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  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438
    edited December 2013

    Oh hell Gail!!! A broncoscopy without sedation?  you have got to be kidding!!!  That truly was a cruel thing to do to you. That test has got to be one of the most uncomfortable and scary tests out there. Sure hope those steroids kick in quickly to give you some relief so you can feel a little less ordinary.

    Mandy, it's about time you sat back and relaxed a little......I honestly don't know how you do it!!

    Love n hugs.   Chrissy

  • Trisha-Anne
    Trisha-Anne Member Posts: 1,661
    edited December 2013

    Gail - you poor, poor thing, that is such a cruel thing to do to a person.  You would have thought they could at least have given you twilight sedation - so you didn't remember it!!  I hope the steroids do their stuff quickly for you and you can feel a bit better.

    Mandy - seriously!? You do way too much girl - have a good relaxing time over the next couple of weeks.

    Karen - have been thinking of you - hope yesterday went ok for you, and you get no se's from E xoxoxo

    Last day at work for me today, and another hot one. It's been really nice at home though - for the first time we have air conditioning, it's bliss!

    Trish

    xoxo

  • Fitzy
    Fitzy Member Posts: 55
    edited December 2013

    Gail, hope the steroids help. So sorry you had to go through such a horrendous experience. Wishing you relief so you can enjoy a good holiday period.

  • midnight1327
    midnight1327 Member Posts: 1,331
    edited December 2013

    Gail, thats horrible, am so sorry you had to go thru that. really hope that the steriods help and  that you have a relaxing christmas. i thought it was bad when the colonoscopy  i had , the sedation i had and i felt every bit, but what you had, cor blimey, cruel buggers.

    Mandy. stop and take time for you girl.

    Karen, thinking of you,  hope u ok.

    going out in truck today, hubby gotta do some deliverys in Whanganui,  so much freight, did not fit on BIL truck. we doing the cleaning up little stuff. so just waiting for him to load up. not too hot today. tomorrow we are sharing sheep, from 8am til  finished, big day. for me, having our farm workers helping. make it easier and the shearer has a good dog that  brings them in.  its brilliant that dog, kelvin just whistles and his dog does the rest. amazing to watch her.  it is a she. i love watching  trained dogs  muster sheep.  anyway hello to eveyone and hope you have good day.

  • mandymoo
    mandymoo Member Posts: 632
    edited December 2013

    Gail, I am so sorry that you had to go through that. Here's hoping the steroids kick in and you start feeling better real soon! Gee, Cancer really sucks!!! 

    Karen, how are you? We are all thinking of you. xxx

    Cheers

    Mandy xx

  • midnight1327
    midnight1327 Member Posts: 1,331
    edited December 2013

    Well, looks like i am staying home, Bil is going to ride around with him and help him deliver as  hubby does not know some of the places,  i was looking forward to going out to, oh well i will rest up for tomorrow.

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438
    edited December 2013

    Oh dang Annette........anyway, resting is a good thing, just ask me, I've been doing a lot of it lately.......lol.

    I don't know if you girls remember a lass called Adelaidegirl?  She posted on here when she had a BC scare I think it was early last year.........any way, I had a txt from her daugther today saying that she passed away four days ago.  Apparently she had a melanoma a few years ago, was treated and seemed to be clear.........not so, it came back and none of the docs picked it up.  Her DD said she knew something was amiss and they felt something was amiss as she was a little too bright of late.

    Sorry for the sad news but I needed to share as I had been in touch with her late at night when she couldn't sleep........we would txt converse for ages but I hadn't heard from her for a few weeks and just thought she was busy with Christmas as we all are.   I'm so glad her DD let me know but oh so sad at the same time.

    Take care all!

    Love n hugs.   Chrissy

  • Tammy_M43
    Tammy_M43 Member Posts: 565
    edited December 2013

    Chrissy (((hugs)))

  • mandymoo
    mandymoo Member Posts: 632
    edited December 2013

     Chrissy thank you for sharing this with us and it was also very thoughtful of the daughter to let you know.  I feel a bit sad that the doctors let her down, I know that we are all human, but even so.... I hope the daughter provides feedback to the doctors so that hopefully they can learn from that and be more diligent in the future. (((hugs)))

    Cheers

    Mandy xxx

  • midnight1327
    midnight1327 Member Posts: 1,331
    edited December 2013

    Chrissy, that is very sad. very sorry and right on Christmas too,  she will have a lovely christmas in Heaven, but  the poor DD and family are going to greatly miss her, flaming cancer. i read of a girl, 23 who suddenly developed a gut ache and  it got so bad she went to   get it checked out and it was ovairan cancer and the tumour was as big as a rock melon and they took it out, but it tested as a grade 3, stage 3 terminal cancer and she was gone in 12 days. so i am counting my blessings i am still here 3 years after  dx  with BC. that  ovairan cancer is a real sneaker up cancer, by the time you are DX, its nearly over for you, i know BC  can be like that too. anyway change the subject, i am getting depressed.  and i don;'t want to depress others, its just making a statement really, sorry.

    yesterday we  did the sharing of sheep, started at 8am and  finished at nine last night. they all done, was an out side job, had our two farm boys on the job, i observed most of it, the shearer wanted to complete the whole lot, did 34 at the farm and 102 and the other place we have leased., and then it turned cold. the wind was very cold and i felt sorry for them, loosing their coat, but when it is hot, they will be pleased, they all going to sale in new year or works, we trying to go completely away from sheep, they too much work and none of us are that robust, i get a sore ribs and back just standing for half an hour and it cost as the shearer drenches them with his stuff after each sheep  done,  hubby was panicking about our drench running out and  forgettting to get it, as the other shearer dont do that, we have to drench them after, but this one does it as he shares them and he has the dog who musters them and the yards, as there aint any at the leased place. so a job all done, just have to pay him now, twelve hundred and 51 bucks and the wages of the farm boys, so an expensive  day. the other shearer is cheaper, but he is older and would do  them over two days and we have to do alot after, this guy is completes the whole thing and has the amenities and teaches the farm boys how to handle the sheep and laughs at them when they put a glove on,  GET YR HANDS DIRTY BOY< you can always  wash them. its funny, one was an indian and the south korean, they very loyal and good workers and have tenacity too.  

    hope you have a good  day, i have written you an essay, sorry lol

  • Kazzie61
    Kazzie61 Member Posts: 418
    edited December 2013

    Oh Chrissy....so sorry to hear of your friend. It always knocks us for 6 when we lose someone. I hope you're doing ok (((hugs)))

    Gail...that's just awful what you've been through! I hope the steroids have kicked in....sending love & thinking of you xx

    Chemo went well......needed a steroid the day after as I couldn't get out of bed, it did the job though. Yesterday I felt quite tired & took 2 sleepers last night & slept for 12 & a half hours!! Gotta do what you need to to get through. Today I feel achey all over & very tired....even after all that sleep last night, so hopefully tomorrow will be a better day & I'll be good to go for Xmas....:)

    I have the pressies all wrapped & my bag packed to head off on Xmas eve & the family is very much looking forward to it all.....& that's what it's all about. Hoping to make it a very special time with beautiful, fun memories for my hubby & babies.

    I hope everyone else is ready for the big day.

    (((Hugs)))

    Karen xxx

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438
    edited December 2013

    Thanks girls for you thoughts.

    Karen I'm glad to hear that you are not doing too badly and all set ready for Christmas.........wish I could say the same.....lol.  I have managed to get some things started but still have loads to do.

    I guess the thread is quiet with everyone trying to get those last minute things done before the big day so I'll say it now........MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!!!!!.........lol.

    Stay cool, stay well and I'll see you all later!

    Love n hugs to all!   Chrissy

  • Delvzy
    Delvzy Member Posts: 454
    edited December 2013

    congrats ally on 7 years ned it gives us all hope. Wishing you all a great Chrissy try and remember to REST and enjoy time with family and friends. Hugs to all Judy 

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 1,422
    edited December 2013

    Off to Adelaide tomorrow for Christmas with our daughter and my cute wee grandbaby.

    Hope you all have a lovely Christmas!!!

    Sue

  • Tammy_M43
    Tammy_M43 Member Posts: 565
    edited December 2013

    Merry Christmas to all.....enjoy special time with family and friends ((( hugs)))

  • midnight1327
    midnight1327 Member Posts: 1,331
    edited December 2013

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    MERRY CHRISTMAS LADIES, HOPE YOU ALL HAVE A LOVELY DAY AND HAPPY NEW YEAR.  AND KEEP SAFE.     LOVE AND BIG HUGS    Annette & Ron xxx

  • midnight1327
    midnight1327 Member Posts: 1,331
    edited December 2013

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    this is sparky, he is joint ownwership with the neighbour, he is with her most of time, he does not like dogs much, she came and asked me if she could have him, we said yes. he sleeps on her bed and follows her around, she is elderly,.but he still comes and visits us, was sitting on bathroom window saturday night when we got home from doing sheep, i would rather he be where he is happy and he is good company for her.if we shift he will live with her permantly.

  • Jennt28
    Jennt28 Member Posts: 1,095
    edited December 2013

    Hi all,

    Still very hectic in my life and trying to rationalise so am not online much right now.

    The good news is that after 2 years of insomnia I now seem to be catching up on sleep. Right from the first night in our apartment I am now sleeping through, or if i do wake I go back to sleep quite quickly. Not sure if the melatonin I ordered during our weekend away is helping but I have been taking it.

    With this new oncologist and me being on a trial for early stage bc I have a whole bunch of annual assessments lined up for the 3rd January - CT, bone scan, ultrasound. They also booked me a mammogram but after checking with my plastic surgeon, I phoned and pointed out these breasts are reconstructed and my surgeon prefers they not be smooshed :-)

    I am still working up until tomorrow afternoon so hope you all have a lovely Christmas with family and friends.

    Love Jenn

  • aussie12
    aussie12 Member Posts: 421
    edited December 2013

    Hi all

    I hope that everyone has a great Christmas with family and friends.

    I have to work Boxing Day at 6am so even Christmas night won't be a late one, but as I'm putting the tickets up for the Christmas stock which goes to 50% off I may get some bargains. LOL.

    (Christmas) Carol ,Ha Ha

  • mandymoo
    mandymoo Member Posts: 632
    edited December 2013

    hello everyone. Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas tomorrow and I hope it will be a day that we forget all of our troubles and enjoy what we have.

    Hugs

    Mandy xxx

  • Kazzie61
    Kazzie61 Member Posts: 418
    edited December 2013

    Merry Xmas everyone.....hoping we all have a wonderful time filled with health, happiness & love.

    (((Hugs)))

    Karen xxxxxxxxxx

  • Viji
    Viji Member Posts: 89
    edited December 2013

    Merry Christmas and happy holidays to everyone!!

  • Trisha-Anne
    Trisha-Anne Member Posts: 1,661
    edited December 2013

    Chrissy I'm so sorry to hear about your friend (((hugs)))

    Aly - 7 years Yay!!! Doing a happy dance for you Headphones

    Merry Christmas girls!  I hope you all have a lovely day filled with peace and happiness.

    Thank you to each and every one of you for your  friendship, support and love.  This is such a wonderful group, and you are all the best sisters a girl could hope for.

    Love to you all

    Trish

    xoxoxo

  • Linda1966
    Linda1966 Member Posts: 441
    edited December 2013

    Merry Christmas everyone. Sorry Ive been awol again, Its been a hectic lead up to xmas at my shop (great for paying bills, not so great for my very tired mind and body lol). I'm looking forward to a day off work and a lovely lunch with my mum and sister and her family, followed by doing absolutely nothing for the rest of the day.

    I hope you all have a wonderful relaxing day with your loved ones.


    Edited to add, whichever numbskull came up with midnight trade before xmas should be made to work it each year bahahahah

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438
    edited December 2013

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    MERRY CHRISTMAS ALL!!!!!

  • Tammy_M43
    Tammy_M43 Member Posts: 565
    edited December 2013

    I hope Santa has been good to everyone!!  Merry Christmas!

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 1,422
    edited December 2013

    Merry Christmas from hot Adelaide :)

  • midnight1327
    midnight1327 Member Posts: 1,331
    edited December 2013

    Hi ladies,  hope everybody is having a super day, i am just cooking for hubby and me  and  we are having roast  pork, roast kumera and spuds, savoury eggs, brocoli, salad. and for pudding, i have made ambrosia, and fruit and anything he  feels like. ther is only so much a person can eat without feeling miserable.  lol BIL is having his own party with himself, he wanted it that way, great little shopping list he had for us to do, chips in dip, pizzas,christmas plum puddng, custard,ice cream. he has the works. i offered him a roast even if he wanted to eat it at home by himself. but he said, he will be fine with his food. so oh well, he is a loner, and hubby and i need together time to and BiL loves chatting on about present and past problems and future ones that may happen and may not and you get an ear ache and  then starts to delegate jobs,  hubby needs unwinding. he has gone to feed pigs which is good as he keeps out of my hair while i am trying to cook. must go and enjoy your day. xxxxx ooooo xxxxx

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027
    edited December 2013

    Wishing everyone a very Merry Christmas and a Prosperous and Healthy Year in 2014.

    Thanks for your support, friendship, wisdom and a safe place to learn about the acceptance needed, for the changes that come with this Dx and Surgery! 

    Just a year ago, I was terrified and clueless! Thanks again ladies, and hugs to you and yours!

  • midnight1327
    midnight1327 Member Posts: 1,331
    edited December 2013

    i will take it for granted that everybody has enjoyed their christmas festivities and enjoyed  every bit and not to uncomfortable in the tummys.  we enjoyed our pork roast, Ron has 6 halves of roast spuds and a huge dinner for him, he wanted a second helping of  ambrosia, but i said, no, he will suffer with a gut ache with too much cream as he has an intolrance toeating too much dairy,products esp in one heap which for him is not worth it, i refrained from eating the crackle as i know i get a burning gut from that and that is not worth it,  i told myself, that for two minutes i will enjoy it and then it will be murder on my esophegus, its a burning pain that i get after eating fatty food, plus the diabetes dont like it. so i had a good night sleep, we went for  a walk between the dinner and dessert and took  Goldie the dog, she loved the run. so had a good day, i am going to do the  dishes now, i  have them all nice and stacked, just ready ro do. Ron gone to farm to feed pigs and others. the horses feet are getting done tomorrow by the farrier, he has a mate that helps him, we have five donkeys and six mini horses. getting done.  anyway hope you  are all ok,

    Karen, hope you a had a wonderful day and feeling ok. 

                                  Tra for now.