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CALLING ALL STAGE I SISTERS

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  • barbaraa
    barbaraa Member Posts: 3,548
    edited November 2011

    Meecie, congrats!!

    ((dlock)) sending hugs your way!

  • samsue
    samsue Member Posts: 599
    edited November 2011

    dlock, welcome to the group. I used ice to help with the pain. I had the lump/sentinel node on a Thursday and because I didn't have much sick time, I went back to work  on Monday. I watched what I lifted (not using the BC side). and rested during lunch. Literally fell asleep! One thing I didn't do and now understand is the gentle stretching once the stitches are healed. Check with your BS to see if there is a therapist you could go to for this.

    Happy long weekend everyone!

    Granny are you back home yet????

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2011
    No im not home yet.....tomorrow morning.......still counting down.......along with todays mixed emotions...as much as i wanna get home i know im gonna worry about my GD and those kids.i am lookin forward to the quiet tho....
  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646
    edited November 2011

    Dlock, take it easy ...........I had a drain, so it was a little rough with that thing...just remember this...........if you have the help, take it, don't try to play hero......................once everyone thinks you can do it all yourself....................you will be doing it all yourself.................I honestly believe that is why "cancer" is made out to be "no big deal"....................its the people who are offered the help, try to do it alone (to prove what, I have no idea)......and then the help leaves, and doesn't return.

    Just accept whatever your offered........you will be on your own soon enough.......hugs......you will get through it..........

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646
    edited November 2011

    Hey Granny.......................................your shift is almost up......................now admit it, your gonna miss those little buggers.....................you did good girlfriend..............take a nice rest when you come back...............I'm sure they will all miss you..................have a safe trip back...............

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 10,618
    edited November 2011

    Eight years ago today.  But it seems like an eternity.  So much has happened since then.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2011
    Im back!!!!!!sure i miss them but im sooo glad to be home...tryin to do a little catchin up...im sooooooo mentally exhausted....now its ME time....gotta check on all the sistas and call it a day....hugggs everyone..and thanks for takin this trip with me....hugs to everyone.I love you all.K
  • auntienance
    auntienance Member Posts: 3,920
    edited November 2011

    "if you have the help, take it, don't try to play hero......................once everyone thinks you can do it all yourself....................you will be doing it all yourself.................I honestly believe that is why "cancer" is made out to be "no big deal"....................its the people who are offered the help, try to do it alone (to prove what, I have no idea)......and then the help leaves, and doesn't return."

    Boy Ducky, you hit that nail on the head! 

  • eph3_12
    eph3_12 Member Posts: 2,704
    edited November 2011

    Yay Meece!

  • Jaimieh
    Jaimieh Member Posts: 925
    edited November 2011

    Meece~ Wishing you many, many more years. 

     So I haven't checked in, in forever but I hate this time of year.  I have an oncologist appointment on Wednesday and this time of year always reminds me of when I was diagnosed.  It's horrible!!  I hate it..

  • valjean
    valjean Member Posts: 1,110
    edited November 2011

    Meecie, dear sister/friend ~ Sending best wishes for many, many more ReBirthday years! Congratulations!

    Hugs!

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    edited November 2011
  • valjean
    valjean Member Posts: 1,110
    edited November 2011

    I'm getting things around to head north for a few days to celebrate our family Christmas with DD#2 & grandchildren. I leave Thursday & will be back Dec 6. I'll miss everyone, but I know it will 'do' my head good to only have visions of sugar-plums dancing in it along with toys, baking & lots of playing.

    I'll check in tomorrow night.

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 10,618
    edited November 2011

    I hope you have a wonderful trip, Valjean.  Playtime is wonderful to clear your head.

  • Kaara
    Kaara Member Posts: 2,101
    edited November 2011

    I'm having a lumpectomy and SNB on the 12th of December, so hopefully I will be much better before Xmas rolls around.  Trying to get as much done, tree and other decorations as well as shopping before, so I will be able to take it easy.

    I'm going to give in and let other family members do the party planning this year.  If we get together, fine, if we don't, so be it.

    Had to fight yesterday to get my app't with my PCP for my pre op prior to surgery.  They just didn't want to give me an app't so I had to turn into a royal bitch and pull out the big "C" card (which of course was all being recorded for quality control) and then they managed to fit me in!  Why does it have to be that way?  It took three calls, talking to three different people, and finally a hissy fit before I had success.  More stress from this than finding out about the bc!  

    Only ten more days and this thing will be out of me...then I find out if I need radiation or not.  I found studies that said women over 70 don't benefit from radiation, but my BS says not so fast.  I go tomorrow morning for a meeting with my entire medical team where I will have a chance to ask additional questions.  It's a great program, so I'm looking forward to that.

    I'm new to this ladies, so any advice would be welcome!  Have a great day. 

  • mimi1964
    mimi1964 Member Posts: 851
    edited November 2011

    Hello Ladies and a much belated Thanksgiving to all of you! Hope you all had a wonderful time...

    Meece congrats to you on 8 yr cancerversary and may you have many, many more :) 

    I spent the holidays sick with a migraine and on the sofa and in the bed for 3 days then my stomach virus came roaring back with a vengenace.  I just can't seem to kick this stomach bug.  I've taken pepto and I even have prescription Lomotil.  It's truly been one of the worst I've ever had. 

    Monday I went to see the breast surgeon for my yearly follow up and of course everything is good. I also had my yearly mammogram done, he looked at it and said it looked o.k. however without last years mammo to compare he couldn't be a 100% so we wait on the Radiologist to read them.  I guess I'll get the results next week.  They usually mail me a letter. 

    Val have fun with the grandkids and your DD celebrating Christmas.  I'm not ready yet I haven't put up our tree yet. 

  • samsue
    samsue Member Posts: 599
    edited November 2011

    Mimi sorry you're still having trouble with the stomach virus... and congrads on the mamo. I haven't put my Christmas tree up yet either. Will use the same old one that has to have lights put on it. Just can't break down and buy a new one that's already pre-lit. Maybe if they had a huge sale!

  • odie16
    odie16 Member Posts: 1,415
    edited November 2011

    Meece - Congrats on the cancerversary!!! May you have many more to celebrate!

    Kaara - Sorry it took so much stress to get the pre-op visit.. How crappy but glad you didn't back down. Wishing you the best of luck with your surgery.

    Valjean - Enjoy your time away with the family and safe travels.

    Mimi - I hope you feel better soon and congrats on the good mammy... 

    No tree up in our house either yet. Maybe next week.....

    Hope everyone has a great week.

  • elimar
    elimar Member Posts: 5,890
    edited November 2011

    Meece, oooh, I missed your "cancerversary."  One day at a time, one year at a time and look how they add up.  Congrats!

    Mimi, Two years out and a clear mammo, congrats to you too.

    I pulled my Xmas tree out of the closet, but my stubborn side does not want to put it up until I flip the calendar over to December.  Really liking the non-gift, family orientation of Thankgiving more in recent years.  I seriously hate to see Thanksgiving lose ground to what has become the ultimate consumer holiday.   (But that does not mean I am not sitting here munching a few mint, holiday edition M&Ms right now.  ;-)

  • joan811
    joan811 Member Posts: 1,982
    edited November 2011
    Elimar, I am with  you on the Thanksgiving as favorite holiday.  This year was very stressful for me as one daughter refused to come because the hosting daughter invited her ex - the father of their children - to Tgiving.  It's over now, but I cried buckets.  I don't know what will happen for Christmas.  I am learning to call my own shots, get my visits in, and let them work it out.
    So, my big "shot" is that I am taking 9 of us to Radio City Music Hall on Saturday - 3 daughters from DC, NJ, and CT plus 5 of 7 grandkids.  I am hoping it goes well -- I really need some Christmas Joy. 
    One thing for sure, BC does not have any regard for persons or holidays.  But we can uphold and encourage one another and I am very grateful for the honesty and gentle spirit of each of you.
    Hugs as we turn the calendar.
    Joan
  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 9,611
    edited November 2011

    Hi to all my sisters....I was MIA for few days.....I read all the posts every day.

    Today is a better day.....

    Joan...I laughed about when I read the father of their children quote. and i know it's not funny.

    I call my ex the father of my children too. I try real hard not let him get to me with his stupid ideas etc..... It was long time ago.

    good for you girl we have to take care of ourselves first.

    Go enjoy the show and we are here if you need to rant

    HUGS

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 9,611
    edited November 2011

    Meece....i'm happy for your celebration sista....

    Val....I know how much you enjoy the little ones... have a good time.

    Renee you know♥

    Granny how are you?

    Ducky..i hope you are well hugs

    elimar...thanks for the visit  ♥

    ToAll my Sisters I want say this I love each and every one of you. ♥♥♥♥

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 9,611
    edited November 2011

    My daughter is getting married in July 2012.   Kiss

    I'm so very happy I can sing

    lalalalalalalalalalalalalalalaWink

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 9,611
    edited November 2011

    dlock....Welcome to our sisterhood.

    hugs

  • elimar
    elimar Member Posts: 5,890
    edited November 2011

    Sheila,  I see you have decorated this thread already.  Early bird!  I have not done my "home thread" yet...but tomorrow is Dec 1st so...soon, very soon.

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 9,611
    edited November 2011

    elimar....I just began to decorate.......

    I better decorate my tree which I like to watch but not crazy about all the work. i'm getting very lazy.

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 9,611
    edited November 2011
    Soon we will be celebrating our 10.000 post     Smile
  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2011
    im in for the count only.....the exhaustion hit....love and miss ya....hope to be back tomorrow.and puter is slow.huggggggggsK
  • survivor11
    survivor11 Member Posts: 430
    edited December 2011

    Hello again my sisters. Been MIA for awhile, very busy this time of year with holidays and kids programs and parties.

    Have read all the posts and want to say congrats to everyone for doing so well, and to hang in there for those having a harder time. I'm doing well, awaiting surgery in Jan for TE replacement and getting everything ready for x-mas.

    I'm ashamed to admit it, but X-mas pasts have always just been a huge stressor for me (mostly my own doing), but I got to thinking. Last year I barely got a tree us because I was in the middle of moving and I thought "what if that had been my last x-mas with my boys-it just wasn't a good enough memory for me". Anyway I've kinda gone overboard with it this year, hell if something sits still long enough I'm going to decorate it. Not stressed at all about the holidays, looking forward to it-funny how BC can give that perspective isn't it?

    Happy belated Thanksgiving-I know I was really thanful this year for all I have.

  • elimar
    elimar Member Posts: 5,890
    edited December 2011

    Here ya' go Sheila:

    Happy...

                       

    May all the friendship and support you have in this thread continue to strengthen and grow.

    (Not to bee confusing...it's at 10,000 on "My Favorites" already, but not on this page count.)  Foot in mouth