Im bitchy, I moan, I groan.....anyway.

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  • honeygirl
    honeygirl Member Posts: 136
    edited April 2008

    Hi Ladies , a big "That sucks" to you all. My bitch , I started tamoxifen in Sept. am taking effexor for the hotflashes , helps some , but now I have such DRY SKIN! Man , is it bad. And when I do have hotflashes , I get the "ithches" , but with this dry skin , AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW! It soooo sucks! And with all the "parabens" products , I am having a sucky time finding something that is good for me and helps the dry skin. So far , I am using "Burts Bees" lotion. I have sooo many lotions and skin aides that have "parabens" in them. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr I know I should throw them all out , but its so hard. And my hair. It has come in really thick and curly. But it is starting to get a really dry feeling to it. Anyone else experience this?

    Why did this happen to me????????????????? I really had a good day physically , but when I look in the mirror , I hate who I see...

  • PSK07
    PSK07 Member Posts: 91
    edited April 2008

    Sucky day all around.

    I can't remember who it was wrote a book about getting through breast cancer - some celeb of one kind or another - her experience was that her mother had 'a scare'. Not BC, 'a scare'. And that made her an expert who deserved a book contract.

    Sperm donors who aren't there for their kids suck. My sister's ex wants to drop the girls off early so he has more time to train for some race. Bastard.

    (eta: he has them every other weekend. his needs always come first, and the returning early isn't a one-time thing - he wants it for every stinking weekend. Keeping them overnight means he can't get into work early. We all know that they'll figure it out when they're older, but for now, it's lousy. Felicia - Your ex needs a meeting with a vise & a bunch of pissed off women. I'll bring the vise.)

    I have to work this weekend, and I don't want to. My boss is giving me a hard time about it. Like he'll tell the VP we'll be late w/o it.

    During one remodelling episode about 20 years ago, my DH (certainly not dear) made smart ass remarks about my hammering skills. I threw said hammer down the length of the room and swore I'd never work with him on anything ever again. We were reminded of this a week ago when he didn't quite like the way I was helping to remove the subfloor.  Do not, do not, criticize Pam when she has either a hammer or a crowbar in her hand.

    Well, I don't take tamoxifen so I don't know why I have 20 extra pounds on me that will not budge. At all. Eat right, 4 days a week at the gym, and nothing. all since my Dx. It could be due to my uterus and adenomyosis, but doc won't say.

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 2,728
    edited April 2008

    OK - I know I posted this morning.  This was the first place I came and said hello to everyone.  Its gone!  Looks like we are still having problems with the site.  I will have to catch up with ya later.

  • Bren-2007
    Bren-2007 Member Posts: 842
    edited April 2008

    Fran Schmammm!!  My rad onc must have read her book!!!  Last July at the end of rads, he proudly proclaimed me cured of my Stage I cancer!!  Whoopeee ... I think he forgot to read my post lumpectomy path report!  Good thing I figured it out six months later!!  That's my bitch for the day.  Telling somebody they're cured, then finding out later you're at an even exponentially higher risk than you were originally told.  Kiss my a$$ Fran!!

  • Harley44
    Harley44 Member Posts: 2,126
    edited April 2008

    A big "that sucks" to ALL!!

    honeygirl, I feel the SAME way!!  I don't recognize the face that looks back at me, from the mirror!!  That is why I just had my hair colored, about 2 months ago, in spite of being kind of scared about all the cancer causing chemicals that are in hair color...   and, makeup, and skin moisturizers, and EVERY FREAKIN' thing, has parabens in them.... 

    Pam, it sucks that you have to work today...and people who say that they understand what we've been through, 'cause they had a SCARE, well, I think they need one of Traci's bitch slaps!! 

    Hope everyone has a less sucky day today!!

    Hugs, ya'll

    Harley

  • TheShopMama
    TheShopMama Member Posts: 276
    edited April 2008

    Felicia, Sitting here thinking about my ex after reading about yours.  My oldest son, when 17, asked me once how I would feel if my dad told me he would be glad when I turned 18 so he wouldn't have to pay child support anymore.  (Like he paid it on a regular basis).  I told Miles I would smile at him and say, "Dad you should read your divorce papers, you agreed to pay until I am 19."  How insensitive.

    DebC.. I too imagined you yelling at the tv, and I don't blame you.  Some people still do not get it.  And my bitch today is people who say, "But you're okay now, aren't you?"  Will we "ever" be okay again?

    Pam

  • Traci-----TripNeg
    Traci-----TripNeg Member Posts: 567
    edited April 2008

    OMG Pam! If I had a $ for every time somebody said that to me...."But you're okay now, aren't you?" I could pay for this! "they should have a recovery spa for all bc patients after tx, to detox from the chemo, lose the weight, give us beautiful real hair wigs, not the ones that make you look like you are wearing one and get us healthy and feeling good again."

    You'd think with the price of the chemo drugs, the recovery spa would come with it!

    My bitch today is...I told my stepmonster I would go with her to see the "Dusty Undies" and tonight is the night. What are the dusty undies? 65+ yr old male strippers. Sure do wish I could take it back. Oh well. (Sure wish I wasn't raised not to hold a grudge!!!)

    C y'all later.

    Traci

  • Harley44
    Harley44 Member Posts: 2,126
    edited April 2008

    Traci,

    OMG!  The Dusty Undies!!  lol  Really, now if they were YOUNG strippers, then I would ALSO want to go!!! 

    I'm having problems with my MIL... we have gotten MUCH closer since my bc dx, but recently, she is acting distant and being very critical of me again.  That is how she has been since I married my dh, and anyone who says that you don't marry his parents, is lying!

    I'm with you...everyone thinks that since I am not in "active" treatment, then I must be ok now...  Yes, I have gotten through so much crap, but there is STILL so much I'm dealing with, and having to take that little white pill every day is a constant reminder that I'm not finished yet...oh, and that freakin' nipple on my leg mocks me every time I get in the shower!!

    Hope everyone has a not too sucky day!

    Harley

  • smithlme
    smithlme Member Posts: 383
    edited April 2008

    Good sucky morning to all! I'm 4 days post op and feeling...crappy. Physically fine but mentally crappy. Here's my bitch...I dislike it when people tell me how strong I am. I now tell them that I am not strong, I am determined. Determined NOT to die. They tell me how brave I am...nope...I am terrified. With this second diagnosis, it's time for me to find a good shrink who doesn't think I have "body image issues." Body H@LL...I just want to live. And my main bitch...my surgery was at 10:00 on Tuesday. Mommy Dearest (76) had a doctor appointment at that time and couldn't/wouldn't reschedule it. HER appointment was important, even though her doctor had given her the results over the phone the day before. What is wrong with her? Why, after almost 49 years, do I still hope to wake up one day and have her love me like a Mother should? I can't believe she still gets to me...

    Linda

  • Harley44
    Harley44 Member Posts: 2,126
    edited April 2008

    Linda,


    I am so sorry you are feeling so crappy!, and sorry that your Mom isn't being very supportive. 
    I totally agree, it really bothers me, when people tell me how strong I am, but I am really just doing what I gotta do... I'd still be hiding under the bed, with my cat, Spike, if I had a choice in the matter, but I don't...

    Harley

  • Harley44
    Harley44 Member Posts: 2,126
    edited April 2008

    ok...here's my bitch for the day!!  I just got a bill from my ps office... $605.00, and it states:

    Tricare no pay pt. resp for....  HOW DARE THEY DO THIS?!!!   I am NOT supposed to have to pay for ANY of these ps visits, the reconstruction, OR the tattoos of the aureolas OR the actual nipple surgery, which is coming up on May 22nd...  NO, I am NOT supposed to have to pay for ANY of this.... because, this is ALL part of the reconstruction process, and I even called my insurance case manager too many times to count, to confirm that  this IS a covered benefit, and as I told my case manager, since it is part of the reconstruction process, THEY HAVE to PAY THIS!!!  GRR.... I AM SO MAD, I COULD SPIT!!

    I don't know what to do now... what if they tell me that they won't pay for the tattoos... I already HAVE them now, so what am I supposed to do?? 

    I am just so mad!  I wouldn't have done ANY of this if it wasn't supposed to be covered by my insurance!!  I just feel like screaming!Surprised

    Harley

  • Hanna
    Hanna Member Posts: 228
    edited April 2008

    Harley it is really bad that you got this bill on a Saturday when you can't call the billing office. I also got a bill for a little more than yours, but I got it during working hours but when I called to talk about it, I also got strange information that went something like...this is the bill for your portion of the surgery not covered by your insurance company.  I thought ???????!  The billing lady said that the entire amount of reconstruction is way more than what my insurance (good insurance) covers.  They take what the insurance pays, but then I get what amounts to the typical out of pocket I would have owed on the whole huge BIG amount that the insurance only pays about 1/3 of.  They ask that we appeal to the insurance company for what is remaining over the amount the insurance pays, but if we don't get the money for them, the doctors will write it off. I don't understand this either, but let it go until Monday so you don't let yourself get upset over this and ruin your weekend.  

    I have to say the PS money part does come as a surprise because nothing was ever said about it till after the surgery and I'm not even done yet.  Oh we're supposed to get this covered "by law" but there seem to be hoops we have to jump through anyhow with PS offices that come as a surprise because insurance only pays them about 1/3 of the cost depending on if you have your surgery in a teaching hospital or a private practice.  I'm beginning to think teaching hospitals might be better financially since I talked to my insurance company.

    Well, this amounts to a whole lot of no help doesn't it?  Sorry, just wanted to let you know you aren't alone here!

    Hanna

  • Harley44
    Harley44 Member Posts: 2,126
    edited April 2008

    Hanna

    Thanks...it DOES help to know that I'm not the only one!!  You are right...I am so angry, and getting this bill on a Saturday does me NO GOOD, since my ps office is closed and so is my insurance!! 

    I am especially concerned because... well, everybody gets a different type of reconstruction. 

    I have military health insurance, through Tricare...  they SUCK, big time!!  I have a headache now!!!

    I was told that I am entitled to have reconstruction which includes:

    a.  saline implants, and the surgery for the implants cost $25.00  because my dh is now retired, Navy.  Otherwise, I wouldn't even have to pay this amount. 

    now that my dh is retired, I also have to pay $12 co-pays for each office visit, which I don't mind, either.

    b.  I had my nipple from my 'good' breast attached to my leg, during my bi-lateral mast...  It IS STILL THERE, and I am SO ANNOYED!!  Now, I think I may have to pay a co-pay to have the nipple surgery, in May, to put the nipples back... no problem there, either. 

    c.  I have been told that I am also suppost to be eligible for these tattoos, for the aureolas... again, with only a small co-pay. 

    But, why did I just get a bill for $605.00, which says Tricare NO pay... pt. resp.  WTF? 

    Well, there is nothing I can do until Monday... 

    You know, I didn't want reconstruction at first, but I was forced into it by my general surgeon.  I was going to go ahead with reconstruction, just no nipple or any of this other nonsense.  Yes, I know that it looks more realistic, but if they are going to send me these kinds of bills, then they can KEEP 'EM!!  oh, but, I want that freakin' nipple OFF my leg....  AND ASAP!!!

    Thanks,

    Harley

  • Hanna
    Hanna Member Posts: 228
    edited April 2008

    Oh Harley I bet they put your nipple there on your leg to hold on to you - just like a ball and chain!  They knew they had you by the...nipple...on this one, didn't they? Unless you plan on traveling with your nipple on your leg forever!  Sneaky Pete's!!

    We know how it is for us when we get the dx - we get numb and then get led into whatever like lambs.   I can't know for certain about your PS office, but with mine they sent me that bill, and I called and then talked to the office manager who said, oh - don't worry you can take as long as you need.  Well, joke was on me for sure cause I thought like most of us that this was "covered" in full (less a co-pay) by our insurance by law.  Not true I don't think unless you are dealing with a teaching hospital.  If your BS sends you to a PS in private practice, and that PS doesn't participate with your insurance, then who knows how this plays out financially?  I sure don't. I'm beginning to think they just decide whether to send a bill for more or not.   That is why I am worried about finishing up with this PS in private practice because I don't want to end up in major debt.  I just did as I was advised.  Is your PS in a private practice or a teaching hospital or university hospital?  According to my insurance, teaching or university hospital's are more willing to take what your insurance will pay without asking you for more.  I'm going to check into this and find out for sure.  I don't know if a PS in private practice is any better than one in a teaching hospital but I would think they're about equal.   I'm almost afraid to bring it up with any doctors for fear I'll be stuck in expansion!  As if this doesn't already cost a fortune in so many ways. 

    Take it easy,

    Hanna

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 344
    edited April 2008

    Darn, Hanna, I though it was the law that the insurance HAD to pay.  I didn't realize they only had to pay part of it and you the other part.  UNLESS you're like me and have crappy insurance where you have to reach a $2200 deductible before scripts or anything is paid..IDIOTS!  And then they'd pay 90% leaving me the 10% which could get mighty expensive.

    My insurance before was too good to be true.  Never worried about one thing.  AGAIN, I HATE MY INSURANCE.

    I've told this story so many times I'm sure everyone says WOULD YOU SHUT UP ABOUT YOUR INSURANCE!  NO!  I HATE MY INSURANCE.  Oh, I should be happy that I have ANY insurance.

  • kes
    kes Member Posts: 41
    edited April 2008

    Hi Ladies,

    Traci,     I am going to PEE MY PANTS laughing!!!! The DUSTY UNDIES!!!! 65 yrs old male strippers. What a HOOT!!! If you don't want too go tell your stepmonster that I will go in your place. I would just LOVE to see this.  I need a good laugh like that. I would be just SCREAMING!!!!OMG!!!! Please post and tell all the juisy details. Another beef of mine is the "are you O.K. Kerry" and "you should tell us if you are not O.K."  What the h*ll do you think? Ya, I am O.K. I just had both of my boobs removed and nipples to and I am really O.K. Ya, after all that and tissue expander pain and feeling like I have elephant ears in my chest and looking in the mirror and asking myself "what the h*ll happened to you" and having my exchange surgery cancelled because my Hg is only 84 and feeling like I just am draging my buns around, but I am O.K. Don't worry everyone, I am O.K.!!! Another beef of mine is that all the people that I thought that I could count on turned out to be the ones that I could not count on and all the people that I thought I could not count on were the ones that I could count on. My surgery was Jan 25/08 and 2 of my DH friends have called to talk to me to see how I am doing and one of them had a heart attack and triple bypass surgery on Dec 24/07, but yet 2 of my good girlfriends who I have known since we were teenagers have not even come by to see me. Maybe they do not know that you cannot catch BC from another person.Unbelievable!!! That is my rant for the day,

    Kerry

  • Maire67
    Maire67 Member Posts: 418
    edited July 2010

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  • MissShapen
    MissShapen Member Posts: 3,963
    edited April 2008

    The Dusty Undies IS hilarious. I think we should get a group together to see them. LOL

    I'm so sorry to hear about all the insurance woes. I don't exactly hate mine, but I have been through the wringer over the last year dealing with issues. My yearly out of pocket is supposed to be $2500 (copays don't count), but somehow I spent over $7K out of my pockets last year. The insurance company says it's the hospital's mistake and visa versa. Oh, I might add that even though I was not dx until November 2006, I had enough tests and biopsies (6) done to pay out my $2500 for that year, too.

    Now I'm welcomed into the new year with more bills (of course). Now I could kick myself for all the things I could have done last year and didn't. I don't wanna spend all this money AGAIN! I want to take the year off and actually spend money on something else!

    Where is my sugar daddy??? :)

    Harley, I am so sorry about this and I'm hoping that when you call on Monday they are going to tell you that is a mistake and they will take care of it ASAP!!

    A hearty that freakin' SUCKS for all who need it!

    Miss S

  • MissShapen
    MissShapen Member Posts: 3,963
    edited April 2008

    I found a Dusty Undies joke and thought I should share.

    One evening a husband, thinking he was being funny,
    said to his wife, 'Perhaps we should start washing your clothes in
    Slim fast.
    Maybe it would take a few inches off of your butt!!'

    His wife was not amused, and decided that she simply couldn't let
    such a comment go un-rewarded.

    The next morning the husband took a pair of underwear out of his drawer.
    'What the Hell is this??'
    he said to himself as a little 'dust' cloud appeared when he shook
    them out.

    'April,' he hollered into the bathroom,
    'Why did you put talcum powder in my underwear?'
    She replied with a snicker...
    'It's not talcum powder......
    It's *'Miracle Grow'.'*

  • Harley44
    Harley44 Member Posts: 2,126
    edited April 2008

    Mss. S... that is TOO FUNNY!   LOL

    Hanna, thanks for letting me vent!  I see that I can't spell for SH*T anymore, either... you wouldn't know that in the 8th grade, I won a spelling bee!!

    Shirley,

    I am never tired of hearing how UNFAIR all this health insurance mess is!!  I think it SUCKS that you have to pay so much!!  Something needs to be done!!


    I am not sure about my ps bill, but I think I remember (I can't remember ANYTHING THESE DAYS!) that maybe when my case manager called last week, she said that my ps office used the wrong code or something, so I think it will be ok... I just HATE having to straighten them out again!  Why can't any body do things right, at these stupide dr. offices??

    Hope everyone has a less sucky day tomorrow!

    Harley

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 344
    edited April 2008

    LOL, Miss S!  Laughing all by my little ole self!

    Kerry, sorry it's taking you so long to finish your surgery.  I didn't have reconstruction.  But I do have one real boob left!  Wink

    Traci, you poor, POOR thing.  No thanks.  I'm married to almost a Dusty Undie.  He just turned 64..remember the b'day cake I made that he said it wasn't his b'day cake cuz I was gonna make it anyway.  Well, it was cuz I made it on his b'day!  Laughing  Of course I'm sure he doesn't particulary want to see me strip.  LOL

    Harley, I'll be so glad when you get those nipples put on the correct part of your body.  And thanks again for letting me gripe/vent about my lovely insurance that I should be so happy to have.

    WARNING:  My next most likely gripe will be when I have to see my dentist later this month and have my mammo on my leftover breast.  AND when I finally get my bill from the LE therapist.  I'll be calling her again Monday to please have her billing service bill my insurance company so I can pay her.  I'm sure she's not used to people begging to pay her, BUT I don't want to spend the money before it's gone.  I'm sure it'll be over $1000.    And you can believe that once I reach my deductible and if my insurance company pays I'm getting my four bras that I really don't need and another prosthesis!  Daggone right!  I'll show them some rites!

    Shirley

  • marshabel
    marshabel Member Posts: 27
    edited April 2008

    Harley, that really sucks about your bill and all the misinformation that gets fed to us time after time.

    Shirley, you have convinced me - I hate your insurance co. too!

    Miss S - that was freakin hilarious.  Gotta tell my DH that one, but hope he doesn't take it too personal... hee hee.....

    Oh, yeah - Shirley - thanks for those recipes. I'll try 'em

    Deb - hope your mouth is better. I had a lot of mouth sores last year  on AC/T, and I used the magic mouthwash alot, mostly after they started. Then late into treatment, one of the nurses told me I should have been using it all the time as prevention. Would have been nice to know!  This time around, I haven't had any mouthsores, and I have been using something new that I found at the drugstore. It's call Prevention Oncology Rinse, and I just swish and spit 5-6 times a day. It's glycerin based, doesn't taste as bad as Biotene, and seems to work for me. Feel better!

    drcrisc - I agree that you should press your onc for more info to help you decide about your treatment. After all, HE  has the expertise to tell you what's best?!!!  I don't know anything about carbo, but I had adriamycin, cytoxin, and taxotere last year, and I am doing CMF now for my recurrance.  So, when you decide, if you need to talk to somebody about what to expect, then I'm here for ya!

    My biggest bitch for today - It was beautiful outside, and I am so FREAKIN bored, but I feel too crappy to do anything.  Mostly I just dozed thru the day or stared out the window......GRRRRR........oh, and my cable was out

    Here's to a less sucky day tomorrow for all of us!

    Marsha 

  • flyrzfan
    flyrzfan Member Posts: 199
    edited April 2008

    here's my bitch for the day...i just wrote my may bills and apparently i can not affor to have cancer!!! WTF. how many (legal)m part time jobs can i get where i can still lie down whenever i need too...

  • Traci-----TripNeg
    Traci-----TripNeg Member Posts: 567
    edited April 2008

    Flyrz....that was funny!! "just did my bills and I cannot afford to have cancer!" LMAO! That was funny!

    So was the Dusty Undies btw....they sell calenders. $6 each. OMG you guys it was hilarious! So, it's my stepmonsters party come to find out. It's at the "Grotto" that means where old Mason people hang out and there are about 15 round tables all made up and only 5 are filled. (8 to a table) anyway so Milly, my stepmonsters 82 yr old neighbor is bitching cuz the food is cold and all of the sudden.....the music starts. I can't remember the songs but the first one was from the village people. The men were fully clothed. The next one, is "on the good ship lollie pop" and yep, they had lolly pops, bonnets and ....depends. No mind you, these men in there 60's, 70's and had to be 84 at least, are totally getting into it. They are singing and dancing and shaking their diapered asses. LMAO.

    Then, some boring guy comes out and sings a long boring song so the old guys can change and OMG.....here that come in biker gear. Specifically, a leather hat and a leather g-string with silver studs on the crotch. I forget that song too cuz I'm laughing my ass off trying to get my stepmonsters camera to work and she playing like she's morified and really, I am seeing 70 yr old nips getting hard all around me!!!

    Then, it get's better, they come out with construction hats and jean shorts and the finale'.....again...I forget the song but they were wearing on sorta tight yet soft thongs.....omg....there was one guy that had a sock in there. I don;t think the viagra worked for him.

    ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! All the ladies at my table were mortified when I threw the one dollar bills in front of them at first but by the end of the night, I got a pic of each of them sticking a one dollar bill into the g-string on a 70 yr old man. IT WAS AWESOME!!!

    These guys do it for charity. If you ever hear of it, I highly recommend it. LOL!!! What fun on a Saturday afternoon.

    My bitch today is that my good friend Joy has major bone progression and needs our love. (((((((((((((((Joy))))))))))))))

    Hugs everybody.

    Traci

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 2,728
    edited April 2008

    Traci:  Im laughing so hard at your description of the dust bunnies.  What a great story.

    Fly:  Ever since my diagnosis, I have never been able to catch up financially. 

    Marsha:  I could put up with alot, but not my cable being out!

    Harley:  Its bad enough that we are struggling to get through this journey.  Dont need unexpected bills in the mail.  Hope you get this all straightened out.  It sucks you had to sit on it all week-end.

    Insurance companies, make me crazy.  I have unicare - they are big on denying everything.  Just like oil companies, the insurance companies are making record profits.  Thats my bitch for the day.

  • gsg
    gsg Member Posts: 1,700
    edited April 2008

    lmao!  I really lol'd at MissShapen's underwear joke!  Sorry about everybody's insurance woes.  They are a bitch to deal with.   I haven't been able to catch up financially since diagnosis either.   A big that sucks for everybody!

    My bitch today is at myself.  I'm furious that I put all my chemo weight back on after taking off 20 lbs of it.  My allergies are so bad right now that between the weight gain and added facial puffiness from the allergies, I'm thinking about shaving off my hair today so i can say i'm going through chemo again...and that'll be my excuse.  When I look in the mirror, i can't believe how BIG my face is...plus, my eyes are almost swollen shut.  and i refuse to look below my neck.  I'm going out to see a play today with a bunch of people and have nothing to wear..everything is too tight.  i'm embarrassed to see everybody because i know they're going to be thinking, wow, she has really let herself go. depressing.  yesterday i was eating caramel fruit dip out of the carton with a spoon.

    I know this is minor compared to those of you who are going through treatment right now, having problems with ex-husbands, etc. but right now it's bothering me more than my "more serious" problems.

  • kes
    kes Member Posts: 41
    edited April 2008

    Traci,    That is TOO FUNNY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG, I would have loved to have seen that and biker geer to boot!!!! Those men are Brave Souls, good for them!!!! I hope that at that age I can dance around and strip for a bunch of men, but I will have to get my new foobs by then as I don't think that tissue expanders will draw a big crowd of fine male specimens. Could you imagine my advertisement, "Kerry, the exotic tissue expander dancer, the HARDEST FOOBS in town. Don't miss the show tonight.She is only here for one night and that is all that we want her to be here for. Better than live snakes. Hurry the show is almost sold out. All 5 tickets are nearly gone!!!!!OMG!!!!!"

    Sorry to hear about everyone's insurance woes. That is such a drag!!Sorry to hear about Joy, sending hugs her way.

    Kerry

  • Hanna
    Hanna Member Posts: 228
    edited April 2008

    OMG!  Who are these guys again?  The Dusty Underwears?  Traci I am losing it here at your rehash of that show!!  My laptop is on my stomach and its bouncing up and down!  What are they again...OK, The Dusty Undies.  How in heck did you manage to get thru that without rolling on the floor?!?  The Good Ship Lollipop!?!?

    In Depends? and bonnets and lollipops?!  LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Oh geez is this the entertainment universe of our futures?!?  You gotta hand it to those guys for doing this for charity though.  Oh and the lady bitchin about the cold food...OMG you can bet an older lady will always bitch about the food at an event!  My mom does.  Gawd. I can just picture this whole thing. And these guys can make asses out of themselves and be hilarious. Way to go for teaching them to put dollar bills in the G-strings!!! Guess that one 70 year old musta been hotter than the rest! 

    This is such an out of norm ride. On the one hand you have entertainment like that but only half the tables are filled - probably wasn't an early bird special.  Oh, aren't you in Texas yet? 

    Then you have a friend with mets progression and I'm sorry to hear that.  That sucks.  So does everyone's sucks stuff. 

    We gotta balance the shit with the hilarious to come out semi-sane.

    So that's why I dream of cake like everybody on g's thread.  These two threads are kinda related in a way.  You bitch and laugh here then go over to g's to eat cake and be messy. 

    My bitch is my house is pretty much out on it's own with no houses in the back or one side, but on the side where the bedroom is, there is a house with a teenage girl who is leaving her bedroom window open with some kind of music I'm too old to appreciate thumping out the window all damn day and night.  Do I qualify for the insanity defense?  I mean if I do something a little illegal?  Her parents are scared of her. You have to know about her - she is like 16 and so weird she lays out under a lampost at 1:30 AM in her nightgown with her knees up and spread!!!  This is true.  My dogs were barking at something so I check outside and this is what I see.  Then get this - boys from age 13 to 16 start appearing out of the dark!  I recognized some of them!!  SO WEIRD but true. 

    I just went back to bed. I swear, I need to move to FL and start going to early bird specials with two for one cocktails, and Dusty Undies concerts. Or eat some cake and ice cream.

          

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 344
    edited April 2008

    Oh my, I'm sitting here laughing.  Traci, I GETTING oldER.  But I wouldn't complain about the cold food.  Hell no!  Not when I'm about to see some sexy old men dance for me.  I'm used to an old man. LOL  I bet that was sooooo funny.  You probably appreciated/enjoyed it more than the old ladies.  So sorry about your friend.  Can we all shout I HATE THIS DISEASE!

    Patrice, I don't like my fat body either, but I'm still eating that darned cake.  I had a piece for breakfast rather than yogurt and walnuts!  You can wear your PJs to the play.  Let'em look.  Who cares?   Laughing

    Hanna, the parents are afraid of their 16 yo teenage daughter?  If she's doing the weird things you posted they need to PUT HER AWAY!  Tell'em to call Dr. Phil.  He's ALWAYS looking for a good story.  And he'll be sure to PUT HER AWAY!  He likes this place in Texas.  That should give them a vacation from the freak..I mean girl.  Wow, with all the videos I've been seeing of girls beating on other girls, it's scary.  WTH is going on with our teens?  Or is it that we have all this technology and their no privacy anymore even when you want to beat someone up.  Nah, I think some kids are just more screwed up.  Scary!

    Please go over to Patrice's thread and finish my cake.  PUHLEESE!

    Shirley

  • smithlme
    smithlme Member Posts: 383
    edited April 2008

    OMG Traci! I would have brought a fist full of dollars to see that show! Do they travel around or just perform locally? What a terrific thing to do for charity. Wait til I tell my sister...maybe she can sponsor a show in her area to raise money for her walk in September??? Wouldn't the Komen Foundation be quite pleased??? WOO HOO!

    So sorry to hear about Joy. This crap SUCKS, and I, for one, want a vacation. Does any organization offer free cruises for Cancer warriors? I believe we all deserve one...

    Linda