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Stage III Cancer Survivors ...Five + Years and Out.

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  • ina67
    ina67 Member Posts: 2
    edited August 2016

    I am recently diagnosed with stage IIIA 2cm IDC with at least one lymph/Axilla positive. Going through my eight round of AC+Taxol chemo biweekly followed by surgery, radiation and hormone/tamoxefin for 10 years treatment plan.

    Reading your posts give me hope. I am 49 years old now. Any recommendations/suggestions for me?

  • sbelizabeth
    sbelizabeth Member Posts: 956
    edited August 2016

    Ina, I was right there almost five years ago.

    My own treatment felt like a nightmare that would go on forever. I wept and worried. But now the elephant in the room is a little mouse in the corner. "Cancer radio" is no longer playing in my head 24/7. Cancer is in my rear-view mirror. I got on with live, kept working, had grandchildren, loved and laughed.

    There are better days ahead. Gentle hugs.

  • lauren32
    lauren32 Member Posts: 9
    edited August 2016

    wonderful to read your stories ladies! Jennyboog yay for six years thank you for reaching out to me and helping me when you did xx

  • LovingIsLiving
    LovingIsLiving Member Posts: 89
    edited August 2016

    Yesterday I was talking to my sister's friend and she is 20 years since her Stage III diagnosis and doing great. She gave me a lot of inspiration and hope. Wishing you all the best Heart

  • fightergirl711
    fightergirl711 Member Posts: 190
    edited August 2016

    LovingisLiving thank you or sharing this!

  • live_deliciously
    live_deliciously Member Posts: 183
    edited August 2016

    I love it. Thanks for sharong the good news.livingisloving, how cool is that story. 20 years. Now we're talking......

  • lucca06
    lucca06 Member Posts: 17
    edited August 2016

    20 years is so good to hear Livingisloving! Another one on that theme - I was on a course a month ago and the lady running it had had breast cancer plus in the lymph nodes also 20 years ago and was given 9 months to live at the time!!

  • Valstim52
    Valstim52 Member Posts: 833
    edited August 2016

    Need help? Is it possible to have lymphedema in your leg area? I was tested at the hospital for a possible blood clot, and they said it's lymphadema and have referred me to a lymphadema specialist? I thought it only occurred in your arm or trunk area?

  • tangandchris
    tangandchris Member Posts: 934
    edited August 2016

    Wow Valstim...not sure but that does seem unusual. Let us know what you find out...thankfully it was't a blood clot!

    I was reading thru my posts on the Feb 2014 Chemo group and what a difference things are even in this short time. It's getting easier more and more, some days are better than others. In some ways after tx ends is where the real test begins, but really I'd never want to go back to chemo again lol

    It's nice to see all of you 5 years and more ladies posting. ((hugs))

  • ina67
    ina67 Member Posts: 2
    edited August 2016

    Thank you sbelizabeth  for your reply. Glad to know you crossed five year mark which gives me hope. Lots of love & hug...


  • azs40
    azs40 Member Posts: 45
    edited August 2016

    8 years out as of 8/15, and always grateful. I echo what others have said: cancer is no longer on my mind 24/7. I didn't think that day would come way back when, but it has. My then 2 year old daughter is now 10 (going on 20) and I am here to watch her grow - just as I prayed. Hang on newbies. This is not all of who you are. Just a piece. Keep your head down, pay attention to your own story and plow through. There's life on the other side.

  • live_deliciously
    live_deliciously Member Posts: 183
    edited August 2016

    well said CT. Thanks ladies for all the encouragement. You are all superstars to me. Big hugs!

  • lifelover
    lifelover Member Posts: 263
    edited August 2016

    I'm here and beyond my 5 year anniversary of diagnosis now. No relapse, no recurrence.

    Gained a lot of weight from anxiety eating but lost it again and started running. I focus on the good things and it helps.

    Of course there are negatives and its been a tough 5 years: got divorced, lost my job, lost my best friend to cancer . . . but here I am.

    My motto is "one foot in front of the other, mindfully".

    Be well everyone - as well as you can be.

  • live_deliciously
    live_deliciously Member Posts: 183
    edited August 2016

    thanks lifelover for coming back and posting. Good for you and wishing you many, many more years

  • ash123
    ash123 Member Posts: 44
    edited August 2016

    Thank you lifesaver for coming back and giving us hope. After cancer every trouble seems less intense, at least for me.


  • fredntan
    fredntan Member Posts: 237
    edited August 2016

    I'm still alive. My FB keeps reminding me. getting my life back together. its been hard. went to stage 4 oct 2013. NED over 2 yrs

    that pic is old, but hair has come back. think I look the same or better. chemo is such a excellent exfoliant. lol

  • live_deliciously
    live_deliciously Member Posts: 183
    edited August 2016

    fredntan. Great news. Love to hear NED thanks for posting for us

  • hopefour
    hopefour Member Posts: 104
    edited August 2016

    Congrats Fran….so excited for you!! Thank you for coming back and sharing your great news!!

  • mary625
    mary625 Member Posts: 154
    edited August 2016

    Overjoyed to share with you that I reached five years this week

  • live_deliciously
    live_deliciously Member Posts: 183
    edited August 2016

    yahoo, Mary. Congrats. Thanks for posting and sharing your good news.love to hear it.

  • 7of9
    7of9 Member Posts: 474
    edited September 2016

    Mary, thanks for sharing. Our lymph node counts match, sure hope my longetivity does as well....Thank u for sharing and giving hope. It really means alot!!!!

  • tectonicshift
    tectonicshift Member Posts: 102
    edited July 2020

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  • maggs09
    maggs09 Member Posts: 74
    edited September 2016

    This is so wonderful to see so many of us 3-stagers do well! I'm hoping to join this group next year.❤️

  • LM070917
    LM070917 Member Posts: 68
    edited September 2016

    Agreed Maggs, so great to hear from stage 3 survivors doing well! Gives us hope, here's to many more decades to come

  • ash123
    ash123 Member Posts: 44
    edited September 2016

    Thank you Mary for sharing.

  • Carolehebert
    Carolehebert Member Posts: 3
    edited September 2016

    you give me hope

  • hmh23
    hmh23 Member Posts: 50
    edited September 2016

    Almost 6 years to the day, I completed my chemo. I was anxious and joked with my onc that I would like another 'hit' of AC if he was willing. I didn't need it and today I am healthy and happy working to help fellow ILCers and metastatic research.

    Its a long road but you will look back on it knowing you have done everything you needed to do to live a long happy life!!!

    My 7th cancerversary will be a huge celebration as it is a turning point for ILC.

    Always dream of wellness!

  • ladyb1234
    ladyb1234 Member Posts: 1,239
    edited September 2016

    Congrats hmh23! Here's to year 7. 💝💝

  • live_deliciously
    live_deliciously Member Posts: 183
    edited September 2016

    hmh. Love it. So happy for you. Enjoy life but Keep coming back and posting. It really helps to see post like yours amid all the bad stories we hear thank you!

  • fightergirl711
    fightergirl711 Member Posts: 190
    edited September 2016

    Happy Friday everyone! I've posted this before - but wondering if there are any Stage III Her2+ stories out there? I do follow the HER2+ boards quite a bit, but I don't see that similar diagnosis we all like to look out for to give us comfort. Have a fantastic weekend!