Bonfire of the Goddesses

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  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited August 2012

    Thanks Veggy for posting that pic.....We had a great time as usual.Didnt want to let her go home.lol

    Good luck today  and please let us know how you make out.

    hi everyone!!!!!!Its gettin hot again in NJ.When I say hot i mean in the hi 80s...

    enjoy the summer.its almost over....thank you God.I hate the heat and the bugs.

  • voraciousreader
    voraciousreader Member Posts: 3,696
    edited August 2012

    Granny... When we finally get to meet, I will spot you first!!! Don't be afraid if I run up to you! You will recognize me... by my Brooklyn accent! PM me where and when the gals are meeting...



    Good and not so good news today. Polyp, as usual, was benign. But now I have a cyst on my Fallopian tube that will require... SURPRISE.... Surgery! Ha! Actually, VR is NOT surprised...VR told the doctor earlier this week that she wants off of this merry-go-round! There just aren't enough days in the week to follow through with all of these medical appointments. He agreed. His wife is also a cancer survivor and they are on the merry-go-round too. I appreciate his candor and I think it is bittersweet that his wife is also a survivor. I think the experience has made him an even better physician...



    VR is looking forward to a quiet weekend. Into the fire goes the tumult! Now VR can relax...and read!



  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited August 2012

    VR---while you are relaxing you can ponder with the dates too.Joan and I are not good  from Sept 13th throu the 18th....Im throwing it out to everyone....come one come all to GCS sometime in Sept.......

    We will make this work this time!!!!!!!

  • joan811
    joan811 Member Posts: 1,981
    edited August 2012

    Veggy, sending positive thoughts and hugs for you and your test.  Hope the cricket stays quiet and you remember nothing but a good snooze....
    VR, there are no words,really for what you are going through....enjoy the week end and don't look too far ahead.  
    What in the world did they do to me during my endoscopy and colonoscopy?  I have a huge swollen lip, maybe infected, and a major purple bruise getting bigger on my arm.  Did they throw me around like a slab of meat?  I have to wear long sleeves.
    Nite all --oops, almost morning.

    J

  • veggy
    veggy Member Posts: 4,150
    edited August 2012

    They could not do the MRI. After I filled out the paperwork, I asked them what I thought to be a stupid question. It wasn't stupid after all. My tissue expanders have metal rings on them and I wante to know if that would complicate the test. They called out the tech and she said that I couldn't have it done. There are no stupid questions.

  • Linda-n3
    Linda-n3 Member Posts: 1,713
    edited August 2012

    Veggy, what a bummer!  Life is complicated enough.... geez... and yes, there are no stupid questions, just stupid responses sometimes!  Sure glad the tech checked BEFORE they put you in the scanner - your TEs might have been dislocated!

  • voraciousreader
    voraciousreader Member Posts: 3,696
    edited August 2012

    Veggy... Glad that Oy... Didn't turn into an Oy, Oy,Oy!!!

  • Linda-n3
    Linda-n3 Member Posts: 1,713
    edited August 2012

    Here are some flowers for EVERYONE today!  Hugs! 

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited August 2012

    I hate all this shit

    nothing ever good for anyone to say

    when was the last time i told you how much i hate hate hate this friggin bc.

    FIND A DAMN CURE/VACINE....NOW!!!!!

    end of rant.

    hugggggggs,love,prayers and sweet dreams K

  • Bluebird-DE
    Bluebird-DE Member Posts: 1,233
    edited August 2012

    Rant away Granny Duke, we love you anyway.  

    Into the fire, mine is trivial today, but the ones who advertise garage sales and signs are on corners but they simpy pull the sign in front yard and close the door, after you run drive ten miles one way to get there then all over to find it.

  • joan811
    joan811 Member Posts: 1,981
    edited August 2012

    Veggy, there's a reason for everything, but sometimes we just have no idea what the heck it is...I am glad you asked.
    Granny, am guessing you will sleep better now that you got that out....somewhere some kid in college is working on what switches the BC gene on and off.  And someday our daughters and friends and family won't ever have to go through this.

    Linda, thanks for the flowers....
    Mad, love your photo!
    Gotta sleep tonight....real work starts Monday (up before 6 AM).
    J

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 15,894
    edited August 2012

    So, in the middle of the night --let a sweet fire be

  • Bluebird-DE
    Bluebird-DE Member Posts: 1,233
    edited August 2012

    Thanks Joan, it scared poor Sassy for a little while, hahaha....

    Last thing of the night then bed, the pink fight like a girl pen goes in garbage.... was gifted it and hate it.

    bye bye pen, into the sweet fire....

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 15,894
    edited August 2012

    dear essa the pink thing goes into a hot fire, Sweet fires are reserved for love

  • voraciousreader
    voraciousreader Member Posts: 3,696
    edited August 2012

    Essa... Those pink pens make me wild! My radiologist's office gives you one each time you sign in and fill out those nasty papers that keep reminding you that you are a breast cancer patient. When I finish filling out the papers and give them back the papers and the pen, they politely tell me, "Oh, you can keep the pen.". As I politely give the papers and pen back, what I REALLY want to say is "Take back this pen and the breast cancer diagnosis too, please!". VR is always polite. Sometimes too polite.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited August 2012

    VR--gotta hang with me...i scream when im offered something pink!!!!!!!!!!!

    Then I open my eyes real wide and say YOUR KIDDIN ME RIGHT??

    pink shit is burning....

  • veggy
    veggy Member Posts: 4,150
    edited August 2012

    I see pink smoke...

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited August 2012

    Pink shit is BURNING....Thanks Veggy.....

    Isnt it your bed time?????ha

  • Linda-n3
    Linda-n3 Member Posts: 1,713
    edited August 2012

    VR, can I make a slight suggestion? Take a GREEN ink pen with you to your appointments, and INSIST upon signing all things in green. I know that is not acceptable for some legal documents (many now require blue ink as it is too easy to make copies with black ink looking like the "original") - but having been a "green-ink enthusiast" since high school days, I just feel like it makes a statement. Or use red or purple or any other color. The little Pilot gel pens (Pilot G-2) have a roller ball that signs through carbon copies and they are really bright!



    Hugs!

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 15,894
    edited August 2012

    On the pen thingy--take your own pen too many bugs(bacteria) on shared pens. In ER when we had to give patients pens to sign discharge papers, I seriptisciouly(sic) dropped them in the wastebasket. I'm sure the bosses wouldn't like that,but didn't care. On the nursing unit same thing or wiped mine with the disinfectant. Felix Unger was my hero. For two reasons. The first, was he made OCD seem normal. The second was his initials.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited August 2012

    Thanks a lot Sas----now we have to worry about the pens too.damn im getting like FU..never was like that before.My friend told me yesterday to keep the lid on the toilet seat always down...holds in the bacteria.what next???are you kidding me?????wasing my hands 15x a day became the normal...

    Grannydukes is not likin all of this.afraid to do this,afraid to do that....WTF.back in the day who thought of these things.All we had to do was wash our hands before meals...

  • joan811
    joan811 Member Posts: 1,981
    edited August 2012
    Granny I hear ya....I get worse each year.  I am not OC at home...but everywhere else I am overly vigilant....when I was at a test site the other day, I wondered about all the "stuff" they used on me and what had just come off some other patient. (blood pressure cuff, thumb O2 sensor, pillow....)  and I cringe when my hair dresser pulls a brush out of the drawer...eeks I should bring my own...same at the nail salon....I never used to be this way.  At work, if students are sick, I refuse to touch their papers and make them drop it in a basket where it stays for at least 24 hours.  I love when they come up to my desk and whisper in my face "I was throwing up all night"...to which I reply 'Please Go Home'....and if a student leaves a pen or pencil behind, we usually throw it away.  
    I like the idea of bringing my own pen to paper-signings.  
    Into the fire with pink stuff other people's stuff.  Especially pink stuff.  

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 15,894
    edited August 2012

    Granny sweetheart you don't even know what else has been tested.  The biggest laugh was the national meeting for infectious disease nurses. the study was :statistics related to how many washed their hands before they left the bathroom. You don't want an answer.

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 15,894
    edited August 2012

    Okay the worst ever published study was : how many seconds does it take to remove the sthethoscope from around your neck and put it in your ears versus have ear prongs around your neck and move them to your ears. Sure hope no public or private funds were used for that one. It's like studing why does a gnat land on a elephants ass. WHO CARES?.

  • ridergirl
    ridergirl Member Posts: 94
    edited August 2012

    Good afternoon ladies hope everyone found something to smile about today

    Throwing into the fire the gyn i went to today. Why oh why do we have to be the ones to educate our drs? Shouldnt you know this shit already you're the damn doctor! Was a referral from my MO and not only did he obviously not havr even a basic history, i had to explain to him how they test her2 status and then what my results meant in terms of my treatment. Was pretty sure going in i wasn't having the ooph done, he just helped me make that decision easier. Right now i'm done i dont want any more anything. And my first pamidronate infusion is tomorrow. Crap.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited August 2012

    When I was working I used to clean all the door handles with alcohol wipes.way before bc...why...cause if i got a cold i got married to the damn thing...that was my biggy but now thank you very much sas i can really become nuts over this.

    last week i went shopping for food with a friend of mine.she wanted watermellon.btw she is a 29 yr.cancer survivor.anyway she lives alone and bout an entire watermellon...i asked her why......READY!!!!her concern was the KNIFE....where was it last?how was it cleaned? Is this gonna be the new normal.

    into the fire goes everything we worry about....bc sure does suk!!!!

  • joan811
    joan811 Member Posts: 1,981
    edited August 2012

    ridergirl, so sorry to hear about your uninformed gyn. 

    It sux that you have to start another drug cycle....I hope SEs are minimal.  Are you on a long term cycle for the pamidronate?
    I hope the day will come when BC can be prevented or treated without chemo related drugs.  These drugs NEED to go into the fire...
    Let's toss stupid doctors who don't communicate and are uninformed.

    Granny, am with you...BC just sux.

  • chabba
    chabba Member Posts: 3,600
    edited August 2012

    Not just BC, CANCER SUCS! Sorry to yell but here I am 2 years from diagnosis and my brother was diagnosed in July and now is in home hospice care. 

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Member Posts: 7,545
    edited August 2012

    Chabba - So sorry to hear about your brother.  Yes, Cancer definitely sucks!  On a lighter note, isn't today your birthday?

  • chabba
    chabba Member Posts: 3,600
    edited August 2012

    Thank you Jo. And yes, today is my birthday. Number 70!