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  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Member Posts: 4,503
    edited December 2011

    Val love the pictures of your Village

  • mimi1964
    mimi1964 Member Posts: 851
    edited December 2011

    Hey ladies long time no chat... I have been sitting with a lady on the weekends (not much money but every little bit helps these days as we are barely getting by), and I have still been sick.  Just got over a bout of nausea, vomiting and diarrhea.  Been checking out my symptoms and I'm starting to think it may be my gall bladder.  Boo!!!  guess I'm going to have to go to the doctor... yuck!

    Welcome to all you new ladies this is such a wonderful, supportive group of friends.  I miss them all when I don't get to come on here. I have just spent the last 2 days reading and trying to catch up.   So much going on in everyone's lives.  I really hate to hear about your SIL Sheila.  Prayers going up for her. 

    Big Hugs to all of you...

    Renee

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 9,611
    edited December 2011

    (((♥Sherry♥)))

    Val......You are very talented....Stockings are just beautiful........Decoration is also very beautiful.

    Renee......Speedy recovery. I know it's been going on for a long time hugs.

    (((Sisters)))

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 9,611
    edited December 2011

    Likeachickadee.....Sorry you have to go through tests again. hugs

    Kaara.....At least you live in a warm place if you decided walk out nude.Wink

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited December 2011

    Wow what a difference a day makes.....

    Val sista/friend....just beautiful.such a talented lady you are....keep the pics coming.

    Renee-yeah you need to catch a break

    Shiela...still prayin for SIL.

    Kaara...your story did make me smile.walkin out of the hospital either in that ugly gown or nude.hope your freind makes a lot of noise.

    did i forget anyone??????love all my sistas....and dont forget check out that thread Lets draft a letter to Washington....we need all the help we can get...lots of people look at it but not too many activists sayin much!!!!!!!its in the advocy part.

    huggggs everyone K

  • odie16
    odie16 Member Posts: 1,415
    edited December 2011

    Val - You are a talented and creative woman..Love the pictures.

    Renee - Hoping you feel better soon. Like yesterday!

    Kaara - Hate to admit it but I wore the crappiest outfit to the hospital just in case they lost my stuff. I hope your stuff turns up...

    Making it an early night. Hope everyone has a good evening.... 

  • mimi1964
    mimi1964 Member Posts: 851
    edited December 2011

    FYI: I made an appt to see my primary care doc tomorrow at 3:30.  Please send up some prayers for our financial situation also, it is getting very dire.  We are to the point not sure where money is going to come from to pay bills like the elec and phone.  If I didn't have you ladies to talk to I don't know what I'll do.  If I lose my phone I lose my internet also.  I'm working on the weekends making 200.00 but it just doesn't go far enough.  It would really help if my daughter was helping out but that is not happening.  We've tried to tell her but no luck making a kid understand the seriousness of the situation.  I think stress has also helped to pull my immune system down.  I really thought I'd have a job now.  Just gonna believe and keep having faith.  I'll let you know what the doc says.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited December 2011

    Mimi---there is financial  help out there...i dont know about where you live but if you put it out there someone will surely have some kinda info for you....I know in NJ one of the sistas was in a bad financial bind....she did get a gas card and also $$$ for electric and im not sure what else.I wish i could be of more help except maybe start a thread.thats what this girl did.it cannot hurt and just maybe someone will know something....

    Im prayin for you right now.The last thing you need right now is stress....good luck tomorrow.Please let us know how you make out.If i can help you with any info let me know....huggggggggggs K

  • samsue
    samsue Member Posts: 599
    edited December 2011

    Welcome Likeachickadee glad you found us ~ as always sorry for the reason.

    Mimi ~ hope something turns up soon for you and you're back to feeling better!

    Val what a beautiful village.. how long have you been collecting?

    I had my RO app't this morning... he's great, we took a look at the mamo pic's and he thought they all looked good! He did schedule me for an MRI of my head.... since I've had some nagging pain and just can't get rid of a sinus/cold thing....  has anyone had one of those? Go back to see him in June so I'm still on the 6 mo rotation.

    Granny did I read somewhere back a few pages that you're going to be GONE again the month of January?

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited December 2011

    Samsue---you read right.was supposed to go to fla for a month BUT now im havin all kinds of stomach issues...waiting to hear from my nurse who never called today(thats really not like her)

    I read a while back that the rads can bring on colitis...well i had colitis way back and it has been in remission but its acting up bad right now and im not so sure ill be able to go anywhere till i get this thing checked out...AND my dr is in India till the end of the month.....Bleeding from the backside is never a good thing altho its not something new.....we will see.At this point i just wanna stay out of the bathroom!!!!!!!!

    Its not even Christmas and i got another gift from bc.....this really is the gift that keeps on giving.

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Member Posts: 7,545
    edited December 2011

    Mimi - Sending prayers that you find a solution and get to feeling better soon.

    Samsue - Glad to hear the RO appt went well.  Hopefully you will get some answers after the MRI and you also get to feeling better. 

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 9,611
    edited December 2011

    Today I decided to celebrate ME DAY.

    I loved it. I don't do anything for myself so I went online and bought some stuff from Macy's one day sale. Free shipping and $25.00 off on $100   Smile

    It made me feel good. I only bought few things i needed...........

    And i don't feel guilty... like my DD always says that I have to make myself happy ...

    I love my daughters

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 9,611
    edited December 2011

    (((Granny)))

    (((Samsue)))

    (((Renee)))

    Hi Jo

    (((Sisters)))

  • samsue
    samsue Member Posts: 599
    edited December 2011

    Granny, the bathroom is one of those rooms in the house I'd rather not spend a lot of time in... unless it's for a hot tub soak! Wink I like the lavender and epson salt/sea salt soak ~ heavenly!

    Thanks Jo, I go to work every day as usual but sound like I've "got something" that everyone will catch... the PCP I saw last Wed thought it was just allergies but the RO thinks different. We'll see.

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Member Posts: 7,545
    edited December 2011

    Sheila - Good for you.  We should all do that more often.  What would be fun is a spa day.  Go and get pampered.

     HUGS Sisters

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited December 2011

    ((((((((((((((((((Sheila))))))))))))))))) ya coulda told us about the sale....i have no problem spending $$$$$$$ especially in the mood im in right now....and spending it on ME......good for you!!!!

  • corgi09
    corgi09 Member Posts: 9
    edited December 2011

    I'm new and mostly lurk.  I was diagnosed in early Oct., UMx on 11/28.  The pathology came back (besides the original tumor and "area of concern" from the MRI guided biopsy) with 8 other tumors/tumorlets  I have micromets in 2/3 nodes and am meeting my RO tomorrow.  I've already met with my MO.  I've given blood for menopause placement and will be getting the Oncotype report.  I don't know what I'm doing next and I'm so weary from the waiting and worrying.  This place is so wonderful cause I feel I can just be that here.

  • samsue
    samsue Member Posts: 599
    edited December 2011

    Sheila good for you! You deserve it just because you're special....

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 9,611
    edited December 2011

    Oh Jo Spa Day sounds wonderful.Kiss

    I love massages and that foot thing reflexology (SP) it is so relaxing i almost fell asleep.

    Since I dont do ME DAY maybe i would book a massage too. Of course i have to write a letter to Santa...

  • samsue
    samsue Member Posts: 599
    edited December 2011

    Corgi, welcome to the family of many sisters.... All I can suggest is take notes and ask a lot of questions. I did have someone go with me to a couple of app'ts and that in itself was helpful. Please come back often and voice any of your concerns. We're great listeners and someone here has probably experienced what you're needing to know about.   (((hugs)))

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 9,611
    edited December 2011

    samsue....What a nice thing to say.

    Thank You

    ♥♥♥♥

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited December 2011

    corgi---we are so busy treating ourselves to these wonderful things we overlooked you....let me introduce you to the best sistas you will ever meet....i dont get serious very often but right now let me tell you that this house is your house.we laugh,cry,joke,curse(well i do) have fun but most of all if one sista huts we all hurt....know it.sorry you have to come to our house but welcome.have a cupa anything you like and vent away.come often too.huggggs K

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 9,611
    edited December 2011

    ♥(((corgi))) & ((( New Sisters)))♥

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited December 2011

    samsue---you beat me to it....we must have been posting at the same time....

    its late and im tired.its time to say good nite.hugggggs everyone K

  • Judy67
    Judy67 Member Posts: 213
    edited December 2011

    Hello, I'm a fellow stage oner.  I've had bmx and reconstruction.  Orig. not slated for chemo but oncotype dx score too high so now starting chemo next week.

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 9,611
    edited December 2011

    Hi Judy......We almost have the same DX.

    What type of chemo are you getting?

    Hugs

  • valjean
    valjean Member Posts: 1,110
    edited December 2011

    Hope I don't leave anybody out:

    Kaara ~ Several years ago when I went to the hospital for a surgical procedure I wore my MI (football/hockey) jacket & I worried about it the entire time. DH said the nurse had hung it up & I remember wanting him to get it & put it in the bag with my shoes & clothes. I kept asking him if he could see it from where he sat. I think it was when I'd had my colonoscopy so I was "out of it" but he kept answering me anyway. I never again wore anything good - I wear gruddy clothes & the worst shoes I have. I cannot believe they misplaced/lost your things. Unbelievable! I hope you continue to feel better. ((hugs)) And I hope they find your clothes.

    Likeachickadee ~ I will be keeping good thoughts for your mamm. Please keep us posted.

    Samsue ~ I think I bought the first houses in the late 80's. I only bought for about 4 years because the prices kept going up & up & I was finding I couldn't display everything at once & that did it for me. My brother sets up a sheet of plywood 4'x6' or so & has the most beautiful village. He has many, many more than I do, even has two lighthouses & boats along a dock. I sit on the floor in front of it & look at all the people & each house. I always tell him I'd like to live there. But, then, I'd be rather small, wouldn't I?!?  I'm glad your RO appt went well & hope your MRI shows sinus troubles or nothing at all.

    Aw, ((( K ))), I hope you're feeling better. (gentle hugs) And I hope your trips to the bathroom have lessened considerably.

    Renee, you know I pray for you every day. ♥

    Corgi09 ~ I'm so sorry you have to be here, but I think you will find this to be a soft place to fall. These sistas are the very best for comfort & imformation. As grannyD says, "If one sista hurts, we all hurt." 

    Sheila ~ Do you know how happy I am that you had a "ME DAY" ???? More than you know! You so deserve it! ♥ 

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 9,611
    edited December 2011

    Val...my sister/friend i keep missing you. Thank You for your kind words. H♥u♥g♥s♥

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 9,611
    edited December 2011
  • corgi09
    corgi09 Member Posts: 9
    edited December 2011

    Thanks everyone for the "Hello".  I'll be back.