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  • glennie19
    glennie19 Member Posts: 4,833
    edited March 2015


    perhaps so,, they just seemed like very personal questions to me!

  • spookiesmom
    spookiesmom Member Posts: 8,178
    edited March 2015

    Thing is, if you get involved with that type of convo, they won't drop it. YOU MUST GET RIGHT WITH GOD!!!! Blah blah.

    Just smile, say thank you, and leave.

    Jehovah's Witness came to my door. I told them I'm a witch. After they picked up their jaws, they started yapping. I countered them, till I got bored, slammed the door in their faces. They were still yapping.

  • glennie19
    glennie19 Member Posts: 4,833
    edited March 2015


    i tell JW's that they are trespassing. We have a sign in the community that says NO soliciting,, and that is what I consider them to be doing.

  • spookiesmom
    spookiesmom Member Posts: 8,178
    edited March 2015

    Good one!!!!

  • Charlottesmommy
    Charlottesmommy Member Posts: 8
    edited March 2015

    Spookiesmom and Glennie, I have a friend who is a VERY vocal ANTItheist. He is as bad as any JW on the block, and I do borrow pages from his book in self defense against the more agressive strangers. I was on my way home from chemo and just wasn't even in the mood to discuss it, especially after too personal questions from a total stranger. I usually just give random strangers the benefit of the doubt until they get preachy and try to bow out gracefully. I did feel kind of satisfied when his jaw just dropped, though.

  • wren44
    wren44 Member Posts: 7,967
    edited March 2015

    Our funniest encounter was when a sweet older lady came to our door Sunday morning. DH answered the door:

    DH: We consider us atheists here.

    Lady: The Bible says . . .but you probably don't accept that. Well, Jesus says . . . but you probably don't accept that either.

    Then she left.

  • socallisa
    socallisa Member Posts: 10,184
    edited March 2015

    at least she left!

  • Sarah0915
    Sarah0915 Member Posts: 81
    edited March 2015

    Charlottesm - I love the response - I have faith, in my doctors. Good one!

  • lassie11
    lassie11 Member Posts: 468
    edited March 2015


    I liked the time some random religious ladies came to my door to invite me to some event. I told them I was playing bridge that night. They fled. Apparently playing cards is a Bad Thing! Next time they invite me to read their stuff, maybe I ought to invite them to play bridge or at least read a small pamphlet about it.

  • spookiesmom
    spookiesmom Member Posts: 8,178
    edited March 2015

    Cards? Oh that's too funny!!!'n

  • socallisa
    socallisa Member Posts: 10,184
    edited March 2015

    Maybe tell them you'll read the tarot cards for them


  • glennie19
    glennie19 Member Posts: 4,833
    edited March 2015


    "Let's get out the Ouija board!!"

  • spookiesmom
    spookiesmom Member Posts: 8,178
    edited March 2015

    wooooohoooo! I'll be there!!!!!

  • wren44
    wren44 Member Posts: 7,967
    edited March 2015

    Have you seen the news lately? Someone in California wants to kill all the gay people and Ted Cruz wants to put atheists in camps. Didn't the Nazis already do that?

  • spookiesmom
    spookiesmom Member Posts: 8,178
    edited March 2015

    Somebody said Cruz is Sara Palin.

  • socallisa
    socallisa Member Posts: 10,184
    edited March 2015

    It used to be said that the diversity of The USA was what made it great

    Now it's blowing us apart.

  • ananda8
    ananda8 Member Posts: 1,418
    edited April 2015

    I don't think diversity is blowing us apart.  I think it's all the hate, fear mongering and lies spewing out of talk radio and certain politicians.

  • socallisa
    socallisa Member Posts: 10,184
    edited April 2015

    it certainly isn't helping

  • solacetea
    solacetea Member Posts: 7
    edited April 2015

    I'm not going to diss on anyone that has gotten health insurance thanks to Obama care, but in my case, the Affordable Care Act has gutted me. I carry insurance for myself, my husband, and two children. In 2014, my insurer canceled my plan because of the ACA , and my choices were all three times more costly, with high deductibles and more out of pocket costs. Then, I got cancer. In both breasts. Two months apart. Complications from surgery. My son had surgery, also with complications. We are slowly paying off over 20k in medical bills. Oh, and my plan just renewed, and its 200.00 a month more than it was last year. 70% of my salary goes to health insurance, and that's before we even start using it. Thanks Obama. Sorry for the rant.

  • ananda8
    ananda8 Member Posts: 1,418
    edited April 2015

    SoCalLisa,  Perhaps I don't understand what you mean by diversity.  Do you mean diversity of opinion or diversity of religion or diversity of race?

    I think when people only listen to those who agree with them and share the same experiences, that the civic conversation is stopped.  To me, talk radio feeds into the obsessive need for conformity, resistance to change, fear of the consequences of any disagreement or compromise, suspicion of others. Talk radio is all about stress and very low on truthful information.

  • socallisa
    socallisa Member Posts: 10,184
    edited April 2015

    I think that when our country was formed, people came, became citizens, became Americans. Now we have Japanese American, Mexican Americans, African Americans, etc. etc. That concept drives us apart. I am not saying we should all be conformists just have an investment in our country. We became one of the great countries because we could draw upon our diverse abilities.

  • ananda8
    ananda8 Member Posts: 1,418
    edited April 2015

    What makes you think that legal immigrants aren't becoming American?  My husband's grandparents never did speak English very well but they became citizens in spite of language difficulties.  They read German language newspapers and the family always celebrated German holidays along with American holidays.  Were they less American because they called themselves German-Americans?  I have always considered myself Irish-American because I identified closely with my mother's family.  My uncle considered himself a Portuguese American.  My other uncle considered himself Polish American and most of his family spoke Polish.  Of course my family lived in Chicago which to this day has strong ethnic neighborhoods.  Closely identifying with familial roots never stopped any of them from serving during WWII and Korea.

    I don't think respect for one's heritage drives people apart.  Perhaps the fear of differences in cultural experience makes some uncomfortable, but I believe it adds to the rich American culture.  We have never really been a melting pot. America is more of a delicious stew.

  • socallisa
    socallisa Member Posts: 10,184
    edited April 2015

    that is not what i meant, sorry

  • april25
    april25 Member Posts: 367
    edited April 2015

    Hmmm... Well, my grandparents came to the US around 1900... So my parents and I were all born here (my dad was a WWII vet, my grandfather was drafted in WWI). But I'm Asian-American because lots of people make me fill out forms that way and lots of people just look at me and don't believe I'm "American." So it's not as if some of us are trying to self-identify as something else! Others do it for us. And IF Americans wish to identify as Italian-American or whatever-- It's really their business.

    The divisiveness (not diversity) is NOT perpetrated by the minorities, who would love to become citizens if they aren't, or by people like me who were born here and know no other country, but are still looked upon as different.

    ANYWAY-- I'm sure nothing divisive was meant by it. Smile Just wanted to make things clear from someone who gets categorized as an American-hyphenated-whatever...

    Diversity is what makes America what it is --strong, vibrant, culturally rich, whether people like it or not.


  • socallisa
    socallisa Member Posts: 10,184
    edited April 2015

    I totally agree with your last statement. That is my point. That feeling is morphing.

  • ananda8
    ananda8 Member Posts: 1,418
    edited April 2015


    I used to live in lovely San Diego.  I have lived on the east coast and in Guantanamo Bay before it was turned into a prison compound.  In other words, I have always lived in a diverse community.  When we moved to the Ozarks, I was startled by how white the area was.  I told my family that I feared I could go snow blind from the glare of sun on all the white faces.  I meant it as a joke but as time when on I notice that the real conformity was in their minds not the color of their skin.  About 95% of the population got all of their news from talk radio.  All of the talk was of fear of non whites, of any Democrats, of any foreigners. 

    As it looked as though Obama might be elected, they became convinced that blacks from southern Arkansas would come up to our area and riot and pillage because Obama would protect them.  I am not kidding about this nor am I exaggerating the situation.  They were truly upset and afraid.

    Talk radio is a growing cancer on the public airwaves and unless you live somewhere like I do, you have no idea how horribly influential it is in rural America. 

  • socallisa
    socallisa Member Posts: 10,184
    edited April 2015

    That is a shame.

  • ananda8
    ananda8 Member Posts: 1,418
    edited April 2015


    The first year here when I went to vote, the poll worker said, "I don't understand how anyone who's a Christian can vote for a Democrat.  The second time I voted a poll worker tried to look over my shoulder as I filled out my ballot.  When I objected, he said it was required.  When I asked of his name, he backed off.  From then on, I vote early at the court house and have had no problems.  The rural South is really different but as more people from other states move here things are slowly changing.

  • spookiesmom
    spookiesmom Member Posts: 8,178
    edited April 2015

    OMD that's awful!! What state are you in? I do mail in vote.

  • ananda8
    ananda8 Member Posts: 1,418
    edited April 2015


    Arkansas.  I think it's been in the news lately about our "Christian kindness" towards gays.  What is surprising is that Walmart came out against the "religious freedom" bill and asked the governor not to sign it.  Walmart is headquarter in Arkansas and is one of the biggest employers. The governor has turned the bill back to the legislature for a re-write. 

    http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/govbeat/wp/2015/02/18/map-the-most-religious-states-in-america/

    The chart explains it all.