2013 Survivors!!!
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Mcook
I've been using fitnesspal for about 4-5 weeks now so I think its a great idea for us to form a group! Whatever name the consensus determines is fine with me.0 -
Juneaubugg - thanks for starting to look for gathering places. I think your price range looks good. Berkshires could be lovely. Not sure this is a zip line crew but hey - you never know!
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Love the name Bosom Buddies!!!!
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Ok. If you all stopped posting I'd have a chance of catching up before midnight.
Christenee: finly someone with a avatar close enough to see their beautiful smiling face! xxoo. Also. My PS Reminded my that since I only had a UMX if I gain or lose too much only one breast will be changing! Isn't that just fucking fantastic?!
Ok so I did 40 mins on the cross-training setting at 3.5. Then stretched. Then I juiced my juices for tomorrow, and made dinner and finally ate at 10:00!!!
I was using lose it and it really worked for me last year to drop 25 pounds. I tried my fitness pal but not sure i like it too much. Work has free weight watchers so I signed up today, if for nothing more then the weigh ins and comraderiee.
Ok bed time. Up early again tomorrow. 6 month follow up with BS tomorrow.0 -
Juneau, I live at the very top of the Catskills, about an hour from the Berkshires. Let me know if there is anyplace you want me to scope out for you. I am always up for a road trip, plus there is an outlet mall in Lee, Mass, right convenient on the way!
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Txgal -- Congrats on clear results!
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Oops, looks like I missed a lot of stuff about possible locations, will have to go back and read more carefully when I have time. Can still drive to outlet mall, though:)
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so THIS is where everyone is hiding!!!
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Schatz-hiding? No way! We could not be more proud or excited to be in this thread, it means we made it through the regiments and are warriors that stand tall and proud. We are able to look back and see the courage and strength we had in the face of adversity.
Welcome and we are soooo happy you found us
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Marcie...thanks...I just was kidding with some of my friends on the other threads. Of course we are proud (and relieved) to be here.
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Jeez - TWO pages to read... no time right now... But I need some feedback ASAP please.
I found a location where we can build our own retreat called Pumpkin Hollow. It's an hours drive from the nearest airport (Albany). Those flying in could rent a van together perhaps?? What would your thoughts be on this?
Here is the website: http://www.pumpkinhollow.org
Here is there details on getting there:
Pumpkin Hollow Retreat Center is located 125 miles north of New York City (2-1/2 hours by car), an hour south of Albany, 15 minutes from the Mass. border, and 150 miles west of Boston (3 hours by car). We recommend not using your GPS - (guests have had difficulties with losing service or not being able to follow the back road directions!). Address: 1184 County Route 11 Craryville NY 12521
TRAIN: If you would like to take the train from New York City:
The closest Metro-North line station is Wassaic, NY . On scheduled program weekends we pick up at Wassaic on Friday afternoons and return Sunday afternoons. Please let us know in advance before making your arrangements, The standard pickup is the metro north train from Grand Central that arrives at 5:51 pm-and the return is the 2:24 departure from Wassaic. The closest Amtrak line station is in Hudson, NY and is more expensive. There is taxi service from Hudson. If no Wassac pickup is scheduled then we can arrange to pick up in Hudson on Friday afternoon.
Here is the details for a group retreat.
BRING YOUR GROUP
Are you looking for a place to hold a gathering for your group? Consider the peaceful and natural setting of Pumpkin Hollow Retreat Center, where groups have been meeting since 1937.
Click here to download the PDF: "What Facilitators Say about Pumpkin Hollow Retreat Center".
Beauty of the Grounds
- 134 acres of woodlands and open fields
- Gorge, waterfall and stream
- Nature trails for walking and hiking
- Walking labyrinth
- Organic vegetable garden
- Swimming hole in the Taconic Stream
- Campfire grove
- Peace Prayer Pole and Meditation path
Facilities
- Meditation Center and two other meeting rooms
- Dining hall serving vegetarian meals
- Reading Room and Bookstore/Gift Shop
- Accommodations:farmhouse, cabins, dormitories and tent sites
- May through October: 60-65 guests, November-April: 25-30 guests What about April???
Cooperative Community
- Vegetarian cuisine
- Meals prepared by staff and volunteers
- After-meal cleanup shared by all
- No alcohol, no drugs, no smoking indoors (I can ask if you can BYOB)
- Fragrance free awareness (This is great for those still in treatment. I remember how certain scents made me ill!)
Support Activities (provided by Pumpkin Hollow)
- Group meditations
- Contemplative nature walks
- Campfires
- Yoga classes and Therapeutic Touch sessions
- A-V equipment available
Planning Your Retreat
- Pumpkin Hollow Program coordinator will assist as needed with planning
- Small groups: 2 programs may run concurrently
Come See Us
If you haven't visited before, come and see for yourself the natural beauty of the Hollow, the accommodations, and meeting places available. Call 518-325-3583 to make an appointment for a guided tour.
Rates: there is a 12 person minimum for a group retreat
- $110/day per person (includes 3 meals, lodging, use of facilities and grounds)
- Commuter $75/day per person (includes 3 meals, use of facilities and grounds)
- Single day retreats: please inquire
Pumpkin Hollow is affiliated with the Theosophical Society, an international non-profit organization devoted to the promotion of
understanding among people of all races, nationalities, philosophies and religions. The Theosophical Society encourages respect for the unity of life and helps people explore spiritual self-transformation.Pumpkin Hollow Retreat Center, 1184 Route 11, Craryville, NY 12521 info@pumpkinhollow.org |
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OK so here is the list of questions for you all to respond to:
- Is getting there going to be an issue for anyone? ie rent cars or car pooling? (You can take the train from NYC).
- If there is no alcohol allowed is this a deal breaker for anyone?
- Is April a possible month for us to do this? If so what is the best weekend?
I personally lovet he idea of a campfire, yoga and group meditations. But that's just me. Please chime in everyone!!!! I really want to try to get us all there. I need a headcount too so I have an approximate idea what our total participants will be.
Thank ladies!
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Schatz, I figured you were playing, And i almost said hiding schmiding, but I didn't want to offend anybody, but your right it IS all in fun
hope you found your friends here or hope your friends tracked you down. As the pace commercial says"I'm gonna track you down! )) LOL
Junneau-looks fantastic and wish I could add my name to the "yes" list. But my time off this year will be used for whichever reconstruction I decide to do. Hopefully after this year I will be able to actually travel to exotic places or how about this for a concept...somewhere I can wear a bathing suit again
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Hey Schatzi - welcome to the survivors club.
Not time this morning to reply to you all... off to see a genetic counsellor - 1st appt. so will see what this is about and next steps.
One thing though concerns me... Juneau you never mentioned about a name ? Are you feeling OK - for sure I thought you'd pipe in with one
Love & hugs xxx
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Marcie, I have decided that if I ever do put on a bathing suit again, I will probably wear it over my clothes like BELIEVE is wearing her bra on top of her shirt to work out. lol
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Tazzy wait a minute - Is this a day off or another snow day? Good luck at the genetic counselors.
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Tazzy: I'm so biter and cranky right now about this whoel diet and exercise thing... I haven't lost an ounce and it's been a week 1/2. Not one fucking OUNCE!!! ARGH! Know what we should call it... the FUCK THIS SHIT Group?!?!?
No seriously - I suppose the Moving Mountains Group... because this is just another mountain to climb, dominate...trounce! Or perhaps The Wreckers? Demolition Dames?? I don't know.... Although to be honest I'm not sure we need a group name. We are already part of this group. Do we need a sub-group? This is just one of many things we are working on together to get through the aftermath of this disease.
BTW - I also came across this (I'd seen it last year, but too late to apply). I am applying to go to one this year. It's free and for survivors. It's called Casting for Recovery and it's all over the US. castingforrecovery.org I think.
Sorry - SObusy at work and have to leave early to go see my BS for 6 month follow up today. I suppose I'm a bit anxious about it. I'm tired too. There just aren't enough hours in the damn day to be healthy! Sure I can com ehome order a pizza and sit on the couch and watch a movie. But not now - I have to cut vegetables, jui8ce things - cook healthy meals, make my lunch, and get on the fucking treadmill for 30 minutes. Sorry ladies but I'm still not in the habit, nor am I enjoying it and the idea of a life with a spreadsheet makes me want to cry and eat ice cream!!! I miss ice cream!!! I have half a carton of Flake bars sent from my friend in the UK mid checo to cheer me up - and I can't even eat one of those without guilt now! ARGH!
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marcie...I DID find a few here altho I see many names I don't know YET! Hiding schmiding would have said it all. Funny cause I almost said "glad to be here or anywhere". As you say, we don't want to upset or annoy anyone.
Thanks Tazzy...nice to see you here too.
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I can so identify with these lyrics/this song these days:
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Hello, I follow this thread off and on. I just wanted to comment on the Casting For Recovery group. I did the weekend retreat here in Washington this past October. It is a fantastic program and very healing. What an incredible group of gals and volunteers. We went to one of the most outstanding resorts in the state, ate, talked, cried and loved the fishing. All for free! I am going to volunteer to help this coming year. There are retreats all over the US.
BTW - although I don't post. I find you all wonderfully supportive and very funny! Thanks for you help.
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Juneau - I look at both your links and they both sound nice. Did you get a number on people that could come and have we narrowed down a date (can't remember)
Can we go next week:) I am so looking forward to meeting everyone and spending some time. What areas are we looking at? I have never been past DC or VA so very excited about heading further east! Yippee! might even have to stay a few days and explore more if I can.
I am looking now at the website for castforrecover and they have a retreat here in MN in May so maybe I will put my application in sounds nice. Although I don't have a lot of patience for fly fishing but last time I tried my then BF was not a good teacher.
Today - I have went two days with out Coffee - ate my breakfast(which I never do) yougart and oats (I know dairy but better than not eating all day right:)) Apple. Two days with no nightly wine and believe me I wanted one last night but realize starting to be a nightly unhealthy habit so trying hard to not do that and save for one night a week.
Whatcha think for dinner ideas? Anyone like Curry? I saw a yummy veg curry dish with sweet potatos, peas and some other items that looked pretty darn good. Now if I could just hire someone to go to the store for me because that I dread.
Well hope everyone is having a great day!!! I am off to take a walk in the winter tundra!
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2 fried, I love the image of the suit over clothing, maybe you and believe can be the next winners on project runway
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Jueabugg - that is so unlike you! I haven't lost any weight yet either BUT I tried on my GOAL sweats this morning. Definately NOT yet but I have HIGH HOPES. I may even write that on my sports bra. Yep, it's hard but what has been easy? We can do this! Teamwork! Maybe your scale doesn't work. Stop using it and just keep trying on your goal outfit. I can't beleive no one has said this yet - that muscle weighs more than fat. Hate that saying but maybe it is true.
I was checking in to say that dispite a Killer Things To Do List ... I did my 30 minutes with the Beast! Day 4, this may be a record for me. (2.6 and alittle at 2.7 - no incline)
All of the suggested spots look fabulous and so far away from CA. I will see what you decide on and when. If it is humanly possible I will join you. Since I retired in August - I have a lot more time than money. In any case, I will be there in Spirit. Maybe I will start buying lottery tickets. I need a hand pay win, like Aruba. I am going to go add that to my To Do List.
Good luck on your appt today. At my 6 month check up - my Doctor told me I could stay away for 4 months. I took that as good news. Someone else needed to see her more than I do. I see my regular Doctor tomorrow. Getting ready for my first Mammogram after the surgery too. Should just get it over with -
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Juneau - I think Pumpkin Hollow looks fantastic. Travel not a problem for me. Thanks for doing this work!
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For goodness sake, I just read the address for Pumpkin Hollow- about an hour from my house, as is everything including the Albany Airport, and I am in Albany every day for a dr's appt or something. I would be more than happy to help with rides, etc.
Believe, I am toying with forgetting the diet thing and just wearing my bathing suit over a sweat suit this year! Too late, just ate a two ton salad.
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Juneau and everybody else, the get together is such a great idea. I still remember how wonderful it was for me to meet Websister a few months ago. Unfortunately it is a bit far/expensive for me to travel, having just returned from a month long holiday. But I'm sure it will be a blast, and I wish you girls all the fun you can possibly have.
So yesterday I dragged my unmotivated, depressed self to the gym, and did 40 minutes of cardio on the elliptical trainer, bicycle and treadmill. It was simply amazing how much better I felt afterwards. This morning I went to the aquatic centre in our town, and discovered that I can attend 10 Aquafit sessions for $24. What a bargain! Did the first class, and feel a sense of well-being and accomplishment. Only thing was that I did not feel like showering with the other ladies afterwards . . . did not want to shock them so early in the day - lol. My mood and my energy are so much better today. We humans are definitely meant to move our bodies in order for our spirits to feel good. Now if I can just get the eating under control, everything will be just fine. Here's still some good Xmas chocolate lurking around to tempt me. Maybe I should just bake a cake, put all the chocolate into it and give it away.
Ramols, how are you doing?
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Mccok: no date narrowed and no one has confirmed that April will work for them? So far I think we have 4 yes's.
there is nothing wrong with dairy - you need dairy, just good dairy - like greek yogurt for example. Curry can be very fattening as it is made with Coconut milk (and i LOVE it!). I made mine at home last week with no sugar added coconut milk. was yummy. I also pounded out some chix breasts to 1/4" thick and rolled them with spiniach and cheese in the middle. Cook for 25 mins on 450.
Believe; sorry if doesn't sound like me. I am NOT trying on anything! I try that every day only to find my every day pants (that slide up just a mere 6 weeks ago) barely get above my knees. Thanks for the positive vibe, but it's nott muscle either. THis fucking tamoxifen is fucking with my motabolism. The dr said the younger you are the more drastic the effect will be on hot flashes and trying to control weight loss; since you body has gone from 0 to 60 with no chance to prepare for menopause. I haven't gotten my period since August. so yes I'm pissed and irritated and frustrated and.... well truth be told sad and I wanna just cry (and shop but I can't afford that!).
Ok I'm off to the Dr. xoxo ladies...
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. Ok so I had my chemo infusions at my MOs remote office (not IN the hospital cancer center) and my exchange surgery and other appoints with my PS at her secondary location as well. I just got to the cancer center at the hospital to see my BS and almost burst into TEARS IN THE ELEVATOR! Took me right back to my diagnosis days pre surgery when I was SO TERRIFIED of what was to come. It's like the old emotions just rolled on out. Damn how they keep coming back! Bastards. Now I'm waiting for her in the same room as that first appointment. And I'm in tears. Ugh!
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Juneau, so sorry for your stress, I get that in my BS Office as well. Why we can't take just a few weeks off from the anxiety, etc while, I just dont get. I hope time will help us. I guess the fact that we are still here to have the feelings should be of some comfort, but it sure as hell doesnt feel like it when the roller coaster starts. Hope it eases upp for you.
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Junneau, I hear you about those damn emotions, just when you think you have them all under fricken control! I am soo sorry you had to experience that today. And you can't even go home, close the door and open up a pint of ice cream. When does life get "normal" for us??
I have been off work for over a month and haven't worn my boob and I put it on today for the 1st time and couldn't stop crying. It's heavy and makes my underarm feel like it is being sawed off with a knife. When I have to wear it, I know it is there and it is a constant reminder!! I go back to work next week and can't even imagine how I am going to wear it for 12 hours!?!?!
I hope my insurance covers prophylactic, cuz I would rather have none than have to wear this for the rest if my life
Hope everybody else had a better day than junneau and I.0 -
Sorry guys....being a little self-centered today and distracted. Tomorrow I am going for my first mammo and U/S . I'm dreading it because my breast is still a little tender, believe it or not, so between the mammo and U/S......yikes....I need some of you ladies with me tomorrow to hold my hand.....any volunteers????
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