Life does not end with a stage IV diagnosis (really!)

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  • Texasrose53
    Texasrose53 Member Posts: 290
    edited November 2015

    I like that one KiwiCatMom!! Thanks for sharing!

  • TNCatMom
    TNCatMom Member Posts: 3
    edited November 2015

    Thank you so much for all the kind , encouraging words. I don't worry about the future, and I don't worry about dying. I know that I won't die one day sooner than I'm supposed to. As I mentioned, I am 55. My Dad lived to be 83, his Mom lived to be 82, and several of his siblings lived into their 80's. My maternal grandmother is now 97. While I had hoped to see 80, 90, or even 100, now I am looking forward to seeing my 65th or possibly 70th birthday. And I love that Snoopy cartoon.

    Hugs,

    Jeanelle

  • Wendy3
    Wendy3 Member Posts: 872
    edited November 2015

    Love the cartoon Terre 

  • chelleg
    chelleg Member Posts: 396
    edited November 2015

    Terre, that is simple and precise! I love it. I want a magnet for my refrigerator or something. Thank you!!

  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 5,318
    edited November 2015

    Terre,

    You must know that I love that cartoon

  • KiwiCatMom
    KiwiCatMom Member Posts: 2,337
    edited November 2015

    Glad you liked it! And Jeanelle - so nice to see another cat mom here! :)

  • artistatheart
    artistatheart Member Posts: 1,437
    edited November 2015

    Jeanelle, Your stats on your relatives ages and your previous expectations vs now, mirrors my story exactly. Most of my relatives were pretty elderly and I had reason to hope I would achieve the same. Although I have now dialed down that expectation I will be grateful for every single day given to me but an extra 10 or 15 years would be fabulous!

  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 5,318
    edited November 2015

    Terre,

    I liked it so much that I reposted it on my FB page 😊

  • KiwiCatMom
    KiwiCatMom Member Posts: 2,337
    edited November 2015

    Well....today is not my day...to die anyway. Got bone scan results and still NED. Coming up on 3 years of NED status. :)

  • blondedoris
    blondedoris Member Posts: 57
    edited November 2015

    HappyGreat news Kiwi!!!

  • ShetlandPony
    ShetlandPony Member Posts: 3,063
    edited November 2015

    Awesome, KiwiCatMom!

  • chelleg
    chelleg Member Posts: 396
    edited November 2015

    Terre, that is fabulous news!!!!

  • 50sgirl
    50sgirl Member Posts: 2,071
    edited November 2015

    WOOHOO, Terre. I am so happy for you!

    Lynn

  • nbnotes
    nbnotes Member Posts: 338
    edited November 2015

    Great news Terre!

  • annieoakley
    annieoakley Member Posts: 653
    edited November 2015

    Terre, I'm literally jumping up and down happy for you!!! I prayed so hard for your long term relationship with NED and I'm ecstatic to hear your good news. Seriously you made my day, biggest hugs to you!

  • Wendy3
    Wendy3 Member Posts: 872
    edited November 2015

    Yeah Terre! I'm so happy for you that just great. There is good news and that warms my heart. Now the move eh? 

  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 5,318
    edited November 2015

    Terre,

    Excellent news! I hope you celebrate well

  • 3-16-2011
    3-16-2011 Member Posts: 279
    edited November 2015

    Terre

    LOVE your good news and how wonderful to be able to pack and move NED into your new home.Nerdy

  • Texasrose53
    Texasrose53 Member Posts: 290
    edited November 2015

    Wooo Hooo!!! Way to go Terre! So happy for you!Smile

  • LindaE54
    LindaE54 Member Posts: 1,379
    edited November 2015

    Terre - AWESOME! Thrilled to hear this.

  • GatorGal
    GatorGal Member Posts: 750
    edited November 2015

    Awesome news, Terre! Now you can really enjoy your move without worry!!

  • artistatheart
    artistatheart Member Posts: 1,437
    edited November 2015

    Awesome news Terre, exactly what we all want to hear! Many more years to you....whoop whoop!

  • KiwiCatMom
    KiwiCatMom Member Posts: 2,337
    edited November 2015

    Thank you so much everyone. I'm honoured and humbled by the support and good wishes. Let's pray for NED for all of us!

    Sending hugs,

    Terre

  • GG27
    GG27 Member Posts: 1,308
    edited November 2015

    Fantastic news Terre! Lucky for us, we will still get adorable pics from the KI! Cheers, Dee

  • KiwiCatMom
    KiwiCatMom Member Posts: 2,337
    edited November 2015

    The kitten porn will continue! They are already at over 125 kittens and the season has just started. So lots of pics to come!


    Thanks for the good thoughts!

  • KiwiCatMom
    KiwiCatMom Member Posts: 2,337
    edited November 2015

    This is a great article. I'm hoping it will get shared far and wide:

    http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/releases/302057.ph...


  • Texasrose53
    Texasrose53 Member Posts: 290
    edited November 2015

    Terre, Thanks for Sharing! It is an Awesome Article!!

  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 5,318
    edited November 2015

    Thanks, Terre. I like the fact that this addresses some negative attitudes that are, inadvertently, expressed by many breast cancer charitable/support organizations. Somehow, us stage IV folks have "failed" to do something right, is often implied in the awareness and early detection messages.

    I also appreciate the fact that the article acknowledges long term survivors/exceptional responders. The stats are not current but I hope there are more and more of us. Perhaps we can be pieces of a complex puzzle that helps find a cure for all MBC (or make it truly chronic, at the very least).

  • Wendy3
    Wendy3 Member Posts: 872
    edited November 2015

    Good article Terre, I can't believe that it's even worth discussing if we are worth the cost of treatment. I hate to say it but here in British Columbia where the Professor comes from I feel like my disease doesn't warrant expensive treatment. All I've gotten is a fifty dollar prescription of tamoxifen and one MRI and one bone scan in six months. Angry is how I'm feeling.

  • KiwiCatMom
    KiwiCatMom Member Posts: 2,337
    edited November 2015

    Caryn - well said. And glad you liked the article, Texasrose.

    I get sick of reading "xxx (insert name) has successfully battled (fought/overcome/etc) breast cancer and is now cured (cancer free, etc)." I like that their treatment was successful. But it implies that those of us who are Stage IV are not "successful", didn't fight hard enough, or did something wrong.

    I do hope those of us who are having success with treatment contribute to the knowledge pool. I was glad to see recently that long-term survivors are being studied. I know with AIDS and cycstic fibrosis, the tipping point (from fatal disease to manageable condition) seemed to come shortly after they started looking at people who weren't dying from the condition. Here's hoping for the same for us.