Im bitchy, I moan, I groan.....anyway.

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  • gsg
    gsg Member Posts: 1,700
    edited April 2008

    One more bitch...I'm selling my son's car for him.  I hate it when people tell you they're coming over and then don't show up.  Ruuuuuuuuuude.  I had one girl who came by Friday and was all excited and wanted to know if my son would take a lot less.  I told her I'd e-mail him and find out if he'd go that low.  She made me PROMISE I would get back in touch with her the next day, as she wanted to pick it up yesterday around 4 p.m.  I have called her (as promised) to tell her he'd take what she is offering, and she hasn't returned my calls.  Double ruuuuuuuuuuuude.

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 344
    edited April 2008

    His father only lives 40 miles away and doesn't see him but five times a year?  And didn't even see him over the Christmas holidays?  What a JERK!  Does he have any idea what he's doing to HIS son!?

    I don't know about a hammer, but send Judge Hatchett to see him!  She could make good use out of her LAST NAME! Laughing

    Shirley

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 183
    edited April 2008

    Found one - but if you have a bigger one it would be greatly appreciated...

    And btw, Shirley, the chucklehead has only seen his child five times in the last two years. 

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 2,728
    edited April 2008

    mchammer9ip3ji.gif MC Hammer image by starssoftball15

    Oops!  Wrong Hammer

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 2,728
    edited April 2008

    Felicia:  Here ya go.  I say use them all.

    hammer.gif picture by chemosabi1

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 344
    edited April 2008

    Five times in two years!?  Boy, did I read your post wrong.  That's just plum wrong.  What's up with some of these "Dads?"  Don't they miss their kids?  Don't tell your son this, but he is not a "dad."  He's one of those sperm donors!  In fact, you should start addressing him as "hey, sperm donor."

    Shirley

  • Isabella4
    Isabella4 Member Posts: 1,352
    edited April 2008

    Felicia, this is the pits, what a jerk.

    Trouble is your son will still look up to him no matter how he's being treated...that is until he becomes old enough to realise his father is a waste of space.

    Shirley, you were talking about 'hooker' shoes a few pages back, forgive me, I seem to forget all too easy these days !!!!!!!!!!!!! We have a saying over here........shoes like that are called "f**k me" shoes!!!!!!!!!!!!! Just a final giggle before I go to bed and dream about my little boy !!!

    Isabella.

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 344
    edited April 2008

    HAHAHAHA, Nicki!

  • MissShapen
    MissShapen Member Posts: 3,963
    edited April 2008

    Felicia,

    He is, indeed, a jerk.

    My ex lives across the country from us, but his parents live about 5 hours away (with Shirley). We found out a couple of years ago that he was going there every year for a family reunion without mentioning it to my (HIS) sons.

    One of my sons went last year and that was the first time he saw his dad in 7 years. Why on earth wasn't his dad making arrangements to see him every year? Isn't that crazy? I don't know what is wrong with him. He really isn't a bad person.... just unconscious?

    I know it makes my kids feel shunned. I always tell them to call him, but they wait for their dad to call them. Apparently their dad is waiting for them to call him, so they never talk. Usually they only talk at Christmas time and birthdays. They have cell phones and could talk daily is they wanted.... It's a puzzle.

    Miss S

  • gsg
    gsg Member Posts: 1,700
    edited April 2008

    I just now saw your post, Felicia...how dare he!  I'm sorry your son is going through this and heartbreaking for you to watch.  It's amazing to me how many people never have what should be natural parental feelings kick in.  It's complete selfishness. 

  • Harley44
    Harley44 Member Posts: 2,126
    edited April 2008

    I have missed lots of posts today, so I just want to send a HEARTY "THAT SUCKS!"  out to ALL YA'LL!

    Oh, and to say to Shirley, and Traci that I don't drink Martini's, either... but if you have melon balls or some other drinks that I DO like, I will also participate in the drinking!!  We SHOULD all meet in Wilmington, sometime!  I don't mind going to Wilmington, either, when I don't have a freakin' dr. appt!   It is an hour away from my house, but I usually enjoy getting away and one of these days, I want to go shopping up there!! 

    Deb, glad that you are feeling better, and hope your day wasn't too POOPY!!   LOL

    Hope everyone has a gripe-free day tomorrow!

    Harley

  • beergirl
    beergirl Member Posts: 83
    edited April 2008

    Felicia, I've got a hammer and I know how to use it. Watch out! I'm on my way!

  • Traci-----TripNeg
    Traci-----TripNeg Member Posts: 567
    edited April 2008

    The hammer pics were awesome!!! LMAO!!

    : - ) Hugs Girls!

  • neesie
    neesie Member Posts: 1,110
    edited April 2008

    My Bitch is that I am to tired to tell you about the "ex-idiot" who was the 'sperm donor' for my kids!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  We've been divorced about 26 years....but some things never leave your mind!!!!!!!!!!!  Be prepared.....I can fill you with Bitches....moans and groans over him.............and excuse me...but not the kind of moans and groans that belong on the MoJo thread!

    Second Bitch is my dog.......................isn't it bad enough that I work with oldies all day and deal with dementia on a daily basis...........no ladies, my clients..not me............................anyhow..the Bitch...(female dog, not her name)........must have some doggie dementia going on.  Okay.....yesterday I notice a BIG yellowish spot on the carpet by the foyer...........kinda blended in with the rest of the mess................forgot about it...seriously thought it was a shadow from the front door being open!  Anyhow, all day today I kept smelling something............it was driving me nuts...(yup, I know.....didn't have to drive to far to get me to designation Nuts)  I stuck my nose in everything trying to find the 'stink'..................holy shit.........I found it....................the yellow 'shadow' happened to be dog pee that had been there for atleast 24 hours!......................GROSS.............I've scrubbed it twice and now have 'odorban' sitting on it............................

    Okay............be back tomorrow........................Don't even ask about my client for tomorrow am...........................Nicki....bet you can guess!

    Neesie 

  • marshabel
    marshabel Member Posts: 27
    edited April 2008

    Oh, Neesie, I have a leaky old dog, too. She really needs doggy Depends!

    I loved the Hammer pics - I guess I'm too computer illiterate, cuz I haven't figured out how to post those things.....it sucks when you have to ask your kids how to do stuff (but they love it!)

    Tracie - I'll fire up the skillet when you get to GP!

    Deb, glad you are feeling better today. I DO know the power of a good crap - my Rock of Gibraltar issues were finally resolved today, one pebble at a time, LOL! Sorry, TMI

    For those of you who get in a dark place, like Deb was the other day, here's something I wrote in my journal during my most recent day of despair. (I'm not a journal-type person, but this just needed saying, and since I didn't have anyone to talk to at that moment I just wrote it.

    My vessel of betrayal is my very own body.

    What was once a source of wonder is now a source of doom.

    Rogue cells invading, health and spirits fading

    I'm resisting the urge to just hide in my room.

    Yet a new hope burns with each new infusion.

    Will this be the one?  Will I EVER be done?

    Poisons injected to the body infected with invaders malignant...

    Bad cells on the run!

    Yet life must go on while this battle still rages.

    My family still loves me, the sun shines above me.

    Still the goal of each day is to keep cancer at bay

    While I long for some peace, and a way to just BE. 

    Whew, that felt good to get out......CANCER SUCKS! 

    Marsha 

  • MissShapen
    MissShapen Member Posts: 3,963
    edited April 2008

    Marsha,

    Very heartfelt and beautifully said!  Big hugs!!!

    Neesie, I have an old dog, too. So far she holds her pee better than I do.  Embarassed  That sucks about the carpet.... hope the odorban does it's thang.

    Miss S

  • waves
    waves Member Posts: 13
    edited April 2008

    I think it sucks that I can not get motivation to do the million of things I need to do. But I spend so much freaking time obsessing about bc.  I am tried, but I spend hours in the night reading postings on this website.  Which I love the women in this community and look forward to coming here.  I want information and find great comfort.  So many of you are expressing my feelings.  I am sure none of us want to be hear or want to need to be here.  Please do not be offended.  It is amazing how reading other peoples complaints make me feel better.. Why?

    I am having tons of bone aches and my teeth aches, presently which I did not have during my taxol treatment.  How wrong is that to get side effect once the treatment stops... Give me a break.

    Felicia: You exhusband "TOTALLY SUCKS!"

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 2,728
    edited April 2008

    mondayhorse.jpg picture by chemosabi1

    My bitch is simple this morning.  Its Monday - back to work yuck!

    nicoletta

  • Traci-----TripNeg
    Traci-----TripNeg Member Posts: 567
    edited April 2008

    I feel your pain Nicki....

  • kiki
    kiki Member Posts: 38
    edited April 2008

    Hi Ladies, haven't posted for awhile and finally caught up to everyones bitches.  A gigantic THAT SUCKS to everyone!!

    DebC glad to hear things are a bit better.

    Traci, there's nothing I can say to make you feel better about the babies.  My heart breaks for you, it's not fair.

    Happy Birthday Harley.

    gsg you crack me up.

    Felicia that guy doesn't deserve to be a father, JERK!!!

    I know I'm forgetting a lot, just don't have a brain anymore.

    My bitch today is that I woke up with half an eyebrow!!  Finished chemo Dec. 12/07.  Eyebrows, lashes etc... came back.  Now today I wake up, look in the mirror, and WTF half an eyebrow.  Cancer sucks!!  Oh and my back has started throbbing like it did when I took those neupogen shots.  So of course I am now convinced I have bone mets.  Damn I hate this bc and what it does to us.

    Hope you all have a not so $hitty day (especially DebC hope those laxitives don't put you on the run!!)

  • smithlme
    smithlme Member Posts: 383
    edited April 2008

    Tomorrow I am having my second Mastectomy and that f-ing SUCKS!  I could have sworn I just did this last year...oh, I did. When is this nightmare going to end? I am just a mess of mixed emotions. I won't know until after 3:00 today, when the surgery schedule is posted, what time my surgery is. People keep calling me, asking what time my surgery is. I am going to go nuts. My mom actually made herself a 10:00 doctor appointment tomorrow and asked my sister if she thought she should keep it. WTF??? No mom, keep it...your appointment is much more important than mine. ARGH! My oldest daughter just sent me a text asking what time my surgery is. I am going to explode! I swear no one listens to me. I know that their lives have continued to move forward, but mine has been in a time warp since last year.

    I want to wake up and find out that this has all been a bad dream and my life is back where it was. I want an unscarred body. I want one that isn't achy and doesn't hurt. I want my long hair back. I want my toes to quit tingling and my arm and hand to quit swelling. I want to look in my closet and not see pink t-shirts. I don't want to have a pink ribbon on the back of my car. And I really, really don't want to be the "reason" my daughter is walking in the Komen 3 Day in September.

    This Cancer SUCKS and I'm going to go hide under a blanket until my youngest daughter gets home from school...

    Linda

  • Traci-----TripNeg
    Traci-----TripNeg Member Posts: 567
    edited April 2008

    It does suck Linda.Yell

    deep sigh about your tomorrow girl.Frown

    (((hugs)))

  • bluesky
    bluesky Member Posts: 144
    edited April 2008

    i have'nt been here in a while, just checking to say IT SUCKS for all that need it.

    linda-i'm so sorry about everything that you are going thru, it's too much and needs to end asap!!! cancer is the ugliest beast ever and I HATE IT!! i know it's hard but try to block everyone and everything out. i wish you a speedy and good recovery. hugs

  • Harley44
    Harley44 Member Posts: 2,126
    edited April 2008

    kiki:


    Thanks for the Happy Birthday wishes!  So far, I've had a perfect day!  dh and I went out to breakfast with some friends, and then we went to the beach, and stopped at a restaurant for a snack, before heading back home.  DH bought some steaks and will make them, and some asparagus, and twice baked potatoes for dinner.  I also got a bunch of strawberries (my favorite!), and then he stopped at another store, to pick up a bottle of champagne...my absolute favorite!!!  What a gem!!  He's a sweetheart!!

    Hugs to all

    Harley

    PS... oh, I forgot...  this is the bitchy thread...a hearty this sucks!!  to ALL!!!  

    Linda, sorry that you are having to have surgery again!  I'll be think ing about you tomorrow.  Hope all goes well!!

  • Traci-----TripNeg
    Traci-----TripNeg Member Posts: 567
    edited April 2008

    I just got hungry.

    Happy birthday Harley!

  • Isabella4
    Isabella4 Member Posts: 1,352
    edited April 2008

    Linda, good luck for your surgery. Hope all goes well.

    I also have a hard time watching all the rest of my family just sailing along without a care in the world, and expecting me to sail along with them sucks. I suppose as long as I am out of bed, dressed, and propped up in the kitchen somewhere they'll think everything is as always was !!

    Deb....how are you today ??

    Isabella.

  • gsg
    gsg Member Posts: 1,700
    edited April 2008

    Linda, I'm really sorry....it completely sucks one time...two times goes beyond sucks.  Will be thinking of you tomorrow.

  • kiki
    kiki Member Posts: 38
    edited April 2008

    Linda, best wishes that all goes quickly and smoothly for you tomorrow!

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 344
    edited April 2008

    Linda, that REALLY does suck!  It ain't fair!  No one should have to do this twice OR EVEN ONCE!  You'll be in my thoughts. 

    Shirley

  • chemo072
    chemo072 Member Posts: 31
    edited June 2008

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