Im bitchy, I moan, I groan.....anyway.

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  • Traci-----TripNeg
    Traci-----TripNeg Member Posts: 567
    edited July 2009

    Wow. I missed so much! I missed you guys and I'm happy to have gotten to "meet" all the new faces through your posts, however am sad to hear all the crappy news.

    Sorry I haven't been around much. I'll try to improve on that again!

    I wish I would have written stuff down while reading the 130 posts but I didn't. 

    I'm so sorry about the beautiful nurse's liver, and the boss/friend that died, and sagit....I hope you have a wonderful time in NY. 

    Hugs everybody else, you are all in my daily thoughts.

    Traci

  • Mary22
    Mary22 Member Posts: 428
    edited July 2009

    It is hard to keep up with the posts and remember who said what. I sometimes find it hard to remember what goes on which thread. It could be tamoxifen brain fog or just old age.

    Hugs to all!!!!!

  • lovinmomma
    lovinmomma Member Posts: 105
    edited July 2009

    This is a great big SUX!!!  Why do I pay docs to read my test results if they miss things?????

    First PET...saw something light up on ovaries and uterus..docs office never followed up to have an us.I found that on the results and pushed for us.

    On original breast MRI there was a lump seen in the left breast (not the cancer breast),,,suggested us and biopsy...i had to readt that and go back and ask for it.  Luckily both of those were negative!!

    Now I am reading my report from my April breast MRI and there on the bottom.....yep yopu guessed it...they missed something again!!!!!  It says..there is a questionable area of irregular or patchy consolidation of 24 mm in the left upper lung. It could also be a collapsed lung.  A chest xray should be ordered to check this out. 

    WTF????!?!?! That was in April. I should of seen it sooner, but why didn't the docs?? 6 docs looked at this and no one mentioned it to me???  Off to email my pcp to ask for an xray tomorrow.

  • Sessna1
    Sessna1 Member Posts: 200
    edited July 2009

    Ladies, doctors are human.  Docs can SUX.  Please get copies of the documents in your medical files, and disks of scans, etc.

    Read the notes and reports, you, too, may find out something that wasn't done, gone over, explored, etc.

    Doctors are not gods.  Treating them as if they are... SUX.

    -sessna

  • ktym
    ktym Member Posts: 673
    edited July 2009

    Sagit, have a good trip

    Renee: please keep us updated, hope you're feeling better soon

    Kimberly: how frustrating, hopefully if it was in April anything serious by now you'd know about and all will be fine 

    Sessna: going to laugh about that all night, doctors are human, doctors can SUX, love it

    Barbe: what did I miss?  what are you getting pre-op'd for?  Sorry I missed it, been working some longer hours and harder to keep up 

  • sherloc
    sherloc Member Posts: 893
    edited July 2009

    Hi All, a drive by for me as well. I haven't been here for a while. Hope everyones Suckage quota remains low.

    Saint, old scars opening? O my. Hope you know you are in my prayers daily

    I have a question. My onc is retiring and moving to England next month. Even tho I've passed the 5 year mark I still see him everyone 3 months for my aredia infusion. I'm very sad that he is leaving and hoping I like the new doc coming in.

    Anywhos my question is, what kind of thank you/going away gift should I give him, if any?

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 7,605
    edited July 2009

    Sherloc, being alive and grateful is a wonderful going away gift. What about a letter he can read and/or put in an album to look at in later years. A heart-felt note would mean a lot to me....

    Don't know if I mentioned here or not (confusing) my kidney stone (aka Mick (Jagger)) is gettting surgically removed Friday, tomorrow! Finally!

    My surgon had a plaque in his office that made me know I'd picked the right doc. It said:

    God does all the work. I get all the credit.

  • ktym
    ktym Member Posts: 673
    edited July 2009

    Barbe, that is a surgeon with a sense of humor, I would like that too.  Good luck, so happy that is finally going to be operated on it has given you no end of grief

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 7,605
    edited July 2009
    Yell
  • Mary22
    Mary22 Member Posts: 428
    edited July 2009

    Good Luck tomorrow Barbe!!!!

  • GramE
    GramE Member Posts: 2,234
    edited July 2009

    Prayers for a speedy recovery ((((( barbe ))))).    

  • BooBee
    BooBee Member Posts: 288
    edited July 2009

    Hey peeps!!!! You have to see this.  Just amazing.  Feel free to share with other threads.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QuMVaAxuH6o

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 7,605
    edited July 2009
    I leave in one hour! Surprised Thanks for all your good wishes....I'll think of you all as I celebrate peeing!
  • GramE
    GramE Member Posts: 2,234
    edited July 2009

    You are prob on your way (((( barbe )))).  Healing vibes sent up your way.   Prayers for everyone and blessings beyond your wildest dreams.    

  • Mary22
    Mary22 Member Posts: 428
    edited July 2009

    Blessings and prayers coming your way Barbe!!!

  • dreamwriter
    dreamwriter Member Posts: 678
    edited July 2009

    Im looking forward to Sunday, when I meet Terricaroline again.  We are gonna have lunch. 

    She is coming through from Sparrow Lake and my daughter is going there with GS and BF for two weeks.  We will miss the little guy. 

    He has been at our place and such a delight (other than the not getting his own way tantrums).  He is learning to cook with grandpa.  Made omlettes with grandpa the other night.  He got to flip the two sides over - he did well.  Grandpa brought me the plate and he brought me the cutlery.  Yummy dinner.

    Well we have had a long break but today the writing club gets together.  Looking forward to that.

  • lovinmomma
    lovinmomma Member Posts: 105
    edited July 2009

    Good luck Barbe!  Adios Mick!

  • sueper13
    sueper13 Member Posts: 360
    edited July 2009

    Healing prayers and vibes for laughter coming your way, Barbe!

  • KAK
    KAK Member Posts: 297
    edited July 2009

    Hi, everyone!  I have a ton of catching up to do here on bco, but Hugs to OmahaGirl & Sagit (that's as far as I got reading!!) & good luck, Barbe & hugs to Saint & a large THAT SUCKS to everyone.

    Omaha, BTW, you don't have to do reconstruction AT ALL, you know.  Check out all your options.  This site is a good place to do that.

    A year ago today I was diagnosed with this Beast.  And I'M STILL HERE!!   In celebration of that, I made a shirt with my blog avatar on the front & a bunch of my peeps here on the back.  So, this is my way to say thanks to all of you for helping me cope & laugh & not feel alone & not lose my ever-loving mind this last year.  You all mean the world to me.  I wouldn't have come throught this without you.

  • dreamwriter
    dreamwriter Member Posts: 678
    edited July 2009

    Those red shoes are getting a lot of mileage without leaving home......!  I saw my name.... oh my.... Im somebody.... at least to KAK.

    Now I am gonna havta read the blog.  Hope it is as sassy as she is.

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 7,605
    edited July 2009

    Dream, you're someone to me too! Thanks for the pix Kathi, I feel special too. Laughing

    Home from the surgery. OUCH! Yell But Mickie is bye bye. Thanks for all the well wishes, they worked!

  • KAK
    KAK Member Posts: 297
    edited July 2009

    Oh, Barbe, good riddance to Mick!!   I'm glad you're okay!!!

    Dream, you are somebody to quite a lot of us, believe me!!   And I like to think my blog is pretty sassy.  But you'll be the judge!!

  • ktym
    ktym Member Posts: 673
    edited July 2009

    Kathi, very touched, thanks, it means a lot to me to see that. Agree with Dream, have to check it out.

    Barbe, so happy you're home, hope the pain meds are working and you're feeling ok today 

  • Mary22
    Mary22 Member Posts: 428
    edited July 2009

    Barbe, good bye to Mick and now you just rest and relax. At least w/ this birth, there are no midnight feedings. LOL.

    Enjoy the w/e ladies!!!!

  • Welga
    Welga Member Posts: 88
    edited July 2009

    Best wishes for a speedy recovery Barb, I enjoy reading you so much by the way, have a nice rest

    Welga

  • OG56
    OG56 Member Posts: 377
    edited July 2009

    Kathi thank you so much for the mention and all the support you have provided me throughout the last year. Yes to the Amazon's! I am leaving the thread to read your blog right now.

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 7,605
    edited July 2009
    Thanks for the well wishes guys but I ended up back at the ER for 12 hours! The stent slipped and then came out. The stent protects the ureter walls from the passing of the shards left from the laser. The stent also makes sure the ureter doesn't collapse or form scar tissue. They didn't have an OR for me so I was sent home with even more Demerol and told to come back if 150 mgs of Demerol doesn't keep me pain free and they'd admit me! Worried more about the ureter than the pain...Yell
  • OG56
    OG56 Member Posts: 377
    edited July 2009

    I am assuming the Dr's said it is okay to wait until Monday to reposition the stent? What the f... is there no such thing as smooth sailing and if not, why is such a quote ever said, and if I ever find the person who made that stupid saying up I am going to slap them, because since my BC I feel the urge to slap someone everyday, I used to be sweet! Healing Hugs Barbe and I hope the meds keep you comfortable.

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 7,605
    edited July 2009
    They may not even put one back in! I took 3 Demerol at 4 am and am sitting here wondering what to do. Hurt to sit up at 4, so I lay down, hurts to lie down, so I`m now sitting up....Yell
  • Welga
    Welga Member Posts: 88
    edited July 2009

    So sorry you are feeling this way, this part ureter is pretty sensitive, maybe if you could get Dilaudid or some other form of pain killer, on Sunday could be a little complicated, calling your pharmacist could also help at this point, like telling you what you can add (over the counter) to the Demerol as far as pain killing is concerned.And finally if not getting help going back to hospital for a presciption for something else... 

    J'espère que tu trouveras la solution pour te garder confortable, les premiers jours même sans complications après une opération c'est souvent douloureux, mais l'urètre il me semble que c'est pire.....je me souviens d'un examen à l'urètre que je n'ai pas pu terminer tellement ca faisait mal.

    Sorry to finish in french, but as Barb said she was french from Québec,  like me,  sometimes easier to express myself, as I am not that good with writing in english.