TIME TO CIRCLE THE WAGONS GIRLS

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  • Harley44
    Harley44 Member Posts: 2,126
    edited August 2008

    SloaneDeb,

    I'm praying for you, and sending lots of HUGS your way!! 

    God Bless,

    Harley 

  • SheriH
    SheriH Member Posts: 472
    edited August 2008

    Slonedeb, so sorry you are having so much trouble.  My prayers are with you.

  • AlaskaDeb
    AlaskaDeb Member Posts: 1,159
    edited August 2008

    Slonedeb - Sending you hugs and lots of prayers.  Avastin can get good results fast.  I hope it kicks your cancer too the curb.

    Hugs

    Deb C

  • Nico1012
    Nico1012 Member Posts: 1,152
    edited August 2008

    Dear Sisters - Sending up all my prayers for those in the center of the circle tonight.

    Valerie -  read your post on the JE thread. That was perfect and it says it  ALL!

    Nicki - You post the most beautiful pix! Is there any way I could print them out?

               Computer stuff is not my forte. Would love to have pix like them to frame.

    BMD - Would love to have some of your weather. I'm about to melt here!

    Exhaustion once again has hit me like a ton of bricks and the bed is calling. Sweet Dreams ladies. Meet you at the chuckwagon in the morning!

    Nico

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 2,728
    edited August 2008

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    Good Morning Everyone.  Week-end warrior signing in to say hello.  Dont have much time anymore during the week cause of work.  Sending big hugs to everyone.

    Nicki

  • slonedeb
    slonedeb Member Posts: 133
    edited August 2008

    helo sisters  deb c hope yu are doing better i know you will be ok thanks to all you beautiful women for standing by me i fel a litle better today but have lost another 9 lbs this last week but the swelling has went down in my leg and now my knees are really hurting both of them i havent got no desire to eat but hopefully that will pass sher h do you live near frenchburg  pammy where are you niki glad you are feling better anyone else i left out im sorry but i cant think straight these days forgive me but i love all of you  god bless deb from ky

  • luckywife
    luckywife Member Posts: 5
    edited August 2008

    Hello and checking on sloandeb, Alaskadeb, and other sisters (many I don't know but wish the very best anyway.

    Sloandeb I have been looking for you and found here with an update. Best with the new chemomplan to kick that tumor out. Are you given any oxy. tank for breathing? Take care and keep in touch. I worry about you.

    Alaskadeb, I got your update and praying for the best of results for you. You arew one lady who can carry any look gracefully. I chech your website. Love your blog nd pictures of thr famikly. You too seem to be surrounded by a lot of love. It will (and our love here too) will get you throgh this rogh patch.

    My prayrs for all who are having a tough time. I don't know if this a close-private group but I have come in anyway to give my wishes and gentle hugs.

    -luckywife

  • [Deleted User]
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    edited August 2008

  • TheShopMama
    TheShopMama Member Posts: 276
    edited August 2008

    Hello everyone.  Slonedeb, I am here.  Just haven't posted much cos I don't feel like I have anything of great importance or significance to say.    I am so sorry for this recent news about the tumor on your sternum.  I hate that you are in such difficult pain.  A good question from luckywife above.... do you have oxygen at home?  You are a portrait of such strength and courage.  I hope you know how much we care for  you and how many prayers are said for you daily.

    Good to see you popping in and out, Nicki.  Hope your foot is doing well and Chicagoland is a good place to be today.  I have never been to Chicago, but hope one day to visit there. 

    DebC.. I so admire you !  I know it is difficult for you now, but you never forget to think about others and encourage them,  Know we all pray for you so much and pray for only the best for you!

    A lot of new names here that I don't recognize  (or more likely my chemobrain forgot), so welcome if you are new, and if you aren't, just a big old hello from Georgia today.  I have my eyes peeled for Valerie... where are you girl?  Auntie Puppy needs to pop in as well.  Nice to see Odaly and {{Neesie}}.  Sheri.... are you frantic, or ready for school to start tomorrow?

    Wishing you all a day of dragonflies and rainbows.  Pammy

  • livesstrong
    livesstrong Member Posts: 207
    edited August 2008

    Pammy - I'm here- can you see me waving???  Just too darn busy at work lately plus DH has been hogging the computer at home.

    How are things in Georgia country?? I've been meaning to tell you I saw my friends that move to Lawrenceville last year.  They love it!!  They won't be moving back to NJ anytime soon. Hey is it true what they say   - when a Southern calls you Mam'am (sp) it really means they are calling you stupid? lol.

    Love ya sister,

    Valerie

  • sunkistmi
    sunkistmi Member Posts: 12
    edited August 2008

    Good afternoon dear sisters,

    SloneDeb, I don't know you but I you are such an inspiration.  I can only hope that if I ever find myself in your situation, I will be as uplifting, caring and gracious as you are.  You are in my prayers and His hands.  May He hold you very, very close.  Lots of love.

    DebC, I imagine the fireweed blossoms are near or at the top of the stalk, indicating the coming of winter.  I still have some fireweed jelly I made several years ago using the blossoms.  I gave them away for Christmas the year I made it.  Everyone love it.  I am still bummed about not being able to go to Victory this summer but look forward to being up in Fairbanks next summer.  Maybe we could get in contact by phone or something then.  We'll see.

    Took the team to the PS yesterday and she was thrilled w/my progress.  She removed the breast drain but leg was still putting out too much liquid.  Probably will come out next Monday.  She said she had never had a patient that was wide-eyed, laughing and making jokes in recovery after a 10 1/2 hour surgery.  I'm sure those pain meds helped. 

    Having a problem sleeping on my back; found myself on my side Sunday early AM so now have to put pillows on either side to keep from rolling over.  Have to do this for 4 weeks for proper healing of the breast.  Absolutely hate it but at least the steriod injection I had the Monday before the surgery is making it reasonably comfortable, otherwise I think it would have been very, very difficult.   Biggest problem is staying down because I feel so good.  Apparently one of the problems with this surgery is post-op healing of the leg.  The skin surrounding the incision can break down and can cause the healing to really go slowly.  Staying down helps it not to happen, so it is very important to do so.

    Saturday is the big Dream Cruise where those of us who have classic cars (1969 Plymouth Road Runner) and those who like to look at them get together on a 10 mile stretch of Woodward Ave., running through 5-6 different communities.  Everyone drives up and down, admiring each others beautifully restored cars.  Our car club has a site reserved in Pontiac, at one end of the route, for us to park the cars when we are not cruising.  I plan to take my recliner and enjoy the beautiful weather we have been told is expected.

    Well, this is the second time I have typed this since the computer did something with the other one.  I need to get my 'snack' and antibiotic.  Thank you again, to each and every one of you, for your prayers and good thoughts and for keeping me in the center of the circle.  This is a very special group of women and I feel blessed to be part of you.  My love and prayers are with everyone.  May God keep each of you safe in His hands.

    In His Hands,

    Wendy

  • slonedeb
    slonedeb Member Posts: 133
    edited August 2008

    glad to meet you wendy i know what you saying about ol cars my husband has a 1967 baracuda and he loves that thing he is getting it ready to be painted good to see all you ladies take care and god bless have to wait on someone to come and help me to bathroom i love you girls debc i pray for you everyday and i know everything is going to be ok deb rom ky

  • TheShopMama
    TheShopMama Member Posts: 276
    edited August 2008

    slonedeb so glad to see you posting.  I know you probably don't feel like it, but we love hearing from you.  I hope you are aware that hundreds of prayers go up in  your behalf each day here.  I asked God this morning to ease  your pain and I hope he does.

    DebC a big hug to you.  Did I tell you I have always loved your avatar?  Love those feathers and I love you.  Your courage and strength are such admirable qualities. You are such an encouragement to all of us.  Know that you are in the palm of God's hands.   And when you can't see his hands...trust his heart. 

    Busy at work but just had to check in for a minute.  Hope you all have a great day.  We had some much needed rain last night and this morning.  The grass is already greener!  Love and hugs to all.  Pam

    P.S.  Aunt Puppy... sure am missing you.  Hope you can check in soon.

  • slonedeb
    slonedeb Member Posts: 133
    edited August 2008

    I LOVE YOU GIRLS DEB FROM KY

  • Barb1953
    Barb1953 Member Posts: 258
    edited August 2008

    Good Morning Sweet Friends, It's been quite a while since I posted here--sorry, kinda got lost on the trail !!! I do try to read , to see how everyone is doing--especially Puppy, Sloanedeb, Deb C, and our new friend Wendy. Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers.

    Hope everyone has a nice day Smile 

  • purplemb
    purplemb Member Posts: 593
    edited August 2008

    wow, lots of new friends... welcome..

    PAm even a hello is something important to say, please stay in touch...

    Wendy.. welcome. umm car lover here.. (73 Dodge Charger).. Woodward Dream Cruise ..someday I hope....

    SloanDeb.. hugs and always keeping you in my prayers

    DebC... as you saw got the hat, can't wait for winter...lol.. tell mom its great... hugs my friend, we will see you next year...

    Sheri school starts so early, ours is after Labor day..good thing cuz DH says its not ready..uggh contractors who don't show up for work... hope the teachers understand...

    I have missed so many, so sorry.. take care

    MB the nut on the hill

  • SheriH
    SheriH Member Posts: 472
    edited August 2008

    Well, I got through the first day.  Yeah, 179 to go!  Actually, it went really well.  I have a pretty intense schedule, but I think it's going to be ok.

     I'll be checking in whenever I can.

  • livesstrong
    livesstrong Member Posts: 207
    edited August 2008

    Quick pop in gals -

    Sheri - glad you got thru the first day without any mishaps.

    MB - how are you??? Recovered yet?

    Hi Barb - how you doing?

    Wendy - 101/2 hours????? Is this the first I'm reading this??  WOW!!!  You are one tough cookie.  But still keeping you in the center for awhile.

    slonedeb - how you doing sweetie??  Hope today is a better day for you.  (((((((((DEB)))))))))))))))))

    Pam - how's my favorite Georgia peach?  Will be thinking of you tomorrow night - I am going to see the Allman Brothers.

    Nicki - I've decided you work too hard. lol Slow down woman.

    Gotta run,

    Hugs from A to Z.

    Valerie

  • sunkistmi
    sunkistmi Member Posts: 12
    edited August 2008

    Yes Valerie,

    It was 10 1/2 hours!  It was the longest surgery I have ever had and this was number 22 & 23 if you count the leg & breast separately.  I have been absolutely been amazed at how well I feel!  I keep waiting for the shoe to dropl  My drain amounts from my leg have really been high today so I will be surprised to hear what the PS says tomorrow AM.  I have felt fluid in the breast as I have be massaging the hard spots.  It feels really weird.  I'm hoping she is going to say that it will just take time to absorb and that she won't have to take a needle and withdraw the fluid. Ouch!  I hate needles.  If I am putting out too much from the leg, it will force me to stay down.  I think DH is hoping for 'something' to keep me down.  I just feel way too good.  I absolutely believe it is because of the total prayer cover I have had.  The PS even acknowledged that she had never seen a patient recover as quickly as I have, from recovery room to last Monday when I saw her.

    Thank you for keeping me in the center of the circle and for the hugs.  This is such a special thread.  I have felt so loved and blessed, by women who are walking the same path as I am, and yet in many ways,in different shoes.  I feel like some of us have soft moccisins and others have shoes filled w/pebbles.  Our job is to lift the sisters up with pebbles so they don't have to feel them.

    May everyone get a perfect nights sleep and awake rested and refreshed in the morning.  My prayers are with those that are hurting, in body and/or in spirit.  May God hold you close to Him and may each of you know just how very much you are loved.  Take care.

    In His Hands.

    Wendy

  • nosurrender
    nosurrender Member Posts: 737
    edited August 2008

    Wendy, did you have breast tissue made from your leg? That is so cool. I have heard of that before, it is very cutting edge.

    I am so glad to hear how well you are doing!

    Big hello to all in the cirlce!

  • TheShopMama
    TheShopMama Member Posts: 276
    edited August 2008

    {{{Gina}}}   How nice to see you in the circle!  Thanks so much for showing us yourself.  It is always good to see you.

    Wendy, congratulations on doing so well after your surgery.  I hope the healing continues in this manner!  We will, of course, keep you in the center of the circle.   I liked the comment about the pebbles in the shoes.  I feel like I have walked on pebbles so long that the soles of my shoes are made of pebbles!  It has helped to make me walk taller and be stronger.  I am hoping I am strong enough to help others.

    Where is Aunt Puppy?  Girl you need to pop in and say hi.  I am beginning to miss you something fierce!  I pray all is well with you.  Tell Ed hello from me.

    Valerie... the Allman Brothers... boy does that take me back to...... "Doraville.... a touch of country in the city.... Doraville...it ain't much but its home....."  I actually stayed in Doraville one summer when my brother was living with some girl up there and I babysat her daughter.  Funny, the things you remember.  Enjoy the concert!

    MB.. have you recovered from Pinkstock?  Oh how I wish I could be a part if there is one next year.  I will be an empty nester for real next year as my son is getting married in June.  Maybe it will work out.

    Odalys... don't see you here today..  Guess you are busy at work with monsters all around.  My monsters are out of the office for a moment but will be back soon so I better make this quick.

    Sheri, hope your second day of school is going well.  I know when  you get into the swing of things you will love it.  I wish my kids had had as many dedicated teachers as you seem to be.  My youngest girlchild (by love, not blood) has her Kindergarten class for the first day today and she is so excited.  Her first year she taught PreK and then 5th grade and now she is where she wants and needs to be.   Big hug to you dear, cos I know you will be tired this afternoon.

    Kinda quiet around here.  Slonedeb, just want you to know that we all love you and continue to lift you up in prayer.  Remember God is with you and He loves you so much.  Praying for freedom from pain today.

    I have missed many, but not on purpose.  Know I keep you close in heart.  Pam

  • slonedeb
    slonedeb Member Posts: 133
    edited August 2008

    pammy good to see you i am feeling bad from chemo today the trip alone wears me out but pammy i continue to pray 4to5 times a day especially for alaska deb i know she is scared to death right now she eally needs our love and prayers sher scholl doesnt start here till the 18th so my grandkids have a few more days left my grandson is looking foward to going into high school the recommended him for all the honor classes and he is thrilled about that has anyone heard from puppy i miss her how about zarowy well goodnight my loely friends take care  deb from ky  i know god loves us all

  • Odalys
    Odalys Member Posts: 929
    edited August 2008

    Hello friends. Work keeps me busy with little computer time but I'm always thinking of you. Checking in on all the sisters in need.  I brought with me a pic of the campfire we had at Pinkstock.  It's a great night for sisters to just gather around the fire and give each other strength and comfort.    

  • Lynn48
    Lynn48 Member Posts: 69
    edited August 2008

    Good Evening All,

    Odalys, what a lovely campfire. don't need any hot chocolate tonight at this end of the circle. A good tall glass of ice tea for me, beer and coolers for any who want them.

    So good to see Gina and MB, haven't seen you guys for a while. I agree, where's Puppy? Hope you are doing well. I understand you had surgery recently and are still recovering, I pray it is going well.

    Slonedeb and AlaskaDeb, I have been holding you close in my heart and my prayers. DebC have a great weekend with your family, write when you can. I was glad to see the positive half of your results and hope the spinal fluid chemo knocks dead any cells that are lurking there. Slonedeb, hugs and prayers that the new regime does the trick. May our God, who loves us, keep you safe in his hands.

    Nicki, where are you? Did you break an ankle at some time, I must have not read back far enough to get the full story but have seen hints that you are having some issues with walking and balance?? Hugs and prayers.

    Wendy, WOW, what a long surgery. And how wonderful that the recovery is going smoothly. Don't overdo it!!!

    Have missed many but you wonderful ladies are always in my thoughts and prayers.

    Lynn

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 2,728
    edited August 2008
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  • TheShopMama
    TheShopMama Member Posts: 276
    edited August 2008

    Good evening ladies.  Just a short post as I am at my friend Vicki's using her computer.  It is funny when I tell her about you all, she asks about you and prays for you too.   Friends, I finally spoke with Puppy today.  She is really struggling emotionally after the brain surgery.  Please continue to keep her in your prayers.  She asked me to tell you that she loves you all very much and misses you. 

    Slone deb I am glad to see you checking in and I am sorry you aren't feeling so hot.  Hoping you feel better tomorrow. 

    I have had the day off today and don't feel like I have accomplished a thing.  I did clean off a bookshelf and dusted.  Made it to the grocery store and bought Miles and I some groceries, and took some flowers to the cemetery.  Being off made the time fly by.

    Hope you all have a wonderful day tomorrow.  You are all in my thoughts and prayers.  pammy

  • socallisa
    socallisa Member Posts: 10,184
    edited August 2008

    Just got home from a day trip to Riverside CA for a meeting at the Mission Inn

    What a wonderful place...

  • shokk
    shokk Member Posts: 790
    edited August 2008
    Ms. Z how in the world can I thank you............you took my 11 year old daughter that wouldn't speak in public...........and taught her about passion, dedication, hard work, and how to be the best she could possibly be..............you also taught her 48 year old Mom those same lessons so late in that Mom's life.................how can I thank you for all those hours you spent teaching middle school kids life lessons that many adults never ever learn?.......Those 12 hour days and Saturday's to make sure a group of 12 and 13 year olds played as well as any professional orchestra........how do I thank you?.............where do I begin?..........My heart is breaking today.............I am selfish.............I know you no longer are in pain............there are kids tonight that are openly weeping..........boys and girls.............many of these kids will continue your legacy..........many are in college right now training to become music teachers..........they know the money sucks but that is not why they will dedicate their lives to teaching young people how to play........it is because of you Ms. Z................because you taught them that if they do something they love it no longer is a job but a passion..............this small town middle school will celebrate your life on Wednesday.............a small town middle school that has won two state championships and a World Championship in Chicago competing against middle schools from around the world...............my daughter will be attending college to study to become a Performance Musician................because of you Ms. Z..............I will miss you more than you will know...............and thank you from the bottom of my heart...........Kim's Mom
  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 2,728
    edited August 2008

    Shokk!  Im very sorry for your loss.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ULBA8pvnnE

  • neesie
    neesie Member Posts: 1,110
    edited August 2008

    Oh Shokk............I'm sooooo sorry to hear that Ms. Z lost her battle.............I remember all the nice things you have told us about her...............and her work with the kids....and your Daughter.  Keeping your family and hers close at heart.

    Neesie