Im bitchy, I moan, I groan.....anyway.
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Do you think they would cope?....................Not likely !!!!
chrissy
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Some days, I'd love to throw a tanty Chrissy!
I make do with slamming cupboard doors and drawers, especially the cutlery drawer.
We always had concrete-floored houses until we bought this one. Stomping the feet can be very satisfying also, when the whole house shakes and rattles as you warn others to tread softly around you. It never did much good in the other houses; in fact I would end up with sore feet!
Sheila.
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Wow...how have I missed this thread all this time?? I LOVE it. Yall are soooo funny about the most F*ed up things.
Cool.
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Unfortunately if I had a tanty now, I'd probably break a leg or hip or something....you know how it is...........and besides, my house is so old I'd probably go right throught the floor..........then it would be up to me to get it fixed...................nah, not worth it, way too much of a hassel. I'll just have to stay calm!!!...........hot dam!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! chrissy
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Lisa3, where the HELL have you been all this time???
I've seen you trying to "stick up for yourself" on another thread. I have to do that all the time too. There are some pretty big Alpha Dogs on the Forum and they will follow you around from thread-to-thread to make sure they can say you are wrong after you state something. I'm on a thread right now that someone re-educated me on last year and this year is saying that I'm wrong! Go figure! One of these days I'm going to friggin' blow her cover wide open!!! She's even followed me on to threads she's never been on to continue to harp on me in front of my peers who have no friggin' idea what's going on!So, anywhay, welcome to my world!
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omg barbe ! u must be a saint ! i wouldve named names and dates long before this..!! i have gotten off another web site from the ple. bashing. selfishlly glad its not me, but am really sorry its you !! i say tell us all, and we'll barbard them !! (see how terribly spiritual I can be?) really, theres no room for thayt in a CANCER SURVIVOR site, like weve all not been thru enough !! makes me boil over, and its secondhand to me...I go not too often to a natural site, and i sound like a flippin pollyanna..can't we all just get along... ive come to just lurk there for the most part, dont want to get attacked..and when i do post, its to beg them to stop fighting. i've come to realize theyre just passionate, but REALLY !! we all want to live, wouldnt it be nice if we could just "play nice ""?? light and love (theres the pollyanna ) 3jaysmom
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Geeze Barbe...and I thought I was the only one who followed you around :P
Sheila..I'm with you, let the men folk do it damn it!
Lisa...sometimes you just have to say f*ck it. Really, F*CK IT!
My good news for the day is, my 3 month went well ~ the bad news is, even after 2,000 ius of vitamin D a day...I'm still stuck on 19. WTH??? If they could figure out a way to get vitamin D in vodka, I'd be all set. I don't understand how they can make every flavor under the sun but not put some vitamins in it for us???
I'm off to surf....hope everyone is well! Scream if you need too!
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Oh Barbie, it's ok. Ya know, like navy girl said, F*ck it! They aren't worth my time. I could, and I want to, say a LOT more.... but, everyone is entitled to their opinion. No matter how wrong it is.
Navy girl...I was in the Marine Corps in the mid 80's. If you knew me you would know just how darn funny that is. I was 107 pounds. 18 years old. Long blond hair. Wanted to be an airline attendant. Girly. Super girly. 3 months of boot camp on Paris Island was NOT fun. haha. Freakin sand fleas tore me up.
My rant of the day... and I'm sorry it isn't humorous. PEOPLE freakin DIE of this crap! I'm so sick of the pretty little pink ribbons. All the talk about survivors. I honestly think it diminishes the seriousness of the disease. Everyone outside of "cancer world" thinks you get your boobs cut off, loose your hair, and then things are back to normal. Makes me sick sometimes.
Ok. Off of that. Next is people that say things such as "as long as you're positive, things will be ok". Really??? Sick of hearing it. My cells could care less if I'm jolly all the time. And people that try to tell me that GOD is trying to get my attention! Ugh! I hate that! I'll tell ya what, if God wanted my attention, he could have gotten it much better by lettin me hit the lottery!!
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I think he(GOD) should let us all hit the lottery. And I mean the money($$$) lottery not the cancer lottery. If we have to have this crap we should get something out of it. And I mean something we can enjoy not the crap we hate. Say, OK, you have cancer you win a $1,000,000.00(a million) dollars. So after you pay off all your medical bill you get to enjoy the last few years(and maybe more than a few) of your life. It wouldn't be so bad, if you knew you got to do some of the things we have only dreamed of doing. I think I would be ok with that. Set up trust funds for my kids and grandkids so I would know when I'm gone they would be taken care of. Go on a vacation. Someplace I have always wanted to go. Just be able to sit back and enjoy the rest of my life, however long that may be. I would be okay with that.....Leisa
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So would I!!!
I find it funny when we have threads of "Bucket Lists" how people list things like sky-diving, scuba diving, travelling, etc. Then you get the "holier-than-thou" women who say "I would just like to be with my family". Well, what the hell are you doing every day then??????
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sistas boy are you letting it out AND i am laughing my ass off.
Lisa you are sooo funny
my motto is LIVE EVERYDAY LIKE ITS THE LAST.NO ONE IS PROMISED TOMORROW.
im tryin.somedays its harder then others but hey im doin it.if i want to buy myself something i just buy it.I plan on going to Fla in Oct.I have not been on a plane since sept.11th.im afraid.but.im afraid of the c thats in my body soooooo im just gonna do it..
today is one of my better days...so i wont bitch and moan...(finally)
I do believe that everything is up to GOD.
Have a good day girls.i love all of you.thanks for the smile
K
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HEY CANCER........DONT MESS WITH THESE GIRLS.WE ARE GONNA GET YOU..EACH AND EVERY ONE OF US...LOOK OUT.....WE ARE WORLD WIDE ARMED AND DANGEROUS.I FEEL LIKE A REBEL TODAY...
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I should have known it was my effin attitude that brought cancer into my life! My nanna tried to tell me I should smile more. Damn. If ONLY I'd listened...
I'm going to check my powerball numbers, and I swear, if I won, I'm calling out rich.
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Liesa: that is a GREAT plan! Cancer = one MILLION dollars!
Who do we contact about this? Oprah? Ellen? Speakin of Ellen, I wanta go to her show SOOOOO bad.
Granny: good for you facing the fear of flying! That's awesome! Hope you have a blast in FL. I heart FL. I actually heart anywhere warm and sunny.
Navy: So if ya hit the numbers.... you and I are friends, aren't we?
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That bc lottery sounds like a terrific idea. I can't think of anything that would have made up for my dx than a huge wad of money. I've often wondered why there's one winner for 597 MILLION dollars that will be squandered, burned or otherwise waste a LOT of money giving it to one idiot. WHY NOT have 597 WINNERS of ONE Million Dollars EACH? Every week, in every state that does it, there would be hundreds of winners rather than just a select few or none. Maybe that's why I don't play it. It seems so pushy. It would be fun to win 100 Thousand dollars maybe twice a year, that's all most people need and more than most could handle anyway, more ppl would play. HELLO... LOTTERY PEOPLE, give it out differently, Let the money be won by a LOT MORE winners. OK? I would play if that were the case.
Barbe, that's just creepy about other board members harrassing you, it's like stalking and the consequence should be substantial for such menacing activity. Women can be really mean. Take my mother, for a terrific example... PLEASE TAKE HER!!! She's pitiful really. So needy and alone.
If anybody gets tickets to ELLEN, Please take me with you. She cracks me up AND she's so sincere when she helps out and she does that a LOT. Hey, Ellen, I could use some help. My house is in dire need of Clean House AND Home Makeover AND bring the yard crashers too, cause I just can't seem to get this yard landscaped like they show you how to with a MAKEOVER! Get the trainer for me too cause I got flab where it never was before and OH, my wardrobe is so dated it's coming back!! I promise to keep it up and share with those that are less fortunate.
Hi Girls, Thunder is in the air tonight. and I wrote 6 letters today asking for help from outrageous co-pays for medical tests, to a dude that "bought" a handmade Christmas wreath and never paid me. I learned years ago not to let my work go without compensation and still, I'm a sucker for a nice guy who complimented my talent and promised to return to pay me.I wrote his with sarcasm and doubled the agreed upon price to get his attention! hee hee whatever, if he didn't pay me $20, he's not likely to pay me $40, but it is likely to cause a stink in his house, him getting a personal letter from me asking for payment for the wreath he bought 'for his wife' I guess, maybe not, hahahaha Just pay me. jerk.
WOW... ITS GREAT TO BITCH IT OUT IN HERE!!!
~Connie
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Ladies: I haven't responded in a while. I can't believe this is happening to me. I found a photo of a nude woman on my DH's (D stands for D*ck) computer. I needed to know if anything more was going on beside just photos. I downloaded a spy software. He is trying to pick up women. Maybe already has had an affair, I don't know. I haven't confronted him yet. I don't know when I will. But I do know I want a divorce. How can a man cheat on his wife while she is recovering from breast cancer? He may have been doing this while I laid in bed sick from chemo! I don't even have a job. I really need to get out there and find something. I don't understand why I have to go thru all this BS!!
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Ah Brie {{{{{{{{{{{{{{ HUGZ }}}}}}}}}}}}}}}. You win the pissing contest for today! What a fucking asshole!!! There, I said it for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Idiot. Creep. Loser!!!!
You are not alone as there are a number of women in these threads that have gone through the exact same thing as you! I know that doesn't make it easier, but just know that you are not alone....
Come on ladies, give up some more names for the dick-head!!!
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hey girls
many years ago my dick head left me with 4 kids and no roof over my head...i survived.thats the year that song came out I WILL SURVIVE.if anyone is that old to remember. i think 1978.And now i will survive this.and so will we all...
Brie we are walkin with you honey.So is GOD.
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Hey Brie- Let's see more nasty things to call your soon to be ex...dick wad, gravy sucking pig, tiny dingle man, scum sucker, flaming asshole, c*ck wipe...I could go on, but don't want to offend. And just so you understand why I have so many names at my disposal, I work in New Jersey and drive on the Turnpike a lot:) Don't pick up any sharp objects, but kick this sucker to the curb!!! Hugs!
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Brie, the only good thing about your situation is that at the moment, you have the element of surprise. Talk to a really good lawyer, in fact consult all the best local divorce lawyers... once you've consulted them, it becomes much more difficult for the the ignoramus lout to use them because the lawyer has a conflict of interest.
May you soon find yourself with a huge weight lifted from your shoulders and your life.
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Ah, I see my post was removed....so sad. I thought this was the "Bitch and moan and groan" thread. What difference does it make if someone spells out the word or just goes f*k????? This has been a safe venue for venting for a long time, I wonder who ventured in where they shouldnt' have?
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GEE I WROTE OUT THE F WORD ON DIFFERENT THREADS.I WONDER IF THEY TOOK IT OFF...SHIT I DONT CARE IF THEY DID...BITCH IS OK THEN RIGHT?????? AND SO IS DICKHEAD...DAMN b/c TOOK MY SANITY BUT IT WILL NEVER TAKE AWAY MY DIRTY MOUTH.I COULD NEVER GET THROUGH THIS SHIT WITHOUT CURSING AT SOMEONE.
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Omgosh, Barbe! Can't believe its gone. Are we not allowed to curse? Or was it the name calling?
But, you weren't calling a MEMBER bad names. Hmmmm.... so, how DO they decide which post to remove and which post to let stand?
Connie: your post cracked me up!! Esp about all the different TV shows that need to help you. They need to help me too!!! Every last one of 'em!
So, how DO we get tickets to Ellen? I know that they always have "stand-by" tickets the day of the show. You pretty much have to camp out all night to get them though. I would do it! Anyone else wanta go?
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Barbe...you know how it is when you ruffle the feathers! They don't like people to talk about how they follow others and pick on them...nothing a COCKroach hates more than a light shining on it. F*ck them...they can crawl back into the hole they came from.
Connie...I busted a gut reading your post! I was never much for Helen Reddy, but sometimes when I read your sh*t, I hear the "I am woman hear me roar..." song...
Brie...I'm so, so sorry...it's just so sad that people can't love, honor and RESPECT. Especially in hard times. You're right, he probably has been at it for a while. Without faith in ourselves and a higher power, we are easily led astray - or we easily WANDER astray. Do what you need to do for yourself, f*ck that two-timing c*cksucking, cheating, donkey's ass.
Lisa...Semper Fi! Hell Yeah! and Ab-SO-lutely...I have no issues with sharing
Especially with a fellow vet. I would love to go see Ellen, more important...I'd love Ellen to see Connie's post and send her road prize crew her way! I'm pretty sure Connie was the one with the 26yr old carpet that needed replacing too...weren't you Connie?
My girl and I went out for a bite...we don't often go to this one place because it's expensive, but we did a special treat today and it was YUMMY!!! Mahi Mahi...mmmm
Gotta go check on some others...happy Friday Ladies!!! Have a good night!!!
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OMG, I never thought of it as my "fan club" members having done that! Huh, and one of their names starts with B as in Bitch and another is D like in Dickhead. That's enough bitching for now, but Brie, please know that you are not alone.... unfortunately there are more men around like your husband than you'd care to guess.
Big {{{{{{{{{{ HUGZ }}}}}}}}}}}} sweetie!
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AWW.. thanks! and yes, it was I with the really old carpet. We can't decide whether to replace it now and let the baby ruin it right off the bat, or wait til DD+Baby move on out and redo the whole 26 year old interior. There are a couple of pieces older than me! I can count on one hand the pieces of furniture that were actually new when we got them. It's just cozy and now that I'm Disabled I won't be doing much sewing for slipcovers and curtains. We will be celebrating our 35th wedding anniversary on 8/2 and we've always done all the home work ourselves. From landscaping to birthing kittens to plumbing to replacing the transmission in our long gone stationwagon. Damn good thing too, cause we are not afraid to tackle projects if we know we can afford the supplies. One day I'll entertain ya'll with the 'Son replaced the kitchen countertops' story.
DANG, I missed Barbe's censored post. Must have been a good one. I know you were talking about Brie's dh's activity online, that's what I read... she found incriminating evidence on the computer. Is that right, Brie? Is it possible that everything he's done has been in cyberspace? and not one-on-one,? I would (hell, I do put up with that). Don't convict until you have HARD evidence. Just cover your ass on the way. Like, replace any worn appliances (and carpet) and bedding and any thing else you have wanted and haven't gotten yet that you can keep in the div. Be sure to do it all on HIS ticket, before you THROW THE BUM OUT. I've been involved with young DD's marriage breaking up because he chose cocaine over his family and the life she thought they were building. Fortunately, they never bought a home or other assets.. cause all the spare cash went straight up his nose.
Thanks Navygirl... If I got three wishes one would be to become a stand up comic. It would irk my older brother so bad!!!!!, as well as providing a variety of other perks. #2 would be to replace the carpet (of course). #3.. well, I'd have to think about that one. I have many blessings in my marriage. My sister. Our 3 kids and a shiny new grandaughter. I just like to bitch and moan cause the crap I've dealt with shouldn't be a part of life, anybody's life. I mean, all my suffering has led me to be with all of you. And I'm at home now, being here for the newly single mom and the baby. I wouldn't have it any other way. Unless I got a FABULOUS offer. Well, dream on.
~Connie
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Wow! Talk about a moan and a bitch...I have a great one tonight.
My 17 yr old is being brought home right now by a friends mother. It's 12:47am on Friday night. She just told me on the phone that he is so drunk he can't stand up. To the point that he has no idea where he even is. My heart is broken in two right now. He's my "good" kid. GREAT lookin kid. Funny as hell. And everyone loves him to death.
And now this. I am so hurt right now. I almost can't breath.
I can't believe this is happening. I honestly can't take too much more. I really can't.
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Lisa - my heart just breaks for you! Is this the first time this has happened? I hope so and pray it will be the last time...
I have a 15 yr old boy and he took my dx hard, became quiet and withdrawn, lost himself in online games (I know it is not the same but I was worried that he would continue to look for other forms of escape like alcohol or drugs). This disease takes such a heavy toll on not only us but our families as well.
(((HUGS))))
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Oh Lisa, can you get a school counsellor or someone for him to talk to? I agree with Michelle, it could be his way of "dealing" with your diagnosis.....hugz to you both!
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Lisa...I agree, it could all just be too much for him and today the peer pressure won out over his own common sense. I suspect, this morning will bring one more reason for him not to repeat this - ie. HANGOVER.
Hugs girl, I know as a mom this must be soo soo hard. Just please, remember that we made mistakes too when we were younger. Talk to him about it, let him know there are better ways -but don't negate the fact that it is just a mistake, we all make them. THANK GOD there was an adult that could bring him home. That's a major plus in this whole thing.
Hugs girl...I know you didn't need the stress either...
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