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  • jbokland
    jbokland Member Posts: 275
    edited December 2013

    Hi Jenn

    I am newly diagnosed and new to this board. I am American expat living in Sydney   .  When I was diagnosed I went back to the U.S. and had surgery last week and plan to start making arrangements  to get chemo at st Vincent's ( near my house)  . This is a leap of faith for me to get treatment in Australia, I don't know the medical community there.  How has your experience been?

    Thanks and cheers!

    Jeanette

  • Tammy_M43
    Tammy_M43 Member Posts: 565
    edited December 2013

    Jeanette, sorry to read that you have joined this group.  I have worked in healthcare for many years and I have some knowledge of global healthcare.  I believe that, in general, healthcare in Australia is world class and I trust that you will receive good care.  For moral support, this board is first class so please keep posting.  Take care!

  • Jennt28
    Jennt28 Member Posts: 1,095
    edited December 2013

    Jeanette,

    St Vincent's is highly regarded. I'm sure you will be well looked after there :-) Sorry you had to join us though...

    wahine - it really is a small world isn't it? The Mokoluas are pretty special although I have never been out there. Used to take a boogie board out to Flat Island off Kailua Beach though, and ride the waves to the right of the island. 

    Jenn

  • Australia
    Australia Member Posts: 128
    edited December 2013

    Hi girls, i have enjoyed all your stories very much and wish you a belated Merry Christmas and. Happy new year from the new Goldcoast hospital, yet again! I. Had a great couple of days after my horrid procedure,shopping for Christmas,and a wonderful time with family and celebrations. But then i found myself becoming increasingly breathless and could not walk to the toilet without having to lay down. I got a bit frightened over the weekend,but was relieved when the hospital rang to say i had an appt to see the lung specialist Monday morning. Anyhow, my lungs had made no improvement on the steroids at all,so admitted me to hospital. I had a CT scan of my lungs only and i have lots of bloodclots throughout ( could be cancerous, they don't know) i am having my heart looked at today as they think blood could be blocked and putting a strain on it, heres hoping ok. Am on blood thinning injections to disolve the clots which i will have to do the rest of my days. Oh Joy! Just hope this all does not speed up my decline

    , that's the million dollar question isn't it? Love the photos of you and your,lovely girls Karen, and the tales of farm life in NZ kept me from getting teary in the middle.of the night. What beautiful women you all are. Hugs, Gail

  • mandymoo
    mandymoo Member Posts: 632
    edited December 2013

    Gail, nice to hear from you and sorry to hear that you are having so much trouble. I have to take Clexane injections forever as well, and have been doing it for almost a year now, so it is do-able and hopefully does the trick.

    Jeanette, welcome to our group, and I know that you will get the moral support that is so desperately needed at this awful time. 

    To everyone else, wishing you a Happy New Year. I have my 3 year old grand daughter standing next to me at the moment trying to help me type. We will be going to the fireworks tonight to see in the New Year and then my daughter and grand daughter will be going home tomorrow. We will visit my mum soon and take her shopping, so, I am still running around like a headless chook and loving every minute of it. :) xx

    Hugs

    Mandy xx 

  • midnight1327
    midnight1327 Member Posts: 1,331
    edited December 2013

    I went into a shop yesterday, one of those asian coin savers and i was looking for dishes for cats and the worker was following me around and spying on me as if i was going to flog something, i felt very  uncomfortable, so i went up to the counter with the plates i found, and said, i am not coming here again, i came here to have a look for pet dishes, but your worker is following me around  like i am ready to steal something, i am not a thief and a person is entitled to look around and  no wonder  your shop is empty of people, i understand you may get people who do steal, but i am not one of them and there are plenty of your kind of shops to go to, made me feel very uncomfortble, everytime i went into a different isle, he would be standing there watching to see what i was looking at,  he said sorry sorry, i  will talk to him, i said, yea well its enough to put  people off, get some mirrors and you can see what people are doing.  I came toyour one as it was  where  i ws at,I only broght two dishes, was going to buy more, but had  enough of the peeping tom. p/s, i had no bag, so where would i stick it if i had nicked anything. in my nickers or something, lol

  • midnight1327
    midnight1327 Member Posts: 1,331
    edited December 2013

    hey gail, sorry i missed your post, am sorry your in Hospital again. what a pain, hope they  find  nothing  bad and you will be ok, will be thinking of you. xxx

    Janette, welcome,  sorry you are here, but glad you are here as these ladies are magnificant and veru helpful and that makes the process very much more easy to go thru. warm hugs. xx

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438
    edited December 2013

    Hi Jeanette and welcome both to BCO and this thread.......so sorry you need to join us.  Healthcare in Australia is as good as anywhere in the world and I'm sure you will find no problems at all.  Goodluck with the rest of your treatment!

    Oh dang Gail!  That is just so scary!  I do know that having to take blood thinners every day is more a pain than anything else........my DD (eldest) was on Clexane for about ten years (her childbearing years) on a daily basis and still needs to take it when she flys......not personally but in a plane.....yeah, yeah, I got the giggle.......lol......Anyway, I do hope you are feeling way better soon.

    Annette how horrible!  They really do deserve no customers at all!........I know there are thieves around but to treat someone like that when you are a new customer......well that is just plain ridiculous!   Glad you got at least a couple of the cat dishes you wanted.

    Finally it's just DH and I......phew!!!!!!!   now for some quiet relax time......lol.....actually, I think it's time for a good clean up lol and then a bit of relax time........until Monday when I head to the city again for my doc appointments and annual mammo on one hung low......gosh I hate the big squeeze!  At this point in time what ever happens in that is really not a problem as a recurrence there doesn't phase me at all.......lol.......it just makes my doc more comfortable......hahahahaha!

    Happy New Year all!!!   Here's hoping 2014 is a far better year for ll of us!

    Love n hugs.    Chrissy

  • Her2husband
    Her2husband Member Posts: 13
    edited December 2013

    Wishing everyone a happy new year...

     My wife starts radio next week so we will be travelling to Perth for 6 weeks.....I am a country person so the city is going to be really stressful but there will be lots of things to take the kids to...

    ...any last minute tips on rads?

    J

  • midnight1327
    midnight1327 Member Posts: 1,331
    edited December 2013

    Yea, chrissy, i usually have  fav store in our big plaza i buy from, but i was a ,long way from there and could not be bothered walking it and was waiting for hubby to get me and darted in there, but never again, once i am  put off something, that is it for them, either  for ever or a long time,  we had an issue with a vet once, we found a dumped  cat, who had a bad eye and we tried to treat as we did not have the funds to fix it as  one of our cats had surgery for a broken leg and then amputated, well this  bitch, went on abusing us about this animal, who we took after about two weeks, it was really runty, but we rescued and tried our best and she was going to get animal welfare on us, Ron gave her a good bollocking for upsetting me as i could not stop crying and we went to the top and complained and they rang us and apologised and they put it down and found there to be natural  causes  and the kitten was just lucky she had at least two weeks of somebody looking after him, we called him scruffy as he was, hubby picked  up him off the side of the road in long grass., it was white and he just saw it and then stopped and got him, that vet  went  on and on, til hubby did his balls at her.  she  left not long after that. but i have never been back. to that vet practice. it was not the vet that attended to our other cat, it was another we went to when that one  was not avaiable, on call one.

    Happy new Year all you lovely ladies. 

  • Tammy_M43
    Tammy_M43 Member Posts: 565
    edited December 2013

    J, re rads, my advice would be good skin care, some gentle exercise and lots of rest.  I walked every day  for at least 30 minutes and moisturised well.  I would start the skin care ASAP to get the skin in good condition.  I was tired towards the end, as I think most people are, so make sure there is time for rest.  It will probably be more stressful being away from home but at least the family will be together :-)  

    Gail, sorry to read about your troubles, I hope things turn around for you soon.

  • Alyson
    Alyson Member Posts: 3,737
    edited December 2013

    New year celebrations have begun here, can hear the fire works. Happy New year.

    Wishing peace and health for all.

    Blessings and big hugs

  • Tammy_M43
    Tammy_M43 Member Posts: 565
    edited December 2013

    Happy New Year everyone! May 2014 be kind to us (((hugs)))

  • mandymoo
    mandymoo Member Posts: 632
    edited December 2013

    Well said, Tammy. I hope it will be a good year for everyone. xx

  • wahine
    wahine Member Posts: 7,590
    edited December 2013

    Happy New Year to all of you in New Zealand and Australia....you get to greet the new year before the rest of us!!!! Hugs!!!

  • jbokland
    jbokland Member Posts: 275
    edited December 2013

    Thanks much Jenn...and Happy New Year.  I absolutely hate that I missed NYE at the Harbour with all of my friends!  They sent me video today.

    I have a wordpress blog, too:  Jbokland.wordpress.com---you might like the obituary I wrote for my boobs. :0)

  • jbokland
    jbokland Member Posts: 275
    edited December 2013

    Thanks Tammy.   My job that took me to Syndey is also in health care, but I have only been here 8 months.

    I will look forward to connecting with everyone for further support!

  • midnight1327
    midnight1327 Member Posts: 1,331
    edited December 2013

    ThumbsUp happy new year to you all.  Hubby went out and got me a surprise macca's breakfast to start off the new year, nice too and he got the dogs a sausage mcmuffin, and before he could get the wrapping off  Heidi's one she was almost taking it out fhis hand and she scoffed it all, bun and all. he has taken them to farm for a run around, she was so excited.  they are funny, when you say, you going with Daddy? they know it means farm. and its all tearing around, like mianacs, lol.

  • MusicLover
    MusicLover Member Posts: 777
    edited December 2013

    Happy New Year to you Chrissy and your Australian Sisters!!!

    I miss chatting with you, I hope all is getting better.Smile

  • midnight1327
    midnight1327 Member Posts: 1,331
    edited January 2014

    Trish, are you ok, have not seen you for a few days, am worried as i know you have that tummy bussiness, do hope you ok. hugs. xx take care

  • Trisha-Anne
    Trisha-Anne Member Posts: 1,661
    edited January 2014

    Hello girls and J! 

    Sorry - I haven't been on for a little while - have been busy with family and friends visiting, it's been lovely.  

    Happy New Year everyone - I too hope that this year is kind to all of us 

    Jeanette - so glad you found us - you will be fine with your treatment here in Australia, we have a world class health system here. Make sure you come on here to rant, rave, cry and laugh with us, this is a great bunch of women.

    J - will be thinking of you and your wife when you go for rads xoxo

    Karen - what gorgeous photos of you and your family - it looks like it was a Christmas to be remembered (((hugs)))

    Gail - I was so sad for you reading your post - ((((hugs)))) to you too

    Chrissy - haven't done anything yet - it's holiday time remember lol.  Will start the ball rolling soon when everyone goes back. I haven't been too bad, lot of diarrhea still, but the heartburn seems to have settled down a lot which is nice.  The pain is still coming and going - but over the past week it has been pretty good.

    Annettte - sorry I worried you lol - just busy with life at the moment, which is a good way to be.


    Trish

    xoxo 

  • Kazzie61
    Kazzie61 Member Posts: 418
    edited January 2014

    Happy New Year lovelies......I hope everyone has had a lovely holiday season & that 2014 brings love,happiness & most importantly good health HappyThumbsUp

    Gail, as you know I'm thinking of you from our previous correspondence.

    I won't reply to everyone, I have been reading but since Xmas things haven't been too good. In a lot of pain in my legs. Apparently the cancer on my spine is damaging some nerves.......I saw the doc yesterday who liaised with my onc & they gave me a couple of different morphine drugs which have helped but not given total relief. Anyway, see the onc tomorrow & having an MRI as well as chemo......what a fun day ahead....Devil

    Take care lovely ladies & enjoy the rest of the holidays.

    (((Hugs)))

    Karen xxx

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438
    edited January 2014

    Good to hear from you Trish!  Yes I know it's holidays....lol.....I will forgive you for not getting things done just because of that but come next week there will be no more excuses!  It's time to get to the bottom of it all.

    Oh dang Karen!  Sure hope the docs can do something to relieve your pain.......not good.  Just know that you are in our thoughts and we are in your pocket.

    Love n hugs.   Chrissy

  • midnight1327
    midnight1327 Member Posts: 1,331
    edited January 2014

    just glad you ok,Trish. thanks for coming back on and letting us know you are.

    Karen you are in my thoughts, will be with you in thought as you go thru these things. hugs.  you are never far way.

    well bed time girls, so good night from us. XXXX

  • aussie12
    aussie12 Member Posts: 421
    edited January 2014

    Hi all

    Well not a good start to the new year for me as Mum is in Hospital. Dad was worried as she hasn't been eating and the last few months she has lost a lot of weight, she's also been losing her memory. They did some tests and may have liver and thyroid problems, she's having more tests tomorrow.

    Hopefully we can sort her problems out as she hasn't been herself for quite awhile now.

    Carol

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 1,422
    edited January 2014

    Happy New Year everyone!!!! We had a lovely visit with our daughter and grandson but are totally worn out and I have to go back to work today - poop.

  • midnight1327
    midnight1327 Member Posts: 1,331
    edited January 2014

    sorry to hear about your mum carol, hope they can find out what is wrong and get it sorted  quickly. take care and keep us posted on her progress. love and hugs. xxx

    Suzie, hope the day goes fast for you and you can get home and relax and unwind. lovely easy tea, hot shower and lovely bed.

  • midnight1327
    midnight1327 Member Posts: 1,331
    edited January 2014

    Karen, thinking of you.  hugs xxx

  • Kazzie61
    Kazzie61 Member Posts: 418
    edited January 2014

    oh god I'm scared!!!!

    He's thinking brain mets.....MRI on Monday.

    Just having chemo now.

    Karen xxx

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438
    edited January 2014

    (((((((KAREN))))))))    Don't jump the gun girl........deep breath and wait for results.  Don't forget, Mandy has brain mets and is doing well.....it's not the end!

    Let us know please.....you are in my thoughts.

    Love n hugs.   Chrissy