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STFU (Shut the F*** UP)

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  • m0mmyof3
    m0mmyof3 Member Posts: 9,696
    edited November 2014

    Proud, about the turkey party invites, I would do the one that is closest to you. You want to be able to enjoy your day without all the hassle that involves travelling all over the place.

  • proudtospin
    proudtospin Member Posts: 4,671
    edited November 2014

    MOmmy, that is exactly my thought.  My one invite is to a pals house that is north and while a long time pal, she never comes to my house as she is afraid to drive on the NJ roads (or that is what I think), I am expected to go to her house.  It gets tired after a time!

    ok, so I have just spent 3 hours chasing the dust bunnies around my upstairs and deserve a break. At least it is now clean-er 

  • PoppyK
    PoppyK Member Posts: 1,275
    edited November 2014

    Proud, I would go next door (based on how you described your two invites). The excuse I use is extreme fatigue and diarrhea.... it really works. I tell people I can go from constipation to severe diarrhea in under 20 minutes, which is the truth. No decent human expects people to drive to them when you have the big D. They also should understand if you accept the invite from next door, because you can always scoot home if need be.

    April, I would go to the appointment today... even if you don't show up on the time they assign you.

    I asked my DH to work on where we go for Thanksgiving. It will be my 2nd following chemo infusion, so I won't be up to cooking for a crowd. Maybe we will just stay home. Don't know yet.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    I'll be cookin all week

    Everyone is invited

    Some GF stuff but lots of other goodies

    Not gonna tell all CAUSE

    we r havin our own party here....THE ENTIRE THANKSGIVING WEEK

    It's right around the corner sooo im planning now...even tho my Halloween stuff is still decorated on my door and around my apt....

    Maybe later I'll take them down....

    Ok I'll STFU now

  • proudtospin
    proudtospin Member Posts: 4,671
    edited November 2014

    Poppy, good thoughts on the choice

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    gonna make stuffed peppers to honor our beloved VEGGY

    Next Sat.will be a yr.that she passed away..

    That's just one of the things im gonna make

    My new advitar is the first time we met

  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited November 2014

    I would pick the neighbor n say that she has been there driven u here n there n want to repay her by attending for tg, also not sure about  the ride, cause  not sure how u will feel.

    Hey everyone hope u r doing well..

    Me, ok, was up like 1 1.2 days just slept  24hrs. Omg the steroids...well it is what it is, weather is 50s getting cold n windy tomorrow, rained  all day today 

    Bbl

    ME


  • april485
    april485 Member Posts: 1,983
    edited November 2014

    Beautiful picture FK! I cannot believe it is almost a year since we lost Veggy!

    Blondie, hoping you are doing as well as you can be toots...xoxo

  • PoppyK
    PoppyK Member Posts: 1,275
    edited November 2014

    Since I'm a relative newbie, I didn't have a chance to meet Veggy. Based on your posts, I know she must have been a wonderful person. I am sorry you lost your friend.

    Poppy

  • proudtospin
    proudtospin Member Posts: 4,671
    edited November 2014

    Blondie, thanks for your opinion, I am leaning towards doing just that.  I really think holidays should be stress free!

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    I am havin problems agin with this damn site

    Freezin up...just here

    Just went down to smoke and I saw snowflakes

    Grrr

  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited November 2014

    Lol snowflakes 

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    good morning

    Blondie how's the sleeping goin?

    We only had snowflakes

    It's chilly tho

    The fire will be starting right now

    Anyone needs to warm up go to the bonefire

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    testing

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    is anyone having problems with posting?

    If so please notify the mods


  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    just wanted to let all my sistas no I'll be goin away for a few days

    I'll be in Vermont with Sharon(Veggys friend)

    She needs company to make this long trip and I need to get away

    Her GS is goin in for surgery

    We will be there for VEGGYS first yr in Heaven.

  • PoppyK
    PoppyK Member Posts: 1,275
    edited November 2014

    FK, I hope you enjoy your trip to Vermont. I know it will be bittersweet, but you and Sharon will be there for each other.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    thanks

    5 hr.ride

    Tryin not to think about my back sitting all that time

    Not gonna even think of my stomach

  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited November 2014

    Its going 

    Nope

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    I'm here in Vermont

    It's beautiful here

    Been here yrs.ago but I really forgot what it looked like

    The weather is the same as PA

  • Alyson
    Alyson Member Posts: 3,737
    edited November 2014

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  • april485
    april485 Member Posts: 1,983
    edited November 2014

    Love it Alyson! FK, Vermont is beautiful as is all of New England. I live in CT and we had a spectacular fall this year. PA has a lot of beauty too and plenty of mountains for fall viewing.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    I don't want to go home tomorrow

    The only bright side is im gonna see my little baby

    It's freezin here

    Much colder then PA

  • proudtospin
    proudtospin Member Posts: 4,671
    edited November 2014

    meant to tell you that, you are in ski country now!

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    it wasn't cold until today

    And of course tomorrow it's gonna be worst

  • proudtospin
    proudtospin Member Posts: 4,671
    edited November 2014

    it is ski country!  they have snow all the time, buy a new ski jacket and you will be fine!

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    no snow yet

    Comin home tomorrow


  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    we had the service for veggy today


  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    Thank God it was today

    It's snowing which is not unusual for Vermont

    Now I wanna go home


  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

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