with it all....but I AM trying!

      Lori, Thanks for the beeootiful bar stools! The comfier ones should be awesome! Sawwy about changing out my avatar, just change it when the mood hits.

      Beans, Such a beautiful picture....you are a beautiful gal, inside and out! When are you rejoining your DH in the mountains? OR are you there already???

      Kymn, Don't overdo, take it easy. Hope you are feeling good today!

      Stanzie, Maybe some incentive to get your DD to do chores? Do they get allowance? If so, maybe they have to do certain chores every week b4 they get it? I was pretty strict, so my girls did help out, however it was harder for me to get them to clean their own rooms! And my youngest DD liked to learn sewing and cooking (she won 4H awards for sewing outfits when she was young, and now makes wedding gowns, etc from her home), but my oldest DD didn't want to do any of that. She now wishes she had learned when she was at home! Great for you with exercizing....I really need to do more of that...realized I have gained weight since Dec when we were in HI, and then when my parents came back with us....too much eating out, several times a week. Maybe you and NM will inspire me too.

      Heading out to the buffet and to try NM's organizing drink.....maybe it will rub off on me! Hope all you lovely ladies have a really nice Sunday!!!

      Okole Maluna!

      Kathy

    • Kymn
      Kymn Member Posts: 887
      edited February 2011

      Good Morning, Well the sun is shining here in alberta but it is still so darn cold dont want to go out there. I am hoping to have a better day today everyone keeps telling me its all in the attitude......sigh....wish it was all in a pill that would be easier.When I left the hospital on friday they gave me an envelope with some of my upcoming appt and one is for medical imaging saying R87.6 Abnormal findings in specimens from female genital organs, abnormal cytological findings....WTH...and for lab work with the same description I know I have to get a bone scan but is this saying that they suspect its in my cervix too? I just dont know how much more of this i can take without cracking I feel like I am going to have a panic attack and I am trying very hard to just stay calm. I think it might be time to have my mom come here. I have been trying not to let on worried I am with her because she and my dad are in Mesa right now they are snowbirds and I dont want to ruin their trip. They are supposed to come home in april maybe i should just wait.she has offered to come but I keep telling her there is nothing she can do at this point as i have not really started any treatment yet but maybe I just need my mom, god I feel like I am 16 and not 41 right now I need to get a grip.

      Claire I am glad you are having such a wonderful time skiing, i used to ski when I was younger it was so beautiful the first run when the snow was still fresh.

      Beanius I love your new avatar you look so warm and friendly :) I think you need to come for a drink and cheer me up lol

      Dorothy I forgot to tell you too that your picture was beautiful too I think I was too busy feeling sorry for myself I didnt mention it.

      Kathy I hope things are going better for you today and things have calmed down a bit in your world. thank you so much for your encouragment through this with me.

      Ok I have to ask as I have not been able to figure it out yet but who the heck is pants????

      To everyone else have a great Sunday, I am going to sit back and drink my coffee now and just try to breathe.

      Love to all

    • wahine
      wahine Member Posts: 7,590
      edited February 2011

      Kymn, This sure is a crappy *journey* sometimes.....the not knowing...wondering what things mean, etc. I have NO idea what that means, wish I could help there. Have you tried "googling" it? I feel so confident that you will be fine, as you are on top of things, and doing what is needed. Wish we could share a shoulder for you to cry on....I know I leaned on several of you a few days ago, for that! As far as whether or not to let your mom know you would like her there....I say go for it! As the mom of married children, I would be there in a heartbeat if one of them said they needed me. As long as I could get a plane tix. Yes, it would cut her vacay short, but just guess where she would rather be! Duh...with you of course and helping you through this. (((hugs)))!

      As far as our Tattie Tenders (TT's), Pants is from a Chevy Chase movie.....is that right girls? I *think* it was Lori that thought of calling him that....could be wrong though. And Jocks was thought up too....the same time a few of us invented the HTL. Wqs a joint effort, but I am not sure exactly who came up with what names. They are our bartenders, masseuses, etc. Then we added *Hunk* a real casino dealer Junie and I met in Tunica, cause he is nice and really is a hunk....he helps out when needed....LOL. Then the *Wenches* were invited and we all voted on names and what they looked liked. We have Candy, Skates, and.....um.....I think Sugar? Have you seen the video that Lori put together? If not, ask and one of us will post the link. Then you can see the firepit, banana hammock, swimup bar, etc. Hope that helps!

      Oh yes, Dorothy, I like your new picture on your avatar too....forgot to mention it!

      Junie, Hope the sitters didn't lock you up...haven't heard from you. Is DH due back today? HD, where oh where are you?????? Dee????? Chrissy, hope you can get back on a computer!!!

      And, Good luck Kymn, and hope you will lean on us here!

      Love to all,

      Kathy

    • raincitygirl
      raincitygirl Member Posts: 700
      edited February 2011

      Kymn - I agree with Kathy - as a mom of adult children, one of which is married, I would be delighted to leave wherever I am to be with my son or daughter.  We still love to be needed :)

    • Beanius
      Beanius Member Posts: 1,494
      edited February 2011

      Kymn - You've gotten some excellent advice from wahine and RCG...if I could have had my mom with me I sure would have, no question about it. My mom passed away a long time ago so it was not possible, but I sure wanted her with me. I was very fortunate that my older sisters have been there for me. My oldest sister flew up to be with me for my first chemo. She's a mother too and she was so good to me and my husband. She came to our place and cooked and cleaned and chatted and went for walks with us. It really helped to take some of the burden off of my husband too, since we don't have kids I lean on him so much. Then my other sister came to visit several times too and it was so so so much appreciated and nice to have her there. Every test that I went through last year was extremely anxiety provoking. You get the test done, then have to wait forever for the results, then you get the results and don't know what they mean. It's just awful. Some of the things sound so bad and then when you talk with your doctor they say "oh, that's nothing." So I am hoping that for you, so frustrating to get a note like that with no explanation. Just hang in there and I just know things will get better. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

    • Beanius
      Beanius Member Posts: 1,494
      edited February 2011

      NM - I was so happy to hear a plastic surgeon could correct dents. I hadn't thought of that before. Don't know if I'll ever get aroundtwototooit, but it was nice to think about it. I absolutely love your moose cartoon, so funny and the dodos - LOL! I have done quite a bit of snow shoeing and my one recommendation is to use some ski poles if you have them. I always use poles to help me keep my balance, but some people don't use poles. The first time I tried them was a few years ago and I started out on a flat area and just went really slow to get the feel of it. I hope you have a great time! The Organizer Cocktail is perfect as that's what I've been trying to do all weekend. I have all this stuff now in bags and boxes and somehow it's got to fit in my car??? Wish me luck!

      Claire - Glad you had a great day skiing! The weather was gorgeous here and I got out for a run and felt great in the sun and blue sky. Only problem was all the folks around had their BBQ's going and the air smelled of lighter fluid - PU! I wonder if that will ruin the healthful benefits?? Anyway it sure took the edge off of me and I slept really well. That Puddin' recipe looks really awesome and a kept a copy - thanks for posting it! I love to cook and this looks like a fun and devilishly delicious treat.

      AStorm - You have sure got a way with words! I really like the basket idea, especially for gift giving...hope you and WD had fun last night...and the bonfire is still going....purge away!

      Dorthy - glad you made it to the party last night and soooo glad you didn't fall in the fire - LOL!

      Stanzie - That is so nice that you do so much for the elderly couple. Wow, 85 and both in wheelchairs. Sounds like it was exhausting but I'm sure they appreciate all you do. I'm sorry to hear there is some friction between you and your daughter, that must be so frustrating. That's great you're going to your trainer and gaining some strength.

      Goldie - we were so chatty yesterday, it was a lotta fun. Like your pun, yes, proly still glowing from rads - ha ha! Those are such great chairs for Kathy, love em and I just love your signature today - so funny {.)(O) - oh my what we go thru!!!

      Wahine - I think I'll finally get my car loaded and roll outta here tomorrow. I should have gone today, but I'm just going too slow (too much stuff to burn still). Tues looks like weather may turn bad, so I think I'll head out in the morning. Thanks for explaining more of the HTL. I did as Lori suggested and kept a link...hope this is the most updated...it always makes me smile, you ladies were so creative in all of this and Lori did a great job on the video.

      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aA1oe_ER96s

      Sure hope all are doing great today and I'm thinking of HD and junie and hope they will pop back soon.

      Yad lufrednow a evaH!

    • hunkydory
      hunkydory Member Posts: 722
      edited February 2011

      Hi Beaner....I just wanted to stop in and have a drink with ya before ya hit the highway!  Now, if we can get Junie to join......all the better!  Sreehc!  DH

    • dara_diverse
      dara_diverse Member Posts: 5,004
      edited February 2011

      just popped in to catch up on the posts...had a great time at the bon fire, enjoyed the sizzle of Bean's icebag coming up in flames. Someone was smoking something funny, I smelled it, hmmmmmm, Kathy???

      Beans, love your photo, you look so young and I love the pretty long blond hair. Oh, to me blonde, always dreamed of it. I did not picture you looking like that, you had dark hair in my mind. 

      Kathy, glad you are feeling better.

      NM, loved the DOTD, your comments and great funny pics.I am still cracking up over your post on the many generations and evolution of dust bunnies, you are a witty one! I have some great great great dust bunnies under our bed. I had hardwood floors throughout most of the house and the bunnies are no friends of mine. Still laughing.....

      Kymn, the other girls did give you great feedback. It is not easy for any of us and we have all been through the scares and the waiting.  It sucks.  I will be praying for a quick recovery, we miss you at the lounge.  Seems Golide and Kathy are now designing new barstools but we will keep ours. Pink leopard is a sign of strengh and while I sit on my stool, I look at yours and just know you will be back laughing with us in a pain free, worry free world. For now, just try to relax, breathe in and out, and try to avoid the panic attacks.  Big hugs coming your way...okay, I better send before I time out, I started this an hour ago....

    • nativemainer
      nativemainer Member Posts: 7,919
      edited February 2011

      Kymm--in medical coding language, breasts are often considered one of the female genital organs.  Have you had a pap test recently?  It's a common medical coding mistake to code breast issues as cervical, because the cervical stuff is so much more common.  Also, the coding can be driven by your insurance company.  If your insurance only covers certain tests for possible cervical cancer many places will code it that way so it will go through insurance.  Tomorrow am call the office that ordered the tests and ask for an explanation. 

    • Beanius
      Beanius Member Posts: 1,494
      edited February 2011

      Hi there HonkyD! Glad to clink a glass or two (or twenty) with you for happy hour!! Anyone else wanna join us?? srEEhc!!

    • Kymn
      Kymn Member Posts: 887
      edited February 2011

      Hey JB welcome I am dusting off my pink leopard skin bar stool as I have been having a pity party the last couple of days and looking for my dorothy with the matching stool. glad you decided to join the fun, I am pouring my rye and diet and ready for a fun night. Its a holiday here in Canada tomorrow so whooo hoooo I am free to endulge.I havent recieved any pink gifts as of yet lol as a matter of fact have not recieved any I think everyone is hoping this will just go away.

      I think i might add some pink jewels to my glass and maybe a big pink ribbon too Laughing Ok ladies I am ready to party with you tonight come out come out whereever you are pity party is over

    • wahine
      wahine Member Posts: 7,590
      edited February 2011

      Joining in...just got home and actually had Happy Hour with my parents and saw all the geese and ducks going across the lake, and the beautiful sunset colors above. Awesome! But of course you can twist my arm and I will have another! LOL. Welcome  JBinOK...pull up a barstool and stay awhile.

      Beans, Glad you got packed and will leave tomorrow b4 the bad weather !pirt efas a evaH

      Dorothy, Darn it, I thought the incense was hiding the smell.....caught! But I didn't inhale..honest! lol

      NM, Interesting to hear about how the medical jargon can get misinterpreted!

      HD, Stay awhile this time, and drag junie back here too! Lori, Hope you got everything all cleaned up! I had a heck of a time getting a custom pleated shade hung on a metal door.....have 3 more to do tomorrow, but now I know how to do it easier. Boy that was a job-and-a-half!

      Hi Kymn...I missed your post! What holiday is it for you Canadians? We have onetomorrow  too...I think it is Presidents Day. (At least I think thats the one!  LOL).

      ChEARS! Barmen!

      kathy

    • Kymn
      Kymn Member Posts: 887
      edited February 2011

      Its family day tomorrow thats where they give us all one day off then give the kids the whole friggin week off calling it family week but all it means is that the parents have to scramble around looking for babysitters for the kids all week lol unless of course you have a teenager at home like I do very handy having the kids 6 years apart.

      thank you NM for explaining that sometimes the medical jargon isnt what it seems all the time. i will try and keep that in mind until a doctor tells me other wise or i will drive myself crazy.

      JB I love reality TV, it drives me DH crazy but I cant get enough of it lol. Looking forward to the bachelor tomorrow soo glad he got rid of Michelle for anyone else who follows this crazy show. Ok time to fill my glass, watching hockey right now. DH just poured a drink too its on lol

    • wahine
      wahine Member Posts: 7,590
      edited February 2011

      JBinOK...don't give anything away......it is taping for me as I am watching the SNL commercials, then Desp HW comes on! Kymn, Glad you finally caught the last episode of the Bachelor....I was so glad too that Michelle was sent packing! Gotta watch that while drinking champagne though! Gotta go......

    • Beanius
      Beanius Member Posts: 1,494
      edited February 2011

      Hi JBinOK - so sorry I bumped into your post and dint know you was here. "Love the road you're on" is a good one!

      So who brought  the champagne and where's my glass? Cheers!!