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  • Linda-n3
    Linda-n3 Member Posts: 1,713
    edited April 2013

    Cin, thanks for the note, so sorry you are dealing with another infection. You are a special person to all of us here, and we so appreciate that you took the time and energy to post a quick note to us.

    More M&Ms for you, along with much love and many hugs:

  • Linda-n3
    Linda-n3 Member Posts: 1,713
    edited April 2013

    Elaine, you are another very special person to us here. I am so glad to see you continuing to check on your sister, but also continuing to live YOUR life! You have so much to give, whether through your own business or through a spa. My massage therapist does both sort of - has her own clients, but works with a "certified athletic center" that provices physical therapy and rehab services to cardiac, pulmonary, transplant, etc patients, and MT really pickes up where PT leaves off for many of us. You will do well, whichever path you choose.

    Am also sending you a PM.

  • ElaineForCindyRose
    ElaineForCindyRose Member Posts: 76
    edited April 2013

    Thanks, Linda  (((hugs)))

  • april485
    april485 Member Posts: 1,983
    edited April 2013

    Elaine, thanks for the update. Hope your back feels better.

  • goodprognosis
    goodprognosis Member Posts: 195
    edited March 2014

    Cindy, wonderful to hear from you and always praying for you.  Elaine great to hear from you too.  Your a wonderful sister and God knows how hard it is for you to live your own life through all of this suffering.

    God give you strength.

    Love as always to everyone else here too.

    lorna

  • leggo
    leggo Member Posts: 379
    edited April 2013

    Cindy, hoping the infection has eased up a bit. I so hope the antibiotics give you a little bit of relief. Love you and a big gentle hug.

    (((((Elaine))))). Knowing someone you love is suffering and not being able to do a dam thing about it is about the worst thing there is. I so know what you're going through.

  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited April 2013

    Thanks Elaine and tell Cin I was asking...

    When is DIL due? and they say it all the time, depends on the drs....I did the same thing with both of my girls, my mental health was on the line, lol

    thanks Ali for getting in touch with her.....and Elaine, would it be too painful to plant Cin's favorite flower there....that way you know and she knows you always have something in your yard to talk to.....I am so sorry, that you have to go through this.....she is so lucky to have you in her life....

  • cookiegal
    cookiegal Member Posts: 527
    edited April 2013

    Hi Cindy!

  • Linda-n3
    Linda-n3 Member Posts: 1,713
    edited April 2013

    So great to see all of you here, great to hear from Cin and Elaine BOTH! Hoping you both feel better.

    Status quo here. Appointments tomorrow with MO and pain specialist. Maybe a new plan? Or not??

  • ali68
    ali68 Member Posts: 644
    edited April 2013

    Linda, good luck with the pain specialist, you have to tell them what you want and be firm about it. One of the things I have learn't from Cindy is not take crap from the medical people.

    Today we had hospital apt with nurse and I walked out of the room because if I'd stayed I would have given the nurse a kick up the arse. My daughter is so thin it makes me cry and because she isn't killing herself we still have to wait two weeks to see the doctor.

    The nurse ( guy) and a lovely girl who sits in who I think has more to give if he would shut up. He talks in effing riddles and I have to say he peeing me off. I went back in and my daughter was crying and he said shall I tell your mum what you said. So I think fuck something bad and then well at least I'll know. Ten minutes later he says, your daughter feel's full most of the time and doesn't want to eat. Also she is upset at what is happening, well I looked at him but I kept my mouth shut. I thought you stupid guy we know that already you have been with her an hour. I told him I wasn't happy we had to wait to see the doctor and to be honest I have seen her, just as drippy with no balls.



    I think we are doing more for her with us talking to her and now I'm no more soft mum. I've told her what will happen if she doesn't start eating and I'm going for the shock treatment.



    I have read that some people have this for years and to be honest we don't need this as well as my cancer, SIL with depression, grandma lost her DH and she is getting depression, youngest daugher saying she is fat.



    Anyway I feel better now xxx

  • goodprognosis
    goodprognosis Member Posts: 195
    edited March 2014

    Love to Cindy and Elaine and all the family today.  It's a beautiful day here, hope the sun is shining for you too Cin.

    Ali so sorry to hear you're having so much trouble getting help for your daughter.  God's piling it on for you right now.Yell  I'll pray things get better for you and for her. Sounds like she doesn't know how to cope with everything she's feeling, hopefully, you will both get the help you need-though apparently not from that idiotic nurse!   Can't offer any advice as i'm not in that position and therefore wouldn't presume to know how to handle it.

    Thinking of you all, Linda, Blondie and everyone else.

    lorna

  • leggo
    leggo Member Posts: 379
    edited April 2013

    Cindy, thinking of you. Hoping that infection is letting up and you're a little more comfortable. Much love and hugs.

  • Cindy-Rose
    Cindy-Rose Member Posts: 77
    edited April 2013

    My Grand Daughter is in place and at 3cm so any time now, I've menaged to collect lots of baby things and the family is pitching in with some of the bigger things like car seat and stroller. I can't wait and my mom is renting us a larger vehicle so I'll be comfortable and evereything will fit. Have I mentioned that I can't wait!

    All my love,

    cinLaughing

  • leggo
    leggo Member Posts: 379
    edited April 2013

    Awesome news! I'm so happy and excited for you Cindy.

  • ali68
    ali68 Member Posts: 644
    edited April 2013

    Great news !!!

  • itsjustme10
    itsjustme10 Member Posts: 64
    edited April 2013

    Congratulations to you and your family, Cindy!!  :)

  • crog234
    crog234 Member Posts: 324
    edited April 2013

    That's great Cin.... How exciting!!!!



    Cindy

  • Linda-n3
    Linda-n3 Member Posts: 1,713
    edited April 2013

    WOW, Cin! I sure hope you are a grandma by now! And I hope you are comfortable.

    I have had a very busy week - well, it would actually have been a very light week pre-BC, now takes all my energy just to put in a 6-hour block without a 2-hour rest. *sigh* In any case, I have a painting workshop tomorrow, so will be exhausted by the time I get home, but will enjoy it immensely. I also have my mother here helping me for a couple weeks. So I may not post as much, but will read every day, will keep you all in my heart every day, and will hope that Cin finds unlimited joy in her new granddaughter. Much love to all of you.

  • goodprognosis
    goodprognosis Member Posts: 195
    edited March 2014

    Hope its Congratulations by now Cindy, to you and your daughter.  A new ray of sunshine... almost....! in the world - we all need it.  Hope you're well enough to enjoy the new grandbaby....


  • Linda-n3
    Linda-n3 Member Posts: 1,713
    edited April 2013

    Just checking in briefly to give my love to all of you, sending special prayers and greetings to Cin and Elaine, waiting anxiously to hear news of the new baby.

  • ElaineForCindyRose
    ElaineForCindyRose Member Posts: 76
    edited April 2013

    Hey Hey Hey .... we've a baby girl!!!! Ayleeah Rose was born at 6:50pm today weighing 7lbs even ... don't know how long she is :-D

    Cindy and Rick and Mom are there ~and more family I imagine :-)

    Love and Peacefullness

    Elaine

  • 1Athena1
    1Athena1 Member Posts: 672
    edited April 2013

    Oh, congratulations, Cindy-Rose and family. How the cycle of life and death manifests itself.

    Elaine, I am so sorry for your pain and duldrums. This must indeed be hard.It's the not knowing, wondering that must be awuful. You are in a sort of holding pattern - a purgatory.

    Cindy, wonderful to hear from you. Having a little grand-cub has to be such a gift!

  • 2nd_time_around
    2nd_time_around Member Posts: 14,084
    edited April 2013

    What a true blessing! Cindy, congratulations to you and your family!

  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited April 2013

    yay Cin you checked in and changed your pix....so excited for you..

    thanks Elaine...

    Ali, does your daughter need to go to a treatment center?

    Happy weekend all!!

  • crog234
    crog234 Member Posts: 324
    edited April 2013

    Cindy. Congrats !!!!!! Such an exciting time for you and your family......



    Cindy

  • april485
    april485 Member Posts: 1,983
    edited April 2013

    Congrats Grandma! I am so happy that you have that precious little baby to celebrate! Hugs to all of you!!

  • Linda-n3
    Linda-n3 Member Posts: 1,713
    edited April 2013

    Congrats to Mom, Grandma, and the rest of the family! What a happy occasion!



    Cin, Elaine, Ali - thinking of you all this morning, sending prayers for healing.



    All the rest of you wild women, I am sending lots of hugs.

  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited April 2013

    Wild women love that Linda, back at ya!!

    HAVE A NICE WEEKEND....so excited to go to a metestatic breast cancer conference next weekend....

  • leggo
    leggo Member Posts: 379
    edited April 2013

    Congratulations Grandma! I'm so excited for you that you have this new precious soul in your life.

  • goodprognosis
    goodprognosis Member Posts: 195
    edited March 2016

    Congrats Cindy - a baby girl!  What a wonderful gift.

    Hope you're able to enjoy all the celebrations. 

    Congrats to Elaine and Rick and all the family too!.........

    Thinking of all you girls.

    lorna