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  • wren44
    wren44 Member Posts: 7,928
    edited November 2013


    I'm taking anastrasole (Arimidex) which does a number on the bones. I'm somewhat lactose intolerant and can't just drink milk. Yoghurt is OK so I get some calcium. I eat lots of greens. Kale is almost a weed here.

  • ldesim
    ldesim Member Posts: 1,193
    edited November 2013


    I haven't read any posts.. but i had to come in and say... Bobogirl!!!! You are going to be so jealous as I am now the proud owner of a Marika "ensemble" .


    M, are you clapping for joy??


    This daily deal website (zulilly.com) had a blowout sale and there were these cute yoga pants.. etc and I then I saw they were Marika and couldn't stop laughing!


    M, did I get a good deal?


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    $12.99


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    $12.49


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    $11.49


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    $12.99

  • wren44
    wren44 Member Posts: 7,928
    edited November 2013


    I think it was an incredible deal. Now you have to take yoga unless you already do. I love the black top.

  • grammaB
    grammaB Member Posts: 1,118
    edited November 2013


    Thanks a lot ldesim!! Just lost 2 hours going through zulily!! Yeah, I'll probably end up with some things too. I'm just concerned because there are no returns and I don't know how sizing runs. Those prices look pretty good though!

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027
    edited November 2013


    Oh my ldesim, what a great deal! I have the same pants and capris and long sleeve top, but I haven't seen the tank style top.


    I am clapping my hands with glee!!! I don't think you will be disappointed. There is barely a day that I am not wearing Marika stuff. It is so comfy and the fabric is great. They wash really well too!


    gB they have the size chart on the Marika site. The pants run pretty well to that chart and are on the long side, but I found the tops run a bit small.


    Editing because I meant to say, I have actually bought more when they have the 50% off Clearance on the Marika site. The jackets they had on Zulily were a good price too. I wear one of those zipped up, with the bra I love from Marika (not on Zulily) underneath with a slightly weighted foam foob in the pocket. It is just so comfy and smart looking. I always get compliments on these outfits, and they cost a fraction of the approx $200.00 that they are at full price. M x

  • bobogirl
    bobogirl Member Posts: 2,083
    edited November 2013


    Well, I am peeing myself at this recent update. Ariom, I am standing by for your results. What is this new medicine you must take?


    Z, did you get into your pillow palace for your JS? Or did miss poopy prevent it? Our princess is extremely ornery these days. If she's tired or hungry: watch out. She's really taking it out on (the extremely lenient pushover parent) DLLP. I don't get so much of it. I am in the house, however, so I have to listen to it. We are removing fun things and privileges, but that just seems to fuel the fire! She rears her head back and flares her nostrils, as if to say, So what? I just lost shopping and lunch with mommy. So what? And then she doubles down.


    ND, I love your annoying christmas bell electronic sensors! I am the type of person to be annoyed, but I am also the type of person who can be perversely entertained by something. I say Leave them up!


    Granwe, your post was a godsend. Give OG a big wet smacker kiss from me! I love that bonding moment. can't say I am surprised by the weasel's mother. The apple and the three. What's going on with the house preparations? You seem like someone I could discuss cleaning supplies with. Do you know about these ones called... wait, I have to look at the label... Mrs. Meyer's Clean Day? Since my dx I have been treating myself to holistic cleaning supplies. I like the lemon verbena. Oooh. It smells so good! They have lavender as well. And they have spray, floor cleaner, dish soap, etc. I like to sprinkle the floor cleaner on the floor (not its regular use), then steam mop over the top of it. I like a clean house. But I am not sure I even come close to you since one day you reported that you scrubbed down the walls.


    Idesim, LOVE your new Marika outfit. Love! In fact, I am jealous. I have decided I need a zip hoodie and pants ensemble to wear to my 1,000,000 post-sx doctors' visits. I have one, but it is tattered and faded. Trying to keep up appearances. So I have been on various websites, but everything is so expensive. How did you get those good deals?


    Christmas shopping on Sunday for people I don't like! Gift bags, and done. My mother will be here to babysit my nephews on the 11th and 12th, and I will make her take all of it back to her house, where people will gather. XXX

  • grammaB
    grammaB Member Posts: 1,118
    edited November 2013


    OK, so here is what I got. I hope I can figure out how to do the photos.


    imageFuchsia High Society Seamless Tank, $15.99


    image Black Sanded Dry-Wik Leggings, $17.99


    imageBlack & Taupe Flocked Hooded Top, $11.49


    imageHeather Wildberry V-Neck Tee, $9.99


    imageAquarius Tropic Thunder Hooded Tee, $12.99


    imageBlack Fleece Zip-Up Hooded Jacket, $17.99






    Savings of something like $206!! But it won't ship until 11/28. Oh well, for those prices, I'll wait. Happy

  • bobogirl
    bobogirl Member Posts: 2,083
    edited November 2013


    I don't know how you guys are copying the pictures. But I got three zip-up sweat suits from marika -- wild berry, black, and blackberry. And I got Idesim's same black and white yoga pants. We are going to be matching!


    Thanks Idesim! Although that zulily site was a little bit nerve-wracking... I am going to look pretty at physical therapy, yoga, dr's appts, etc!

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027
    edited November 2013


    WooHoo gB! great selection!


    Bobo, take a look at Marika, or Zulily, you may just find something you like that will be suitable for that 1,000,000 appointment!


    I just went over to Lucky Vitamin to see the cleaning products, WOW. am I jealous at how cheap you get your stuff over there. I use Murchison Hume cleaning products which are I think, similar to the Mrs Meyers, but they are so expensive. I would buy the Meyers, but the postage would make it too much.


    Over here, as soon as there is an "Organic" added to anything, the price goes up. I buy my shampoo, conditioner and soap from the US. All organic and nasty chemical free, and cheap as chips! The shampoo is Desert Essence coconut and smells like heaven. The Nubian Heritage soap is Coconut and Papaya. My bathroom always smells like the islands!


    You absolutely crack me up, Bobo. You buy Christmas gifts for people you don't like? M x

  • grammaB
    grammaB Member Posts: 1,118
    edited November 2013


    Bobo, I took screen shots of the photos and then pulled them from the desktop into a folder in my Pictures files. Then you can upload from there. Took me awhile to figure that out. Probably is an easier way, but this worked for me.

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027
    edited November 2013


    Oh Bobo, you found them. I am so thrilled, as ldesim says, Clapping my hands with glee! We are all Marika, matching now! M x

  • ndgirl
    ndgirl Member Posts: 950
    edited November 2013


    So funny grammab. I also spent that many hours on the site, love it! I think alot of us will be matching, I dont know how to put the pics up tho! the prices are great! I havent sent yet, still in the cart, may be more to come.


    I have had so much trouble lately with my index finger locking up, so got on phone and made appt. but cant see bone dr. until Dec 3rd. hope it helps. I have alot to do at the office lately too, hope this isnt from arimidex cause I still have 41/2 years to take it! yuck. But how am I to know what is causing it or is it coincidence?


    Spookiesmom, I just love the pic of your cutie and what a pose! I think I told you that in the lost post!


    Never fear Bobo, those bells will be there until after the new year for sure! good luck shopping, i havent even thought of it yet. Maybe your little princess senses what is coming up for you.. kids have a built in radar ya know. Sure hope things work out. You better make yourself some knitted knockers!!


    How you are doing Zills? sure hope the rads arent too hard on you!


    Better post before this is gone too.

  • ldesim
    ldesim Member Posts: 1,193
    edited November 2013


    Now I am clapping my hand in glee.. we are all going to be decked out in our snazzy yoga outfits!! GB & M, we all have matching tops now! omg I was on that site for hours today, it was awful, I was supposed to be working.. but the price were so good! When I saw the ones I liked were Marika, I was laughing by myself in my office like a crazy woman. I think I placed 3 or 4 orders on there today, kept taking little breaks. Got Joe some nice slippers for like $7.00. I try not to go to that site too often because I usually go a little crazy and I don't like the fact the things are non returnable, but so far anything I've bought has been fine. I've been shopping there for a little over a year.


    Bobogirl, I LOVE Mrs. Meyers!! Lemon Verbena is my favorite one, orange clove is my second favorite.. the smell lingers a long time! I am addicted to them.. not crazy about the Basil or Rosemary or floral though. The pine one was a huge disappointment too, so don't buy that one.


    ooo, I have to try the coconut shampoo, I would love that I think in the summer.


    Just got back from having dinner at my GF's, my stomach is killing me from laughing so much. It was good to see Joe relaxing too he hasn't done much of that in the past year. He came home and went straight to bed lol, I think we wore him out.


    Thinking about you Z... hope you are getting lots of rest.

  • ldesim
    ldesim Member Posts: 1,193
    edited November 2013


    Ndgirl, there must be a thread on this site that has discussions on the SE's of Arimidex. It sounds like something that could be the result of the hormonal therapy... BC the gift that keeps on giving.


    I'm tempted to go back to Zulilly since I have free shipping for another hour 1/2 lol


    To copy the pics, all you have to do is right click on them and save.. unless you guys are using tablets or your phone or something and then I don't know :)

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027
    edited November 2013


    ldesim, step away from the Zulily Site! You're going to become addicted like me! Free shipping! I love that!


    I went there this morning too, but managed to restrain myself. I have another shipment from MyUS, and yes, I have to admit, there is more Marika coming. I love the Carbon and Sharp green pants and some of the sharp green tops. They had another 40% off the Clearance area recently, so I couldn't help myself.LOL I wasn't going to tell, because I thought you'd all think me mad and extravagant!

  • wren44
    wren44 Member Posts: 7,928
    edited November 2013


    DD gave me a quilted nylon vest for my birthday. It's made by Champion and was at Target. I love it. It weighs almost nothing and is plum with orange zippers. Looks really great with yoga pants. Seems like I'm cold all the time these days so I'll be using it a lot.


    Fashion question: Would those slim pants look ok with flats? All the ads have women wearing extremely high heels which I will never wear. I'm thinking about making a pair. I've tried some on but don't like the fit. I'd rather make them from scratch than alter a purchased pair.

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027
    edited November 2013


    Hi Wrenn, I love those quilted vests too. I find they keep the cold wind off my chest.


    I am not sure which slim pants you are referring to, but if it helps, I wear cigarette leg slim pants with ballet flats a lot. I rarely wear heels these days, but on occasion I wear them with slim pants too. I usually wear a long sweater/tunic top with them and a scarf. I have a couple of the long vest tops in that nylon fabric with a long zip and front pockets, very comfy and good for going into town or out shopping.

  • grammaB
    grammaB Member Posts: 1,118
    edited November 2013


    ldesim, you are on my hit list!! I have placed my second order today ( to take of advantage of the free shipping) This is even a more addictive site than Amazon!!! I curse you yet I love you with many hugs for introducing to me to this site!

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 4,027
    edited November 2013


    What else did you buy gB?

  • Zillsnot4me
    Zillsnot4me Member Posts: 2,122
    edited November 2013


    This morning I woke up to a cat at my feet. It looked black not grey. I had to turn on the lights to see if a kitten had made it into the house! It wasn't thank goodness.


    See the RO today. My chest is tight, especially my underarm. Have PT already scheduled for today. My tongue is numb on that side in the mornings. And I'm not feeling positive, like I can beat this.


    Will try to get me some marika things too. Have three months of strength training starting in Jan.

  • bobogirl
    bobogirl Member Posts: 2,083
    edited November 2013


    Z! Almost a stray kitty on your bed! If you had had one, I would have been so happy. But no! Regular kitty.


    I will feel positive for you today, since you don't happen to be in a positive window. What's going on with your tongue? And nd, what's going on with the index finger? Did you get matching marika stuff too on Zulily? Peeing myself. We are all going to be matching.


    Now, Ariom, you must always disclose when you get Marika items. Don't bogart that information. We are on a need-to-know basis. Everyone, I think Ariom should have a tiny punishment for withholding Marika update. What shall it be?


    I know. You are sentenced to dressing up in one of your Marika outfits, having Colin take a picture, and then posting it for us. If you worry about posting a picture on this site, you may email us privately. But I don't think you are worried, since your avatar is actually a picture of yourself, "Ariom"! You are fearless.


    Idesim, I could drink that Mrs. Meyers Clean Day! Have not seen the orange one yet. Will not get the pine. You are an extreme naughty one for causing this worldwide spending spree! Please note, you also caused the bracelet spending spree. You act like it is other people, but you are the one, boy, are you ever.


    I think I got my pictures to copy! At the surgi-center now for my brother's sx. He is only having a block and sedation! But he is the biggest baby. As I said to Ariom, good thing he is not having his breasts removed. He is going to run me ragged when we get to his house. ND, PM me your real address again. Remember how your last care package did not get there? Your knock is ready, and I want to send it to the right place. I will NOT be making myself knocks, as I am going to have fake boobies. I am lucky I am not disqualified from the thread of my own making due to the fact that I am going to have fake tiny boobies like an EF model. All of my tops are going to be too small. You know what that means...

  • bobogirl
    bobogirl Member Posts: 2,083
    edited November 2013


    I reply to myself. Sh1tballs! The pictures did not post.

  • bobogirl
    bobogirl Member Posts: 2,083
    edited November 2013


    Sh1tballs! I don't know how to right-click with the stupid mouse pad. Also, Idesim, I did not get free shipping, I don't think. It said it would calculate automatically but it did not.

  • ndgirl
    ndgirl Member Posts: 950
    edited November 2013


    Wren, vests!! I love them, think I have every color there is! oh wait, I dont have pinkBawling, I really dont mind pink but as of bc it shed a different light on my choices. Also scarves.. whew I love them to, my favs! your vest sounds cool colors, I may have to check out Target!


    Zills, a kitty may have snuck in >> funny, dh left early today before I was awake, so when I got up was making myself some tea and all of a sudden a warm fuzzy was rubbing my feet! one of the cats that are around had snuck in, I have let her in many times before so I wasnt surprised now that is is cooler she wanted to eat her food inside! Of course I let her, but she wants back out before too long, they have a warm place to be, she is a calico cat and I just love her and spoil her!


    Bobo, yes there is a forum just on arimidex and I go there often, this could be a se, I dont really have as much trouble as some but just hope my bones stay strong. I sent you a pm.


    Well better get busy, it is just a beautiful day here, supposed to get to 50 which is great for ND in Nov.! have a great day all.

  • ldesim
    ldesim Member Posts: 1,193
    edited November 2013


    Zils, the tightness is normal. I don't know about your tongue, but you are also having more area radiated than I did, so it makes sense that it might be affected. You're 1 week down now!!! *HUGS*


    GB I am trying to stay away from the site today.. luckily the end of free shipping will stop me from spending more... what did you buy 2nd round? I didn't really get through the whole site yesterday.. I bet there was more goodies I could have bought and had the free shipping :( Leading up to Xmas last year, they had Fri-Sat-Sun free shipping with one purchase... it's a great place to gift shop.


    Bobogirl, you get free shipping after your first purchase.. so... you can buy 1 thing pay shipping for that.. then go hog wild until midnight making as many purchases as you want with free shipping.


    Wren, I think slim pants with heels looks hooker-ish.. in my opinion LOL. I think flats look nice with slim leg and heels look good with bootcut. I have never been a vest fan.. but love the color plum! Never thought of orange with it, bet that looks nice.


    Ndgirl, my stray would never come into the house.. I am assuming these strays were once pets?? So sad to think of the kittys in the cold :(


    Hey! It's not my fault if you all can't contain yourselves.. I was simply pointing out that I had an ensemble like our M... so technically it is her fault as she is the one with the Marika fetish and I so look up to her, I was looking for approval!


    And M I can't believe you are closet Marika shopping!!! lol didn't you just get two huge shipments?

  • grammaB
    grammaB Member Posts: 1,118
    edited November 2013


    Wow, that zulily sucked my whole day away yesterday!! And more $$ than I should have spent! But man what a deal!


    Second order only one Marika item:


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    I can't remember the price it was the last one and the prices don't show in the My Orders tab.


    Also got:


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    Will post and add other photos in next post.

  • ldesim
    ldesim Member Posts: 1,193
    edited November 2013


    Oh, I love the purple. Love the boots.. still resisting lol.

  • grammaB
    grammaB Member Posts: 1,118
    edited November 2013


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    ldesim, you clever, clever girl!! Now that I know how that site works, that is what I will do that too!! The only thing I don't like is it takes so long to ship.... I am spoiled by Amazon Prime with 2 day shipping.

  • wren44
    wren44 Member Posts: 7,928
    edited November 2013


    Ndgirl, the finger locking is a SE of Arimidex. I've seen it mentioned often on that thread.


    I'm going lalala with my finger in my ears about the Marika. I don't actually own any high heels or narrow pants, but I'd like to look a little more in fashion than I do. I wear clogs with my longer pants. Actually I think I'm trying to impress someone in a fantasy situation. The only place I go is the senior center where old clothes are the norm.


    I have fleece jackets in black, navy, plum, medium blue and red. I'm allergic to wool and fleece has been life-saving for me in cold weather.

  • grammaB
    grammaB Member Posts: 1,118
    edited November 2013


    I feel like I am several days behind in replying to posts.


    Ariom, congrats on your new position! And shame on you for not sharing your newest Marika deals!! :)


    Zills, so sorry about the se you are having. Hoping they will lessen and you can get through this part of the journey feeling better.


    Bobo, it just occurred to me that because you are not getting pm's maybe you didn't get my pm with my address? I got yours asking for it, pm me your email and I'll send it to you there. I hope your brother doesn't wear you out too much. Men can be such babies when sick.


    Wren, I love vests too, and scarves! And favorite color is purple!! Happy Birthday by the way!


    ndgirl, is that trigger finger you are experiencing? You can get a cortisone shot that will fix it for a long time. I had one middle finger right hand, had the shot Feb 2012 and it still is fine.


    More to write, but have to go eat something, be back..


    Hugs all!