The Hermit Club

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  • jazzygirl
    jazzygirl Member Posts: 11,976

    Cami- you are so right about some folks vs. others. Our GrammaB has been courageous enough to share her story here with us, and how she has come through things. She is a brave woman, like all the other women here. 

    I have a couple friends who have been blessed with good family still in tact, no serious illnesses in their family, no employment hardships, no problems with children, no elder care issues. I now find I have little to say to them. They have been some of the hardest to deal with during bc diagnosis and treatment. I prefer to talk to those who can "keep it real."

    Slept in the morning and enjoying my first cup of java. Going to make some more banana bread today to bring to a vegetarian potluck tonight after a special winter solstice yoga class. One of my favorite holiday things to do.

    The good news for today is I don't have to work at the client site hospital next Tuesday or Wed! I am going to wrap up my command center Tuesday midday, and be on call for any greater issues. I plan to just relax at home in my pjs and watch a bunch of movies. One of my favorite holiday things to do, and even more so after this go live and being more of a hermit now. Extra time off I was not planning. Yay!

    Good luck to all those still doing their shopping!

  • SallyS70
    SallyS70 Member Posts: 816

    Lilly55 ... sending you wishes for a speedy recovery ... what happened?

    Jazzy, how wonderful to have a winter solstice celebration.  

  • Furfriend2
    Furfriend2 Member Posts: 168

    Oh Lily, what happened with you? Did something come on sudden like? Please let us know how you are doing., I am concerned for you.

  • jazzygirl
    jazzygirl Member Posts: 11,976

    Sally- yes, it is one of my FAVORITE things to do. One of my yoga teachers here has a restorative yoga practice where she has a dark room with candles in it, and we honor the change of seasons and invite "the light" back as we move past the shortest day of light in the year (today!) Then we gather for a vegetarian potluck. I have done yoga retreats with this teacher for years so sometimes it is a chance to see some of my fellow yogis I never see otherwise. I missed it last year with the medical stuff going on, so I feel very grateful to be able to go again this year. 

    Chocolate chip banana bread is almost done. I am going to go the gym soon for a swim and soak in the hot tub to loosen up my tired body.

  • jazzygirl
    jazzygirl Member Posts: 11,976

    Some snow in the mountains here last night. San Pedro peak for your winter viewing pleasure. Happy Winter everyone!

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  • Furfriend2
    Furfriend2 Member Posts: 168

    Jazz, what a fabulous photo of San Pedro it is breathtakingThumbsUp

  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 15,711

    So many beautiful views that many of u have.

    All right Lily spill u'r guts. No wonder u were feeling so sad, u were sicker than u ever thought and din't know it. I'm so sorry, hopefully being on the mend will help u feel better all the way around. When u'r ready if u want share with us, it's kind of mind boggling what u've been thru.

    Dutch that's always the way when u'r at the Drs. u don't feel as bad later on it gets worse--what u have to do is tell the Dr. is how bad it is normally and convince the Dr. They hear everything but we don't go thru everything so if there is pain they should know, I think--I've used ice, heat and aspercreme anything that helps some and of course my pain meds too. LOL Now something is wrong with my foot, not neuropathy but some strange hurt that feels like it 1/2 broken, but it isn't I limp when I walk, and when I put my feet up my one foot rolls with lotsa hurt--for a while now and more swollen, but I have LE so who knows. I don't even bother, it's so stupid

  • jazzygirl
    jazzygirl Member Posts: 11,976

    Lili- I just saw your post. I am really sorry to hear you have been in the hospital. Let us know what is going on when you can. Praying for you. We care here.

    Cami- the foot issues can be from the AIs. They have totally screwed up my feet.

  • grammaB
    grammaB Member Posts: 1,118

    Woke up to 6" of new snow on the ground.  Shoveled my porches and a path to the garage.  Was tired after but no pain from doing it.  More snow supposed to come tonight and on and off snow Sunday.  I expect it will be white here still for Christmas.

    Thanks Jazzy and cami, yes those were dark times, but with some good counseling and meds I managed to pull my self out of that dark hole.  And a good thing too as I now have 4 beautiful grand daughters and a step grand daughter that I never would have met had I been successful back then!!

    ((((lily)))) so sorry to hear of your hospitalization!  Sending you healing energy and prayers for a speedy recovery.

    Jazzy how cool to have some extra time off!! Love the idea of a Solstice celebration!

  • dutchiris
    dutchiris Member Posts: 783

    LMAO.....Contrary to what I said in my last post, I have not been wearing a10lb aspirin.  That should have been a 10lb apron.

  • grammaB
    grammaB Member Posts: 1,118

    I've been scratching my head over the 10lb aspirin!!  LOL, auto correct?

  • dutchiris
    dutchiris Member Posts: 783

    Yes autocorrect. Lol, now you can stop scratching.  

  • dutchiris
    dutchiris Member Posts: 783

    Once I sent my sister a message that said I thought I was coming down with a child instead of a cold.

  • jazzygirl
    jazzygirl Member Posts: 11,976

    I put all of you in the yoga solstice circle with me tonight my hermits. Thanks for being part of my life.

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  • SallyS70
    SallyS70 Member Posts: 816

    Thanks for putting me in the yoga solstice circle ... and thanks for being my friend.

  • Furfriend2
    Furfriend2 Member Posts: 168

    Hi Teka,

    Happy Winter Soltice! I hope you are well.

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646

    hi ladies....lost you in my fvorites....not sure how.....happens quite often, and i'm so goofy sometimes I don't notice......

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646

    ok, lol.....was not finished.....made 8 batches of cookies today, so pardon my lame brain......tired and should go to bed............had loads of fun with my daughter and grandaughter.........but all cookied out right now......will be back tomorrow.........hugs

  • dutchiris
    dutchiris Member Posts: 783

    Welcome back Ducky!

  • grammaB
    grammaB Member Posts: 1,118

    Thanks Jazzy, how kind of you to think of us!

    Hi Teka, hope the weather doesn't hit you to badly.

    Welcome back ducky!  That happened to me a couple of weeks ago too.  I thought I had somehow done it. 

  • jazzygirl
    jazzygirl Member Posts: 11,976

    Teka- thanks for checking in and hope you don't loose power. Be safe in the storm!

    Duckyb- welcome back!

  • jazzygirl
    jazzygirl Member Posts: 11,976

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  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 15,711

    Jazzy Thank you that's a real feel good niceness.

    Dutch--hahaha I thought WTH is she talking about, then I figured u'r just taking a lot of aspirin, ??? U silly girl u.

    Ducky all those cookies, OMG u have to be dreaming about them--I made one batch and I was insane after.

    Teka those storms are scary, we're having snow right now, not so scary.

    Gramma see how life turns around all the time? It's worth the wait.

    Lily I hope u'r doing better, when u can please let us know. (((HUGS)))

  • Lily55
    Lily55 Member Posts: 1,748

    thank you, love the yoga solstice circle....

  • Lily55
    Lily55 Member Posts: 1,748

    i am feeling the best i have felt in twelve days but still struggle to breathe fully on one side, still,on daily dressing changes, still hurt, trying not to feel the emotions of what i am left with as its worse than i first started with and i am devastated.........

  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 2,726

    Hey Ducky, Furfriend, Cammie, Sally, Teka, dutch

    we are having 70 degree weather today....

    gramma glad you got through it and found us...

    Jazzy, thanks for being a part of my life also....great pix!!

    Lily I am so sorry that you were in the hospital and are sick, wish there was something I could do...

    Santa is coming to my sons house for my grandchildren and then a b/d party for the twins and my daughter and Dallas is on tv....what a great day.....

  • CCFW
    CCFW Member Posts: 570

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  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646

    hey Hermies...thanks for the welcome..not sure what happened, but it just was gone....but got it back..

    Teka....explains how I posted on the wrong thread...was meant for this one after seeing your ice storm picture, just saw it again....thought Iwas goofy, cause I do not frequent the other  thread....I sleep fine most of the time,just a lousy night once in a while....

    Cami....lots of cookies.....aching back....lol

    Blondie 70........yes........hope your ok.....

    Hope everyone is ok, and again.......thanks for the warm welcome.....hope it does not happen again, but it has before, and I see others have had it happen too...by the way.....got rid of auto-correct...with a name like "ducky" thought it a good idea.....that is actually my nickname....not just. Screen name, so it gets used quite often....on and off this website.......

  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 15,711

    Oh that's a cute nickname Ducky.

    Lily I'm sure u feel worse in some ways because u didn't expect all of this to happen to u and u'r body is worn out so mentally u'r warn out. I'm so sorry u'r going thru all of this. U'r mind and body need time this is not easy for some it's not as bad we know that but some it's horrendous--and it will be a memory some day that u won't revisit, but it does leave u'r mind. I know for now that doesn't mean much and u do feel alone in this, but know that this pain ends, it does, I wish I could help u, like we all do, take any meds u need to help u thru this and know each day will make u stronger, it's amazing what are bodies can go thru and then recover from.

  • dutchiris
    dutchiris Member Posts: 783

    CCFW....I'm thinking we must be sharing a storm as I am in Wisconsin as well.  You have more snow than I do.

    Ducky......If you "lose it" again, we will warmly welcome you back again and again.  I can imagine what autocorrect could do to your nickname.

    Lily....I'm hoping that you continue to feel better and better.  

    Cami.. You're awesomeness in human form.