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CALLING ALL STAGE I SISTERS

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  • jo1955
    jo1955 Member Posts: 7,545
    edited August 2011

    Back from San Antonio and had a great time.  DH and I were able to see some friends and played a round of golf while we were there.

    Hope everyone is doing well. 

  • eph3_12
    eph3_12 Member Posts: 2,704
    edited August 2011

    Jo has a new avatar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • annettek
    annettek Member Posts: 1,160
    edited August 2011

    Yeah Jo! Glad you had fun:) It is important to relax...I am slwoly seeing the wisdom in that:)

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Member Posts: 7,545
    edited August 2011

    Don't let the new picture scare you ladies away.  Just thought it was time for a change.  Annette - it certtainly is important to make time to relax - we all more than deserve it.

  • annettek
    annettek Member Posts: 1,160
    edited August 2011

    love seeing that fce of yours JO:) prettier than the butterfly:)

  • valjean
    valjean Member Posts: 1,110
    edited August 2011

    Welcome home, Jo!

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 9,611
    edited August 2011

    ALOHA Sisters......

    After 18 hour trip broken planes loosing connections  grrrr   I arrived here actually Friday AM......

    Everything went wrong.

    I'm here and happy. Dd was moving to another apt in the same complex and I helped her a lot.

    I saw the beach but didnt spend time yet.

    Sorry I'm not comfortable on her laptop it's different.

    I found myself the perfect bathing suit in Walmart.

    Everybody welcome home. I didnt start my vacation yet.

    I'm just happy to be here. DD is easy to get alone with so her fiance which he is in NY visiting his family.

    I'm so glad I have you all more details will follow when I have a chance to get on ........

    BIIIIIIIIG Huuuuugs and more hugs.

    Smile

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 10,618
    edited August 2011

    So glad you arrived safely.  Even if you haven't started relaxing, I am sure you are enjoying your time with your DD.  If I didn't know better I would be thinking you were recounting one of my vacations!  Take care, relax, and put on that swimsuit and bask in the sun (but wear sunscreen)!

    Good to hear from you, sister!

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 10,618
    edited August 2011

    Oh, Jo!  Love your avatar! Change is good!

  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Member Posts: 4,503
    edited August 2011

    Sheila glad you finally made now the vacation begins.

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Member Posts: 7,545
    edited August 2011

    Meece - Thanks - I love your avatar too.

    Missed everyone while I was gone.  Thanks for the welcome back Valjean

    Sheila - Glad you made it - now just kick back and relax. 

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited August 2011

    Im back too....went to a wedding in Kingston NY.then went to see GD and GGson.wonderful mini vacation.

    Love the new avatars.nice to put i face with the name.one of the sistas was gonna teach me how.not gonna mention any names.lol.

    Sheila-glad you made it now its time for the fun.enjoy sista.

    Hi Val,Meece,Jo and everyone else i forgot.

    Glad to see everyone is doin well.miss you sistas.Glad to be home.

    huggggggggggggs K

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Member Posts: 7,545
    edited August 2011

    Granny - Glad you are back -you were missed.

  • valjean
    valjean Member Posts: 1,110
    edited August 2011

    Sheila, have been thinking of you. Glad you made it safe & sound. Have a great time!!

    K ~ I've wondered where you've been. A mini-vaca is refreshing, sometimes just exactly what we need to give us a boost.

    Hugs to all!

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646
    edited August 2011

    Hey Ladies...............back too..............fantastic time down the shore house with my daughter, and 2 grandchildren..........took my daughter's mother-in-law, and she loved it.............some rain, but mostly good weather...........I hate to see the summer end................only a few more weekends, and its over.................the vertigo went away the day we left, and did not return......thought it was the Femara, but it was just the problem I get soemtimes...............I have that BPSV, or whatever the hell its called, and I guess it was just an episode of that........thank heavens it went away.........it is horrible when it happens...........today I was so tired, I could not keep my eyes open............I wisht he hell this fatigue would go away...........it is awful.............got measured for my LE garments (2), or should I say remeasured...................also the glove,,,,,,,,,,,,,and the night garment.........hopefully they get it right this time...............ok ladies have a good evening, and hugs to all of you.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited August 2011

    Ducky---glad to hear your back too.I sure hope this time the garment is gonna fit right...

    Ill be glad the summer will be over...I hate the heat and im scared to death to get bitten.I did my laundry today and would you just know it there was a fly in the laundry room...sure he got me.thank you God it was on my leg.3x.I put the insect repelant even in my laundry room.crazy isnt it.all that worry about getting the other monster LE.

    And the beat goes on.......huggggggggggggs K

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 9,611
    edited August 2011

     quick Hi when I have the laptop.

    I am very  very happy here sometimes I question myself what am i doing in NY?

    Weather is gorgous. The pool is like 10 feet away. it feels like a resort here.

    Sorry Im not replying to you all but I read the posts.

    Hugs from Hawaii Cool

    Christine has 3 dat weekend so we'll be visiting quiet beaches 

  • valjean
    valjean Member Posts: 1,110
    edited August 2011

    ducky ~ Oh, it sounds like it was such a lovely time at the shore. So glad to hear the vertigo went away & I really hope the LE garments fit perfectly. (but damn that you have to wear them at all!)

    Sheila ~ hugs to you! Sounds like you are having such a wonderful time....♥

    {{{{{ K }}}}}

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646
    edited August 2011

    Valjean........we did have fun........we won't be going down this weekend, but will the following week,and then next would be Labor Day............that is always a bittersweet time..........my husband died on Labor Day..........we usually go out back around the pool with the grandchildren....I have them all write a note, tape it to helium filled balloons, and we send them out over the water............have been doing this for 20 years............I started it the day of his funeral at the cemetary, and have done it every year since.........only we do it down the shore not the cemetary..................its making a memory.....................hugs to you

  • valjean
    valjean Member Posts: 1,110
    edited August 2011

    ducky ~ Now that is keeping a loved one in your heart. I think with the grandchildren sending special messages of their own off on the balloons, now that is love. I don't know what else to say, that is such a lovely family moment to share.

  • LovesChristmas-Barb
    LovesChristmas-Barb Member Posts: 504
    edited August 2011
    Ducky...that is such a lovely, special thing to do..
  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646
    edited August 2011

    Thanks ladies..........it is a special time.  Some don't make it to the shore...............2 are in Chicago, so they go to the Lake right across from their Condo, and send theirs up too.......one is 27, and the other 25 (brothers).............no matter where the 18 are....with me........or away from home.......they never forget..........

  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Member Posts: 4,503
    edited August 2011

    Ducky that is a wonderful tradition

  • eph3_12
    eph3_12 Member Posts: 2,704
    edited August 2011

    Yes Ducky, I think that I will incorporate something like that when the time comes for certain loved ones!  It's a beautiful tribute!   

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646
    edited August 2011

    Ladies.......the oldest grandchild when my husband died was only 8, and there was 9 of them at the time............I thought it was something they would remember about that day at the cemetary............I wanted them to remember it as a happy occassion...........he died in September on Labor Day, and his birthday was October 30th, so on his birthday we all gathered at the cemetary again...........I brought cupcakes, we lit each one, and sang Happy Birthday to their Poppie................since then we have 9 more "grands", that never knew him.........but I have my way of keeping his spirit alive.................

    I also told all of them the history of the "white butterfly"...............how that is someone from heaven coming back to see you................everytime a white butterfly comes around someone will always say "Poppie's here", and it happens at the weirdest times...........I swear it is him........graduations, communions, football games, the day we open the shore house, and the pool................he always shows up................

    For anyone who doesn't kn'ow the history..............the white butterfly signifies the Resurrection of Christ..........so the story goes, when you see a white butterly it is someone who has passed on, coming back to see you................I'm a believer.................

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Member Posts: 7,545
    edited August 2011

    Ducky - What a wonderfrul way to celebrate his birthday.  Thanks for sharing that story.

  • barbaraa
    barbaraa Member Posts: 3,548
    edited August 2011

    {{Sheila}} Have fun!

    Ducky, thanks for such a nice story!

  • LovesChristmas-Barb
    LovesChristmas-Barb Member Posts: 504
    edited August 2011
    Thanks for sharing that ducky! It's beautiful....
  • samsue
    samsue Member Posts: 599
    edited August 2011

    JO, I like your new avatar. Great to have a face with the name!

    Sheila what island are you visiting? And, what are you doing living in NY????? 

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646
    edited August 2011

    Ladies, it is funny how things come back to you..............when my husband was close to dying, was when he finally told me "I know I'm dying".......the pancreatic cancer had taken over, and after 2 years and 9 months (which was considered wonderful in the surgeons eyes) he prepared himself for the end.................he said a lot, but the thing that upset me the most, and stayed with me was what he said "I'll never get to walk my baby down the aisle"........Nikki was the last child, and the 3rd girl of our 6 children..............He was there for all the other weddings, but this one seemed to upset him the most................I remember how he wept when he told me that, and then he said to me............."but tell her to look for me in the crowd...I will be there right beside her"..................................she asked me to walk her down the aisle, even though I said  "oh I can't do this even though it was 3 years later...................when the Limo pulled up outside the church the photographer said "can the proud mother of the bride say something for the video camera"....................I said "she looks beautiful, her father would be proud, and please don't make me talk anymore"..........................as we got out of the car a "white butterfly" kept flying around us, and then followed us into the church............that fast it was out of sight, but as the Priest said "who gives this girl to be married"....................the butterfly perched on my shoulder, just as I said "I do"...............then it was gone again, only to re-appear when she turned to walk down the aisle out of the church .................I tell yo this ladies because I do belive in the "white butterfly"....................if you have lost a loved one...............look for it whenever your somewhere especially something that means something to you....................it gives you the faith and hope to belive..............your never alone.........................hugs.