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TIME TO CIRCLE THE WAGONS GIRLS

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  • sherloc
    sherloc Member Posts: 893
    edited September 2007

    Okie Dokie think I'll hang out at the Hamptons and The Spa till this nonsense stops

    Somebody let me know when we are back to the loving group we are meant to be.

  • 2up
    2up Member Posts: 944
    edited September 2007

    jeeeeeze!

    the drama AGAIN is just friggin ridiculous!

    ............ but at least i feel young again ......... like in high school, no make that grade school lol!

    while i feel for debby's dilemna i can't help but wonder why we are continually being subjected to this train wreck network of women who clearly need to resolve their childish, competitive, attention seeking issues elsewhere. 

    unlike cheri (who is a better person than i lol)......... i opted to shoot my mouth off because this situation is another prime example of why i too, seldom post!

    what a bloody damned shame .............. i feel disappointed and kinda lost ..... this was the only place left in my life that i could depend on ........ everybody else let me down over and over again, but i could always come here ............... now .............. well, why bother?  the repeated BS of a chosen few is just sickening and has completely detracted from what this place once meant to me (and others).

    i don't get into the "grand farewell's" anymore, i cringe when i see them ........ and the cryptic bantering back and forth is enough to make me lose my lunch!

    around this time last year "we" managed to run a certain someone off the boards for a whole hell of a lot less bullshit than this!  funny thing too ........some of the same players!!!!!!!

    i can't find the right word for it, i'm just so disheartened and actually embarrassed for this little group of adult women who are finding happiness in airing their childish power struggles here!

    well, go ahead and let me have it ................ i'm a sun lover so my skin is really thick lol! 

  • susanmcm
    susanmcm Member Posts: 699
    edited September 2007

    Cheryl I'm sorry you are having troubles.  I wish antibiotics worked the way they were supposed to.  Here are some new friends I found to cheer you up.

  • candie1971
    candie1971 Member Posts: 2,467
    edited September 2007

    Well, friends, have a good night's sleep.

    Going to surgeon tomorrow to have stitches out of knee and find out when I can drive and go back to work.

    Brenda, I hope your infection keeps up so you don't have to go thru getting another port.

    For the people who really want to keep this thread, just keep posting and ignore the BS. Thank God, I have no idea what it is all about.

    Hugs and prayers,

    Candie

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    life's a long song - Jethro Tull

  • nosurrender
    nosurrender Member Posts: 737
    edited September 2007

    HELLO?

    IS THIS THING ON???

    ANYONE HOME???

    DOES ANYONE MODERATE THIS BOARD ANYMORE???????????????????????? 

    Read about Cy and the REAL LIFE PROBLEMS of someone enduring metastatic breast cancer

    Read from Shel who is also a club metster

    Read from those of us currently in treatment again

    And then we read about this NONSENSE.

    Susan, I thank you for trying to explain it all.

    Now it is time for a moderator, if BCO still has any, to MODERATE THIS FORUM.

    HOW MANY LETTERS DO WE HAVE TO SEND?????

    I am praying for ALL my breast cancer sisters and wishing easy tx, gentle procedures, and HEALING.

    When they switched the forum over did they also do away with all the rules of conduct?

    This has been a shameful display and I am sure that Dr. Weiss did not envision what has occured here over the past several days for her beautiful and generous website designed to HELP WOMEN WITH BREAST CANCER.

  • candie1971
    candie1971 Member Posts: 2,467
    edited September 2007

    oops, Brenda I worded that wrong--I meant I hope your infection CLEARS up--so sorry!!!

    well said nosurrender!! 

    Hugs,

    Candie

  • 2up
    2up Member Posts: 944
    edited September 2007
    ............ i miss "home" ......... i miss my BC survivor/fighting friends ............ i miss the days when a select few didn't monopolize this place ................ oh yeah, and i miss my boobs, my nipples, my health, my memory and my energy ............ and once in a while my ex husband lol! 
  • Peter
    Peter Member Posts: 297
    edited September 2007

    Good Afternoon/evening/Morning seem to get lost at the moment as to what time of day it is for everyone, just wishing all a happy and safe Monday.

    Have not read back since my last post a couple of days ago, and not going to, but just glad that on this page it seems to be returning back to the way it should be.

    All my sisters from Amy to Z 

    If any sisters are having any medical appointments or tests I wish you all the best, any awaiting on results I pray that they are what you want.

    Just want you all to know, although  I mainly hang out on Gin'a site because of computer issues that I experience here, I always keep every one of you in my thoughts and prayers.

    Take care

    Peter 

     

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 2,728
    edited September 2007

    Nicki

  • newvickie
    newvickie Member Posts: 2,941
    edited September 2007
    Shel...you know i love ya...

    Shirley...you too...

    I'm sorry.  Time for me to go hide under the couch again.

    Vickie

  • Odalys
    Odalys Member Posts: 929
    edited September 2007

    Good Monday morning dear friends.  A new week is beginning.  It's been raining heavily in this part of the circle this morning.  Can't go for a walk as I had hoped but will walk on the treadmil instead...boring. 

    Peter - I was going to post that same pic.  Ah....great minds think alike. 

    Best wishes to Gina and everyone else who is going for tests today.  Hope everyone has a peaceful day today.

    Remember, if anyone messes with you today...you can tell them you don't give a rats ass!       hahahaha

    Love and hugs to all my friends from A to Z.

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 471
    edited September 2007

     

    Good Morning Everyone, no time this morning as I'm rushing to drink my coffee and jump into the shower.  Taking Audrey to her well child checkup and then going to my Onc appointment.  Wishing everyone a Great day where they don't give a rat's ass about anything that's not important.  Love&Hugs,

    Charlene

    PS. Cheri ... not a whine, more like a whimper  hahahaha

    CY, Shel, Gina, Shirley, I agree with you all

  • newvickie
    newvickie Member Posts: 2,941
    edited September 2007

    So I take it I am considered to be one of the "bad four"...I will tell you that I am not.  I was asked to do one simple thing to cheer a sister...I came to put a stop to it...

    I go out of my way to hurt no one...I don't believe my behavior was childish.

    Once again I am sorry

  • 2up
    2up Member Posts: 944
    edited September 2007

    vickie ............. wtf are you talking about???????

    these women really did a number on you by even getting you involved!

    what a shame!

    i give up. 

  • newvickie
    newvickie Member Posts: 2,941
    edited September 2007

    Oh God Shel...I thought you all were referring to me in relation to the "others"...don't give up.  I am soooo not involved with this bunch.

    I love all my sisters here...this is the only support I have...the ONLY support.  I need to be here. 

    Can we please close the door on the troubles of the past week or two and start again?  Please...I would seriously beg for that to be.

    Love to all

    Vickie

  • Unknown
    edited May 2008
    Good morning Campers!  Its a beautiful Monday here.

    Yesterday, I finally scrubbed up my pattio table.  Its been in a sad state of neglect for the past 3 1/2 years.  I used to take my coffee outside in the mornings to sit and enjoy while I let the dog out back.  After diagnosis, I just seemed to let so much go and that was one of those things.   Its just one of those white heavy plastic ones you get at Walmart and I really thought there was no way I could get it clean.  But I've become addicted to those lovely British ladies Kim and Aggie and they use white vinegar to clean just about anything so I thought I would give it a shot.  AMAZING!  I didn't even have to scrub to hard.

    Susan -- I'm sorry you are having some problems but you will get through this. 

    Nicki -- good morning.  I hope your day at work goes well.

    Gina -- I checked out your website and you did a wonderful job!  Looks fantabulous.

    Cheri -- how is the walking coming?  Remember, just a few more weeks until you go back to Iowa.  Doesn't your pt start this week?  Or was that last week?

    Jankay -- I got all the fixins for the pumpkin bar.  I couldn't find unsweetened pumpkin though.  There was only one pumpkin choice on the baking aisle.

    Sheri -- today is going to be the day that your son heads home.  I know it is because my fingers and toes are getting cramps from being crossed so long.

    Well, going to go hop in the shower.  Be back in a bit.
  • Unknown
    edited May 2008

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  • sherloc
    sherloc Member Posts: 893
    edited September 2007

    well shoot howdy you know I just can't stay away.

    Vicki, I wuvs you too.

    Jaz that is just to pickin funny.

    I've been up since 3. How absurd is that. Went to bed at 8:30 so did get a few hours in. "They" say as we get older our bodies need less sleep. All I have to say to that is I AM NOT FREAKIN OLD!!!

    And did you know that Minesweeper set on expert is impossible to beat.

  • Unknown
    edited May 2008
    Sherloc -- thanks for the Minesweeper tip!  I need to introduce you to Pogo....  www.pogo.com.   This is where I go when I can't sleep.
  • nosurrender
    nosurrender Member Posts: 737
    edited September 2007

    Vickie, for an accountant you sure can't add!

    NO maam you are not "one of the four"

    Shel, I love ya.

    Just for kicks though:

    MODERATORS??? HELLO???????? 

  • Unknown
    edited May 2008

    ECHO...ECHo....ECho....Echo...echo!

    Nope...nobody home! Tongue out

  • MargaretB
    MargaretB Member Posts: 771
    edited September 2007

    Cheryl and Cheri, hope the port issues for both of you are solved soon. You both have been through a lot and need a break.

    Candie, hope you are able to drive soon.

    Peter, love that picture.

    Nicki, I'll take another cup of that coffee.

    Jas, who are Kim and Aggie?  I take it they are on a home improvement show.

    Everyone from Amy to Z, hope you have a good Monday.

    Margaret

  • wildabouthorses
    wildabouthorses Member Posts: 458
    edited September 2007

    No time to read yet but Good Morning! Here is an amazing hand shadow show to see that was shared in a biker forum.  http://www.milkandcookies.com/link/66513/detail/

    We raised over $5,000 total with two biker benefit meals over this past weekend to help a lady biker who went down when she hit one of two dogs at the end of her driveway and had her shattered knee replace.

      Hubby got bit by a spider last night, bagged up the sucker and I need to wake him to see how its doing to see if he needs to go to the doctor instead of work. Not sure what kind of spider it is, doesn't look anything like the brown recluse spider that we have alot of in this area.

  • Unknown
    edited May 2008

    Margaret

    They are on BBC, a show called How Clean is Your House.  I have become absolutely addicted to it.  They are two elderly ladies who go around the UK shaming the citizens for their dirty houses and showing them how to clean up.  I like it because they have some great cleaning solutions that are natural things you have in your home, no harsh chemicals.

    White vinegar is one of the things they use alot.  They also use table salt, grapefruit halves to clean the tub, and other good tips.  Plus, they are hilarious!

  • Unknown
    edited May 2008

    WildJan -- I hope your hubby is okay.  We have alot of those brown recluse in our area too.  That was a really nice amount to raise and I'm sure the friend will so appreciate your thoughtfulness and kindness.

  • sherloc
    sherloc Member Posts: 893
    edited September 2007

    Jaz, I signed up at pogo but none of the games would load. Boo Hoo

    WildJan, ouch for hubbys spider bite. I hate spider bites

  • Unknown
    edited May 2008

    Sherloc -- it sounds like you may need to consider a new computer soon that is more up to date?  That may be why you are having so many issues with BCO loading slow as well.  I love Pogo, what a shame you can't get it to work. 

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 1,233
    edited September 2007

    Good morning Circle. What a rotten night last 'night' and the one before. I got about an hr sleep is all and when i did finally get some rest it was time to get up. I wandered around the boards then tossed and turned awhile when i went to bed. Feel lowsy. Hard to keep a good attitude when over tired. I really want to break into a real big whine but that never does me any good and i get carried away with it. lol

    Vickie, do you need a bigger spoon? hahahahaha You silly girl.

    Charlene, good luck at the onc today. This leg threw me off track and i'm about 6 weeks behind on my new oncs visit. I have got to get an appt. made but it would help if i could walk.

    Jazz, you sound like a white tornado on all that cleaning. Wish I could do what you're doing to my house. Get it all nice and spick and span. I want it that way i just don' t want to have to be the one that does it. I watched those funny little ladies once. I think my house would give them heart attacks. I started PT last week and of course I hate it. I think people who work in collection offices and physical therapy have a natural mean streak in them.

    Shirls, I know exactly what you mean. I can't and don't intend to stay away either. I don't even fight it. I just go with it.

    Good morning Margaret and Odalys and Nicki.

    Wild Jan, sorry about your dh's spider bite those can get nasty.

    Hey to all from Amy to Z. Have a good day.

  • shokk
    shokk Member Posts: 790
    edited September 2007

    Good morning sweet sisters and Peter..........well, well, well what kind of foolishness did we all experience over the weekend.......sorry ladies but I just have got to put in my prespective on the topic of MissShity.............I believe that she has a personality disorder......narcissium.........she is a narcissist............I know one when I see one......lived with one for 30 years.........you guys Puppy, Mena, and Vickie have to understand that she hates herself so much that she must feed on the souls of others to feel that she is alive.........having a relationship with a narcissist is a no win situation..........they have to be constantly assured that they are good, caring people even though the furtherst is the truth.........they are nothing but shells of people........because they have no souls they have to get souls from people they come into contact with.......their "friends" have to constantly reassure them that they are loved and liked and all that crap........then when they are "caught" in lies they will never accept the fact that they caused problems but their "mother is dying" or something anything to excuse their behavior........these people will join a group...."church,book groups, whatever and they are like a cancer slowly befriending certain people......usually people with some sort of problem.....i.e. Puppy and Mena...........befriend them.........destroy their lives (steal their friendships for their own interest) and when that buffet has closed move on.......Vickie you need to understand that MS hates you because you represent everything that she is not......you are younger,prettier,sincere,caring.......you are the person she wishes she could be but never will........thats why you were singled out in her furry..........she hates you and I know you have done nothing wrong but honey you cannot let her win..........ok guys will brb I am not done..................