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  • Gingerbrew
    Gingerbrew Member Posts: 1,997

    Barbe, I had surgery on my spine. L4 L5 with herniated disc. I had sciatic pain that was disabling, the pain went down to my big toe. It becamse worse and worse.  We had no insurance and it was the neuro surgeon who told me to take the 12 ibuprophen a day that it was as good an antiinflamatory as the prescription meds. The 12 a day was the previous RX dosage. I could buy 500 at walmart for 7.99.   I toughed it out until we had insurance and I was beyond the pre existing clause.  The Healthcare Act includes preexisiting now. I don't think people realize what the uninsured will do to themselves to have coverage.   

    I know not to take tylenol in excess. A relative works in an ER and tells me that overdosage of tylenol is a horrible way to commit suicide. They have had teens come in and it is a tragedy. It isn't reversable and the death is painful and slow. Also my cousin had cancer of the thymus and she took too much tylenol for pain control and destoyed her liver. She was just in her late twneties. So sad.  

    As to the surgery I had it was a discectomy and laminectomy of L4 L5 and was microsurgery, my scar is small and healing was no issue at all.  I did some nerve damage by waiting so long. Be smarter than me.  If you have any other questions please ask.

    Hugs Ginger 

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 7,605

    Thanks Ginger, I, too have 3 herniated disks that actually bulge the wrong way!! I get relief when I bend BACK rather than forward!! They thought it was a tumour until an MRI showed it was 3 disks. Now I have bony overgrowths impinging on the nerves growing out the sides of my spine. My PCP said no surgeon would touch me until my legs started to go numb....sigh. I want him to get my name in NOW so that by the time I get to the head of the list I may be critical enough!! It takes years to see a neurosurgeon up here as there are so few. I am on 100 mgs++ of morphine a day to keep the pain under control. I have quick release morphine for breakthrough pain. I do NOT get loopy...sometimes I wish I did! 

    Lisa, I think liquid morphine would act way too fast, you think you'd throw it back up! My quick release morphine tablets work in about 20 minutes. I don't know that they are working until I go "oh! I feel a bit better!" 

  • Gingerbrew
    Gingerbrew Member Posts: 1,997

    Barbe sending PM 

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 7,605

    Powerful PM, thanks Gingerbrew!!

  • Gingerbrew
    Gingerbrew Member Posts: 1,997

    I just posted on Marybe's thread. I received a call that Marybe is in a coma and has been removed from ICU. Hospice is there.   I am so sad.

    Ginger 

  • chabba
    chabba Member Posts: 3,600

    Ginger, I'm sure we all are sad and grieving what we know is to come.  After the last two weeks I know what a wonderful help Hospice is but the very name brings tears to my eyes for all it implies. I hope they help Marybe and Tim as they did my Brother and his wife. 

  • Alyson
    Alyson Member Posts: 3,737

    Have just been chatting with Melissa J, she gave the same news and that it could be any time.

    Darling Marybe may God hold you in the palm of his hand. We send love and prayers.

  • QCA
    QCA Member Posts: 1,150

    Oh dear sweet Marybe.  We love  you.

    Kathy

  • macatacmv
    macatacmv Member Posts: 1,200

    I am so sad!!!

  • Elisimo
    Elisimo Member Posts: 1,262

    Praying so much for Marybe, just heard from BarbA and Marybe will be going from the hospital to Hospice on Tuesday.  Praying that changes and the doctors can get on top of things and get her ready for her planned trip next month.

  • justjudie
    justjudie Member Posts: 196

    Just heard about Marybe over on the Stage 4 board. Oh God..please a miracle for Marybe! She is the strongest woman I know. Hope she is in no pain.

  • Elisimo
    Elisimo Member Posts: 1,262

    BarbA was with Marybe earlier this evening and told her all the names of the people that were sending prayer, special thoughts, love and hugs to her.  She said Marybe smiled when she hear the names.  Barb plans on reading all the posts on Marybe's thread tomorrow.  Everyone is welcome to posts as all will be read to Marybe.  Go to http://community.breastcancer.org/forum/69/topic/779235?page=40#idx_1181 and post your thoughts and feelings for Marybe and Barb will read them tomorrow.  This link is to page 40 and so it may not be the last page, but just reading all the posts from others show what an encouragement and inspiration Marybe was to us all.  

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438

    I still can't believe this is happening. I'm so saddened. Marybe is one very strong very lovely lady and it was a real treat to be able to meet her last year at Shell Knob. Was that just a year ago? So much has happened since then. I wish her a peaceful trip........it's not the one she was planning but it is the final one and it should be one that she does with ease.



    Love n hugs to her and you all.......you are all very special people and it is my privelage to call you friends. Chrissy

  • Leah_S
    Leah_S Member Posts: 1,929

    I am praying for Marybe, and I'm glad that BarbA is able to be with her.

    I'm leaving in a little while for the hospital - checking in tonight for tomorrow's surgery. My dh will try to update on the thread "Not your usual Stage IV surgery" in the Stage IV forum.

    Leah

  • macatacmv
    macatacmv Member Posts: 1,200

    Leah, I've been thinking about you a lot. Couldn't remember if you are a day ahead or behind. Hope all goes smoothly and gentle hugs.

  • chabba
    chabba Member Posts: 3,600

    My thoughts are with you Leah

  • QCA
    QCA Member Posts: 1,150

    Prayers for you, Leah, and looking forward to when you're on the other side of this surgery!

    Kathy

  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 2,604
    at about 1:10 today, our dearest Marybe passed on . Barbara called, and asked me to post it here.she was in her death, peaceful, and doing Just as she wanted to.. Barbara A and her loved ones were with her at the end, and she just passed easily...3jays
  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438

    Oh 3jays thank you for posting this sad news. I'm glad for her that her passing was gentle and sad for all of us for the loss of one so loved by all. If you speak to Barb would you please ask her to pass my condolences to Tim.



    Love n hugs to you. Chrissy

  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 2,604

    Barb already did a fly by on the red devil thread, but will be posting later..

       Last night i made my first "art" on photobucket.. she's still encouraging me to break my bonds....3jays

  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 2,604
  • socallisa
    socallisa Member Posts: 10,184
  • Dilly
    Dilly Member Posts: 394

    Leah, I will be thinking of you tomorrow. Thanks for letting us know where your dh will post.

  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 2,604
    G-d speed, Leah. prayers for a good surgery from so. fla................3jays
  • Alyson
    Alyson Member Posts: 3,737

    Thinking of you Leah as you have surgery. Blessings.

    Tears flowing for Marybe.

    Big hugs to all.

  • QCA
    QCA Member Posts: 1,150

    Hugs and love to all of us tonight, especially tonight.  Godspeed, Marybe.

    Kathy

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646

    Peace at last, peace at last..............God speed Marybe.......we love you.

  • Elisimo
    Elisimo Member Posts: 1,262

    Leah - praying for you during your surgery, I'll be in your pocket with lots of chocolate!!!



    Lots of tears for Marybe here tonight. Just hope I can get myself together for my embroidery club tomorrow. {{{{{{{{{{hugs to all who loved Marybe}}}}}}}}}}

  • Alyson
    Alyson Member Posts: 3,737

    Thought you might like to see what made me smile yesterday.

    Missy found a T Shirt/tunic in my wardrobe and the other is her little brother having a 'fluffy' while Gran had coffee. Have a report to write this morning so had better start moving.

    Big hugs to all

  • socallisa
    socallisa Member Posts: 10,184

    Those are just too cute..