Im bitchy, I moan, I groan.....anyway.
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That just SUX. Switch cell phones with him and take the calls. Watch the b*tch cringe and studder. she is jealous that you are taking too long to "get out of her way"... so tell her you plan to outlive her. Her behaviour is unsuitable for her to be dealing with you and her boss should be told that. As for your hubby, it sounds like this is not a new problem. Tell him to clean up his act or he will be cut from your program. You dont need this added stress.
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Totally SUX, don't let him make you think you're crazy, you're not. Absolutely switch phones with him, my sister and her DH do that all the time (for minutes/cost reasons), and he should have no problem with you answering his phone.
Seriously, what is wrong with people?
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Switching phones wouldn't help much--he also has a work cell phone that STAYS at work and I have no access to the records.
I had worried that I was overreacting a bit until yesterday: we were at the in-laws when two of the calls came in. I had mentioned to his mom that this woman had been calling him. Now, MIL doesn't really give a crap about me, but even HER eyes got big when the calls came in! LOL--on the second one, I told dh to let his MOM answer it!
AGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
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Geeze Diane, you're my hero for not just shooting them both! WTF are they thinking? Both of them need thier heads examined! I'm with Traci, give us her phone number and we'll just harass the crap out of her! Then give us the office number so we can call her boss too.
I am so sorry you have to deal with this...I wish everyone of us had someone at home to take care of us and kept us sane, not partners who added to our troubles! Rack him in the nuts and tell him to clean his act up ~ or your posse will be out to visit him!
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Ya know, the husband has a garage and shed just full of tools and yard implements and fertilizers and anything else anyone might need to, um, resolve a problem - from moles to MORONS. We will gladly contribute to the cause. If you call while I have PMS (which right now is 2 weeks per month), the offer is doubled. Don't wait, call now.
Sheesh. Where do these people come from?
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Diane, that freak is crazy. Highly inappropriate at best and oh so wrong on so many levels. I say report her lame-o butt to her boss PRONTO. Ethically, she is in litigation territory, which opens your doc up to all kinds of crap. At the very least, I'd let her know that you know she's been keeping in touch with your hubby. Then do a reverse look up Hanna suggested, contact HER hubby to fill him in and let the chips fall where they may...
You need this mess like you need a hole in your head! On what planet would this be deemed acceptable behavior?!? WTF is wrong with people these days?!?
Just let me know when you want her cell phone number blown up by 20,000 women in NY. My mag goes to press in a few weeks and I have no qualms about putting a "For a good time, call X" classified ad in at all.
Y'know, h2B had a stalker not too long ago. She was a former bi-polar gf of his who was off her meds and thought he wanted her back. She sent a telegram and a letter confessing her love
. H2B told her family to handle their business/get her crazy ass back on her meds or he was getting a restaining order. Wouldn't you know, the freaky contact stopped as quickly as it started. Good thing, cause I was on my way over there next. Please keep us posted. I'm always up for a road trip if you need me...
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Diane,
Don't let anyone make you think you are crazy. women know when something is wrong.
Since your DH doesn't talk to you that much, try giving him the same treatment. I have been staying with my boyfriend since I found out I was sick. He has a drinking problem and at times goes thru this not speaking deal. At first I would get mad, now I just don't talk to him until he talks to me. On Friday I got up and spoke and he didn't speak back so the rest of the day I really didn't say much. I did think about getting toasted and telling him off, but before I could make that choice he came in asking me what was wrong because I had said two words to him all day.
I did it again today and he is coming in and out checking to make sure I am okay.
It hurts so bad when someone you love and need betrays you when you need them the most. Men are pigs, no matter how you treat them.
I suggest that you get the bitch fired. You can get legal help from another area. It is against the law to violate hippa and she has no ethics for contacting your husband if you are a patient at that office. Both she and her employer could be liable. I say you give them hell. If you must go, go out with a blast on her ass.
Good luck. Put something in his food if you can't use the superglue. At least make him suffer as you have at his insensitivity.
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I've got the best one yet, I'd probably have to do some googling to pay for it but I saw it advertised on cheaters of all shows LOL. But it is something you dial through and when you are calling the person you choose what number they see come up. So for instance you could call her and see how she answers his calls.
I hate to say this but it does take two to tango and I'm willing to come out there and lay your dh out flat for you. In case he has forgotten his vows, I'm pretty sure they are "for better or for worse". You've stuck by him and he needs to remember his part. I can be pretty convincing when I"m PO'ed and anyone hurting my friends is enough to get me PO'ed.
Anyway, I did call again, so whats the excuse this time, last time you were in the potty, so what is it this time? Gee aren't you lucky at least you get to think up excuses why you don't want to talk to me LOL
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BadBoob:
I'll be happy to join the club against this woman. It is definitely weird and she deserves to lose her job. Why worry about her having college bills and stuff? Think about yourself. You deserve better.
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I think a mass complaint against the doctor's office and the woman are in order. It is ashame that she would do this. Doesn't she realize that one day she may be sick and she will definitely be older. She should remember what goes around comes around and you reap what you sow. Women unite against the insensitive assholes of the world.
We have enough problems with all we go thru not to be forced to deal with predator women and cheating men.
My grandmother use to say "a stiff d... doesn't have consciences and pu..y doesn't have a face, but I think that they should.
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OMG! I'm going absolutely crazy. I overslept this morning! How does one do that when they are getting up an hour later? This whole time change has thrown me off. The day proceeded to deteriorate to the post I had to just stop and started laughing. Co-workers yelling at each other and me, I had to have 3 separate conversations with people to just calm them down. Then I get a phone call from my husband that BIL has a compound fracture! Run to uptown Chicago and find out its a broken ankle. Clean break. No surgery. Now I'm home and my lovely husband is blasting the Doors. Now mind you - I like Jim Morrison and the Doors, but I can hardly hear my thoughts!
So many posts today, and so many people I just love. Have I told you that lately? How much I love all of you? I do believe parts of the world have gone crazy today! Anyways, stopping by and shouting out a big that sucks to everyone. I can't catch up - I wanna, but I just can't. And this is my favorite thread lol. So good to see so many new and old friends. Have a great evening.
Your week-end friend - Nicki
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{{nicki}} just get in the groove and move with it! Or....hit him with a pillow and tell him to get mellow with you as you need it calmer after the day you had!
Either way....I hope the evening gets better! 
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I love this thread!! I have a big THAT SUCKS!!!! and a big THAT SUCKS!! to anyone who needs it.
I'm tired of my fuzzy hair that everyone thinks is cute. My husband is the only one that will tell me the truth. He makes me laugh about it though.
My skin looks like an old woman & I feel like an old woman. I'm always tired & my whole body aches. I can't sleep a whole night without making myself some kind of chemical cocktail. This week it's Benedryl & 1/2 an "Ambien.
I've gained so much weight that I snore & have hot flashes & thrash around so I wake up husband so now we are sleeping in separate rooms during the week.
I'm just bitchy all the time & fake smile at people at work so they don't think I'm a loon.
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WhaSux??
OMG Diane?? I KNOW how you feel..A woman who worked with my dh was laying the groundwork to take my place..THAT SUX!!!!!! Women who think they can mess with other women's husbands SUCK TOTALLY ('scuse the pun). The "other woman" deserves whatever happens to her as consquences of her choices & actions, but we don't have to sully ourselves trying to carry it out. IT WILL HAPPEN TO HER without any effort on our part!
I JUST talked to someone who's SO claimed the same exact thing about texting & calls!!!!----Said TOW (the other woman) was crazy & stalking him & he told TOW to stop. So she gave him the benefit of the doubt & they went & got him a new phone number! (now if he is contacted by TOW again on that # there will be a record & she will know he gave TOW the #-contrary to his claim)
I have to point out that TOW never vowed anything to you or me--but our dh's HAVE! We can take her out, but there are plenty of scags to take her place, so better to focus on dh! Give him the benefit of the doubt & see if he is willing to change his number. Maybe he isn't a cheater but just has no backbone when it comes to putting TOW off! I'm pretty sure the guy I told you about is telling the truth; just not stepping up to the plate to take care of it.....MEN! ARGH......
Big HUGS Diane----THAT SUX!!!!!! for anyone who needs it-----!@$@#%$^%&^*&
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OMG Patti!
I can SOOooooo empathize! EVERTHING you posted (except for the cocktails & working part) is my life, too!!!
IT SUX!! but it should get better soon!!! HUGS
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Diane - OMG!!! I agree with everything everyone else said. If you really want to make him "squirm" add a little ex-lax to his brownies.
I think this woman deserves to lose her job. But, if you are passive aggressive like I am, here is a suggestion for sticking it to someone without them knowing:
You know how magazines have all of those little postcards you can fill out to order magazines, join book clubs and purchase collectibles and such? Most of these have a "bill me later" policy. Fill out as many of these as you possibly can in the offending person's name. He/she will have more
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ooops...hit submit before I was done.
He/she will have more magazines, books and collectibles than he/she knows what to do with along with all of the bills that accompany it. It will take months for them to sort it out.
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Diane - grrrr! This 'Becky' person has got to be taken DOWN!
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My whine for the day - I haven't done s@%t since the 20th of October, so why am I so d*#n exhausted? I haven't had chemo since October 13th thanks to my infection, so I can't blame it on that. We just got an extra hour sleep, so it can't be that. WTH???
However, while I was out of the house today (even though I'm not supposed to), the lawyer's office called and talked to my husband. They want me to call them back tomorrow afternoon. They wouldn't discuss much with dh, but he said they sounded interested in taking my case against the dentist.
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LOL you guys! I'm feeling better just fantasizing about all the nasties we could do. For now, here's the plan: dh has been instructed that there is a new rule around here. He is to call me immediately whenever she calls or texts him. I will then follow up with a text of my own to her--something along the lines of "Why are you texting a married man whose wife has a terminal illness? If this is related to official business, OUR phone number is xxx-xxxx. Further contact at dh's phone number will be construed as harassment and will be reported to the appropriate entities." How's that sound?
Oh, and having "been there, done that" with the girlfriend thing in the past, I have a GREAT attorney if I ever need her and pretty much know all the tricks to keep an eye on things. It would be so much less insulting if she weren't--#1--so much older and uglier than me and #2 such a feckin' nutcake. And, yep...one of the other girlfriends was described by dh in the same manner--can't really blame me for my alarms going off!
I will be picking up a tube or two of super glue. ;o)
((((HUGS))))
Diane
PS: additions/alterations to my proposed text message are welcome. She will receive one whenever she contacts him
PPS: Luann, dangit....I was at ds's 2nd soccer playoff game. (they won...YEAH!) We're going to have to make a stinkin' appointment or something. This is getting ridiculous!!!
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Jane,
I hope that attorney takes your case and makes that sadistic dentist SUFFER! HE sucks!
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Just checking in on my girls...
Diane - ditto to what everyone has already said above, plus extra cans of whup-ass for everyone...
Traci - Bom ba dum, won't you take me to, bom ba dum, un-funkytown, bom ba dum, won't you take me to, bom ba dum, un-funkytown, aaahhhh talk about it talk about it talk about it talk about it movin' on....
Nicki - loud music, when you're not in the mood for loud music, sucks (otherwise, it's awesome!)
Everyone else - THAT REALLY SUCKS!!!!!!
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The only thing I can think of to add is, "and by the way, I'm copying your boss on all of my replies to your texts, along with your original text of course..."
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Wow...new favorite thread! Yep...all of this stuff SUCKS but having to put up with some of the things you guys are discussing is beyond comprehension.
I'll do my best to cheer you up a bit!
Tired of looking at the "grey mouse"...free
Whim to change hair color yesterday...under 10 bucks
Looking like I was ready for Halloween 2009...priceless!
Color correction person...over a 100.00.
When in doubt...don't do it. I looked like Elvira had been attacked by a dull blender. Having all of the grief and BS that comes with this dx does change us a lot. I found the entire experience rather amusing...except the 100.00 part of course.
I had my last Rad on the 24th of Oct...whew! Glad I don't have to go back to the "tanning salon" again. Hope everyones tx are going well and will keep nasty thoughts for Diane's situation. Men are definately pigs but that woman makes a pig sound 100% Kosher. I saw someone's posts about being the "bigger person/not stooping to her level" etc. I say hell no...fire with all barrels and aim well. This woman is clearly the worst type of shameless bottom feeders...she gets what she gets and I for one am sick and tired of shitty people moving on and up while the "nice people" get stuck with the ole shaft! Do whatever puts a smile on your face but won't get you arrested. I can come up with some really nasty stuff if you'll give me like...oh say...2 minutes.
I'll be careful with my ideas as I know that there are really nice people on this site whereas I range into the homicidal zone without missing a beat. Really hate what all the drugs and lack of Estrogen have done to my sunny personality......THAT REALLY SUCKS TOO!
Take Care All!!!!
Lisa
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If you want her to pee her pants, show up at your next appt with a lawyer in tow. Introduce the lawyer. Take the lawyer into the doctors office. Dont say a word to the hag. All she has to see is you and a lawyer talking to the doc. Definitely wet panties time.
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man, diane, she's like a vulture circling...i find it sick that she's hitting on your husband. she should not be working for an oncologist since she obviously has not one lick of compassion for the patients.
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A big THAT SUCKS to all! I have to check in on you guys daily but the world must be going to hell and back because we grow daily LOL Although it is a nice place to vent. I'm having trouble concentrating today so I can't remember who to send sympathies to today so I will send them to all.
As for me I am off to bed again. I got up and dressed to vote and am so worn out for no reason I can hardly lift my head to move. I don't get it..... Have a good one ladies I'm heading back to sleep I think.
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I gotta say, Diane, that onco nurse is about as pathetic as it comes.
Am thinking a direct approach is best. Walking into the doctor's office, asking for "Trixie" and then saying something like:
"Hiya, Trixie, I don't believe we've met! Oh, that's right, we have met because as you may recall, I'm being treated by Dr. Onco for cancer. Cancer. Anyway, Trixie-baby? I just wanted to tell you that the personal calls to my husband need to cease and desist immediately before I lodge a formal complaint against you for professional misconduct faster than you can say 'herceptin." Do you feel me, Trixie? Good."
What a nutball. I am trying to imagine her, flipping through medical files trying to figure out which patient's husband will make the best catch.
I got no suckiness except the leak in my ceiling that refuses to spontaneously fix itself. And the three pairs of boots I ordered, none of which fit, that refuse to return themselves to the store. And the bills that refuse to submit themselves for reimbursement to the insurance company. 'Taint fair.
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Lisa -- thanks for the cautionary tale re: coloring my hair. Okay, so maybe there are worse things than the stuff that is currently on my head. (I look like someone has sprayed my head with a fine coat of silver spray paint. This is NYC so it takes a lot to get a second look but still....)
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As my neighbor Pam is fonding of saying: "Everybody should vote, early and often!
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