new and future flat sister, with questions
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My kitchen has pink on the little wall it has (behind the stove and above the cabinets). I'm thinking of changing that to pale orange. Cabinets are currently medium colored wood. I'd like to paint them white.
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Birdie, do DH and DLLP know one another? They seem to have similar painting styles..
Nobody had better hand ME a pink spatula. I can tell you that. I won't be stirring magnets with it, that's for sure.
Standing by for news, Z!
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You all can do the happy dance for no more chemo. The spots are still there. Radiologist says no change. Oncologist says he doesn't know if they are bc. Could be a blood vessel or scar tissue. Arghh. But he's happy so my husband is happy.
I can't say I am. Mixed feelings. I really wanted an all clear so I could go on my merry way. My next scan is Dec. I don't want to borrow trouble but I don't want to be anxious for Christmas.
I know you guys get it. Will take a few days to get it settled in my head. Am going to celebrate with a nap and a bowl of kix. Baby better and she's napping too.0 -
Happy Happy Happy dance for No More Chemo!
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YIPPEE SKIPPEE! glad for no more chemo,, is there another way to define what the spots are? I know scar tissue can show up on scans, tests, etc. Get some rest and so thankful for the report.
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Hi Zills, so sorry the baby isn't better yet. How are you doing?
F the pink spatula, what are they thinking? A singing message from our Bobo, now that's special!!!!
Gramwe, how I wish I could have been there this morning when you gave it to the Pink water man! What on earth is all this Pink garbage doing? Not awareness, but complacency? I just don't get it! I would have joined you in "Flashing" that ill informed worker.
Thanks Bobo, but I won't be needing the Airfryermoire, don't like cooking enough for that! but I am looking forward to receiving this and having a play.
ndgirl, I too, hate the midsection. I got hit with the "pudgy middle, stick!" by taking bloody steroids for the past 16 or so years. I managed to stay a size 6-8 till my early 50's, even all the way through my very early menopause at 38, and then "Bam!" no waist by 52 ish. I hate it with a passion. Nothing really changes it, and my Rheumatoid specialist tells me that if I can get off the Cortisone, the weight will just fall off me. Well, the alternatives are poison, I injected Methotrexate Chemo every Tuesday for 7 looooong years, so don't want to go back there. Now they are finding some of the medications ar likely to contribute to ca, so what the heck, I'll put up with the Steroids, and their known side effects, and the damn gut that I hate. Rant over...phew..where did tha come from?
Wren, paint drips in the bathroom, what a pain. I have to be a bit impressed that your DH tried to do it without you knowing. His surprise for you backfired with you having to do the cleanup.
Weather better here today, hope to plant. ..Take care everyone..M x
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OMG, so glad I realised we had turned a page. I am sooooooo Happy Dancing for you Zills! No more Chemo, that's sensational.
I understand your concerns, but I doubt these Oncologists would say they were happy, if they were not.
Have yourself a really good snooze, and relax into this new place. I am so thrilled for you. You deserve a rest!
It's a good day now....I won't stop smiling all day..thanks Zills! M x
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Zills, HAPPY, HAPPY, HAPPY Dance!! Great news!
Ariom, let me know what you think of the Miracle Rice if you try it. I make fried rice with it every couple of weeks. Amazingly, eating low carb/high fat has totally cured my reflux. Many people on the diabetes board also have had the same result. Of course YMMV but it might be worth a try. Here is a site that gives a good introduction to the lc/hf way of eating to give you an idea if it would work for you.
gramwe, lc/hf can definitely help you lose weight! Look at the link above. Since Feb 2012 I have lost 60+ lbs! I am very stringent because of the diabetes, non-diabetics can be a lot looser with it.
bobo, I've said it before and will say it again. You are a wonderful mom, you know your children so well and know what is exactly right for each one! Different approaches for each yet undeniable deep love for each too. You are a great mom!!
On the coffee table tonight left over Parmesan crusted chicken with sauteed zucchini and mushrooms for dinner tonight.
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gB, I will definitely give that link a good look. I would love to rid myself of this reflux, but I just refuse to have the operation. It is the sliding hiatus hernia that is my nemesis.
I am going to try to get the lettuce planted before the weather changes. M x
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Yippee Zils!!! I wish there was a way to identify the spots to have some sense of closure for you.. but my thoughts are, if they were bc, then there would have been some sort of change from the chemo, so I do believe this is fantastic news. I totally understand the mixed feelings, I would be feeling the same. I still feel lost and not totally confident that this is all behind me. Not once when I finished any of the phases did I feel like celebrating. Did they talk about radiation for you or are you now finished with active treatment?
Granwe, I'm surprised you didn't send one of them face first in that pink water.. pink water, pink spatulas.. I too hate this month. Don't even get me started on the weight gain, I really can't stand it anymore. I've gone up two clothing sizes in the past 7 months and I don't see an end in sight where I'm on this Tamoxifen for at least 5 years.
Ndgirl, it's true, it's all in the middle.. like you've swallowed an innertube.. lol. You're not the only one, I don't see how giving out pink spatulas is going to help "the cause".. that phrase drives me nuts too.
Wren, that sounds really pretty! I am laughing over DH sneaking around to paint and don't blame you for being pissed.. it is a pain in the @ss to get paint off certain areas.
GrammaB, I think I will try the fettucine.. I read the reviews, so I think I know what to expect and I love asian noodles so this might work out great. A lot of people commented on the fishy smell, but I was relieved to learn it is only temporary.
Moira, when you were describing the damn fryer, I wanted to go look it up but FORCED myself to stop.. I too love fried food, but never make it.. my favorite is fried clams, but I never fry stuff at home. I do love a corn flake coating, and sometimes bake chicken with it... haven't done that in a long time and now I am absolutely craving it.
Bobogirl, I understood what you were saying and that makes you a fantastic mom doing what is best for them individually.. just your description of taking the princess for her haircut, not to mention all the other things you've told us since we've known you leads me to believe you are an amazing mom. Hell, look at the sweet little things you do for us... knitted knockers (still loving mine for real), adorable pillow care packages.
You know I am dying for somebody to hand you a pink spatula, right?
Tomorrow I go for follow up appt with my radiation oncologist, which is pretty good timing. It looks like I am accumulating fluid in my "area" the last couple of days.. but then again I just swell up for no apparent reason (F Tamoxifen). But at least she can let me know if I should be concerned.... fingers crossed.
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GrammaB, I'd reading the site on the link you shared.. and this really sounds like great advice.. loving the sound of the oopsie bread!
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Zills, Congrats on no more chemo. I'm sure you're looking forward to feeling good 2 weeks in a row.
DH redeemed himself today by getting the f-ing shower curtain rod installed. I won't let the new curtain go up until ALL the painting and sanding is done around the rod. I scrubbed the tub tonight and am looking forward to a real shower tomorrow.
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Aaaaah. We've got Birdie swearing. Life is good.
Love that we're all trashing Wren's DH's painting behavior a little bit. All except our Ariom. We're like, How irritating! He snuck around to paint and left a mess! That is irritating to clean up! Poor DH. But you know what? If I had to rinse myself while squatting in the bottom of the tub for a week, I would be irritated too. Please note: If you lived in Eastern Europe -- which I did for a year or so -- you'd have to clean yourself that way all the time.
Hmm. Idesim. You're not really going to do GB's diet are you? No pasta, ever? No cake? If you do, of course, I will support you wholeheartedly. Will you keep us posted about the RO and your area? When is your appt? Do you need us in the bag?
I for one have been eating far less gluten. Have I told you? I really can't stomach regular pasta (as I have mentioned).. I don't really want bread anymore. I know I am not exactly the excellent example of what to eat. However, now that I think about it, I do think people eat way too much white flour in general. I've noticed it doesn't make me feel good when I eat it.
PLEASE NOTE that America's Favorite has not been in contact since our meeting last Wednesday! Okay, that is one week! She is a cool customer isn't she? Sent a message to my PCP last night, asking if she'd had a word, because I want that to have happened before I get in touch with AF. I just know AF is waiting for the MRI. And then, if they don't see anything too worrying, she'll try to argue me out of the surgery. Even though I have told her repeatedly that all of this is NOT because I just flunked my mammo on the right side. It's about the left side, you idiot. I don't have another chunk left there for you. I'm getting extremely worked up about this. Trying to keep calm at home, not bring it up, not bring up upsetting things. I'm like a housewife from the 1950's. Just trying to stay cool.
Okay, are we in the bag today for Idesim? It seems like a good time for me to be in the bag. What time? L, I will be twisting my apron and waiting for word of your office visit, so do not bogart that information.
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Wren, shower rod ,up! I would keep the shower curtain away too, till all the painting is over. Enjoy the first shower in your new room!
ldesim, I knew I'd get you going with the new Air Fryer, you're a gadget freak, just like me:) I bet they are a lot cheaper over there too! My first try will be the cornflake coating on either fish or chicken filet. Apparently they make great Potato Wedges, or Sweet Potato Chips. I am really looking forward to this!! Yep, craving it too:)
I, so want to see someone give Bobo a Pink Spatula too!
I can't believe how much Pink Shit I have seen today, and none of it seems to be donating anything to BC, it's just a ruse to sell more stuff in October...rich isn't it!
I am in the bag if you need me tomorrow!
gB, I found a place in Australia that sells it, so I will go online and order some noodles and the rice. This is a site for low carb stuff, so I might find some other interesting bits there too.
Take care everyone...catch you all later! M x
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Hi Bobo, I wwas hoping you'd drop by.
I am so sorry you haven't heard from AF. I wish we could get this all sorted so you could relax a little. You're probably right though, waiting till the Sunday MRI, and then try to talk you out of your decision. Obvious she has never had a BC scare.
I have to say, Bobo, I would be telling her that I had made my decision, and it's going to be done, with or without her. There are so many women opting for BMX before even having a brush with BC. Geeesh! I feel she has actually had her head up her ass, and missed all the coverage in the media etc. I have no understanding of a woman, especially in her job, who can't see that this is a decision being made by women all over the world who are putting their family first, and don't want to spend all their time worrying about what might be. She wouldn't be getting another chunk of me either!
Why is it a no brainer for us? I feel for you, Bobo!
Are we in the bag for ldesim?
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Yep, I am there for idesim too, and bobo, hope you soon hear from you AF! I cant believe what service you are getting! as for the pink, they are selling bc stamps and so much does go for research, or so the sign in our local post office says. I too want to see someone give Bobo a pink spatula! ya know I think it would kinda hurt to get slapped with one!!
Ok girls, I have the Claw!! OMG, this is the first time it has hit me... saw lots of posting about it earlier and think this must be it! now I need advice.. for those of you that do rites.. do I continue to do them and my stretching excercises? will this aggrevate or help? any other suggestions.. ice? I did take ibuprofen but did nothing,, had a bad night! even pullling up into my neck and also must be having some phantom itching feelings across my chest as well, itching boob that isnt there! how weird is that? I cant even wear a genie bra and feel comfortable, so going without.. everything looks fine, no redness, swelling anything like that, how long does this usually last.. of course I know everyone is different but just asking for some input.. I think I may have overdone about 2 days ago... ya think?? pulling up too many tomato plants etc.
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Nd, for me the claw feels better if I try to get in some stretching. I sink myself into a tub of warm/ hot water to try to relax it, never thought of ice it may be better. Mine usually doesn't last too long, so I just plow through it and try to ignore that its there. Easier said than done.
RANT: This pink crap is getting on my last nerve!
Hopping in the bag. Lets go kick some BC a$$.
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Thanks gramwe.. I will try stretching it and the warm bath sounds like a winner too. BTW.. how is the baby doing? when is the due date??
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ND, I put a tiny ice pack (it's meant for kid boo-boos, shaped like a turtle) into the mastectomy pocket of my bra when I have the claw. I think heat might feel good too, and stretching. But I don't take very hot showers right now because I am the queen of hot flashes.
Ariom, agree with all you have said, but I feel I've got to wait for this cycle of things to finish before I defect to the next surgeon. The ball's in her court, so to speak. But yes, I am really fed up.
In the bag for our Idesim! Standing by. Yesterday on the news it was like, It's October 1st! It's breast-cancer awareness! And they're already selling, like, pink nail polish. It didn't use to bother me as much. I had an aversion, sure, but it didn't bother me. Now I feel angry about it.
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I'm in the bag but desperately need a nap. Will not bring the pink spatula. Baby went to school. Boy trying to wheeze and cough. Had JS and therapy today so feel better emotionally. Will catch up tonight.
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I have a bad cold. Will not jump in the bag to avoid spreading it.
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Stomach is a little iffy today, better not risk jumping in the bag....been spending a lot of time in the bathroom.
(ldesim, lc/hf is a very healthy way to eat actually. And one doesn't have to give up on all treats. I have a great recipe for cake made with coconut flour. Almond flour cheesy muffins are great too. A group of us on the diabetes forum are working on perfecting a bread and it is almost there. Working on pasta too and are very close. Any thing you want to make just google for example, "low carb pizza crust recipe" and you'll get tons of ideas from cauliflower, to ground meat to one I am going to try soon with almond flour and mozzarella cheese. It really isn't that hard to make it work.
ndgirl, sorry about the claw! I thought I had it early on but it was actually the drain and the way it was in my chest. Sure hurt though! Warm sounds good to me and gentle stretching, but then ice could well work too, we are all different in what does and doesn't work.
Ariom, what is the name of the site with the lc things? Just curious what sort of stuff they have.
Yesterday was 7 weeks post op. The last of the scabbing is gone and the scars don't look too bad. So now looking for recommendations as to what kind of oil/lotion whatever to start massaging in to reduce them. I won't start for maybe another week, just doing my usual getting things ready ahead of time.
This is my first pinktober as a cancer survivor. I was a family member before so sort of half tuned in to things. Pink is a really good color on me too and I actually recently bought a pink cardigan on sale for layering. All the pink is really overwhelming. Pink water in the fountain is just a bit over the top for me. One gal in the local Drug/Variety store dies her hair pink in October, gag! I have been reading the thread here about the anti pinktober people. I didn't realize just how bad it was merchandise wise and that there was such a large backlash against it all. I've just started reading so am not up to current time at all....maybe by the end of the month!!
PT guy did some weight stuff yesterday and I have some sore muscles today so going to stand in a hot shower and stretch them a bit to see if that helps. He comes tomorrow and twice next week and then I'm done!!
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Morning all!
ndgirl, I am sorry you had to meet the "Claw", nasty piece of work that seems to be there to let us know when we overdo it. I stick to the old routine of massage heat and stretching too. Mine never lasts too long, and is definitely on its way out because it rarely happens now. I was getting it at the end of most days in the beginning, when I was tired.
The itching is another thing altogether. I still have that sensation on a regular basis. I find if I scratch the back of my shoulder, or neck it will sometimes disappear, but I can lie in bed with it itching like mad for ages. My Surgeon told me that most of these sensations will be gone by the 1 year mark. I must say that now that I have gotten to the 9.5 month mark, even my numbness and tingling has become less obvious, so I guess it is beginning to become the normal feeling.
I hope you get some relief soon! M x
Gramwe, I am so Pinked out right now. There are pink things everywhere that don't pass on any of the proceeds, it's just a con to get people to buy. I hate it too.
I had to explain it to a girlfriend yesterday who got all fuzzy and sweet about how wonderful it was that a whole month was dedicated to BC. I sure opened her eyes! At first, she said she couldn't understand how I could be so negative, it was so unlike me, but after a vehement tirade I think she got it! I doubt she'll be calling for a while! LOL Take care and try to stay calm.... a month is a long time, and there are many a/holes out there! LOL
Bobo, sorry, I didn't want to start the changing Doctors discussion again. I just like to throw in the threat of leaving, into the conversation, so that there is the understanding that she is not the one and only here, even if she thinks she is!
I think we all get angry about the Pink crap, Bobo. It is just so fake. M x
Oh Zills, you have another sickie. I can relate to the wheezing, I am still sounding like an old 60 a day smoker, but it is getting less annoyiing. I wonder if we all have the same virus?
Try to get a rest when the children are asleep Zills...take care M x
Wren, another virus. I am so sorry to hear that. Isn't it the pits?
Keep warm and rest...Hope you feel better soon, and hope you don't get the wheeze! M x
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I am done with the RO.. she gave me a clean bill of health, said I am healing fantastically from my radiation and that the fluid I have is very normal, as is the soreness when pressing against it... so I was glad to hear that although I personally think this much fluid is ridiculous after 5 months but what do I know. She checked the glands in my neck which has been bothering me on the left side and again said I was fine. She said I could come back to her if it would make me feel better for another check up and I informed her that I hoped I'd never see her again. Luckily she laughed.. I'm sure she is used to that sentiment. One less Dr. in my life now lol.
I see my MO on the 23rd so at least I have the reassurance of being checked again... I'll also have a battery of tests.. my first mammo (gulp), echocardiogram (old pro at that one) and I forget the 3rd. Strangely I look forward to seeing my MO, I'll start working on a list of questions and the top is going to be what to do about this water retaining.. I'm tired of waddling my fat ass around and I hate clothes shopping so I need to stop gaining in sizes.. F that!
Wren have you had the much longed for shower yet? I personally think you should have a long fragrant bubble bath with candles, wine and the works! Hope you are feeling better from your cold.
Zils, I hope you got your nap in, I'm glad the baby is feeling well enough to go to school, but now the boy might be coming down with something? It never ends, does it.
Ndgirl, I haven't really had the claw to the extent these ladies seem to have, so I can't help you there.. hope you are feeling better.. the last thing you need is something to deter you from sleeping!!!
Bobogirl, I am not disciplined enough to totally adhere to the diet, but I will for sure make some changes.. I cannot continue on this path, I just feel like crap and I am going to be on this damn drug for 5 years.. if I gain 2-3 lbs a month.. that is going to be a sh1tload of weight!!!!! I am only 5 1/2 feet tall lol.
I am not going to worry about America's Fav until we see what happens Sunday... how is your mind frame for the MRI?
Can any of you believe that it's been 7 weeks since GrammaB's surgery???? It seems like just yesterday we were counting down the days and wishing she was over it already... I can't believe how fast that time went.
GrammaB I hope your tummy has calmed down.. what do you think caused it?
OMG! I started this post a couple of hours ago but walked away without finishing it! Luckily I didn't lose it. Phew!
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oh yeah.. and now I am dying for sweet potato chips, but I will not look at the air fryer.
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I did have my shower after my first nap this morning. I actually don't like baths or bubble baths so having the shower fixed was heaven. I've had 3 naps today, hope I'll sleep tonight.
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Wren I'm glad you said you don't like baths and bubbles. I thought I was the only one, wine, candles, bubbles? Nope not me. Glad there's one more in the world!
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Hi gB, so sorry you aren't feeling too good today, we're all suffering a bit from lurgies!
The company I found here is called lowcarbcentral.com.au, but when I googled there were a few here, and of course my old favourite iHerb in the USA. I don't know if I can purchase that and have it delivered here. There are restrictions on some foods, and if customs open and check what is in it, I can get hit with a $75.00 bill for their time.
I don't think it matters what oils you use on your scars. I use one aromatherapy blend in wheatgerm sweet almond and macadamia oils. The aromatherapy oils are anti- viral, and anti bacterial, and the other carriers are fantastic hydrators. I started as soon as I got home from the Hospital, around the clear stuff that was over the steri strips, and then the scar itself to make sure there weren't any adhesians. I still massage at least once a day. The other thing I swear by is the ScarFx silicone strips. I only used them overnight, but they took all the redness out and flattened the scar.
There is probably a lot of good being done in the name of fundraising and the whole Pink thing this month. I just get so ticked off by the waste of funds for no good reason, and the jerks that get on the bandwagon and make their packaging Pink for the month without any proceeds being donated.
On top of that, you have to wonder about what message is really going out there after gramwe's enounter with the Pink water man saying that BC isn't a big deal any more.
My theory is that with all this new digital whiz bang machinery finding marauding cells so early, like in my case, DCIS. We all go into the same figures base, and the stats suddenly look like there is a huge change in the survival rates..... and that's what is reported.... Just my opinion. M x
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ldesim, I am so pleased to hear you have finished that chapter and you got such a positive report! Yay!!!!
I can imagine the water retention is driving you mad.
I too, walked away and have just returned to find the previous post half finished.
I can't believe it is 7 weeks since gB's surgery either, nor can I believe I am 9.5 months out. How time has flown.
I have my "Pink ugggh Ladies" meeting tomorrow, enjoy the meeting, hate the name. I can hand back the reins to Madame President who has been away for the Winter. I have double dipped chocolate TimTams and a banana cake for the morning tea.
I am sorry I got you going on the air fryer....it may be awful..I will let you know! I am hanging for the sweet potato chips too. Colin thinks I will never use it...he may be right. I have so many kitchen gadgets that have barely seen the light of day:)
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Although I am definitely a shower person, I do love a bubble bath at times. When we did the renovations here I insisted on a beautiful oval freestanding bath. I sat in baths at all the plumbing places so as to get just the right one and when we designed the bathroom, we had a window positioned so I could lie back and see the view from the bath.
Sounds good doesn't it? Well, I have not had a bath in the 15 months we've been here, don't ever even use that bathroom. I just love the other family bathroom that has a big walk in shower with no screen or lip for me, the klutz, to trip over.
Glad to see you're getting a rest Wren. Are you feeling any better after your hot shower? Are you happy with the bathroom makeover?
I hope you are all had a nice evening and are tucked up in bed. Stay warm, and feel better everyone...M x
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